There is a particular kind of artist who does not arrive all at once. They are there in the room for years, writing the hooks, lending the voice, sharpening the pen, learning where the bodies are buried. Then suddenly, when the conditions are finally theirs, they step forward and the world acts surprised. RAYE is one of those artists.
Born Rachel Agatha Keen in South London, RAYE has always sounded like someone with more lives than the industry knew what to do with. Her voice carries the polish of a pop professional, but underneath it is something older and more bruised: jazz phrasing, gospel ache, R&B confession, blues melodrama, big-band theatre, the kind of emotional precision that makes a lyric feel half-sung, half-survived. She can glide across a dance record, then turn around and deliver a line like she is standing under a single spotlight with nothing left to hide.
Before the awards, before the standing ovations, before the myth of RAYE as Britain’s independent pop miracle, there was the songwriter. Signed young, working hard, present but not centered, she became one of those names tucked into credits before many listeners knew her face. She wrote for and around the machinery of pop, contributing to songs for major artists while also appearing on glossy dance singles that put her voice into clubs and charts. It was not that she was invisible. It was worse: she was visible in fragments.
That tension — being used, heard, but not fully allowed — is central to understanding her rise. RAYE was signed to Polydor as a teenager, but her debut album was delayed for years. In 2021, after publicly expressing frustration that she could not release a full-length project, she left the label and became independent. Her debut album, My 21st Century Blues, finally arrived in 2023 through Human Re Sources, and it sounded like someone opening every locked room at once.
The album was not neat, and that was the point. It moved through addiction, assault, body dysmorphia, industry sexism, heartbreak, self-disgust, survival, and glamour with the intensity of a woman who had been told to edit herself for too long. On “Hard Out Here,” she sharpened her frustration into a manifesto. On “Ice Cream Man,” she turned trauma into a devastating act of testimony. And on “Escapism.”, featuring 070 Shake, she made a hit out of collapse: a woozy, nocturnal spiral of alcohol, bad choices, revenge, numbness, and the awful clarity that comes after trying to outrun yourself.
That song changed everything. “Escapism.” became RAYE’s first UK number one single in January 2023, a victory made more potent by the fact that it happened after she had left the traditional label structure that had failed to deliver her debut. It was not a sanitized empowerment anthem. It was messy, funny, ugly, seductive, exhausted. It sounded like the inside of a bad night and the morning after. Pop often asks women to turn pain into something pretty. RAYE made it theatrical, but she did not make it polite.
Her lyrics work because they refuse to flatten contradiction. She is glamorous and ashamed, devastated and hilarious, wounded and vain, spiritual and deeply human. She writes like someone who understands that survival is rarely graceful in real time. There is a bluntness to her language that cuts through the lushness of the arrangements. She does not hide behind abstraction. She names the feeling, then performs around it, over it, through it, until the song becomes both confession and costume.
By the time the 2024 BRIT Awards arrived, the industry could no longer treat RAYE as a side character in her own story. She won six awards in one night — including Artist of the Year, Album of the Year for My 21st Century Blues, Song of the Year for “Escapism.”, Best New Artist, Best R&B Act, and Songwriter of the Year — setting a new record for the most BRIT wins by an artist in a single ceremony. The image was almost too perfect: an independent artist, once held back by the system, standing on its biggest stage and leaving with her arms full.
But the most interesting thing about RAYE is not that she won. It is what she chose to do with the freedom that followed.
Her second album, THIS MUSIC MAY CONTAIN HOPE., released in March 2026, expands her world rather than shrinking it to fit the streaming era. At 17 tracks and over 70 minutes, the record is ambitious, cinematic, emotionally oversized, and deliberately resistant to the idea that modern pop must be brief, minimal, and algorithmically smooth. It moves through jazz, soul, blues, orchestral pop, big band, house, spoken-word passages, and old-Hollywood grandeur, treating the album less like a playlist and more like a staged emotional epic.
The title is important: this music may contain hope. Not certainty. Not happiness. Not healing packaged as a clean brand message. Hope. The fragile, inconvenient kind. The kind that comes after self-destruction, after public doubt, after romantic wreckage, after admitting you are not okay and still deciding to sing.
The album’s lead single, “WHERE IS MY HUSBAND!”, is RAYE at her most knowingly dramatic: big, brassy, comic, theatrical, and desperate in quotation marks and exclamation points. It plays with old-school ideas of longing and romantic fantasy, but there is a wink in the performance. RAYE is too self-aware to simply play the damsel. She becomes the narrator, the character, the chorus girl, the woman in the mirror, and the woman laughing at the mirror all at once.
Then there is “Nightingale Lane.”, a more sweeping, orchestral moment that leans into her ability to make a song feel like a memory turning into cinema. RAYE’s best work often has this quality: she sings as if she is not just remembering an event, but restaging it in higher definition, adding strings, smoke, and a spotlight because the truth deserves production value.
Her collaboration with Hans Zimmer on “Click Clack Symphony.” feels like the clearest statement of where RAYE wants to go next. Zimmer, whose name is synonymous with cinematic scale, gives the song an orchestral weight that matches RAYE’s flair for drama. But the track is not simply “pop star gets film composer.” It works because RAYE already writes like a director. Her songs have blocking, costume, lighting, character, scene changes. Zimmer does not make her world bigger so much as reveal that it was already built for the big screen. The single was released ahead of the album in March 2026 and pairs contemporary pop movement with symphonic arrangement, turning the sound of heels — the titular click-clack — into a rhythm of re-entry, of a woman stepping back into life.
That is the deeper arc of RAYE’s career: not just independence as a business model, but independence as authorship. Owning the masters matters. Leaving the label matters. Proving the executives wrong matters. But the artistic independence is even more interesting. RAYE is no longer trying to choose between dance vocalist, soul singer, pop writer, jazz student, survivor, diva, or diarist. She is all of them, sometimes in the same song.
In an industry that often rewards artists for becoming easier to categorize, RAYE has become more excessive, more emotional, more musically literate, more herself. Her recent work does not smooth out the contradictions that made My 21st Century Blues compelling. It gives them an orchestra.
RAYE’s rise is often framed as revenge, and in some ways it is. But revenge is too small a word for what she is building. Revenge looks backward. RAYE is looking forward, even when she is singing from the wound. Her story is not simply that she escaped the machine. It is that once she did, she built a stage large enough for every version of herself that the machine could not hold.
A reflection on choosing yourself, pulling back, and asking where the line between healing and hiding really is.
Credits Photographer: Autumn, Zeal Social Management — @am.media_ Edited: In-house, Zeal Social Management Model: Sydney, ZealUnity @Sydneyy.maye
The Valentine’s Question
Valentine’s Day is usually loud with flowers, dates, and the idea that love has to be shared with someone else. But what happens when someone chooses themselves instead?
Self-love is celebrated everywhere… boundaries, routines, protecting your peace…. but sometimes it raises an uncomfortable question:
Can self love become self protection that keeps love out?
This isn’t about right or wrong. It’s about reflection.
Learning to Stay In
When self love starts feeling like a safe place to hide
When she was young, things felt simple. You go out, you smile, you act like everything is fine. You come home with no need to complain, no need to reflect, no need to just be. Life itself felt like it was made to keep you happy.
But as she grew older something shifted.
She started noticing more. Going out felt heavier. Louder. Bigger. The way people looked at each other, the tones in their voices, the small moments that suddenly meant something.
It scared her.
Was this what the world had always been like?
Being quiet began to feel safer than participating. Watching felt easier than joining in.
But quiet did not just protect her. It changed her.
She began observing instead of living. Judging instead of connecting. Questions filled her mind.
Does he talk like that at home too? Why do people feel so harsh?
She would come home tired, not from doing, but from feeling everything too deeply.
Day by day the world felt less colourful. So she stayed in more.
Her bed. Her kitchen. Her phone.
She told herself it was self care. Self love. That word was everywhere. On Pinterest boards, aesthetic posts, soft quotes that told her she did not need anyone.
She could take care of herself. She did not need a partner. She did not need friends who thought differently. She did not need conversations that challenged her.
Everything felt softer alone.
Slowly, without realizing it, she stopped reaching outward. She forgot what it felt like to interact freely, to be seen, to feel messy and real.
The more she stayed in, the more she believed she was protecting herself. The more she believed she was right.
Until she noticed something changing.
Her voice felt smaller. Her energy quieter. Even her body felt tired.
How do you go out again when you have taught yourself to stay in?
How do you reconnect when your world gets smaller by choice?
Somewhere in the quiet, self love began to whisper.
You do not need anyone. Stay here. You are safest alone.
✨ Reflection Questions
When did peace start feeling like distance? Do you go out to connect or just to observe? Has comfort ever made your world smaller? When was the last time you felt truly seen?
🖤 Mini Quiz
Resting or Retreating?
Check what feels honest right now.
☐ I cancel plans even when part of me wants to go ☐ Staying home feels easier than being perceived ☐ I call it self care when I avoid discomfort ☐ I feel safe alone but sometimes stuck
Mostly yes? You may be protecting your peace, or slowly stepping away from life.
…
🎯 Fun Reflection Check
Finish the sentence honestly:
“I tell myself I’m staying in because ______.”
(No wrong answers — just honesty.)
Brave or Selfish?
One day, the sun came up, the music blasting, and breakfast was cooking. A simple text appeared, and a thought nudged her mind: What could I be doing?
Instead of hiding, instead of worrying who would be there or what might go wrong, she felt a restlessness, a spark that pulled her along.
Let’s go, let’s be merry, let’s be fun, she sang to herself as the morning begun.
Inside, she felt the glow of her own growth. She knew herself now, had worked, had grown, had become, someone who didn’t need anyone to validate her, but this wasn’t about needing… this was about living.
Let life surprise you. Let the wind hum, not the fan. Show your beauty to the world, to the women around, or to a man. Don’t look for something to fill you. Be part of the dance, show yourself off, step in the light, give life a chance.
Walk through the city with dreams in the air. Let your hair down, don’t worry about the stare. Who cares if you are seen, exposed, imperfect, unplanned? Life is not a test, you do not need to stand so grand.
You are unperfect, scared, but brave. Show your colours: bold, playful, unaware, and save yourself the judgement, the ill will, the scorn. Say thank you to the world for the courage reborn.
Sing from the rooftops, love near and far. Everything is made to be yours where you are. You do not need to carry it all, just step outside, answer life’s call.
And when the sky darkens, when the rain comes down, when people mock or stare in town, remember to give thanks for the strength to step out anyway, for the courage to laugh, for the courage to play.
On the way back, through trains, under the evening sky, love yourself, be happy, let your spirit fly. Play your music, savour your food, dance with the cat, howl under the moon, curl up cozy, leave nothing flat.
Love yourself with tea and chocolate, soft and sweet, you are safe forever, my dear, complete. You will always have your own heart, your own light, to carry you boldly through the darkest sleep.
✨ Reflection Prompts
When was the last time I stepped outside my comfort zone and felt alive?
What small joys today can I embrace without worrying what others think?
How can I show my colours boldly, even if it scares me?
Where am I still hiding and how can I gently step out?
🖤 Mini Quiz — Brave or Comfortable?
Check what feels true today:
☐ I let myself go out, even a little, despite fear ☐ I sing or dance just for myself ☐ I notice beauty in small moments and let it fill me ☐ I share my joy with someone else, even briefly
Mostly yes? You are stepping into bravery. You are learning that life is not about hiding or needing approval…. it is about being present, playful, and alive.
💌 Happy Valentine’s Day! We hope you have an extra special day today and always. Love you lots, and remember…..it’s okay to let go, breathe, and just be.
Ready to glow up in 2026? This year is all about discovering your best self inside and out. Find out if clean girl makeup is still in, uncover your perfect beauty routine, and learn the best skin health tips, DIY products, and hair care hacks that actually work. We will show you how to plan your social media posts so your content shines as much as you do. Take fun quizzes to discover your vibe, check your horoscope to see what the stars have in store, and see if 2026 will actually feel like 2016 again. Plus you could win a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop. Grab your coffee and dive in….your ultimate 2026 glow up starts now.
Styled by Caoxciao Media by ZealSocialManagement – Media Member Autumn Edited in house Models Zealunity Community: Snow, Kirat, Olivia, Jenayah, Sydney BTS by Jenayah Brand Features Caoxciao and ShopNoon.shop
Inside This Guide You Will Find:
🌟 Fun quizzes to discover your 2026 vibe
✨ Clean girl makeup trends and how to perfect your routine
💆♀️ Skin health tips, DIY products, and self-care hacks
💇♀️ Hair care tricks everyone is talking about
📱 Social media posting plans that actually work
🔮 Horoscopes and star predictions for 2026
🎁 Giveaways including a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop
❓ Poll: Will 2026 actually feel like 2016 again?
🔥 2026 is Coming in Hot…..Are You Ready to Glow Up?
This year is not just about trends or aesthetics. It is about finding your voice, standing strong and finally figuring out who you really are.
Do not let anyone else’s opinions, outdated rules or harsh narratives tell you what to feel or who to be. Your 2026 glow up starts with being grounded, unapologetic and fully in your power.
It is about claiming your space, defining your standards and shining in ways that are 100 percent you. No distractions, no judgements, no limits.
Let us walk through this together and make 2026 the year of your ultimate glow up.
🌟 Quiz: What’s Your 2026 Glow Up Vibe?
Take these three fun quizzes to find out your 2026 glow up style
🎉 Here is your ideal routine based on what you chose!
A) Slow and dreamy ☀️
7:00 AM – Wake up naturally with sunlight or soft alarm
7:10 AM – Gentle stretching or yoga
7:30 AM – Meditation or deep breathing
7:50 AM – Brew and sip tea slowly
8:10 AM – Journal thoughts, dreams, or intentions
8:30 AM – Soft skincare and cozy outfit
B) Bold and energizing ⚡
6:30 AM – Wake up with upbeat music
6:35 AM – Quick cardio or HIIT session
7:00 AM – Refresh with shower and bold skincare
7:15 AM – Eye-catching makeup and style
7:30 AM – Power breakfast or smoothie
7:45 AM – Jump into the day feeling electric
C) Soft and simple 🌸
7:30 AM – Wake up slowly, natural light
7:35 AM – Wash face, apply moisturizer
7:45 AM – Brew coffee or tea
7:50 AM – Minimal makeup (tinted moisturizer, mascara)
8:00 AM – Pick a cute, comfortable outfit
8:15 AM – Light breakfast while scrolling or journaling
D) Boss babe mode 💼
6:00 AM – Wake up, hydrate immediately
6:05 AM – Quick email or task check
6:20 AM – Workout or energizing stretch
6:50 AM – Shower and professional skincare
7:10 AM – Efficient makeup and outfit prep
7:30 AM – Review to-do list and plan priorities
7:45 AM – Breakfast while reviewing goals for the day
Question 2: Which do you prefer: Bold makeup or Natural looks?
📅 Here is your social media posting plan made just for the energy you are bringing into 2026!
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💆♀️ Skin Health, DIY Products and Hacks That Work
DIY masks: Honey and oat scrubs for natural exfoliation
Hydration: Drink water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type
Weekly resets: Face steam or gentle exfoliation once a week
Consistency is key: Small daily habits beat sporadic spa days
2. Avocado & Yogurt Hydrating Mask
Best for: Dry or tired skin
Ingredients:
½ ripe avocado
2 tablespoons plain yogurt
1 teaspoon olive oil (optional for extra hydration)
Instructions:
Mash avocado until smooth.
Mix in yogurt (and olive oil if using) until creamy.
Apply to clean face, avoiding the eye area.
Leave on for 10–15 minutes.
Rinse with lukewarm water and pat dry.
Why it works:
Avocado is rich in healthy fats and vitamins for nourishment.
Yogurt contains lactic acid to gently exfoliate and brighten skin.
💇♀️ Hair Care Hacks for Every Style
Here are two easy DIY hair masks and a few simple hacks you can do at home for healthy, shiny hair:
1. Coconut Oil & Honey Hair Mask
Best for: Dry or frizzy hair
Ingredients:
2 tablespoons coconut oil
1 tablespoon honey
Instructions:
Warm the coconut oil slightly so it’s liquid (not hot!).
Mix with honey until smooth.
Apply to damp hair from roots to tips (focus on ends).
Cover with a shower cap and leave for 20–30 minutes.
Rinse with warm water and shampoo as usual.
Why it works:
Coconut oil deeply moisturizes and reduces protein loss.
Honey locks in moisture and adds shine.
Banana & Olive Oil Moisturizing Hair Mask
Best for: Dry, frizzy, or brittle hair
Ingredients:
1 ripe banana
1–2 tablespoons olive oil
1 teaspoon honey (optional for extra shine)
Instructions:
Mash the banana until smooth (no lumps!).
Mix in olive oil (and honey if using) until it forms a creamy paste.
Apply evenly to damp hair, focusing on mid-lengths and ends.
Leave on for 20–30 minutes.
Rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water and shampoo as usual.
Why it works:
Banana nourishes and softens hair while reducing breakage.
Olive oil moisturizes deeply and smooths frizz.
Honey adds shine and locks in moisture.
📱 Social Media Posting Plans That Actually Work
Social media is where followers turn into real income. Whether that is through paid partnerships, UGC, service customers, or people buying your products, your content has the power to create results.
Here is a helpful plan for February that will keep you consistent, on track, and start turning your effort into actual income.
🌸 FEBRUARY – 3 POSTS PER WEEK (PAIRED WITH SHOTS)
WEEK 1 — Soft Introductions
Post 1 (Mon) Theme: Self-connection Shot:
Standing near a window
Eyes closed, face tilted slightly toward light
Hands resting gently at sides
Post 2 (Wed) Theme: Presence Shot:
Sitting on floor or chair
Knees bent, arms resting loosely
Looking slightly past the camera
Post 3 (Fri) Theme: Quiet confidence Shot:
Standing, weight on one hip
Arms crossed softly (not tight)
Neutral expression → slight smile
WEEK 2 — Valentine Energy (Subtle)
Post 4 (Mon) Theme: Touch & closeness Shot:
Close-up
Fingers grazing collarbone or neck
Eyes looking down
Post 5 (Wed) Theme: Comfort in self Shot:
Sitting, one knee up
Chin resting lightly on knee
Soft, relaxed gaze into camera
Post 6 (Fri) Theme: Eye contact Shot:
Tight portrait crop
Direct eye contact
Head slightly tilted
WEEK 3 — Connection & Movement
Post 7 (Mon) Theme: Movement Shot:
Slow walk toward camera
Natural stride
Looking off to the side
Post 8 (Wed) Theme: Warmth Shot:
Standing, shoulders relaxed
Gentle sway or breath moment
Hair moving naturally
Post 9 (Fri) Theme: Soft strength Shot:
Seated upright
Hands resting on thighs
Calm, grounded expression
WEEK 4 — Reflection & Forward Energy
Post 10 (Mon) Theme: Reflection Shot:
Looking out window
Profile angle
One hand lightly touching face
Post 11 (Wed) Theme: Stillness Shot:
Sitting on floor
Eyes closed
Deep inhale / exhale captured
Post 12 (Fri) Theme: Carrying softness forward Shot:
Standing, slight turn away from camera
Looking back over shoulder
Relaxed, confident posture
✨ QUICK EXECUTION TIP
Shoot everything in motion → pull:
Still frames for posts
Short clips for reels
Crops for stories
🔮 Your 2026 Horoscope Glow Up Guide
The stars can actually give you some fun insight for the year ahead. Check your sign for tips on energy, confidence, and self-care for 2026.
♈ ARIES
2026 Glow Theme Direction and Discipline Your glow up comes from finishing what you start. Pick one main goal per quarter and commit fully. Strength based workouts support your confidence. Structured wardrobe pieces elevate your presence. Focused energy is your power.
♉ TAURUS
2026 Glow Theme Nervous System Peace Slow and steady wins the glow. Build a non negotiable morning routine. Choose quality over quantity in all areas. Touch based self care restores balance. Your glow shows when you feel safe.
♊ GEMINI
2026 Glow Theme Depth Over Noise This year is about being selective. Reduce overstimulation and choose intention. Commit to one creative outlet. Speak slower and with clarity. Your glow comes from focus.
♋ CANCER
2026 Glow Theme Emotional Authority You stop over explaining this year. Create boundaries that protect your energy. Elevate your home environment. Water based self care feels grounding. Confidence comes from intuition.
♌ LEO
2026 Glow Theme Effortless Confidence Less proving more being. Rest becomes part of your power. Signature looks outshine trends. Let your presence speak. Your glow deepens with rest.
♍ VIRGO
2026 Glow Theme Soft Structure Balance replaces perfection. Consistency matters more than control. Gentle movement supports your body. Simplified routines bring ease. Your glow grows with softness.
♎ LIBRA
2026 Glow Theme Self Defined Beauty Your glow up begins with choosing yourself. Make decisions with confidence. Create an aesthetic that reflects you. Intentional alone time restores balance. Beauty starts with self trust.
♏ SCORPIO
2026 Glow Theme Emotional Transformation This year is about shedding old layers. Inner work unlocks your glow. Protect your privacy. Lean into rich intentional styling. Your power grows quietly.
♐ SAGITTARIUS
2026 Glow Theme Grounded Expansion Freedom needs structure this year. Create routines that support your lifestyle. Commit to one long term vision. Outdoor movement keeps you aligned. Your glow comes from balance.
♑ CAPRICORN
2026 Glow Theme Ease and Fulfilment You no longer need to earn rest. Redefine success to include joy. Prioritise sleep and stress management. Timeless pieces elevate your style. Your glow appears with ease.
♒ AQUARIUS
2026 Glow Theme Embodied Individuality Be unique while staying grounded. Reconnect with your body through movement. Execute one meaningful idea. Express your style with intention. Presence becomes your power.
♓ PISCES
2026 Glow Theme Energetic Boundaries Sensitivity becomes strength when protected. Create daily grounding rituals. Limit emotional access to draining people. Soft luminous self care supports you. Your glow comes from clarity.
🎁 Giveaway Time! Win a Hoodie and Bag from @Studionoon.shop
A glow up is even better with goodies, and we want to send some straight to you. Here is how to enter for a chance to snag your 2026 essentials in style from @studionoon.shop
Comment below 👇 Tell us which 2026 glow up vibe fits you best: Radiant, Edgy, Soft Girl, or Confident Boss Babe
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Winners will be announced in our newsletter, so make sure you’re subscribed. Good luck and get ready to glow up in style!
Studio Noon: Where Art Meets Film
Who’s behind Studio Noon? Just a duo whose names start with N, which also means noon in Arabic. But the story goes deeper.
We fell in love, started painting for fun, and somewhere between a brushstroke and a laugh the idea hit: what if we shared our art with the world?
Prints were just the start. Soon it was shirts, pins, frames. One-line art inspired by movies. Geometric takes on classic painters. Before we knew it Studio Noon Inc. was real, carrying all the joy, fear and excitement of starting something together.
By day one of us works in film and teaches screenwriting. The other leads in tech and makes sure everything runs smoothly. Studio Noon lives in every spare moment, sketch and shared spark of inspiration.
We create for people who love art, film or both. Proudly Canadian.
What We Make
Studio Noon brings art and film together in bold, minimalist designs.
Reimagined geometric paintings inspired by iconic artists One-line art from unforgettable films and shows (coming soon) Our first three paintings will never be for sale. We keep them with all their imperfections to remind us of the journey.
❓ Poll: Will 2026 Actually Feel Like 2016 Again?
Be honest… do you feel it too? The energy shift, the nostalgia, the music, the vibe. Some people say 2026 is about to feel like that era again. Others think we are stepping into something completely new.
Cast your vote below and tell us why in the comments. Is 2026 giving throwback energy, fresh start energy, or main character energy only? Your opinion matters and we want to hear it.
Your 2026 glow up isn’t just about looks….it’s about confidence, energy, and feeling unstoppable. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and dive in. This is your year to shine!
Thank you so much for reading! We are beyond excited for 2026 and are sending all the best energy and love your way every single day. Keep shining, keep going, and most importantly, remember to love yourself a little extra. A huge thank you to our amazing community for making this all possible …..we couldn’t do it without you!
Inside the world of Jessica Redditt, a Vancouver designer blending sustainable fabrics, natural dyes, and timeless style for a wardrobe that feels good inside and out.
Meet Jessica Redditt: The Designer Making Sustainable Fashion Actually Cool
Jessica Redditt is an emerging force in Vancouver’s fashion scene. Her handmade, sustainably chic clothing line mixes effortless style with ethical design, using fabrics hand-dyed with natural plant pigments or reclaimed textiles. Each piece feels alive, comfy, and made to move with you, whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.
We sat down with Jessica, the creative mind behind the brand, to chat about Vancouver’s creative community, her advice for young designers, and how her eco-friendly vision is making waves in sustainable fashion.
When a Collaboration Turns Into Inspiration
Collaborating with Jessica was an experience I will never forget. From the moment I connected with her, her warm energy was impossible to miss, and seeing her mission come alive through her socials made me even more inspired. A mom, a sea lover, and an all-around creative, Jessica carries a light that draws people in.
As a creative moving from Kelowna, BC, a small town, to Vancouver, it was nerve-wracking stepping into such a vibrant and competitive scene. At 24 and navigating motherhood, I am learning day by day what my dreams really mean, what I am willing to risk, and the message I want to put out into the world. When I was invited to Vancouver Fashion Week, I reached out to Jessica to see if she would be interested in styling me for the event. My hope was to share my experience, contribute content for her brand, and feature the story in 23 Magazine.
At first, I did not hear back, but a few days after the event I received a warm message from her saying she would love to collaborate. From there, we created a moodboard and came up with questions that would later highlight her brand. Talking with her felt like a true alignment moment. Her energy, her vision, and her grounded presence reminded me why I am chasing this creative path.
Jessica frequently goes to local markets, where she stands at the forefront of her brand with a voice and aura that naturally attracts everyone around her. From young creatives to seasoned elders, she is a guiding light in Vancouver’s creative community. Working with her was inspiring, humbling, and reaffirming. I left the collaboration feeling energized and ready to chase my own creative goals.
Why Jessica Redditt Swears by Natural Dye
In a world full of fast fashion, the need for clothing that is sustainable, affordable, and thoughtfully made has never been greater. Jessica Redditt’s handmade pieces check all those boxes. Crafted from natural plant dyes and reclaimed textiles, her designs feel as good as they look, carrying positive energy whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.
Curious about her process and inspiration, I asked Jessica a few questions about how she got started and what natural dyeing means to her.
Q: How did you get started with natural dye? Jessica: I was searching for ways to make clothing as sustainable as possible. Fashion school in Toronto didn’t cover this, so I started experimenting in my garden and backyard, growing plants and researching which ones were colourfast.
Q: What inspired you to explore this craft? Jessica: I’ve always been inspired by crafts of the past, especially textiles and clothing. I figured if it was done before, it could be brought back.
Q: What personal meaning does natural dye hold for you? Jessica: To me, it’s about connecting fully with nature. It’s magical what the earth provides. Studying what plant life is capable of will be a never-ending journey.
I Tried Jessica Redditt’s Sweatsuits and I’m Obsessed
Tuned in, grateful, and fully appreciative of the world around her, it’s clear that Jessica’s style and brand reflect these values. The textures of her pieces are soft, comfy, and feel incredibly high quality. I had the opportunity to try on a grey sweatsuit and a black one, and I also got to see her Selkie bandana. I’m still figuring out how to style the bandana, but Jessica herself has some creative ways to wear it that make it feel special.
The grey sweatsuit came with a hoodie and long, flowy pants. It’s perfect for lounging at home, running errands, or just walking around in something that hugs all the right places while still giving everything room to breathe. I loved how the grey fabric felt warmer and more substantial, covering me perfectly. Being pregnant in the winter, this suit is going to the hospital with me and will be my go-to at home for ultimate comfort. I’ve never been a fan of clothes that aren’t versatile, so I loved that I could dress it up or down in a moment.
The black sweatsuit, also with a hoodie and pants, had a lighter, softer feel. The fabric reminded me of summer evenings or camping trips, like a silky, cozy hug. My son even joined me during the photos, and it was adorable to watch him interact with it. He kept coming back to feel the fabric with his little fingers, and it was such a sweet reminder of how comfortable and inviting these pieces truly are.
Jessica Redditt on Vancouver’s Creative Scene and What Inspires Her
Overall, my experience with Jessica’s brand was incredible. I felt so good creating and collaborating with her. I cannot say it enough—she is amazing and represents trust, transparency, a strong moral compass, and a genuinely warm soul. I wanted to hear her perspective on Vancouver’s creative community, which meant a lot to me. Here is what she shared.
Q: How have you found the creative community here? Jessica: Since moving to Vancouver about 15 years ago, I have found it to be very open, creative, and supportive. I have met so many lovely people in the industry and makers’ community. From vendors at farmers markets to fashion shows and collaborations, it is an inspiring and ever-changing space.
Living by the sea inspires me every day. I love working outside, foraging plants, and creating colours. This environment motivates me to make pieces that are easy to wear, comfortable, and natural in both cloth and colour. I love monochrome, but I also enjoy vibrant pops of colour, like the flowers that bloom here almost year-round.
Connect, Create, and Be Inspired by Jessica Redditt
I can’t recommend this brand enough. If you haven’t already, reach out to Jessica—she genuinely loves answering questions, connecting with people, and building meaningful relationships. Her passion for sustainable fashion is contagious, and her energy is something you’ll want to be around.
A huge thank you to Jessica for taking the time to answer these questions and for believing in this article. And thank you to our amazing community for making stories like this possible and supporting our growing creative space.
Sending love and inspiration, Always yours, Taylor
Boyfriends, Judgement, and the Truth About Independent Women
In recent conversations within online communities, a trend has emerged around the perception of boyfriends and men in the lives of independent women. There is a persistent idea that being connected to a man somehow diminishes a woman’s aura. Relationships and associations with men are often viewed as major reflections on the woman herself, as if the outside world judges her based on what they believe the man does or thinks. Questions like “Why him?” “What does he give you?” and “She must need him” reveal a broader societal pattern of judgment. These assumptions rarely reflect the man in the actual relationship who is receiving judgment, but instead highlight how society still evaluates a woman’s value through the lens of her relationships. Digital creator and female powerhouse Jenayah shared her thoughts on this topic, offering insight into relationships of all kinds…platonic, non-sexual, and otherwise..and what they reveal about perception, independence, and identity.
What Is Jenayah’s Take on Men and Judgement?
Jenayah is a force of nature, strong, independent, and full of grit. She has worked extensively within the ZEAL Community on brand shoots, manages her own bookings, and travels for other creative projects. She has walked in Kelowna Fashion Week and participated in the 2025 Dress for Success event, and is widely recognized as a leader in the community. She follows her own moral compass and does not let anyone else’s expectations or opinions define her. Growing up and building her life in a small town has sharpened her sense of self and given her the confidence to speak honestly about what she believes. With that perspective, we asked her about relationships with men.
What is your take on relationships with men from an outside perspective? Do you think society makes them feel awkward or embarrassed?
Jenayah did not hold back. “I think men do not shoot for the stars when dating and punish the moon because he settled for her. I do not think society makes men feel embarrassed enough.”
Do You Really Know Who You Are and What You Want?
Now blunt, yes. Harsh, yes. But Jenayah’s feelings are valid. They reflect the current societal dynamics, which may play a role in how men and relationships are perceived. In her own words, “I think men don’t shoot for the stars when dating.” This could come across as intentional or uneducated, even self-inflicted. Harm often comes from not truly knowing who they are, what they like, or what they deserve, while at the same time placing blame on those around them. To reflect on this, here are some questions you, your boyfriend, your friend, or anyone regardless of gender identity can ask yourself: Who are you and what do you want?
Self-Reflection Quiz: Who Am I and What Do I Really Want?
Instructions: Answer honestly. No right or wrong answers. This is for you.
Who am I?
A) Confident and independent
B) Still figuring it out
C) I’m a mix, depends on the day
Do I like myself?
A) Absolutely, flaws and all
B) Sometimes, still learning
C) Not really, I struggle with it
Do I enjoy being thought of and cared for?
A) Yes, but I can also give myself love
B) Sometimes, but I often rely on others too much
C) Not sure, I tend to avoid attention
What effort am I willing to put in to receive the love I want?
A) I actively work on myself and my relationships
B) I try, but it can be inconsistent
C) I expect others to do most of the work
Am I okay taking care of myself, or do I want someone to meet me in the middle?
A) I take care of myself first, but value partnership
B) I try to take care of myself but appreciate help
C) I want someone to do it all for me
If I want someone to do it all for me, is that sustainable?
A) No, healthy relationships require balance
B) Maybe, but it could cause tension
C) I haven’t thought about it
Why can’t I find or create these things myself?
A) I can, I just choose to share the journey
B) I’m learning how to
C) I rely too much on others and need reflection
Reflection:
Mostly A’s: You are self-aware, independent, and ready for healthy partnerships.
Mostly B’s: You are on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Keep learning about your needs and boundaries.
Mostly C’s: Focus on yourself first. Build your own happiness before expecting it from others.
Can Love and Creativity Coexist Without Losing Yourself?
Love and creativity often go hand in hand. In our community, we see it all the time — the way people show up for each other, support projects, and bring energy into collaborations can inspire not just art, but growth, confidence, and connection. That experience gives a lot of insight into how relationships, whether romantic or platonic, shape the way we express ourselves and see the world.
Creativity isn’t just about making cool stuff. It’s about becoming yourself, stepping into a character, or letting your energy flow however it wants. But here is the real question. Can creativity survive when everyone around you is projecting who they think you should be? When expectations are placed on you, or when the world asks for certain materials from you, can you still stay true to yourself without losing your spark? And what about love? Can that same magic happen without compromising who you are? Learning to love yourself or others can help you uncover parts of yourself you have been waiting to find, even when the world is trying to shape you.
We all know the people around us matter, but do they really shape who we are? Does someone else’s actions reflect your morals? Or can you be surrounded by all kinds of energy, good, bad, grey, messy, and still come out colourful?
We asked Jenayah, a creative powerhouse in our community who plans shoots, rocks brand events, and consistently shows up for her craft, what she thinks.
Do the people around you fuel your creativity or do you just go with the flow? Jenayah kept it real. “The people around me fuel my creativity, but it wasn’t always like that. I had to let everyone know I am here and I am creative. If my community didn’t know I wanted to create, they wouldn’t fuel me.”
Have relationships ever impacted your creativity, positively or negatively? Her answer is straight up honesty. “Dating people who don’t appreciate your creativity can really hold you back. Negativity from others makes it harder to fully express yourself.”
Jenayah on Staying Yourself While Letting Love In
Again, this gives us a window into how Jenayah thinks and believes. On one hand, the things around her don’t impact the way she drives herself. She relies on self-motivation and determination. But on the other hand, she acknowledges that romantic feelings, perhaps love, can influence how certain outcomes play out. Using Jenayah’s thoughts, and maybe a bit of projection, it seems like love can be one of the biggest factors in someone’s downfall or rise. But is this tied to self-love? How well you know yourself and how willing you are to show yourself to those around you matters. If people don’t know who you are, who you want to be, and how you operate, how can they support you in the way you need?
Relationships can challenge us, but they also show the importance of boundaries. By being upfront about who you are and what you need from the start, you can guide how people treat you moving forward. Taking risks and opening up is part of growth, but having a safe support system means you don’t feel the pressure to be who someone else wants out of survival instincts. Looking at situations from multiple perspectives, rather than comparing yourself to others, allows you to stay true to yourself while still letting love and connection in.
We asked Jenayah how this translates into her advice for younger creators finding themselves.
Question: “For younger creators, what is your top advice for connecting with other creatives, the good, the bad, and what to watch out for?”
Response: “For the first meet-up, bring a trusted adult. Even if you are an adult yourself. I am 25 and I still bring my mom to photoshoots. She usually ends up holding props or aiding in lighting. Most importantly, we are not putting me in a vulnerable position.”
Guiding the Next Generation with Confidence and Respect
This is great advice, and as part of our media community, we love having Jenayah around to be a spokesperson for others who are just starting out. She is often on site with us and our clients, helping behind the scenes with models and community members, making sure everyone feels comfortable and happy. She is like the younger generation’s mom, while also inspiring the older members to speak up for themselves.
Jenayah shows others what confidence looks like through clear communication, self-awareness, and respect. She guides people with her experience while allowing new emotions to be expressed and valued without judgment. She encourages everyone to adapt, be open, and stay honest while remaining respectful. This is such a key point in friendships and relationships across the board. Knowing who you are, what you want, and what you deserve, without bending to what others expect, keeps you feeling on top, confident, and respected, while also fostering respect around you.
Love, Respect, and Creating Without Fear
Our final question was about red flags for new creators.
Question: “What are some red flags new creators should watch out for when collaborating with someone? How do you know when or when not to create with someone, and how inclusive they really are? This can apply to romantic, platonic, and all gender or sexual orientations.”
Response: “A red flag to look for is how they talk to you or about you. Are they saying good, amazing, great, stunning, wow? Then I think that is a green flag. If they say something sexual, you have three choices. One, it doesn’t affect you and you continue with the shoot. Two, you say something, set the boundary, and move forward with the shoot. Three, you feel uncomfortable and stop the shoot. If they keep complimenting you over and over, listen to your gut to see if it encourages you or if something feels off. To gain trust with a creative, bring a close friend or trusted adult to help behind the scenes. They know you best and have your best interests in mind.”
The bottom line is simple. Set boundaries and leave if they do not respect you. But what if you did not have a big sister like Jenayah to guide you? How would you feel in these situations if no one told you what to do? Respecting yourself and knowing who you are in any situation—what you like, what you don’t like, what you love, and what you don’t want—creates the foundation for healthy relationships. Trust your gut, follow through, and learn through your experiences. Do not project one experience onto everyone else. Take the time to get to know yourself, and when someone aligns with your values, it will feel right.
We went on our first Okanagan wine tour and found all the best secret spots, tasty sips, and photo moments that will have you booking your own trip instantly.
Credits
Wine Tour: Sip South East Kelowna Transportation: Discover Okanagan Tours Zeal Unity Models: Savjeet, Jenayah, Sydney, Shivana Zeal Media Team: Autumn – Videographer & 1st Shooter, Shivana – 2nd Shooter & In-Person Reviews Editing: All edits done in-house by Zeal
Our First Okanagan Wine Tour and Why It Was Pure Magic 🍷✨
Our community got the incredible chance to go on a wine and cider tour with Discover Okanagan Tours and Sip South East Kelowna, and honestly, it was everything we hoped for and more. We stopped at seven unique wineries, each with its own vibe and flavour, and had the ultimate excuse to just slow down, sip, and soak in the moment.
Reaching out to Alex, the marketing director for the tour, was such a delight. She and her team went above and beyond to make sure our group felt welcome. For many of us, it was our first-ever winery experience..some had just moved to Kelowna, while others simply hadn’t had the chance to enjoy something this fancy. From the tour driver to every stop along the way, the welcome we received was warm, personal, and totally memorable.
We met at our meetup spot around 8:45 AM, hopped onto the tour van, and off we went to our first stop: Hidden Vines. The drive was beautiful, the van was super comfortable, and the team made sure everyone got safely on and off the vehicle at every stop. Alex and the driver Cam were absolute legends, helping out wherever needed and keeping the energy fun and light.
Our review of the hosts – Discover Okanagan / Sip South East Kelowna: Alex and Cam made the whole day effortless and enjoyable. Cam ensured we were comfortable getting in and out of the bus and always kept the vibe chill while heading to the next stop. Alex had a bubbly, fresh energy, supporting us behind the scenes and making sure everything ran smoothly. Honestly, we can’t imagine going on a wine tour without them!! They were the perfect hosts and made our first winery adventure unforgettable.
Hidden Hills – Hidden Vines: Where Wine Meets Fun 🍇✨
Hidden Vines is all about amazing wines and healthy vineyards. They farm sustainably, keeping their land thriving now and for the future. Their vibe is fun and approachable wines that actually reflect the beauty of their land with no stuffiness.
Trevor leads the winemaking with a solid crew by his side, experimenting, learning, and making every bottle tell a story straight from the vineyard. Their East Kelowna Riesling obsession is real. They see huge potential in this little corner of the valley and can’t wait to unlock all its flavors. Follow along as they grow, experiment, and share their love for wine, land, and family. It is a journey worth sipping along with.
Our community experience(written by Shivana, Community Model, Photographer, and Writer) Hidden Vines is seriously cute with a comfortable atmosphere, fun outdoor activities, and a lovely dog named Willow keeping us company while we sipped their wines. We tried their Riesling and Farmhouse Red, and Trevor, the owner and winemaker, made everyone feel right at home. Even as a newer winery, their selection was solid and the outdoor area right by the vines was gorgeous, perfect for photos, chats, and soaking up the vineyard vibes.
Before we move on, here is a little insider info on what we told our members to pack and wear for the day, so you can nail the winery vibe and get those perfect shots.
Winery Outfit Inspo Look Effortless and Picture Perfect
Hair & Makeup Keep it fresh, natural, and effortless. Think glowing skin and polished vibes—nothing too heavy that steals the spotlight from your wine glass. Neutral nails only and skip strong perfumes—let the vineyard do the talking.
Clothes Smart casual meets winery elegance. Comfort and style are your best combo. For ladies linen pants, khakis, dresses, skirts, and non-branded tops are perfect. Subtle patterns like soft florals or stripes work, but skip sequins and lace. For guys golf pants, khakis, dress shorts, polos, or plain tees are the way to go. Dark, clean jeans work for anyone. Ripped jeans, leggings, gym wear, or cut-offs are a no.
Shoes Clean sneakers, chic sandals, or fashion boots. Leave the heels, running shoes, and workboots at home.
Accessories Keep it simple with tiny rings, bracelets, watches, and sunglasses. Sunhats are yes. Big chunky jewelry or baseball caps are a no.
Pro Tip Think vineyard vibes not runway ready. You want to look effortlessly pulled together while sipping your favorite Riesling.
What We Told Our Models to Pack Bring a water bottle, sunscreen, and anything else you need throughout the day to stay comfortable and ready for fun.
Soma Craft Cidery and The Farm Inn – Sweet Sips and Cozy Vibes
Our community’s next stop was Soma Craft Cidery, and honestly it quickly became a favourite for everyone. We were greeted with big smiles and welcoming energy. They even opened the kitchen just for us, serving flights of their delicious ciders—including a non-alcoholic option—so everyone could join in.
The charcuterie board was a dream, filled with local cheeses, meats, fresh fruits, olives, nuts, crackers, and homemade jams. One of our members doesn’t eat meat or cheese, but the fresh fruit and bread options made sure everyone left happy and full. The warm energy, kind interactions, and stunning ciders made it feel like the perfect spot to unwind.
At Soma you can stay the night, rent the venue for events, enjoy a meal with friends, or just soak in the cider lounge vibes. Right above the cidery is The Farm Inn, a cozy countryside getaway in the heart of the Okanagan. With 10 boutique suites designed for comfort and charm, it’s the ideal spot to relax steps from the orchard, tasting room, and cider lounge. Alpacas graze nearby, the scent of apple trees fills the air, and rustic charm is everywhere.
Our tasting experience We tried four amazing ciders: Apple, Blue Raspberry, Honey Lavender, and Tea, and each of us had a different favorite. Megan served us with such a cheerful spirit, making the experience even more memorable. The ciders paired perfectly with the charcuterie board, making every sip and bite a little moment of joy.
Wine vs Cider – Quick Tips Wine is made from fermented grapes, letting the fruit shine in reds, whites, and rosés ranging from dry to sweet. Each sip reflects the vineyard it came from, giving you a taste of the land. Cider is made from fermented apples or other fruits. Crisp, refreshing, and fruit-forward, it can be dry, sweet, or flavoured—like Soma’s Honey Lavender or Blue Raspberry. Think of it as sparkling fruit juice for grown-ups.
Nagging Doubt Winery Big Vibes and Even Bigger Flavours
Our next stop was Nagging Doubt Winery, and let me tell you, the energy was high. After all those ciders and snacks at Soma, our crew was feeling pretty stoked. It was the perfect way to celebrate the last days of summer, and having Discover Okanagan Tours take care of our community made everything feel so smooth and stress free.
We got a behind the scenes tour and even saw the big machines that help turn grapes into their famous wines. It is wild to see all the work that goes into every bottle. At Nagging Doubt, they believe anyone can be a wine lover, no fancy occasion needed. If you want to share a great glass of wine with friends just because, this is the place.
Nagging Doubt was started with a simple, totally reasonable goal: create amazing Okanagan wines that everyone can enjoy without breaking the bank. They focus on quality, flavour, and accessibility, so there is no need to second guess your love for wine.
Our Review Nagging Doubt Winery is a total charmer with a spacious, open concept setup that is perfect for wine tours. The owners and winemakers, Abbey and Rob, were warm, welcoming, and super fun. They made the experience both entertaining and educational, walking us through how different wines are made and even showing us the difference between an American and a French barrel.
We all fell in love with the Sparkling Rosé, and honestly, wandering through the winery while sipping and learning felt like the perfect summer afternoon.
Wine Tasting 101 Tips and Tricks
Before we hit our next stop, let’s break down how wine tasting actually works and give you some first-timer tips. First things first, you do not have to finish the glass. Many wineries expect you to spit into small cups or pour some out so you can taste multiple wines or ciders without getting tipsy.
Order your tastings strategically. Start with lighter flavours and work your way to the heavier ones. Think of it as a flavour rollercoaster.
Alcohol effects, also known as don’t be that person. Even a few tastings can sneak up on you if you are not used to alcohol. Eat beforehand and keep sipping water between tastings. Pace yourself so you are enjoying the experience and not the karaoke session in the cider lounge.
Tasting room etiquette. Taste one glass at a time and follow staff cues. Do not grab the whole tray at once. Ask for pairing recommendations—cheese, charcuterie, or even chocolate. Staff love giving tips, and it makes the experience even more fun.
How to avoid looking awkward. Nod, smile, and ask questions. People overthink wine tasting, but curiosity is always cool. Do not stress if you do not know how to swirl or sniff—just try it and have fun.
Now that you have the basics and an idea of how our community felt trying new wines and ciders, let us move on to our next stop, just a quick five-minute drive away, Priest Creek Family Estate Winery.
Priest Creek Family Estate Winery
This stop was absolutely beautiful. Everywhere you looked was surrounded by lush green vines, and walking through the big doors to enter felt like stepping into royalty.
Our review of Priest Creek: Priest Creek is a stunning location with a gorgeous indoor setting and an even more impressive outdoor space. The patio is shaded with grapevines heavy with fruit, creating a picture-perfect atmosphere. Alongside the winery, more grapevines frame a space designed for live music, cornhole, and even a giant Connect Four.
We had the joy of being served by Tyra and Courtney, who poured us two beautiful wines from the 2024 season: a crisp Pinot Gris and a bold Cabernet Franc. The views alone could take your breath away, but if that does not win you over, the wine certainly will.
The View & Wards Cidery
Our next stop was The View and Wards, and this one was easily another favourite for our community. Everyone sat outside, enjoying their “Wards Bites” and sharing a bottle of wine in the beautiful yard. It was stunning and magical, the kind of spot that makes you want to stay all afternoon. We would rate this location a solid 10/10. The staff were so kind, the food was amazing, and the collaboration between Wards Cidery and The View Winery is such a great mix for groups or solo travellers looking for a little variety.
The View Winery sits on land that has been in the Turton/Ward family for five generations. Originally, fresh market apples were grown here. In the mid-1990s, the family began a transition, planting vineyards and cider apples. Spartans and McIntosh gave way to Gewürztraminer, Riesling, Ehrenfelser, and Pinotage vines, along with cider varieties like Belle de Boskoop, Chisel Jersey, and Bulmers Norman.
In 2006, the family’s beloved packinghouse—built by Great Granddad Ward in 1922—was transformed into a winery and cidery under the direction of grandson Chris Turton and great-granddaughter Jennifer Turton-Molgat. Today, The View produces more than ten thousand cases each year. Their portfolio includes award-winning Riesling, Gewürztraminer, Pinot Gris, Ehrenfelser, Pinot Noir, and Pinotage, plus their signature rosé and Silver Lining Estate blends. In 2013, they even launched Canada’s first wine-in-a-can with their wildly popular BLING Sparkling Wine.
Why the Red Shoe Label? Jennifer shares, “My husband and I went dancing. We danced until my red pumps started to pinch. After heading home and finishing a bottle of Merlot, he playfully removed my shoes and stuffed the heel of one shoe into the empty bottle. And there it was, with an overturned glass beside it, an image of our own making. It spoke to us of our love of wine, born by accident during a fun and carefree moment.”
Our review of The View / Wards The View and Wards Cidery is a spacious venue with a charming atmosphere and an outdoor picnic area surrounded by apple trees. We were served by Calla, Krista, and Ellie, who were all kind, welcoming, and thorough with their tastings. Inside, we tried the Gewürztraminer, Rosé, and Black Rhino—all were delicious. Then we headed out for a picnic with Riesling and a charcuterie board. This is definitely a go-to spot; it really has it all.
Hidden Perks Many wineries and cideries have lounges or patios that aren’t obvious from the entrance. Always ask to explore—you might stumble on something special. Some also offer members-only tastings or seasonal drinks that staff don’t advertise. If you’re curious, they might share the secret.
Secret Photo Spots Vineyards and orchards are filled with beautiful photo backdrops, but not every path or gate is meant for wandering. Ask the staff—they often know the hidden gems. And resist the temptation to climb fences or get too close to farm equipment. Trust us, they’ll notice.
SpearHead Winery
By this point, our community was starting to feel a little tired, but the excitement was still there—just in a quieter, cozier way. Our next stop was SpearHead Winery, and it was the perfect way to wind down the day.
The community was asked to pick out a bottle of wine to give away to other members who couldn’t join us on the tour. It was such a thoughtful gesture that made the stop extra special. We sat outside under the red umbrellas on a warm afternoon, enjoying the view and great conversation.
Our review of SpearHead SpearHead Winery is a scenic spot with rolling vineyards and a stunning backdrop. We sat on the patio and were served by Saori, who was so sweet and thorough with the tasting. She poured us a refreshing Rosé and a Pinot Noir with a beautifully layered flavour profile. Inside the shop, we found amazing prices and unique pairings, including chocolate bars chosen to match the wines. It was the kind of place that makes you want to linger and savour every sip.
Meadow Vista Honey Wines
After we loaded into the van with our new wine in hand, the community was buzzing with excitement for our final stop. And wow—it was another favourite. Meadow Vista Honey Wines was the sweetest way to wrap up the day, literally.
Nestled on a five-and-a-half-acre farm in East Kelowna, Meadow Vista is surrounded by orchards and home to over 150 hives of hardworking honeybees. These bees not only make the nectar for their meads but also play a vital role in pollinating local farms. It’s no wonder they say Meadow Vista tastes like “nature in a glass”—we couldn’t agree more.
Award Highlights You Need to Know Meadow Vista isn’t just pretty—it’s decorated. Their meads have taken home: ✨ Multiple Golds at the World Mead Championships ✨ Best Mead Pairing at Osoyoos Oyster Festival ✨ BC Wine & Canadian Wine Awards medals (Gold, Silver, Bronze—you name it) ✨ Fan fave titles like People’s Choice Best Winery
From sparkling apple to blueberry-haskap to their iconic Mabon and Ostara, Meadow Vista has stacked over 50+ awards worldwide.
Our experience at Meadow Vista To say this place was a highlight is an understatement. The food was fresh from the farm—cheeses, meats, fruits, and even quail eggs—all paired beautifully with their meads and honey. And the honey itself? Absolutely unreal. Sweet, smooth, and unforgettable. Every sip and every bite felt like a celebration of the land and the hardworking bees behind it.
It was the perfect way to end our community wine and cider tour—surrounded by lush orchards, sipping mead that’s been awarded time and time again, and sharing laughs and memories over food that felt like it came straight from nature’s table. Meadow Vista truly delivers on its promise of “nature in a glass.”
What’s Your Sip Personality
Okay besties, time to find out what drink was basically made for you. We put together a quick tasting table quiz so you can match your vibe to your glass. No gatekeeping here—this is your shortcut to choosing between wine or cider without overthinking it. Grab a pen, tally up your answers, and see what your taste buds are secretly craving.
OUR TASTING TABLE
Question
Option A
Option B
Option C
Option D
1. Your ideal weekend vibe
Lounging in the sun
Exploring an orchard
Cozying up in a lounge
Dancing to live music
2. Pick a snack
Cheese & crackers
Fresh fruit & charcuterie
Chocolate
Olives & nuts
3. Your outfit
Flowy dress or skirt
Linen pants & top
Smart casual jeans
Casual sundress
4. Your personality
Adventurous & curious
Calm & thoughtful
Sweet & fun
Trendsetter & playful
5. Flavour preference
Bold & intense
Crisp & light
Sweet & approachable
Fruity & unexpected
Results
Mostly A’s → Bold Red Wine 🍷 You love classic, rich, and adventurous flavours. Perfect for sipping slowly while enjoying vineyard views.
Mostly B’s → Crisp Apple Cider 🍏 Refreshing and easygoing, just like you. Ideal for wandering the orchard or lounging on a sunny patio.
Mostly C’s → Sweet Riesling or Sparkling Wine 🍾 Sweet, playful, and totally approachable. You enjoy the lighter, brighter side of sipping.
Mostly D’s → Fruity or Flavoured Cider 🍓 Fun, trendy, and unique—always up for trying something new and Instagram-worthy.
The Final Pour
So, what’s in your glass? Whether you’re a bold red, a crisp cider, a sweet sparkling, or a fruity wild card, there’s a sip out there that was basically made for you. Next time you’re out in the Okanagan, order with confidence—and maybe try the one you didn’t get. Because honestly, every pour has a story, and yours is just getting started.
A Huge Thank You ❤️
We want to send a heartfelt thank you to Discover Okanagan Tours and Sip South East Kelowna for hosting us—it was such a beautiful experience! And of course, the biggest thank you goes out to our amazing community. This summer was unforgettable, and we truly wouldn’t be here without your love and support.
Wishing you all a cozy, joy-filled fall season. 🍂 Sending so much love from us to you!
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More Than Skin Deep: Why Your Routine Affects Your Mood and Your Glow
Life moves fast. Everything changes from trends to talks to politics and it can feel like taking care of yourself is way down the list. Totally get it. When things feel off outside it is hard to feel your best or even think you deserve it.
But here is the deal. Taking a moment to check in on how you feel about your habits and what really works for you is a major power move. Saying out loud that something feels off is not failing. It is winning the first round.
To level up you have to cut what weighs you down switch things up or risk staying stuck hating what you think you want. This is your moment to break free and unlock your power.
So show yourself some love. Fill your world with good vibes. Try new things and keep your mind open. Because when you do things change and that glow up will hit your skin your life and everything good coming your way.
Here are 10 easy affirmations to boost your confidence and energy while you get ready in the morning:
Today I choose to be kind to myself.
I deserve to feel good in my own skin.
Every day I get a little stronger and braver.
Happiness is something I welcome into my life.
I am proud of the progress I make.
I am enough just the way I am right now.
Positive energy flows through me today.
Challenges don’t stop me—they help me grow.
I appreciate my body and all it does for me.
I’m ready to take on today with an open mind.
How ZEALUNITY Models Get Ready for the Camera
Content shoot loading… and it all starts with getting your mind, skin, and bag right.
1. Clean Skin, Clear Mind After receiving their Abelin cleanser, our models love using it the night before or morning of their shoot. The fresh-mix formula makes it feel like a mini ritual — one quick step to reset and prep your skin so it’s clean, calm, and ready to glow.
2. Pack Your Model Bag Every model has their version, but here are the non-negotiables most ZEALUNITY girls and guys toss in:
Nude and black undergarments
A plain tank or tee
A zip-up hoodie or robe for in-between looks
Makeup wipes
Hair ties and a brush
Light moisturizer and lip balm
Water bottle and a snack (granola bar or fruit is a fav)
Confidence (and maybe a phone charger)
3. Hype Playlist On Repeat Getting into the mood is everything. Expect to hear a mix of RAYE, Tyler The Creator, Tate McRae, Ice Spice, or some vibey R&B or house beats to calm the nerves and pump the energy. Think pre-game meets main character moment.
4. Set Intentions, Not Expectations Whether it’s your first shoot or your fiftieth, our models remind themselves it’s about growing, experimenting, and having fun. Breathe, stretch, take a mirror selfie. Say your affirmations. This is your space to evolve.
5. Don’t Forget the Vibe Check Good attitude = good shoot. Help others zip up their outfits, gas each other up, and remember you’re part of something bigger. This isn’t just a shoot — it’s a community, and we’re in it together.
Real Talk with the Founders of Abelin Skin Care 🇨🇦✨
The truth behind the bottles — in their own words.
We sat down with the duo behind Abelin Skin Care to get the real story — the wins, the worries, and the “we can actually do this” moments that brought this innovative brand to life. From family inspiration to skincare habits and future dreams, here’s what they had to say:
1. What was the “aha” moment that made you two decide to actually launch this product?
Our breakthrough moment came during a casual conversation about my great-grandmother’s vintage jar — the same one we still use today to store our dishwasher pods! Realizing this beautiful container survived two world wars and is still going strong made us stop and think: every bottle we casually toss might outlast us by generations, potentially causing harm for decades to come.
That’s when Abelin was born — as our way to reclaim those bottles from becoming waste, by giving them multiple lives, just like that jar. ✨
We’ll be honest — the journey hasn’t been easy! Between juggling day jobs and battling perfectionism (hello, imposter syndrome!), we’ve launched, relaunched, and refined our vision more than once. But that’s exactly why we’re so passionate now — we’re finally ready to share this labour of love with the world, imperfections and all.
2. What inspired the name Abelin?
Abelin is our love letter to the two incredible women who raised us.
Abe comes from Abeke — Yinka’s mom’s name (and now our daughter’s first name, too!). Lin honours Linda, Kayla’s mom.
These powerhouse women always pushed us to reach higher, to believe in ourselves, and to never settle. Naming our brand after them felt like the most natural way to honour their legacy while building something rooted in their values: excellence, care, and positive impact.
3. How would you describe your brand’s energy in three words?
Pure Aquarius energy. ✨ • Curious — always questioning the status quo • Reformer — challenging industry norms • Innovative — creating fresh solutions to old problems
4. What makes your product different from everything else on the shelf right now?
Abelin empowers people to be part of the solution — without sacrificing results. That’s revolutionary.
We care deeply about every ingredient and how it benefits your skin. But we’re just as passionate about what happens after your bottle is empty. Abelin lets you choose both: effective skincare and a lower-impact lifestyle. No compromises — just beautiful skin and a better future, packaged in a system designed to eliminate waste.
5. Be honest — who’s more skincare-obsessed between the two of you?
That would definitely be me (Kayla)! I have a full nighttime routine and love every minute of it. Yinka? Zero routine — but he’s obsessed with formulation and the science behind skincare.
Funny enough, this all started when I was eyeing a $100 serum and Yinka said, “We could totally make that ourselves.” One formulation course later, and seven years down the road, we’re still making skincare magic. Total plot twist. ✨
6. What do your kids think about the business? Have they gotten involved in any fun ways?
Seeing how proud our kids are is one of our biggest motivations. Our son’s become a little environmental warrior — talking to his friends about waste reduction and saying, “My parents make the best skincare.”
And our four-year-old daughter? She’s obsessed with skincare. Honestly, she has the soul of a twenty-year-old beauty lover. We’re already dreaming of creating signature products for them one day. How amazing would that be? 💕
7. What’s a random, personal habit that inspired how you made or use this product?
Honestly? Pure laziness. 😅
Making skincare from scratch is time-consuming, so we started pre-making concentrated bases and just adding water for refills. One day we thought — why not offer that same ease to others?
And that’s how our skincare concentrates were born. Sometimes the best ideas come from finding smarter—not harder—ways to do things.
8. If Abelin had a vibe song or playlist, what’s on it?
Yinka’s picks capture us perfectly: “Bloody Samaritan” and “Happiness” — bold, uplifting, and unstoppable.
We also love “High Hopes” by Panic! At The Disco — we’re always shooting for the stars. Our soundtrack is all about joy, empowerment, and that feeling you get when you know you’re making a difference in the world. ✨
9. What do you want people to feel when they try your product for the first time?
Pride and joy.
That incredible feeling of knowing that one small switch — choosing Abelin — makes a real impact for the planet. And on top of that? Glowing skin. We want you to love how you look and love what you’re a part of.
It’s the perfect combo: doing good while looking incredible. What’s not to love?
10. What’s one dream for the future of Abelin — even if it feels big?
Our ultimate vision? No more single-use waste in skincare.
Think about this: most plastic and glass containers are built to last over four generations… yet we throw them out after a few months. That means your great-grandkids could literally hold the bottle you’re using today.
With Abelin, that’s possible. We’re not just saving bottles — we’re creating legacy. One refill at a time. ✨
Ready to try the glow-up cleanser everyone’s talking about Experience fresh skin and clean ingredients with Abelin FAST skincare Visit Abelincare.com to learn more and start your fresh routine today
CREDITS – Brought to life by the ZEAL community
Featured Models Jenayah, Sydney May, Deep, Hammad, Olivia Ball, Kirat, Shivana
Creative Direction Shivana – Assistant Creative Director and Second Shooter Photographer from ZEAL Media Team Okanagan Portraits – Lead Photographer
Edited in-house and curated by ZEAL Brand Vision by ZEAL
In Collaboration With Brand – Abelin
A Big Thank You We’re so grateful to be creating with such a passionate and inspiring community. Every shoot, every story, every moment is a reminder of why we do this. Thank you to everyone involved for showing up, sharing your energy, and making this vision real. We’re just getting started — and we can’t wait for what’s next.
For this drop, we tapped into the world of Salt Mob—a Kelowna-based brand led by founder Llala Joseph. Rooted in minimalism, female energy, and effortless edge, Salt Mob brings a new narrative to the local scene.
Images by Zeal SOCIAL Media Team Member: Okanagan Portraits Edited by the Zeal Team Models from the ZEALUNITY Community Content owned by ZEAL Special thanks to our crew for making this drop possible.
Behind the Drop: Salt Mob x ZEALUNITY
For our weekend shoot with Salt Mob, models Sydney, Deep, and Jenayah stepped into a vision that felt both bold and grounded. It was our first time collaborating with the brand, and it brought something more than just style.
When we connected with founder Llala Joseph, her passion for the brand was clear. As a familiar name in the Okanagan creative scene, she understands the complexity of finding your identity in a small community. Where routine can blur originality, Salt Mob brings something fresh, confident, and deeply intentional.
The energy on set was something we could see and feel. For our models—who are naturally softer and more reserved—there was a shift the moment the pieces came on. A new sense of pride and individuality surfaced, expressed freely through movement, posture, and presence. The brand created space for them to be exactly who they are, and supported that freedom every step of the way.
What we witnessed felt effortless. Honest. Real. It was one of those moments where everything aligned—style, energy, and intention. Salt Mob didn’t just show up with a look. Llala brought a feeling that stayed long after the shoot wrapped.
Built Different in the Valley
There’s something surreal about watching someone you’ve known since way back step fully into their power.
Llala Joseph has always had that energy—even as a teenager, you could feel the creativity bubbling under the surface. But to see where she is now? Leading with intention, creating pieces that reflect everything her soul’s been saying for years… it’s wild in the best way.
What started as presence has become power. Watching her build something so unapologetically her—and getting the chance to help create content that reflects that? Full-circle and then some.
Salt Mob isn’t just a brand—it’s an extension of everything she’s always been about: edge, freedom, truth, and self-expression without limits.
Keep scrolling for the full BTS of our shoot with Llala, and of course… our tips on how you might just land a spot in Salt Mob’s exclusive circle 😉
Add to cart, but make it iconic.
So, You Wanna Rep Salt Mob? 👀Okay… let’s spill. #SaltMob
Let’s clear it up—this isn’t about getting “in” with a brand. It’s about aligning with something that’s already moving with meaning.
From what we’ve seen, Salt Mob isn’t here for trends or surface-level energy. It’s about owning who you are—loud, quiet, chill, bold—whatever that looks like when it’s real.
If you’re trying to catch the wave, here’s what we picked up:
✔ You don’t have to fit in—just stand firm in your own energy. ✔ Authenticity matters more than aesthetics. ✔ Drama? Not the Salt Mob way. ✔ Joy, individuality, and a little edge go a long way. ✔ It’s not performative—it’s personal.
From our time shooting with the brand, we saw how much intention goes into everything—from the designs to the way people are treated on set. If you’re someone who leads with realness, takes up space with love, and isn’t afraid to evolve publicly?
Then Salt Mob might just see you.
Support what you want to see more of. 📍Locally rooted. 🔥 Female-founded. 🎤 A brand with something to say. Tap in. Shop Salt Mob now.
Special thanks to our incredible crew, creators, and community who helped bring this shoot to life. Every detail, moment, and frame was made possible by the energy you showed up with.
Follow us on Instagram @zealunity for more behind-the-scenes moments, upcoming drops, and features like this. And don’t forget to show love to @saltmob.ca — let them know if you’re ready to rep something real.
This is for anyone chasing something they love — while quietly feeling like it’s tearing them down.
Because sometimes the thing that’s supposed to be your safe space starts feeling heavy. And it usually starts small — learning how to just be. Alone. Uncomfortable. Taking up space when shrinking would be easier.
That was us… first time parents, newly engaged, running on no sleep, trying to keep up with content and still feel like ourselves. We had just brought our baby home to a space that held so many memories. That house meant something. But slowly, we started to notice shifts.
It was full of love — but it also held things we weren’t aligned with anymore.
Like the fact that family still had keys.
At the time, it made sense. It came from a place of trust and connection. But as our life changed — especially with a newborn — the setup just didn’t feel right for us anymore. I’d be mid-feed in the living room, barely dressed, and the door would open without warning. It wasn’t anyone’s fault. It just no longer worked.
That experience wasn’t about blame – it was about awareness.
It showed us how much we had changed. How our needs had changed. And how honouring that doesn’t mean we’re ungrateful or disconnected… it just means we’re growing.
Because sometimes growth asks you to reimagine what home looks like. And even the best chapters eventually give way to new ones.
If I don’t speak up for me — who will?
If I Do What’s Right for Me — Will You Still Like Me?
You’ve probably felt it too — that quiet question in the back of your mind: If you do what’s right for you… will they still like you? You’re not trying to hurt anyone’s feelings or make yours louder. You just need the space to be honest. It’s not about being dramatic or even “nice.” It’s about being real — truthful, clear, and loving. Real connection can hold both truths at once: yours and theirs. And if you don’t speak up for what’s real in you…um?
Let me keep it real for a sec.
I just moved out of a small town. And honestly? The questions started hitting quick: If I leave, will the people I’ve built with still want to work with me? If I can’t show up 24/7, are they still down? It’s that weird moment when excitement and self-doubt hit at the same time.
The truth is… I didn’t have everything figured out. I didn’t have a 10-step plan to calm the what “ifs”. But the more I sat in that house, the more I realized… I had outgrown it. The open door vibe we once loved? It started feeling cold. Like the energy didn’t match anymore.
And that’s when it clicked: If I didn’t pivot, I’d stay stuck doing things the old way, for people who might not even expect that of me anymore. Or want to only see me in that way –
This isn’t just fiction — it’s a reflection. Inspired by the real, raw feeling of walking away from something that once felt like everything.
The Launder
No one really knew who built The Launder. It sat just beyond the edge of the old grove, tucked between wild hills and the hush of ancient trees. It was said to bless the land, protect the bond of bloodlines, and keep the stories of the elders clean.
But the rules… they were never spoken. Only passed down in looks, in sighs, in the soft folding of hands that had given too much for too long.
When you arrive — not as a stranger, but as the next in line — you are given three tasks. Gilded in honor, but heavy in cost.
The first: Bring water from the low river to the highest cliff, every morning before sunbreak. Not for survival, but for devotion — a daily offering to prove you are willing to carry the weight of another’s comfort.
The second: When your first child is born, they are named not by you, but by the elder. They belong not to your heart alone, but to the legacy of the land — bound to serve the story, not their own.
And the third: Every woman must stand beneath The Mirror Tree — where bark turns to silver and reflects your shape, your stance, your soul. You are judged not by truth, but by tradition. By how small you can become in the name of keeping things “beautiful.”
They say it’s the way it’s always been. But lately, you’ve started to wonder: what if that doesn’t make it right?
The trees know. The wind pulls at your sleeves like a whisper.
And one morning, when the river’s too low to fill your jar — you pause. You don’t climb.
You don’t explain.
You just walk the long path home, empty-handed — but finally full of yourself.
What I’ve Learned Since Choosing Peace (Pssst… I’ve been out of my childhood house since 17)
Alright, real talk. Finding peace isn’t about running away — it’s about creating your own vibe. Here’s what’s been working for me:
Step 1: Carve out a little you zone. Grab your fave drink (coffee, tea, or heck, a fancy sparkling water), chill for 5 minutes, and just feel. No scrolling. No thinking about your to-do list. Just vibes. Do this enough, and your brain starts making calm your new default. Trust me. It’s magic.
Step 2: Start journaling about things YOU wanna try. Not what everyone else wants from you. Your dreams, your goals, your wild ideas. I swear, it’s like a happiness hack that keeps me locked in the present and actually excited about life.
Step 3: Pick up a hobby — the quirkier, the better. Paint, dance, build something, hit the gym, start a mini garden — whatever floats your boat. Seeing yourself level up in something? Confidence BOOSTED. Especially when life’s throwing curveballs (been there, worked two jobs with zero chill).
Step 4: Expect people to meet your energy. Love big? Get loved back big. Don’t care? Don’t be shocked if they don’t either. It’s a two-way street, friends.
Step 5: Keep loving hard — but only for those who deserve it. When people turn away, don’t chase or plead. Love them silently from a distance and focus on watering your own garden instead. Your energy is precious. Invest it where it grows, not where it drains.
✧ Why This Part Matters
— the world moves fast. You’re constantly giving, adjusting, performing, healing, and sometimes just trying to keep up. But when do you get to land?
That’s what this moment is for.
This little routine isn’t just cute self-care — it’s you reclaiming your nervous system, one breath at a time. It’s not about “fixing” yourself. It’s about reminding yourself: You’re safe. You’re enough. You’re allowed to take up space without proving anything.
When you do this — even for 5 minutes — you start building a version of “home” that can’t be taken away. No matter where you are or who’s around, you’ll carry a calm, confident you… with you.
This part is the reset. This part is the power. And honestly? You deserve this.
✧ Your Favourite Part Starts Here ✧
If you don’t have a routine yet, borrow this one — it’s simple, soft, and all yours.
☁️ Step 1: Find a space that feels calm. Could be your room floor, a sunny spot in the kitchen, even your parked car.
🌿 Step 2: Sit on the ground. Deep breaths in, long breaths out. Let your body know it’s safe to just be.
🍵 Step 3: Set the vibe. Play your favourite song, sip something warm, light a scent you love, or grab a little snack.
🫀 Step 4: Tap your chest for 30 seconds. While you breathe, imagine releasing anything you’ve rejected or pushed away today:
Someone said something that stung? Let it move through you. Felt out of place or misunderstood? Breathe through it. You’re not broken — you’re becoming.
🌎 Step 5: Say this (or think it): “I am my own home. I carry peace with me. I’m allowed to take up space here.”
It might feel a little “woo” or weird at first. But imagine if it does work? You’d walk into any space with quiet confidence — knowing you don’t need a perfect place to feel at home. Because you’ve built one inside.
Creative Credits
This moment was built with heart — and we couldn’t have done it without our incredible team.
✨ Model: Sydney May — a ZealUnity muse who brought the calm, the power, and the story to life. 📸 Photography: Captured by the talented Okanagan Portraits , from the Zeal Social Management media team.
We love our people. Every frame, every word, every moment — it’s made better because of you.
In this story, you’ll find real signs that might help you on your own journey—
The timing didn’t make sense, I wasn’t looking, and honestly, I almost didn’t say anything. But something told me to go for it.
If you’ve been wondering how to know when it’s right—or how to trust yourself when something feels different—this one’s for you.
Simple, real, and maybe exactly what you need to hear right now.
Wait… I’m Only 20
How I accidentally found something real, what it taught me, and the signs that showed me I was ready—before I even knew it.
So here’s the vibe: I had just graduated, and, honestly, I thought I had it all figured out—or at least I wanted to think I did. You know that whole Malibu Pink Dream where you marry the guy you first kissed and everything just falls into place? Yeah, that was the fantasy. But, spoiler alert, life had other plans.
Before I met Mason, I had come out of a relationship that just… wasn’t good. I felt confused, honestly. Like I didn’t know who I was anymore. That age—18 to 20—it’s wild. You feel like you’re supposed to know what you’re doing, but really you’re just starting the climb and it’s super uncomfy. I was living alone, barely holding it together, trying to get my photography hustle going. My family was going through it too, so everything just felt heavy.
But I kept working on myself, even if I was hurting. I couldn’t see what was next, but I felt something coming. Then one random night, I was at this little town bar—taking pics for content, doing my thing—and I look up and see this guy. The night before, I had been so done. I literally drank water, said a little prayer, and asked to be guided to my person + purpose. I think I saw the method on TikTok? Either way, I believed it.
And boom. The next night, there I was, off the clock at this bar I’d been going to forever, and suddenly I’m sitting across from someone I’d never seen before—even though we literally knew everyone in common. It was surreal. I almost walked away, but something told me to stay. Trust your gut. That night was the start of something I never could’ve imagined.
What Made This a Green Flag (And Not Just Another “He’s Different I Swear” Moment 💍)
In the beginning, it’s hard to really tell if something’s going to be real. You just can’t know right away—but what you can do is look for the subtle signs. Are they giving you full energy and effort? Do they keep the conversation going by asking deeper questions when things start to lull? Are they tuned into your energy and actually respecting it—or just complimenting how you look?
For me, I knew I wasn’t walking into another gaslight-lovebomb-repeat cycle. I had my flags all the way up. One of the biggest was: if he talks about himself, does he loop me into it? Does he offer the same level of listening I’m giving? Because if not, I’m not sitting through that again.
With Mason, something was different. Even now, one of his biggest green flags is the way he listens. Like, really listens. He lets the space sit in a convo and doesn’t rush it—but somehow he always responds like he’s been taking mental notes with a pen and paper. That patience and presence? That’s rare. That’s what told me I wasn’t just being heard—I was being understood.
That night at the bar? We talked for 7 hours straight—barely touched our drinks. No distractions, just us locked in, like the world paused so we could actually see each other.
Biggest Green Flag? The Energy Had Depth.
One of my biggest turn-ons? Spirituality. Not in the “let me read your birth chart and disappear” way—but more in the vibe of someone who can have open, honest conversations without needing to wrap it all up. Just someone who can flow with the conversation and take the time to walk through the thoughts together. I love people who inspire me, and it doesn’t even have to be some deep, life-changing thing. It could be the way you make your morning coffee, the energy in your space, or how you move through your day.
And you know what I just thought of… People who are great at what they do usually fall into one of two categories: either super structured, but a bit off in other ways, or laid-back, dependable, with a solid work ethic. The second one? That’s the kind of energy I was looking for.
When I first saw his place, he had a rose quartz in the living room. Not gonna lie, it wasn’t placed in the most organized way—it was a little random. But it wasn’t about the placement. It was the fact that he had it there at all. That small detail said way more about him than any perfect setup could.
Structure? Check.
Why IT Got So Serious🤍
I grew up seeing a lot of divorce in my family, so I guess I always had a different view of relationships. But even through all that, I still believed in love. I didn’t know exactly what it would look like, but I knew I wanted something real. A family, a solid foundation, but not in the traditional sense.
So yeah, being serious this young? Definitely shocks some people. But honestly, I was over the hookup culture and all the energy-draining stuff. Meeting people, going out, trying to align with people who aren’t even on the same vibe…Exhausting. I get it if you’re still all about that, I was too. But things hit differently when you start wanting more.
Girls’ night? Used to be all about talking about the guys but now.. I just want to curl up with my person, watch TV, and not deal with any negativity. It’s not that I don’t love my friends—I do!—but I just don’t have the energy for drama anymore. I didn’t realize how much I needed that peace until I found it.
Just lucky I found my person.
What I Wasn’t Going to Settle For: Early Talks
There’s a lot of conversation these days about what roles we choose to take on in relationships, and while everyone’s path is different, I think how we’ve been raised plays a huge part in shaping what we desire. For some, starting a family is the ultimate goal. For others, it’s a different kind of fulfillment. And personally, I’m just grateful to have the freedom to choose what feels right for me.
That being said, I wasn’t going to let go of my voice or compromise on the things that matter most to me. I had some non-negotiables, and here’s what they were.
Honesty above all else. It might not always be easy, but keeping things to yourself to spare feelings never works out. In my view, it’s always better to speak up respectfully. In the end, it’s us against the world.
We keep our individuality. We each make time for the things we love to do, and we support each other in that. It’s important not to lose ourselves in the process.
Trust is essential, but it’s not about just saying “yes” to everything. If someone changes their behavior intentionally, that’s a red flag. It’s not a “miscommunication,” it’s something deeper. And I wasn’t about to ignore that.
Mason? He’s good. He’s solid. He’s real. And I want to share this because I believe we all deserve to find someone who respects what we bring to the table.
Growing Together: Like… Actually
You know that feeling when everything just starts syncing up? Like suddenly your goals hit different, your confidence goes up, and your daily routine doesn’t feel like a mess anymore? That’s when you know you’re growing with someone, not just dating them.
It’s giving power couple energy—but make it real. You feel more like you, not less. They know your moods, your fav songs, your weird little habits, and somehow it all makes you feel safe but still excited.
And listen, if you’re constantly feeling off outside the relationship, like drained or second-guessing everything… it’s a sign. Being with someone shouldn’t mute your magic. Together or apart, the vibe should still feel full. If not? That’s not growth—it’s a pause.
🎯 20 Sneaky Questions to Ask Your Partner (+ What Their Answers Could Say About Them)
If you could live anywhere for a year, where would it be?
🌍 Big dreamer = adventurous.
🏠 Same hometown = loves comfort.
Would you rather plan the trip or just show up?
📋 Planner = responsible.
🛫 Spontaneous = fun but maybe chaotic.
What’s your dream Saturday?
🧘♀️ Chill = calm energy.
🎉 Wild = thrill seeker.
What’s something you secretly wish you were amazing at?
🎨 Creative stuff = deep soul.
💼 Business stuff = ambition coded.
What’s your go-to when you’re stressed?
🏃♂️ Gym/active = healthy outlet.
🍸 Party = 🚩 maybe distraction issues.
What’s a dealbreaker for you in friendships?
🚪 Instant exit = strong boundaries.
🥴 “Idk” = red flag… lack of standards.
If money wasn’t a thing, what would you do all day?
💸 Hustler mindset = long-term player.
🍃 Vibe-only = might struggle with pressure.
What was your favourite age so far?
🎈Childhood = still healing?
🌟 Recent = growing & evolving.
Do you believe everything happens for a reason?
✨ Yes = emotionally deep.
🥱 No = might need more convincing.
Would you rather be respected or loved?
🧠 Respected = stable and serious.
💕 Loved = sensitive king/queen.
What’s your toxic trait?
😇 Honest = self-aware.
🙈 Avoids = no thanks.
What’s a weird food combo you secretly like?
🥑 Quirky = fun to live with.
🚫 “Nothing” = boring sorry not sorry.
What’s something you’d want to get better at in relationships?
💬 Communication = green flag.
🙃 “I’m good” = delulu alert.
How do you usually apologize?
📖 Talks it out = healthy.
😬 Avoids it = prepare for headaches.
Would you rather win an award or hear it privately from someone you love?
🏆 Public = external validation vibes.
🥹 Private = heart-centered.
What’s something random that makes you feel rich?
🧺 Clean sheets? 🚿 Long showers? They appreciate the little things.
What’s your favourite part of your day usually?
☀️ Morning = motivated.
🌙 Night = deep thinker.
What’s your favourite way to recharge?
🔥 Alone time = independent.
🧑🤝🧑 Around people = extrovert coded.
How do you like spending holidays?
Family = loyal and sentimental.
✈️ Getaway trips = loves freedom.
If you could master one random skill, what would it be?
🎸 Guitar = romantic tendencies.
(without making it weird or overthinking it)
Stay loud in your little ways. Your jokes, your random interests, your way of doing things? That’s literally what makes you you. Don’t “soften” yourself to fit some imaginary vibe. If you’re goofy, be goofy. If you’re quiet but witty, let it snipe out in moments.
Confidence ≠ being the loudest. Confidence is just being sure you don’t need to perform. You’re not auditioning. You’re just existing. Let the energy come to you, not the other way around.
You’re not “too much.” Real ones want the full you — the layered, crazy, chill, passionate, whatever-you-are-today you. If you feel yourself shrinking around someone… that’s info, babe, not a sign you need to get smaller.
Open heart, wise mind. Stay soft and open to love, new conversations, and cute little surprises — but keep your standards, your goals, and your non-negotiables on lock. (being open doesn’t mean you gotta abandon your instincts.)
Silence doesn’t mean something’s wrong. You don’t have to fill every second with talking or energy. Being able to just exist together is hot. Comfort is loud in its own way.
Remind yourself: you’re the prize too. Not in an ego way. In a mutual respect, mutual effort, mutual energy kind of way. You’re not “lucky” they like you. They’re lucky they get to experience you in your light.
23, a Baby, and Building a Life Together
If you would’ve told me a few years ago that by 23 I’d have a baby with the boy I met at the bar and we’d be running our own businesses… I would’ve laughed and gone right back to overthinking my entire life in my notes app. 😂
But somehow — here we are. And honestly? It’s better than anything I could’ve planned. Not perfect. Not some Pinterest board 24/7. Just real. And really good.
When I look around now… the baby, the work, the everyday memories we’re stacking — I feel nothing but grateful that I listened to myself. Even when it was easier to just isolate. Even when shutting down felt safer than risking being seen. Even when growing felt like too much.
Choosing to stay soft, choosing love, choosing to show up for my own life — it didn’t steal anything from me. It gave me everything I didn’t even know I wanted yet.
And the wild part? It’s still just getting started. More babies. More businesses. More memories I haven’t even dreamed up yet.
All because I decided to bet on myself and stay open when the good stuff came in.
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TMN Podcast Ep. 3 — A Conversation with Ona Grauer: Navigating Hollywood, Voice Work & Reinvention
Host: Victoria Waddington In this episode of The Model Network Podcast, Victoria sits down with actress Ona Grauer (Stargate, Elysium, The Bridge and of course Archer) for an inspiring conversation about carving out a lasting career in film and television. From her early days in Vancouver’s film scene to becoming a voice acting icon, Ona shares personal stories, behind-the-scenes insights, and hard-earned wisdom on surviving—and thriving—in an ever-evolving industry. 🎙 Topics covered: Finding longevity in the entertainment world Transitioning between live-action and voice work The challenges women face in Hollywood Advice for new actors and creators Whether you’re an aspiring talent or a longtime fan of Ona’s work, this episode offers a rare and refreshing look into the realities of artistic life.
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Model Cleopatra King joins TMN for a powerful conversation about representation, resilience, and the realities of the fashion world. She shares her journey as a model of color, the challenges she’s faced, and the importance of authenticity in an ever-changing industry. Raw, real, and inspiring—don’t miss this episode! Follow Cleo on IG: @akacleo
An Editorial on Hiding Who You Are—And What You See When You Finally Stop
Now that I’m finally becoming who I am, I see the pretending more clearly in everyone else. And sometimes I still ask myself— Was it wrong to play along, even when I knew it wasn’t real?
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When you’re younger, you can easily fall into playing a role you’re not sure of—doing things just to fit in or to make others happy without fully understanding the impact. But as you get older, you start to realize the difference between actions done without meaning and actions done with intention. The real danger comes when you’ve already shared your feelings, and people continue to act without consideration.
When you don’t address it, when you don’t speak up, it starts to look like you’re easy to manipulate. It’s not about being passive anymore; it’s about being aware of the choices you’re making and protecting your peace. Letting things slide is like giving away a piece of yourself, and eventually, you’re left wondering where you went and who’s been controlling the narrative.
Someone Else’s Narrative
Identifying situations that don’t serve you starts with recognizing the signs. One of the clearest examples is a relationship that doesn’t lift you up, a connection that leaves you feeling drained instead of fulfilled. If you’re unsure whether this is happening, ask yourself: What does happiness look like to me? What things truly make me happy? Have I been doing them?
If all your answers revolve around other people—how they make you feel or what they bring to your life—it’s time to pause and reflect. Ask yourself why you’re so attached to this person. If it’s just a “feeling” you can’t quite explain, be honest with yourself: you’re likely easy to manipulate. You need to know who you are first, before you can figure out who someone else is in your life. Understanding yourself is the foundation of any healthy relationship. Without that, you might find yourself lost in someone else’s expectations, losing sight of what truly makes you happy.
2. Quit Pretending: Own Your Truth and Level Up
It’s crucial to never mask yourself for anyone. When you do, it’s obvious—people can see that you’re not being genuine, and they’ll pick up on your insecurities. It leaves you vulnerable, an easy target for manipulation. The real you gets hidden, and others begin to shape their perception of who you are based on what they want you to be, not who you truly are.
If you feel anxiety just for being yourself, it’s time to ask some tough questions. Do my actions align with my future goals? Am I making a positive effort every day to move forward, or am I just putting in the effort to stay where I am? Living should feel like freedom, even on the tough days that bring sadness. You are here for a reason, and the question is—what could you be doing right now to better yourself?
Recovering After You’ve Broken Free
Sometimes, after too many experiences that leave you feeling drained, it feels like you’re stuck on your floor or bed for days, consumed by emotions. It might not seem like part of the process, but honestly, it’s necessary. Let yourself feel it. Don’t let others distract you from it—it’s your moment to process. And when you’re ready to move on, do things that help express the rest of what you’re feeling.
Look in the mirror and take a second to appreciate how amazing you are, even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment. Put on your favourite song, relax, and focus on doing absolutely nothing—just being. It’s harder than it sounds, but sometimes it’s exactly what you need. Look up at the sky and allow yourself to dream, to believe in what’s next.
For me, one of my go-to moves is to go to Walmart or dig through my old clothes to make an outfit and shoot it. I started doing that when I was 9—putting on Halloween costumes, grabbing makeup, and making videos with a National Geographic kids’ camera. But now, I do it my own way. I take the same creative energy, but it’s evolved into something that’s uniquely mine. It’s how I express myself, even when I feel like I’ve got no words left.
Confronting with Clarity: Staying Healthy Through Difficult Conversations
After you’ve given yourself some time to decompress, it’s time to face the situation more seriously, but with clarity. Reacting impulsively, especially when emotions are running high, only fuels the conflict. Often, you’ve been contributing just as much energy to the situation—whether you realize it or not. And sometimes, the other person might be aware of this, using your emotional reaction to manipulate the situation and pin it on you later.
Take a moment to breathe and check yourself. Don’t let anyone control you, even if they’re trying to provoke a reaction. That’s often exactly what they want. Own your actions, express your feelings clearly, and create space for open communication. Let them share their perspective, but keep the conversation civil and respectful. Close things off on a positive note, leaving no room for bad blood.
Once you’ve said what you need to, let it go. You’ve validated your feelings, communicated your truth, and didn’t let emotions take over. You didn’t use threats or manipulation. That’s growth. Don’t expect them to understand immediately, and if they respond negatively, it only confirms the energy they bring. Even in heated moments, it’s possible to handle things with respect, without letting them control how you feel.
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The line between self-love and seeking validation is becoming increasingly blurred, especially for brands. As a creative director who’s worked with a wide range of brands—local, Canadian, you name it—I’ve seen firsthand how things have shifted. Here’s the tea: I remember when you’d post on your story, asking for free models and support, reaching out to people to help bring your vision to life when you couldn’t offer them much in return. But now, when those same people—who helped build your platform and supported you from the beginning—come to you with more experience and knowledge, suddenly they’re “not what you want.” You’ve got no interest in working with them anymore.
Is it because they’ve grown and gained value, and now they have the confidence to demand better? You can’t claim to be all about self-love, empowerment, and positivity, and then turn your back on the very people who helped get you where you are. If you’re truly about self-love, you should be embracing and elevating those who’ve had your back from the start—not dismissing them when they’ve grown and can offer more.
So, what changed? Is it that these people now know their worth, or is it that your brand doesn’t know what it stands for anymore? It’s getting harder to tell whether this is about real self-love or just chasing something shallow and convenient. The lines are blurring, and the truth is starting to show.
Who Buys, Who’s in Control? Let’s Take a Look at That.
Let’s zoom out and take a look at the bigger picture. According to the U.S. Census Bureau and the Small Business Administration (SBA), as of 2021, 40% of businesses in the U.S. are female-owned. That’s a significant leap from 1990, when female-owned businesses made up just 24%, compared to 76% male-owned. This progress is undeniable, but it raises an important question: are these numbers growing because of real, systemic change, or are they simply reflecting who holds the power to offer opportunities? Similarly, while white-owned businesses still account for about 88%-90%, minority-owned businesses (Black, Hispanic, Asian, and Indigenous entrepreneurs) make up only 10-12%. These figures show progress, but they also highlight that barriers like limited access to capital, systemic discrimination, and fewer networking opportunities are still deeply ingrained. So, while the numbers have shifted, it’s worth asking whether the system itself has truly evolved.
As a young, white, blonde-haired, blue-eyed female, I’ve felt this harvest. When I was newer, with less to offer and fewer credentials, people assessed what they could take from me. It looked like they were giving me more opportunities, but in reality, they just thought they could use me. The same dynamic plays out when we talk about self-love and validation—where individuals or brands pick and choose based on what benefits them. It’s easy to let others define your worth, but when you do, the real question becomes: if you let them control the narrative, who truly owns you? Are we really loving ourselves, or are we just playing a numbers game, where the only thing that matters is who has more to offer?
That shift—happening only about 30 years ago—was a pivotal moment, but while the players may have become smarter and more adaptive, the fundamental rules of the system remain largely unchanged. The “I ride you, you ride me” mentality is still alive: you do what’s needed to make others happy, and in return, you’re offered opportunities. But how can anyone genuinely find happiness or fulfillment when they’re not at peace with the world or industry they’re in? Too many people follow the same path out of fear or the necessity of financial security. But when that happens, it’s not self-love driving the decisions—it’s the pursuit of validation, often at the cost of personal worth.
In the end, we have to ask ourselves: are we truly embracing self-love, or are we still operating within a system where the rules haven’t really changed, just the players? In a world where value is often measured by what we can give or achieve, not who we are, it’s easy to get lost in the cycle of validation. The lines between self-love and seeking approval, worth and worthiness, have all started to blur. As we navigate this evolving landscape, we must confront the truth: the change we seek may not come from the numbers or external markers, but from within. If we can shift the focus from external validation to genuine self-worth, we can break free and truly embrace the power of self-love.
Finding the Right Fit: How to Pitch Yourself as a Creative
When you’re pitching yourself to a business as a creative, make sure you really check out the brand first. Does their vibe match yours? Look at how diverse they are—who’s behind the brand, and how do they show up to the public? Are they open to change, or have they been doing the same thing for a long time? Think about what you want to get out of working with them. The right brand should let you be yourself and help you grow, not try to change who you are. Make sure it feels like a good fit for you.
Don’t get too excited about everything – When you’re starting out, everything might look awesome, but not every opportunity is the right fit for you.
Build your portfolio, but choose carefully – Yes, portfolio work is important, but who you work with matters just as much. The right people can open doors for you.
Learn to say no – Saying no is part of protecting yourself. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to turn it down.
Don’t be afraid to leave – If the brand doesn’t give you that “homey” feeling or respect your boundaries, run for the hills—like, right now! Your peace matters.
Pay attention to how they make you feel – If they don’t make you feel valued or at ease, it’s time to walk away.
Bottom Line
The more you love and trust yourself, the less likely you are to end up in situations where you’re being used. Your gut will always pick up on bad vibes—it won’t let you ignore them. You just have to trust that feeling and speak up when something’s off. If they can say whatever they want to you, why can’t you speak your truth too? Don’t let the fear of missing out on opportunities stop you from using your voice. The right opportunities will come when you stand firm in what you believe. Ask yourself: Are you going to be part of the problem, or part of the solution?
Huge thanks to our incredible creative team! This month, as we focus on love and share tips for navigating the world around us, we couldn’t have done it without you all.
In a small town, nothing stays secret for long—especially when every conversation is a thread in a web of rumours, alliances, and hidden motives. One casual chat at lunch can set off a chain reaction that spirals out of control. You might not even know it’s happening, but trust me—someone is watching, listening, and waiting for their moment to use it to their advantage.
Talk to Kim after work. Kim’s sister? She’s the one who “stalks” you on Instagram but acts like you’re invisible in public. And in the blink of an eye, what started as a simple exchange can become ammunition in a battle you didn’t even know you were fighting.
In a small town like this, it’s not just about who you know—it’s about who’s using you, and who’s about to turn the tables.
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Click, Flash – Screenshot. Did you forget the trail you left behind? It’s curious how quickly admiration can shift when it’s easier to rewrite the story. Did you forget how much you loved it?
One moment, It’s admiration and validation; the next, denial and shifting.
Here’s the thing: People’s perceptions of you are fluid—and often, they aren’t about you at all. They’re about the context, the relationships, and the insecurities others project onto you. That’s why one day you’re the hero, and the next, you’re a ghost.
So, how do you deal with it? First, don’t internalize the shift. Admiration and validation may feel good, but they are external factors, and they don’t define your worth. Secondly, don’t chase the approval of others. Instead, find validation within yourself. When the pendulum swings from admiration to denial, the only person who can truly validate you is you.
Why Some People Want You to Chase Them –
1.) It Feeds Their Ego: When someone knows you’re chasing them, it makes them feel good about themselves. They feel important and wanted, which boosts their confidence and self-esteem.
2.) They Enjoy the Game: For some, the chase itself is exciting. Keeping you interested and unsure makes them feel powerful. It adds drama and keeps things interesting for them.
3.) They’re Afraid of Being Vulnerable: Some people keep you chasing because they’re afraid to get too close or open up. By keeping their distance, they protect themselves from getting hurt or rejected.
4.) They Want Control: By having you chase them, they stay in control of the relationship. They decide when to be close and when to pull away, which can make them feel secure.
Using Others for Growth (From a Healthy Perspective)
1.)Use others as a mirror to build self-worth When someone makes you chase them, it’s an opportunity to reflect on your own sense of self-worth. Instead of seeking validation from them, you can use this experience to remind yourself that your value comes from within, not from someone else’s approval.
2.)Use emotional detachment to gain perspective Chasing someone can make you emotionally entangled. Use this situation to practice detachment, learning to care for people without letting their actions control your emotional state. By detaching, you gain more clarity and control over your feelings.
3.) Use the opportunity to master emotional control When you’re in a chase, emotions can run high—frustration, insecurity, or doubt. Use these moments to practice emotional control! Learning to stay calm and centered, no matter the circumstances. This strengthens your emotional resilience and helps you respond rather than react.
Fun Ways to Celebrate Your Growth After Overcoming the Chase
Throw a “Victory” Party (Just for You)
Sometimes the best celebrations are solo.
Movie marathon: Watch your favourite feel-good movies or binge-watch a series you’ve been putting off.
Dance party: Put on your favourite playlist and dance around your living room like no one’s watching. Let loose and celebrate your freedom.
Guilt-free treat: Order your favourite meal or dessert (ice cream, pizza, sushi—whatever feels like a treat) and savour it.
Follow along for more insider tips on how to become the most upgraded version of yourself—whether it’s mastering emotional control, setting healthy boundaries, or learning to love yourself more fully.
In a world where opportunities often disguise themselves, it’s easy to mistake that self serving drive—an ego chasing validation – for true growth. When someone enters your space with smooth words but a hollow intent, it’s time to ask yourself: Why are they using me? And why can’t they create what they desire on their own? This story explores the line between trust and exploitation, between real inspiration and those who come only to take.
In a neon-lit city, where creativity thrived and innovation pulsed through the streets, there was a shop unlike any other. It wasn’t just a place to buy—it was a space where energy and inspiration merged, each piece crafted with a depth and authenticity that people could feel the moment they walked in. The owner, a woman who could shift her form as fluidly as the city’s ever changing pulse, infused the shop with her spirit. Some days, it felt organic, calm, with soft lighting and natural lines; other days, it was bold and electric, filled with sharp angles and vivid colours. The shop reflected her—always adapting, but always alive with creativity.
One day, a figure entered. They were sleek, dressed in clothes that seemed to shift with each movement, their gaze sharp and penetrating. When their eyes met hers, there was something unsettling about it. It wasn’t curiosity or warmth—it was cold, calculating, filled with a quiet pride, as if they knew more than she did. But, she reminded herself to trust, to open her heart as she had been asked to do. Maybe this was the connection she had been waiting for.
The figure spoke of collaboration—of blending visions, of creating something bigger than both of them. Their words were smooth, their tone confident. For a moment, the shopkeeper allowed herself to believe it was a connection she could grow with. She shared the heart of her work, the long hours, the passion, the risk that made every creation real. She opened herself to the possibility, hoping it could help the vision evolve.
Days later, a new shop appeared on the same street. At first, she thought nothing of it, but as she looked closer, something felt wrong. The designs, the colours, the energy…it was all too familiar. Her heart dropped. The figure hadn’t come to collaborate—they had come to steal. They had used her heart to take what wasn’t theirs and twist it into something hollow, serving ego.
The whispers spread quickly. The new shop was sleek and polished – The designs were the same, the energy was the same, but it lacked the soul. The authenticity that made her creations come alive was gone, felt to be replaced by a surface-level imitation.
But the shopkeeper didn’t linger on it for long. As soon as the realization hit, something inside her shifted. It was like a veil had lifted, and she finally understood: creativity wasn’t something you could steal. It wasn’t a commodity to be taken, repackaged, and sold. It was a pulse—a living force that couldn’t be replicated.
And so, she changed. She shape-shifted—not just in form, but in spirit. She moved on, slipping away from the city that tried to capture her essence. No one could find her now, no one could trace the source of her inspiration. She was gone—fading like a shadow, always ahead, always shifting.
Her work, however, lived on untouched, untraceable. The city could attempt to copy, to mimic, but they would never find the spark that made it real. The true source of her creativity was forever hidden, constantly evolving, just out of reach.
The advice behind this story is about recognizing when someone is trying to take advantage of you and how to avoid it. Here’s how you can protect yourself:
Ask Questions: If someone wants something from you, ask them questions about what they really want. Genuine people will have specific answers. Those looking to take advantage will give vague or general responses.
Trust Your Own Voice: Don’t judge someone by their title or what others say about them. Focus on who they are to you. Your own experience with them matters more than anyone else’s opinion.
Stay Open but Guarded: Be willing to connect with others, but also know when to step back. Not every person or opportunity is worth your time. Rotten fruit falls on its own—you don’t need to waste your energy trying to fix it.
In short, trust your instincts, ask the right questions, and don’t let others use you. Stay true to yourself and let people prove their worth.
Clout chasers, fakes, and foes— Who’s real, and who’s just waiting to be exposed? Only you know, with those words that trigger, Maybe it’s time for you to look a little deeper.
Creative Team
A big thank you to everyone who made this vision come to life. Your talent and hard work made all the difference.
Makeup and Hair: Rayna and her team @estheticzbrayna, you worked magic to create the perfect looks.
Photography: @okanganportraits, your shots captured the essence of the shoot beautifully.
Media and Social Management: Zeal Social Management, thanks for handling the digital side and helping us share the project with the world.
Set and Makeup Concept: @_ge0de, your creativity set the tone and brought everything together.
Model: Kirat @kirat_d, your energy and presence brought the concept to life in ways we couldn’t have imagined.
This set of images in this collection was inspired by the raw, unapologetic journey of reclaiming yourself through music, movement, and love. A journey that doesn’t ask for permission, but demands to be seen, heard, and felt.
In a dark room, 8-16, she sat alone, the pulse of LED lights and the weight of bass surrounding her. Outside, the world was chaos—anger, confusion, her mom’s voice always telling her she wasn’t enough. But in here, she found something real.
With the music blasting, heart racing, she let go of the past. No longer crushed under her stepdad’s rage, or the weight of her mom’s whispered shame. The yelling, the names—gone. She screamed, releasing it all—the hurt, the pressure, the suffocating expectations.
She let go of the need to be anything they told her to be. No more guilt. No more ego pulling her down. Just the sound, the freedom, the space to breathe.
She remembered what it was like to dance without fear—weightless, free, untouchable. That was her power. No matter how loud the world got, no matter how much they tried to break her, she wouldn’t fall.
In the darkest moments, there’s always a light waiting. And in that light, she found the strength to rise, heal, and love herself. Because when you finally love yourself, nothing—not her mom’s voice, not her past—can keep you down.
Here’s the advice:
Dance like a child—without weight, without fear.
Check out of the negativity at the door.
Trust the messages you receive, whether they come from your own heart or from the ancestors who guide you. They are always with you.
Give to yourself, and you will be able to give to others. What you give willingly will always come back to you threefold.
Know that the hardest times will pass. It might not feel like it now, but the pain will fade like the music.
And when the world feels like it’s working against you, don’t let it win. Stand tall, be strong, and let them see who you are.
Love is the antidote to everything. It expands, it heals, and it aligns. The more you love yourself, the more you spread that love to the world. There is no room for negativity when you are fully aligned with the power of love. It’s in this space that you grow, and as you grow, you naturally become the change you wish to see in the world.
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So, if you feel like you’re at the edge, screaming in silence, remember: You are never alone. Your story isn’t over yet. The music is still playing, and the dance of life is waiting for you to step into it, fully and fearlessly.
Follow along for more stories, tips, and ways to reclaim your power.
Behind the Scenes: The Creative Team
This project wouldn’t have come to life without the incredible talent behind the scenes. Here’s the dream team that brought it all together:
Makeup & Hair: Rayna and her team @estheticzbrayna
Photographer: @okanaganportraits
Media & Social Management: Zeal Social Management
Set & Makeup Concept: @_ge0de
Model: @shivana_22 (ZealUnity Model Community)
While the stunning visuals feature the work of our talented model, this story isn’t about her—it’s about the message she helped bring to life. This is a story for anyone who’s ever felt the weight of expectation, the chaos of the world pressing down, and the power that comes with reclaiming your voice and space. The message is universal, and Shivana was the perfect canvas to express it.
A huge thank you to everyone who brought their energy and creativity to this project!
With 2025 just around the corner, we find ourselves at a crucial halfway point in the 2020s—a moment ripe for reflection and recognition of the style icons who’ve shaped this era. While fashion may never stand still, it’s clear that this decade is rewriting the rules in powerful and resonant ways, often blurring the lines between runway and street, gender norms, and sustainability. From daring trendsetters to cultural movements, these style leaders have left a mark that goes far beyond clothing—it’s a cultural renaissance redefining how we express who we are.
The Cultural Rebels: Breaking Gender Norms
In the early years of the 2020s, fashion became a battleground for cultural shifts around gender fluidity and inclusivity. Few figures embodied this evolution as powerfully as Billy Porter, a performer whose fashion choices are nothing short of revolutionary. From the moment he stepped onto the 2019 Oscars red carpet in a tuxedo gown designed by Christian Siriano, Porter has used fashion to challenge stereotypes and provoke dialogue. His blend of masculinity and femininity in theatrical, boundary-pushing ensembles has turned every red-carpet appearance into a statement piece—a moment to be dissected, admired, and reinterpreted by a global audience.
Porter’s influence extends far beyond the fabrics he wears; he’s a vocal advocate for self-expression, LGBTQ+ rights, and dismantling traditional gender norms in every facet of life. Whether it’s a billowing cape, sequined suit, or a corseted gown, Porter consistently transforms fashion into a platform for empowerment and social change. By showcasing how clothing can reflect fluidity and fearlessness, Porter has inspired designers and audiences alike to embrace their true selves unapologetically.
Harry Styles, meanwhile, has echoed this ethos by incorporating feminine touches into traditionally masculine looks, appearing on the cover of Vogue in a flowing gown. Styles’ approach to blending sartorial elements demonstrates the power of subversion and self-expression, particularly for younger generations exploring their own identities.
Adding to this cultural revolution is Billie Eilish, whose early penchant for oversized streetwear rejected the hypersexualization of women in the public eye. As her style evolved, Eilish demonstrated how personal expression can shift, embracing more fitted red-carpet attire while maintaining her trademark edge. Together, these icons have turned fashion into a canvas for dialogue, self-empowerment, and transformation.
The Streetwear Renaissance: Virgil Abloh and His Legacy
Any retrospective on the 2020s would be incomplete without acknowledging Virgil Abloh, who tragically passed away in 2021 but left an indelible mark on fashion. As the first Black artistic director of Louis Vuitton’s menswear and founder of Off-White, Abloh’s influence redefined luxury fashion through streetwear’s lens. He created a world where sneakers meet couture and hoodies rub shoulders with fine tailoring—where fashion’s boundaries blur, and accessibility meets aspiration.
Abloh’s collaborations with Nike, Ikea, and artists like Kanye West reshaped not only the fashion landscape but also the culture at large. His signature quotation-mark branding, irreverent approach, and commitment to uplifting Black creatives inspired a new generation of designers, ensuring that his vision continues to reverberate across runways and city streets.
K-pop’s Fashion Takeover
The 2020s have witnessed a global wave of K-pop influence, which extends far beyond music and dance. K-pop idols like BLACKPINK’s Lisa, BTS’s J-Hope, and EXO’s Kai have become fashion icons in their own right, commanding front-row seats at major fashion weeks and inking collaborations with high-profile brands. Their fearless approach to fashion—mixing streetwear with luxury couture and gender-blurring ensembles—has cemented their status as global style icons.
The reach of K-pop stars is nothing short of massive; their influence transcends borders, introducing millions of fans to new styles and pushing brands to evolve alongside the genre’s diverse and highly engaged fan base. With partnerships with luxury labels like Chanel, Gucci, and Louis Vuitton, K-pop idols have redefined what it means to be a celebrity fashion influencer, leveraging their visibility to blend tradition with modernity.
Sustainability Stars: Leading the Green Revolution
As the climate crisis escalated, sustainable fashion moved from a niche concern to the heart of the industry’s discourse. Enter Stella McCartney, whose advocacy for animal-free, eco-friendly fashion predates the 2020s but whose influence crescendoed during this period. She has become a symbol of high-fashion sustainability, pushing for innovative fabrics and circular fashion models while maintaining luxury aesthetics.
Gabriela Hearst, another key figure, brought sustainability to the runway with elegant minimalism, using deadstock fabrics and promoting transparency in production. Her work at Chloé cemented her status as a leader in green fashion, proving that elegance and eco-consciousness are not mutually exclusive.
Digital Couture: The Rise of Virtual Influencers and Meta Fashion
In a decade where technology transformed every facet of our lives, fashion was no exception. Virtual influencers like Lil Miquela, a computer-generated model, rose to prominence and blurred the lines between reality and digital fantasy. Digital fashion, NFTs, and meta-fashion houses emerged, creating a parallel universe where style knows no physical limits.
The rise of virtual fashion shows during the COVID-19 pandemic accelerated this transformation. Designers like Balenciaga’s Demna embraced the virtual world, creating immersive digital experiences that captivated global audiences and cemented the role of tech in modern fashion storytelling.
Celebrating Inclusivity: The Era of Diversity
The 2020s marked a seismic shift in fashion’s relationship with inclusivity. Style icons such as Paloma Elsesser, a trailblazing plus-size model, and Precious Lee, another advocate for body diversity, shattered outdated beauty standards and brought representation to the forefront. This decade has celebrated different body shapes, sizes, and backgrounds, moving toward a more inclusive and empowering industry.
Designers like Prabal Gurung and Christian Siriano consistently showcased collections that honored diversity and spoke to the need for representation in all aspects of fashion, from runway to retail.
The Signature Style Icons
Among the standout personalities is Zendaya, whose red-carpet prowess has earned her status as a true fashion chameleon. Whether channeling Old Hollywood glamor or embracing bold, futuristic designs, Zendaya exemplifies fashion’s power to tell a story. With Law Roach as her stylist, she’s reshaped what it means to be a young, fearless style icon.
Another prominent figure is Timothée Chalamet, whose effortless blend of high-fashion tailoring, streetwear elements, and gender-blurring silhouettes has made him a style touchstone for the decade’s youth. Together, these icons embody the freedom and fluidity that define 2020s style.
Moving Toward 2025: What’s Next?
As we stand at the halfway mark of this defining decade, one thing is certain: the fashion standards of the 2020s are still being written, deconstructed, and reimagined. We’ve moved beyond the binary, embraced sustainability, and redefined luxury and streetwear. The next five years will bring new challenges, voices, and visions, but the commitment to authenticity, creativity, and inclusivity is here to stay.
The fashion icons of today are more than style arbiters; they’re cultural architects shaping the world we live in. As we approach 2025, their influence will continue to inspire and redefine how we see ourselves and the clothes we wear. So keep your eyes on the runways, red carpets, and streets—because the style revolution of the 2020s is just getting started.
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Vogue Magazine Articles and interviews featuring Harry Styles, Billy Porter, Zendaya, and Timothée Chalamet’s impact on modern fashion. www.vogue.com
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It wasn’t too long ago that the phrase “sustainable fashion” conjured up images of crunchy fabrics and shapeless frocks—stuff you’d find at a farmers market, not Paris Fashion Week. But like a storm that no one saw coming, the climate crisis slammed the brakes on fashion’s fast lane, forcing the industry to reckon with its oversized carbon footprint and a thirst for excess. Now, a new wave of designers, brands, and yes, even consumers, are steering the world’s most glamorous business toward something sexier: sustainability.
In a world where “trending” often has the shelf life of a TikTok dance, this is no fleeting movement. It’s a full-blown culture shift, one stitched with sustainable materials, ethical practices, and a love affair with upcycling. It’s where fashion goes green—not just in color but in purpose.
Stitching Together a New Story: The Material Makeover
Let’s talk fabric. Traditional textiles, like polyester and conventional cotton, are straight-up toxic for Mother Earth. Polyester? It’s basically spun petroleum, taking centuries to decompose and shedding microplastics with every wash. Cotton? Sure, it’s natural, but it’s a water-guzzling, pesticide-laden monster. So what’s a designer to do? The answer lies in reinvention, and that’s where sustainable materials come in hot.
Take organic cotton. No chemicals, way less water. The Textile Exchange reports it slashes water usage by as much as 91% compared to its thirsty conventional cousin. But cotton’s just the tip of the hemp leaf. Brands like Patagonia have long waved the eco-flag with hemp and linen—both hardy, low-water-use plants. There’s also Pangaia, the buzzy label behind minimalist hoodies made from seaweed fiber and recycled cotton. These aren’t your grandma’s knitting projects; they’re sleek, durable, and designed to turn heads.
But if you really want to talk innovation, look no further than recycled materials. Turning trash into treasure isn’t just a trope—it’s high fashion. Adidas and their “Parley for the Oceans” line are proof that beach-cleaning plastic can look damn good when reimagined into sneakers. The idea? Wear your impact on your feet, and kick some eco-ignorance to the curb.
Ethical Practices: No More Sweatshops in the Shadows
For decades, the industry’s dirty little secret was its people. Garment workers slaving away for a pittance, factories with working conditions straight out of a dystopian novel. But the tide is turning. The ethical fashion movement is pulling back the veil and demanding fairness, transparency, and humane working conditions.
Take Everlane, whose mantra might as well be “transparency or bust.” They map out their entire supply chain for curious shoppers, showing exactly where each piece of clothing was born and stitched. It’s not just about fair wages or safe factories; it’s about giving the makers their moment in the spotlight. Because real style isn’t just about looking good; it’s about doing good.
Slow fashion is another beacon in the ethical revolution. Think fewer collections, higher quality, timeless pieces. Stella McCartney, a pioneer of the movement, shows that ethical fashion doesn’t have to sacrifice style. Her collections are cruelty-free, favoring faux leather and regenerated cashmere. It’s a middle finger to fast fashion, telling shoppers to invest in pieces that outlast the next Instagram trend.
Upcycling: Turning Yesterday’s Clothes Into Tomorrow’s Must-Haves
Upcycling has taken the fashion world by storm. Unlike recycling—which breaks down materials—upcycling is all about taking old clothes and transforming them into something new and fabulous. It’s DIY at its peak, an art form that’s shaking up even the most exclusive runways.
Luxury house Maison Margiela gets it. Their Artisanal collection reimagines old garments into couture pieces. The process isn’t just green; it’s genius-level creativity. Smaller brands like Re/Done have built an entire empire out of upcycling vintage denim, turning worn-out jeans into covetable streetwear. It’s high fashion that’s both cool and conscious, proving that sustainability can have serious swagger.
But it’s not just designers jumping on the upcycle train. DIY culture is thriving. Pinterest boards are brimming with projects showing how to repurpose that old concert tee or the jacket you almost threw out. Personal style meets sustainability—and the earth heaves a sigh of relief.
Designers Leading the Charge—and Taking Us With Them
Names like Stella McCartney whos SS24 collection has been crafted from 95% conscious materials, making it the most sustainable collection Stella McCartney has ever released. Eileen Fisher, and Vivienne Westwood are pushing boundaries, making sustainability sexy. But it’s not just about a few fashion-forward leaders. Entire companies are buying in. Kering—the luxury powerhouse behind Gucci and Balenciaga—has pledged to slash emissions and create a circular economy. Meanwhile, high-street brands like Zara and H&M have launched “Conscious Collections,” although skeptics warn that not every green label is as virtuous as it seems. Enter the term “greenwashing”—the trend’s dirty flip side. It’s a reminder that transparency is everything.
And then, there’s the indie scene. Startups like Rent the Runway are rewriting consumption. Why buy what you can borrow? Their rental service lets you rock designer fits for a fraction of the cost, and when you’re done, it gets cleaned, prepped, and re-loaned, reducing waste and making luxury fashion more accessible.
Consumers: The New Gatekeepers of Fashion
It’s easy to point fingers at the industry, but the real shift starts with us—the buyers. Conscious consumerism is more than a trend; it’s a powerful demand for better choices. By choosing sustainable pieces, supporting ethical brands, and saying “hell no” to fast fashion’s excess, consumers are creating change. They’re sending the message that sustainability isn’t just “nice to have”; it’s non-negotiable.
Movements like “Buy Less, Choose Well” champion curated wardrobes full of timeless, well-made pieces. The message is clear: Quality beats quantity. Repair that ripped seam, donate what you don’t wear, or find a clothing swap. Every choice makes a difference.
Conclusion: Fashion’s Future Is Green, and It Looks Good
The fashion world is standing at a crossroads. Down one path lies business as usual: overproduction, waste, pollution. Down the other? Sustainability, creativity, responsibility. With sustainable materials, ethical practices, and upcycling, the industry is slowly but surely pivoting toward a more conscious future.
This isn’t a trend. It’s a revolution, a wake-up call, and a battle cry for change. So wear your values, make noise, and demand more. Because when fashion gets it right, it’s not just clothes—it’s a movement.
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Patagonia’s Sustainability Practices Information on sustainable materials like hemp and organic cotton in Patagonia’s products. www.patagonia.com
Adidas x Parley for the Oceans Initiative Details about using recycled ocean plastics in sportswear. www.adidas.com/parley
Everlane – Ethical Fashion Supply Chain Transparency Documentation and transparency efforts in fashion manufacturing. www.everlane.com/transparency
Maison Margiela’s Artisanal Collection Insights into luxury upcycling and sustainable couture. www.maisonmargiela.com
Stella McCartney’s Sustainability Commitments Focus on cruelty-free fashion and circularity. www.stellamccartney.com
