There is a particular kind of artist who does not arrive all at once. They are there in the room for years, writing the hooks, lending the voice, sharpening the pen, learning where the bodies are buried. Then suddenly, when the conditions are finally theirs, they step forward and the world acts surprised. RAYE is one of those artists.
Born Rachel Agatha Keen in South London, RAYE has always sounded like someone with more lives than the industry knew what to do with. Her voice carries the polish of a pop professional, but underneath it is something older and more bruised: jazz phrasing, gospel ache, R&B confession, blues melodrama, big-band theatre, the kind of emotional precision that makes a lyric feel half-sung, half-survived. She can glide across a dance record, then turn around and deliver a line like she is standing under a single spotlight with nothing left to hide.
Before the awards, before the standing ovations, before the myth of RAYE as Britain’s independent pop miracle, there was the songwriter. Signed young, working hard, present but not centered, she became one of those names tucked into credits before many listeners knew her face. She wrote for and around the machinery of pop, contributing to songs for major artists while also appearing on glossy dance singles that put her voice into clubs and charts. It was not that she was invisible. It was worse: she was visible in fragments.
That tension — being used, heard, but not fully allowed — is central to understanding her rise. RAYE was signed to Polydor as a teenager, but her debut album was delayed for years. In 2021, after publicly expressing frustration that she could not release a full-length project, she left the label and became independent. Her debut album, My 21st Century Blues, finally arrived in 2023 through Human Re Sources, and it sounded like someone opening every locked room at once.
The album was not neat, and that was the point. It moved through addiction, assault, body dysmorphia, industry sexism, heartbreak, self-disgust, survival, and glamour with the intensity of a woman who had been told to edit herself for too long. On “Hard Out Here,” she sharpened her frustration into a manifesto. On “Ice Cream Man,” she turned trauma into a devastating act of testimony. And on “Escapism.”, featuring 070 Shake, she made a hit out of collapse: a woozy, nocturnal spiral of alcohol, bad choices, revenge, numbness, and the awful clarity that comes after trying to outrun yourself.
That song changed everything. “Escapism.” became RAYE’s first UK number one single in January 2023, a victory made more potent by the fact that it happened after she had left the traditional label structure that had failed to deliver her debut. It was not a sanitized empowerment anthem. It was messy, funny, ugly, seductive, exhausted. It sounded like the inside of a bad night and the morning after. Pop often asks women to turn pain into something pretty. RAYE made it theatrical, but she did not make it polite.
Her lyrics work because they refuse to flatten contradiction. She is glamorous and ashamed, devastated and hilarious, wounded and vain, spiritual and deeply human. She writes like someone who understands that survival is rarely graceful in real time. There is a bluntness to her language that cuts through the lushness of the arrangements. She does not hide behind abstraction. She names the feeling, then performs around it, over it, through it, until the song becomes both confession and costume.
By the time the 2024 BRIT Awards arrived, the industry could no longer treat RAYE as a side character in her own story. She won six awards in one night — including Artist of the Year, Album of the Year for My 21st Century Blues, Song of the Year for “Escapism.”, Best New Artist, Best R&B Act, and Songwriter of the Year — setting a new record for the most BRIT wins by an artist in a single ceremony. The image was almost too perfect: an independent artist, once held back by the system, standing on its biggest stage and leaving with her arms full.
But the most interesting thing about RAYE is not that she won. It is what she chose to do with the freedom that followed.
Her second album, THIS MUSIC MAY CONTAIN HOPE., released in March 2026, expands her world rather than shrinking it to fit the streaming era. At 17 tracks and over 70 minutes, the record is ambitious, cinematic, emotionally oversized, and deliberately resistant to the idea that modern pop must be brief, minimal, and algorithmically smooth. It moves through jazz, soul, blues, orchestral pop, big band, house, spoken-word passages, and old-Hollywood grandeur, treating the album less like a playlist and more like a staged emotional epic.
The title is important: this music may contain hope. Not certainty. Not happiness. Not healing packaged as a clean brand message. Hope. The fragile, inconvenient kind. The kind that comes after self-destruction, after public doubt, after romantic wreckage, after admitting you are not okay and still deciding to sing.
The album’s lead single, “WHERE IS MY HUSBAND!”, is RAYE at her most knowingly dramatic: big, brassy, comic, theatrical, and desperate in quotation marks and exclamation points. It plays with old-school ideas of longing and romantic fantasy, but there is a wink in the performance. RAYE is too self-aware to simply play the damsel. She becomes the narrator, the character, the chorus girl, the woman in the mirror, and the woman laughing at the mirror all at once.
Then there is “Nightingale Lane.”, a more sweeping, orchestral moment that leans into her ability to make a song feel like a memory turning into cinema. RAYE’s best work often has this quality: she sings as if she is not just remembering an event, but restaging it in higher definition, adding strings, smoke, and a spotlight because the truth deserves production value.
Her collaboration with Hans Zimmer on “Click Clack Symphony.” feels like the clearest statement of where RAYE wants to go next. Zimmer, whose name is synonymous with cinematic scale, gives the song an orchestral weight that matches RAYE’s flair for drama. But the track is not simply “pop star gets film composer.” It works because RAYE already writes like a director. Her songs have blocking, costume, lighting, character, scene changes. Zimmer does not make her world bigger so much as reveal that it was already built for the big screen. The single was released ahead of the album in March 2026 and pairs contemporary pop movement with symphonic arrangement, turning the sound of heels — the titular click-clack — into a rhythm of re-entry, of a woman stepping back into life.
That is the deeper arc of RAYE’s career: not just independence as a business model, but independence as authorship. Owning the masters matters. Leaving the label matters. Proving the executives wrong matters. But the artistic independence is even more interesting. RAYE is no longer trying to choose between dance vocalist, soul singer, pop writer, jazz student, survivor, diva, or diarist. She is all of them, sometimes in the same song.
In an industry that often rewards artists for becoming easier to categorize, RAYE has become more excessive, more emotional, more musically literate, more herself. Her recent work does not smooth out the contradictions that made My 21st Century Blues compelling. It gives them an orchestra.
RAYE’s rise is often framed as revenge, and in some ways it is. But revenge is too small a word for what she is building. Revenge looks backward. RAYE is looking forward, even when she is singing from the wound. Her story is not simply that she escaped the machine. It is that once she did, she built a stage large enough for every version of herself that the machine could not hold.
A reflection on choosing yourself, pulling back, and asking where the line between healing and hiding really is.
Credits Photographer: Autumn, Zeal Social Management — @am.media_ Edited: In-house, Zeal Social Management Model: Sydney, ZealUnity @Sydneyy.maye
The Valentine’s Question
Valentine’s Day is usually loud with flowers, dates, and the idea that love has to be shared with someone else. But what happens when someone chooses themselves instead?
Self-love is celebrated everywhere… boundaries, routines, protecting your peace…. but sometimes it raises an uncomfortable question:
Can self love become self protection that keeps love out?
This isn’t about right or wrong. It’s about reflection.
Learning to Stay In
When self love starts feeling like a safe place to hide
When she was young, things felt simple. You go out, you smile, you act like everything is fine. You come home with no need to complain, no need to reflect, no need to just be. Life itself felt like it was made to keep you happy.
But as she grew older something shifted.
She started noticing more. Going out felt heavier. Louder. Bigger. The way people looked at each other, the tones in their voices, the small moments that suddenly meant something.
It scared her.
Was this what the world had always been like?
Being quiet began to feel safer than participating. Watching felt easier than joining in.
But quiet did not just protect her. It changed her.
She began observing instead of living. Judging instead of connecting. Questions filled her mind.
Does he talk like that at home too? Why do people feel so harsh?
She would come home tired, not from doing, but from feeling everything too deeply.
Day by day the world felt less colourful. So she stayed in more.
Her bed. Her kitchen. Her phone.
She told herself it was self care. Self love. That word was everywhere. On Pinterest boards, aesthetic posts, soft quotes that told her she did not need anyone.
She could take care of herself. She did not need a partner. She did not need friends who thought differently. She did not need conversations that challenged her.
Everything felt softer alone.
Slowly, without realizing it, she stopped reaching outward. She forgot what it felt like to interact freely, to be seen, to feel messy and real.
The more she stayed in, the more she believed she was protecting herself. The more she believed she was right.
Until she noticed something changing.
Her voice felt smaller. Her energy quieter. Even her body felt tired.
How do you go out again when you have taught yourself to stay in?
How do you reconnect when your world gets smaller by choice?
Somewhere in the quiet, self love began to whisper.
You do not need anyone. Stay here. You are safest alone.
✨ Reflection Questions
When did peace start feeling like distance? Do you go out to connect or just to observe? Has comfort ever made your world smaller? When was the last time you felt truly seen?
🖤 Mini Quiz
Resting or Retreating?
Check what feels honest right now.
☐ I cancel plans even when part of me wants to go ☐ Staying home feels easier than being perceived ☐ I call it self care when I avoid discomfort ☐ I feel safe alone but sometimes stuck
Mostly yes? You may be protecting your peace, or slowly stepping away from life.
…
🎯 Fun Reflection Check
Finish the sentence honestly:
“I tell myself I’m staying in because ______.”
(No wrong answers — just honesty.)
Brave or Selfish?
One day, the sun came up, the music blasting, and breakfast was cooking. A simple text appeared, and a thought nudged her mind: What could I be doing?
Instead of hiding, instead of worrying who would be there or what might go wrong, she felt a restlessness, a spark that pulled her along.
Let’s go, let’s be merry, let’s be fun, she sang to herself as the morning begun.
Inside, she felt the glow of her own growth. She knew herself now, had worked, had grown, had become, someone who didn’t need anyone to validate her, but this wasn’t about needing… this was about living.
Let life surprise you. Let the wind hum, not the fan. Show your beauty to the world, to the women around, or to a man. Don’t look for something to fill you. Be part of the dance, show yourself off, step in the light, give life a chance.
Walk through the city with dreams in the air. Let your hair down, don’t worry about the stare. Who cares if you are seen, exposed, imperfect, unplanned? Life is not a test, you do not need to stand so grand.
You are unperfect, scared, but brave. Show your colours: bold, playful, unaware, and save yourself the judgement, the ill will, the scorn. Say thank you to the world for the courage reborn.
Sing from the rooftops, love near and far. Everything is made to be yours where you are. You do not need to carry it all, just step outside, answer life’s call.
And when the sky darkens, when the rain comes down, when people mock or stare in town, remember to give thanks for the strength to step out anyway, for the courage to laugh, for the courage to play.
On the way back, through trains, under the evening sky, love yourself, be happy, let your spirit fly. Play your music, savour your food, dance with the cat, howl under the moon, curl up cozy, leave nothing flat.
Love yourself with tea and chocolate, soft and sweet, you are safe forever, my dear, complete. You will always have your own heart, your own light, to carry you boldly through the darkest sleep.
✨ Reflection Prompts
When was the last time I stepped outside my comfort zone and felt alive?
What small joys today can I embrace without worrying what others think?
How can I show my colours boldly, even if it scares me?
Where am I still hiding and how can I gently step out?
🖤 Mini Quiz — Brave or Comfortable?
Check what feels true today:
☐ I let myself go out, even a little, despite fear ☐ I sing or dance just for myself ☐ I notice beauty in small moments and let it fill me ☐ I share my joy with someone else, even briefly
Mostly yes? You are stepping into bravery. You are learning that life is not about hiding or needing approval…. it is about being present, playful, and alive.
💌 Happy Valentine’s Day! We hope you have an extra special day today and always. Love you lots, and remember…..it’s okay to let go, breathe, and just be.
Ready to glow up in 2026? This year is all about discovering your best self inside and out. Find out if clean girl makeup is still in, uncover your perfect beauty routine, and learn the best skin health tips, DIY products, and hair care hacks that actually work. We will show you how to plan your social media posts so your content shines as much as you do. Take fun quizzes to discover your vibe, check your horoscope to see what the stars have in store, and see if 2026 will actually feel like 2016 again. Plus you could win a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop. Grab your coffee and dive in….your ultimate 2026 glow up starts now.
Styled by Caoxciao Media by ZealSocialManagement – Media Member Autumn Edited in house Models Zealunity Community: Snow, Kirat, Olivia, Jenayah, Sydney BTS by Jenayah Brand Features Caoxciao and ShopNoon.shop
Inside This Guide You Will Find:
🌟 Fun quizzes to discover your 2026 vibe
✨ Clean girl makeup trends and how to perfect your routine
💆♀️ Skin health tips, DIY products, and self-care hacks
💇♀️ Hair care tricks everyone is talking about
📱 Social media posting plans that actually work
🔮 Horoscopes and star predictions for 2026
🎁 Giveaways including a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop
❓ Poll: Will 2026 actually feel like 2016 again?
🔥 2026 is Coming in Hot…..Are You Ready to Glow Up?
This year is not just about trends or aesthetics. It is about finding your voice, standing strong and finally figuring out who you really are.
Do not let anyone else’s opinions, outdated rules or harsh narratives tell you what to feel or who to be. Your 2026 glow up starts with being grounded, unapologetic and fully in your power.
It is about claiming your space, defining your standards and shining in ways that are 100 percent you. No distractions, no judgements, no limits.
Let us walk through this together and make 2026 the year of your ultimate glow up.
🌟 Quiz: What’s Your 2026 Glow Up Vibe?
Take these three fun quizzes to find out your 2026 glow up style
🎉 Here is your ideal routine based on what you chose!
A) Slow and dreamy ☀️
7:00 AM – Wake up naturally with sunlight or soft alarm
7:10 AM – Gentle stretching or yoga
7:30 AM – Meditation or deep breathing
7:50 AM – Brew and sip tea slowly
8:10 AM – Journal thoughts, dreams, or intentions
8:30 AM – Soft skincare and cozy outfit
B) Bold and energizing ⚡
6:30 AM – Wake up with upbeat music
6:35 AM – Quick cardio or HIIT session
7:00 AM – Refresh with shower and bold skincare
7:15 AM – Eye-catching makeup and style
7:30 AM – Power breakfast or smoothie
7:45 AM – Jump into the day feeling electric
C) Soft and simple 🌸
7:30 AM – Wake up slowly, natural light
7:35 AM – Wash face, apply moisturizer
7:45 AM – Brew coffee or tea
7:50 AM – Minimal makeup (tinted moisturizer, mascara)
8:00 AM – Pick a cute, comfortable outfit
8:15 AM – Light breakfast while scrolling or journaling
D) Boss babe mode 💼
6:00 AM – Wake up, hydrate immediately
6:05 AM – Quick email or task check
6:20 AM – Workout or energizing stretch
6:50 AM – Shower and professional skincare
7:10 AM – Efficient makeup and outfit prep
7:30 AM – Review to-do list and plan priorities
7:45 AM – Breakfast while reviewing goals for the day
Question 2: Which do you prefer: Bold makeup or Natural looks?
📅 Here is your social media posting plan made just for the energy you are bringing into 2026!
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💆♀️ Skin Health, DIY Products and Hacks That Work
DIY masks: Honey and oat scrubs for natural exfoliation
Hydration: Drink water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type
Weekly resets: Face steam or gentle exfoliation once a week
Consistency is key: Small daily habits beat sporadic spa days
2. Avocado & Yogurt Hydrating Mask
Best for: Dry or tired skin
Ingredients:
½ ripe avocado
2 tablespoons plain yogurt
1 teaspoon olive oil (optional for extra hydration)
Instructions:
Mash avocado until smooth.
Mix in yogurt (and olive oil if using) until creamy.
Apply to clean face, avoiding the eye area.
Leave on for 10–15 minutes.
Rinse with lukewarm water and pat dry.
Why it works:
Avocado is rich in healthy fats and vitamins for nourishment.
Yogurt contains lactic acid to gently exfoliate and brighten skin.
💇♀️ Hair Care Hacks for Every Style
Here are two easy DIY hair masks and a few simple hacks you can do at home for healthy, shiny hair:
1. Coconut Oil & Honey Hair Mask
Best for: Dry or frizzy hair
Ingredients:
2 tablespoons coconut oil
1 tablespoon honey
Instructions:
Warm the coconut oil slightly so it’s liquid (not hot!).
Mix with honey until smooth.
Apply to damp hair from roots to tips (focus on ends).
Cover with a shower cap and leave for 20–30 minutes.
Rinse with warm water and shampoo as usual.
Why it works:
Coconut oil deeply moisturizes and reduces protein loss.
Honey locks in moisture and adds shine.
Banana & Olive Oil Moisturizing Hair Mask
Best for: Dry, frizzy, or brittle hair
Ingredients:
1 ripe banana
1–2 tablespoons olive oil
1 teaspoon honey (optional for extra shine)
Instructions:
Mash the banana until smooth (no lumps!).
Mix in olive oil (and honey if using) until it forms a creamy paste.
Apply evenly to damp hair, focusing on mid-lengths and ends.
Leave on for 20–30 minutes.
Rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water and shampoo as usual.
Why it works:
Banana nourishes and softens hair while reducing breakage.
Olive oil moisturizes deeply and smooths frizz.
Honey adds shine and locks in moisture.
📱 Social Media Posting Plans That Actually Work
Social media is where followers turn into real income. Whether that is through paid partnerships, UGC, service customers, or people buying your products, your content has the power to create results.
Here is a helpful plan for February that will keep you consistent, on track, and start turning your effort into actual income.
🌸 FEBRUARY – 3 POSTS PER WEEK (PAIRED WITH SHOTS)
WEEK 1 — Soft Introductions
Post 1 (Mon) Theme: Self-connection Shot:
Standing near a window
Eyes closed, face tilted slightly toward light
Hands resting gently at sides
Post 2 (Wed) Theme: Presence Shot:
Sitting on floor or chair
Knees bent, arms resting loosely
Looking slightly past the camera
Post 3 (Fri) Theme: Quiet confidence Shot:
Standing, weight on one hip
Arms crossed softly (not tight)
Neutral expression → slight smile
WEEK 2 — Valentine Energy (Subtle)
Post 4 (Mon) Theme: Touch & closeness Shot:
Close-up
Fingers grazing collarbone or neck
Eyes looking down
Post 5 (Wed) Theme: Comfort in self Shot:
Sitting, one knee up
Chin resting lightly on knee
Soft, relaxed gaze into camera
Post 6 (Fri) Theme: Eye contact Shot:
Tight portrait crop
Direct eye contact
Head slightly tilted
WEEK 3 — Connection & Movement
Post 7 (Mon) Theme: Movement Shot:
Slow walk toward camera
Natural stride
Looking off to the side
Post 8 (Wed) Theme: Warmth Shot:
Standing, shoulders relaxed
Gentle sway or breath moment
Hair moving naturally
Post 9 (Fri) Theme: Soft strength Shot:
Seated upright
Hands resting on thighs
Calm, grounded expression
WEEK 4 — Reflection & Forward Energy
Post 10 (Mon) Theme: Reflection Shot:
Looking out window
Profile angle
One hand lightly touching face
Post 11 (Wed) Theme: Stillness Shot:
Sitting on floor
Eyes closed
Deep inhale / exhale captured
Post 12 (Fri) Theme: Carrying softness forward Shot:
Standing, slight turn away from camera
Looking back over shoulder
Relaxed, confident posture
✨ QUICK EXECUTION TIP
Shoot everything in motion → pull:
Still frames for posts
Short clips for reels
Crops for stories
🔮 Your 2026 Horoscope Glow Up Guide
The stars can actually give you some fun insight for the year ahead. Check your sign for tips on energy, confidence, and self-care for 2026.
♈ ARIES
2026 Glow Theme Direction and Discipline Your glow up comes from finishing what you start. Pick one main goal per quarter and commit fully. Strength based workouts support your confidence. Structured wardrobe pieces elevate your presence. Focused energy is your power.
♉ TAURUS
2026 Glow Theme Nervous System Peace Slow and steady wins the glow. Build a non negotiable morning routine. Choose quality over quantity in all areas. Touch based self care restores balance. Your glow shows when you feel safe.
♊ GEMINI
2026 Glow Theme Depth Over Noise This year is about being selective. Reduce overstimulation and choose intention. Commit to one creative outlet. Speak slower and with clarity. Your glow comes from focus.
♋ CANCER
2026 Glow Theme Emotional Authority You stop over explaining this year. Create boundaries that protect your energy. Elevate your home environment. Water based self care feels grounding. Confidence comes from intuition.
♌ LEO
2026 Glow Theme Effortless Confidence Less proving more being. Rest becomes part of your power. Signature looks outshine trends. Let your presence speak. Your glow deepens with rest.
♍ VIRGO
2026 Glow Theme Soft Structure Balance replaces perfection. Consistency matters more than control. Gentle movement supports your body. Simplified routines bring ease. Your glow grows with softness.
♎ LIBRA
2026 Glow Theme Self Defined Beauty Your glow up begins with choosing yourself. Make decisions with confidence. Create an aesthetic that reflects you. Intentional alone time restores balance. Beauty starts with self trust.
♏ SCORPIO
2026 Glow Theme Emotional Transformation This year is about shedding old layers. Inner work unlocks your glow. Protect your privacy. Lean into rich intentional styling. Your power grows quietly.
♐ SAGITTARIUS
2026 Glow Theme Grounded Expansion Freedom needs structure this year. Create routines that support your lifestyle. Commit to one long term vision. Outdoor movement keeps you aligned. Your glow comes from balance.
♑ CAPRICORN
2026 Glow Theme Ease and Fulfilment You no longer need to earn rest. Redefine success to include joy. Prioritise sleep and stress management. Timeless pieces elevate your style. Your glow appears with ease.
♒ AQUARIUS
2026 Glow Theme Embodied Individuality Be unique while staying grounded. Reconnect with your body through movement. Execute one meaningful idea. Express your style with intention. Presence becomes your power.
♓ PISCES
2026 Glow Theme Energetic Boundaries Sensitivity becomes strength when protected. Create daily grounding rituals. Limit emotional access to draining people. Soft luminous self care supports you. Your glow comes from clarity.
🎁 Giveaway Time! Win a Hoodie and Bag from @Studionoon.shop
A glow up is even better with goodies, and we want to send some straight to you. Here is how to enter for a chance to snag your 2026 essentials in style from @studionoon.shop
Comment below 👇 Tell us which 2026 glow up vibe fits you best: Radiant, Edgy, Soft Girl, or Confident Boss Babe
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Winners will be announced in our newsletter, so make sure you’re subscribed. Good luck and get ready to glow up in style!
Studio Noon: Where Art Meets Film
Who’s behind Studio Noon? Just a duo whose names start with N, which also means noon in Arabic. But the story goes deeper.
We fell in love, started painting for fun, and somewhere between a brushstroke and a laugh the idea hit: what if we shared our art with the world?
Prints were just the start. Soon it was shirts, pins, frames. One-line art inspired by movies. Geometric takes on classic painters. Before we knew it Studio Noon Inc. was real, carrying all the joy, fear and excitement of starting something together.
By day one of us works in film and teaches screenwriting. The other leads in tech and makes sure everything runs smoothly. Studio Noon lives in every spare moment, sketch and shared spark of inspiration.
We create for people who love art, film or both. Proudly Canadian.
What We Make
Studio Noon brings art and film together in bold, minimalist designs.
Reimagined geometric paintings inspired by iconic artists One-line art from unforgettable films and shows (coming soon) Our first three paintings will never be for sale. We keep them with all their imperfections to remind us of the journey.
❓ Poll: Will 2026 Actually Feel Like 2016 Again?
Be honest… do you feel it too? The energy shift, the nostalgia, the music, the vibe. Some people say 2026 is about to feel like that era again. Others think we are stepping into something completely new.
Cast your vote below and tell us why in the comments. Is 2026 giving throwback energy, fresh start energy, or main character energy only? Your opinion matters and we want to hear it.
Your 2026 glow up isn’t just about looks….it’s about confidence, energy, and feeling unstoppable. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and dive in. This is your year to shine!
Thank you so much for reading! We are beyond excited for 2026 and are sending all the best energy and love your way every single day. Keep shining, keep going, and most importantly, remember to love yourself a little extra. A huge thank you to our amazing community for making this all possible …..we couldn’t do it without you!
Inside the world of Jessica Redditt, a Vancouver designer blending sustainable fabrics, natural dyes, and timeless style for a wardrobe that feels good inside and out.
Meet Jessica Redditt: The Designer Making Sustainable Fashion Actually Cool
Jessica Redditt is an emerging force in Vancouver’s fashion scene. Her handmade, sustainably chic clothing line mixes effortless style with ethical design, using fabrics hand-dyed with natural plant pigments or reclaimed textiles. Each piece feels alive, comfy, and made to move with you, whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.
We sat down with Jessica, the creative mind behind the brand, to chat about Vancouver’s creative community, her advice for young designers, and how her eco-friendly vision is making waves in sustainable fashion.
When a Collaboration Turns Into Inspiration
Collaborating with Jessica was an experience I will never forget. From the moment I connected with her, her warm energy was impossible to miss, and seeing her mission come alive through her socials made me even more inspired. A mom, a sea lover, and an all-around creative, Jessica carries a light that draws people in.
As a creative moving from Kelowna, BC, a small town, to Vancouver, it was nerve-wracking stepping into such a vibrant and competitive scene. At 24 and navigating motherhood, I am learning day by day what my dreams really mean, what I am willing to risk, and the message I want to put out into the world. When I was invited to Vancouver Fashion Week, I reached out to Jessica to see if she would be interested in styling me for the event. My hope was to share my experience, contribute content for her brand, and feature the story in 23 Magazine.
At first, I did not hear back, but a few days after the event I received a warm message from her saying she would love to collaborate. From there, we created a moodboard and came up with questions that would later highlight her brand. Talking with her felt like a true alignment moment. Her energy, her vision, and her grounded presence reminded me why I am chasing this creative path.
Jessica frequently goes to local markets, where she stands at the forefront of her brand with a voice and aura that naturally attracts everyone around her. From young creatives to seasoned elders, she is a guiding light in Vancouver’s creative community. Working with her was inspiring, humbling, and reaffirming. I left the collaboration feeling energized and ready to chase my own creative goals.
Why Jessica Redditt Swears by Natural Dye
In a world full of fast fashion, the need for clothing that is sustainable, affordable, and thoughtfully made has never been greater. Jessica Redditt’s handmade pieces check all those boxes. Crafted from natural plant dyes and reclaimed textiles, her designs feel as good as they look, carrying positive energy whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.
Curious about her process and inspiration, I asked Jessica a few questions about how she got started and what natural dyeing means to her.
Q: How did you get started with natural dye? Jessica: I was searching for ways to make clothing as sustainable as possible. Fashion school in Toronto didn’t cover this, so I started experimenting in my garden and backyard, growing plants and researching which ones were colourfast.
Q: What inspired you to explore this craft? Jessica: I’ve always been inspired by crafts of the past, especially textiles and clothing. I figured if it was done before, it could be brought back.
Q: What personal meaning does natural dye hold for you? Jessica: To me, it’s about connecting fully with nature. It’s magical what the earth provides. Studying what plant life is capable of will be a never-ending journey.
I Tried Jessica Redditt’s Sweatsuits and I’m Obsessed
Tuned in, grateful, and fully appreciative of the world around her, it’s clear that Jessica’s style and brand reflect these values. The textures of her pieces are soft, comfy, and feel incredibly high quality. I had the opportunity to try on a grey sweatsuit and a black one, and I also got to see her Selkie bandana. I’m still figuring out how to style the bandana, but Jessica herself has some creative ways to wear it that make it feel special.
The grey sweatsuit came with a hoodie and long, flowy pants. It’s perfect for lounging at home, running errands, or just walking around in something that hugs all the right places while still giving everything room to breathe. I loved how the grey fabric felt warmer and more substantial, covering me perfectly. Being pregnant in the winter, this suit is going to the hospital with me and will be my go-to at home for ultimate comfort. I’ve never been a fan of clothes that aren’t versatile, so I loved that I could dress it up or down in a moment.
The black sweatsuit, also with a hoodie and pants, had a lighter, softer feel. The fabric reminded me of summer evenings or camping trips, like a silky, cozy hug. My son even joined me during the photos, and it was adorable to watch him interact with it. He kept coming back to feel the fabric with his little fingers, and it was such a sweet reminder of how comfortable and inviting these pieces truly are.
Jessica Redditt on Vancouver’s Creative Scene and What Inspires Her
Overall, my experience with Jessica’s brand was incredible. I felt so good creating and collaborating with her. I cannot say it enough—she is amazing and represents trust, transparency, a strong moral compass, and a genuinely warm soul. I wanted to hear her perspective on Vancouver’s creative community, which meant a lot to me. Here is what she shared.
Q: How have you found the creative community here? Jessica: Since moving to Vancouver about 15 years ago, I have found it to be very open, creative, and supportive. I have met so many lovely people in the industry and makers’ community. From vendors at farmers markets to fashion shows and collaborations, it is an inspiring and ever-changing space.
Living by the sea inspires me every day. I love working outside, foraging plants, and creating colours. This environment motivates me to make pieces that are easy to wear, comfortable, and natural in both cloth and colour. I love monochrome, but I also enjoy vibrant pops of colour, like the flowers that bloom here almost year-round.
Connect, Create, and Be Inspired by Jessica Redditt
I can’t recommend this brand enough. If you haven’t already, reach out to Jessica—she genuinely loves answering questions, connecting with people, and building meaningful relationships. Her passion for sustainable fashion is contagious, and her energy is something you’ll want to be around.
A huge thank you to Jessica for taking the time to answer these questions and for believing in this article. And thank you to our amazing community for making stories like this possible and supporting our growing creative space.
Sending love and inspiration, Always yours, Taylor
Our ZealUnity Community had the chance to check out The Nook Cafe, now rebranded as The Cozy Cafe, located at 567 Bernard Avenue, Kelowna, BC, with another spot in West Kelowna. We spotted this adorable café on Instagram and had to see it for ourselves. Here’s our community’s honest take and tips for discovering similar hidden gems.
Location: The Cozy Cafe, Kelowna Edited by: Zeal Social Management In-House Team Models: Olivia, Deep Zeal Media Member: Vinil
The Cozy Cafe That Feels Like Your Favourite Blanket
Looking for a spot in downtown Kelowna that’s all vibes and zero stress? The Cozy Cafe is calling your name. Formerly The Nook, this little gem serves up all-day breakfast, gluten-free crepes, hearty skillets and coffees that somehow hit just right. Basically, comfort food with a local twist.
Our ZealUnity community was pumped to see if it lived up to the name, and let’s just say we were not disappointed. Rajpreet, the owner, greeted us with the warmest energy ever and immediately set the mood for a chill, happy, no-drama kind of visit. Instant cozy points.
Our models tried some featured dishes while soaking in purple chairs, white tables, big windows and a vibe that is clean but full of personality. Meanwhile, Vinil and the assistant captured all the BTS magic in the kitchen, where everyone was clearly passionate about what they were making. Nothing felt staged or fake.. just good energy, good food, and charming aesthetics.
Whether you are grabbing a bite before your day or winding down with a coffee in hand, The Cozy Cafe truly lives up to its name. It’s the kind of place you walk into and instantly want to linger.
Kelowna Cafes Be Like…
Kelowna is full of cute little spots to eat and relax. Some instantly feel like home and welcome you with open arms. Others? Well, others make you feel like you need to rock a quarter zip, order a matcha at least once, and casually know someone behind the counter just to get a nod of approval. You know the vibe.. It’s all subtle side-eyes, “who do you know” energy, or the dreaded “I’ve seen you before” look without actually being nice.
We all have a vibe, and it shows in the coffee we sip. Take this quiz to see which coffee matches your personality. Are you relaxed and chill, bold and adventurous, or a little extra with a flair for fun? Let’s find out.
Questions:
1. How do you usually start your day?
A: Slow and chill, with a coffee and some me-time
B: Jumping straight into action, coffee in hand
C: Outfit curated, playlist ready, selfie taken
D: Quiet reflection, journaling or reading
E: Catching up with friends, laughing, chatting
2. What’s your weekend energy like?
A: Cozy vibes, Netflix, low-key activities
B: Adventures, spontaneous trips, new experiences
C: Aesthetic-focused, trendy spots, photo ops
D: Alone time, self-care, introspection
E: Hosting friends, social energy, full of life
3. How would your friends describe you?
A: Laid-back, easy-going, chill
B: Bold, fearless, adventurous
C: Stylish, creative, trendy
D: Thoughtful, calm, reflective
E: Warm, friendly, uplifting
Results:
Mostly A: Chill Latte Lover
You’re relaxed and grounded. Your presence makes people feel at ease. In ZealUnity, you’re the friend everyone wants to sit next to.
Mostly B: Bold Espresso Adventurer
You thrive on energy, excitement, and new experiences. In ZealUnity, you’re the go-getter who inspires others to try new things.
Mostly C: Trendy Matcha Maven
You love aesthetics, creativity, and staying on top of trends. In ZealUnity, you’re the influencer energy, sparking inspiration in the community.
Mostly D: Cozy Hot Chocolate Soul
You value comfort, reflection, and mindful moments. In ZealUnity, you bring a calm, grounding presence to the community.
Mostly E: Friendly Cappuccino Cheerleader
You’re social, warm, and love connecting people. In ZealUnity, you’re the ultimate hype person and community builder.
The Food, the Kitchen, and Zero Weird Vibes
Our media member Vinil went into the kitchen and captured some in-action shots, and honestly, everything was spotless. You could tell the team genuinely loved what they were making — every plate, every detail, every presentation was done with passion. Sometimes when we walk into restaurants, you can feel when people are putting on a show for the camera.. a half-smile here, tense energy there, hiding corners of the kitchen…and it makes you wonder what they’re trying to hide. But at The Cozy Cafe, it was completely different. The space felt open, well-lit, and curious. Comfort food with warm hospitality, no pretence, no weird vibes.
And the food? Unreal. From their classic eggs and skillets to the decadent French toast, waffles, and avocado toast, everything hit the perfect balance of comforting and elevated. Signature Benedicts with ham, smoked salmon, or Angus beef were a total highlight, and the brunch combos and skillets packed with fresh, flavourful ingredients made it clear this wasn’t just “your usual breakfast.” Sweet options like seasonal fruit, French toast or Banana Almond French Toast? Chef’s kiss. Pancakes, crepes, even savory breakfast bagels!! All fresh, vibrant, and satisfying.
Lunch and dinner aren’t left behind either. Steak frites, fish and chips, Greek souvlaki, Korean chicken bowls, fresh salads, and gourmet sandwiches make this spot feel like a one-stop comfort-and-creativity hub. Every dish felt intentional and made with love, which is exactly the energy you want when you sit down to a meal.
Walking into The Cozy Cafe isn’t just about eating. It’s about stepping into a space where everyone is genuinely engaged, the food is thoughtfully prepared, and you can just relax and enjoy it all. Bright purple chairs, white tables, big windows, and cozy touches everywhere — it’s the perfect mix of comfort and personality.
Finding Comfort in Your Own Company
As November comes to its final day, we wanted to take a moment to acknowledge how tough this season can feel for some. With or without friends and family around, it can be a reminder of how hard it is to be alone. While some thrive on the idea of “if only I could do this myself,” it can still bring up the question of “am I strong enough?” when you see everyone else around you.
We want to reassure you that you are not alone. You are loved, you are seen, and your presence matters. With each place within your community, make an effort to show up, even if you are by yourself. A solo date, a solo coffee, a little outing just for you.. you deserve it all. Self-love and dedicating time to yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Treat yourself like you deserve the world.
Brunch, for example, is the perfect start to your day, solo or with friends. Making the time for yourself and putting energy into your own happiness only adds to your sense of self, growth, and confidence.
How The Cozy Cafe is Helping the Community Thrive
The Cozy Cafe has been doing amazing things for the creative community! From collaborations with different creators to welcoming anyone with a warm heart and positive intentions to come in, create, eat, or chat about ways to get involved, it’s truly blissful to see and experience.
Wondering how to get involved in creating with restaurants? No experience? No problem! It only takes one message or one phone call for someone to get a real sense of who you are. If you’re looking for something creative to do this season that will level up your portfolio and expand your connections, reach out to our community at Zeal Social Management and hop on board with our media team.
Sending the best to you and a huge thank you to the Cozy Cafe for having us. We’re so grateful for the space, the food, and the inspiring energy.
Boyfriends, Judgement, and the Truth About Independent Women
In recent conversations within online communities, a trend has emerged around the perception of boyfriends and men in the lives of independent women. There is a persistent idea that being connected to a man somehow diminishes a woman’s aura. Relationships and associations with men are often viewed as major reflections on the woman herself, as if the outside world judges her based on what they believe the man does or thinks. Questions like “Why him?” “What does he give you?” and “She must need him” reveal a broader societal pattern of judgment. These assumptions rarely reflect the man in the actual relationship who is receiving judgment, but instead highlight how society still evaluates a woman’s value through the lens of her relationships. Digital creator and female powerhouse Jenayah shared her thoughts on this topic, offering insight into relationships of all kinds…platonic, non-sexual, and otherwise..and what they reveal about perception, independence, and identity.
What Is Jenayah’s Take on Men and Judgement?
Jenayah is a force of nature, strong, independent, and full of grit. She has worked extensively within the ZEAL Community on brand shoots, manages her own bookings, and travels for other creative projects. She has walked in Kelowna Fashion Week and participated in the 2025 Dress for Success event, and is widely recognized as a leader in the community. She follows her own moral compass and does not let anyone else’s expectations or opinions define her. Growing up and building her life in a small town has sharpened her sense of self and given her the confidence to speak honestly about what she believes. With that perspective, we asked her about relationships with men.
What is your take on relationships with men from an outside perspective? Do you think society makes them feel awkward or embarrassed?
Jenayah did not hold back. “I think men do not shoot for the stars when dating and punish the moon because he settled for her. I do not think society makes men feel embarrassed enough.”
Do You Really Know Who You Are and What You Want?
Now blunt, yes. Harsh, yes. But Jenayah’s feelings are valid. They reflect the current societal dynamics, which may play a role in how men and relationships are perceived. In her own words, “I think men don’t shoot for the stars when dating.” This could come across as intentional or uneducated, even self-inflicted. Harm often comes from not truly knowing who they are, what they like, or what they deserve, while at the same time placing blame on those around them. To reflect on this, here are some questions you, your boyfriend, your friend, or anyone regardless of gender identity can ask yourself: Who are you and what do you want?
Self-Reflection Quiz: Who Am I and What Do I Really Want?
Instructions: Answer honestly. No right or wrong answers. This is for you.
Who am I?
A) Confident and independent
B) Still figuring it out
C) I’m a mix, depends on the day
Do I like myself?
A) Absolutely, flaws and all
B) Sometimes, still learning
C) Not really, I struggle with it
Do I enjoy being thought of and cared for?
A) Yes, but I can also give myself love
B) Sometimes, but I often rely on others too much
C) Not sure, I tend to avoid attention
What effort am I willing to put in to receive the love I want?
A) I actively work on myself and my relationships
B) I try, but it can be inconsistent
C) I expect others to do most of the work
Am I okay taking care of myself, or do I want someone to meet me in the middle?
A) I take care of myself first, but value partnership
B) I try to take care of myself but appreciate help
C) I want someone to do it all for me
If I want someone to do it all for me, is that sustainable?
A) No, healthy relationships require balance
B) Maybe, but it could cause tension
C) I haven’t thought about it
Why can’t I find or create these things myself?
A) I can, I just choose to share the journey
B) I’m learning how to
C) I rely too much on others and need reflection
Reflection:
Mostly A’s: You are self-aware, independent, and ready for healthy partnerships.
Mostly B’s: You are on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Keep learning about your needs and boundaries.
Mostly C’s: Focus on yourself first. Build your own happiness before expecting it from others.
Can Love and Creativity Coexist Without Losing Yourself?
Love and creativity often go hand in hand. In our community, we see it all the time — the way people show up for each other, support projects, and bring energy into collaborations can inspire not just art, but growth, confidence, and connection. That experience gives a lot of insight into how relationships, whether romantic or platonic, shape the way we express ourselves and see the world.
Creativity isn’t just about making cool stuff. It’s about becoming yourself, stepping into a character, or letting your energy flow however it wants. But here is the real question. Can creativity survive when everyone around you is projecting who they think you should be? When expectations are placed on you, or when the world asks for certain materials from you, can you still stay true to yourself without losing your spark? And what about love? Can that same magic happen without compromising who you are? Learning to love yourself or others can help you uncover parts of yourself you have been waiting to find, even when the world is trying to shape you.
We all know the people around us matter, but do they really shape who we are? Does someone else’s actions reflect your morals? Or can you be surrounded by all kinds of energy, good, bad, grey, messy, and still come out colourful?
We asked Jenayah, a creative powerhouse in our community who plans shoots, rocks brand events, and consistently shows up for her craft, what she thinks.
Do the people around you fuel your creativity or do you just go with the flow? Jenayah kept it real. “The people around me fuel my creativity, but it wasn’t always like that. I had to let everyone know I am here and I am creative. If my community didn’t know I wanted to create, they wouldn’t fuel me.”
Have relationships ever impacted your creativity, positively or negatively? Her answer is straight up honesty. “Dating people who don’t appreciate your creativity can really hold you back. Negativity from others makes it harder to fully express yourself.”
Jenayah on Staying Yourself While Letting Love In
Again, this gives us a window into how Jenayah thinks and believes. On one hand, the things around her don’t impact the way she drives herself. She relies on self-motivation and determination. But on the other hand, she acknowledges that romantic feelings, perhaps love, can influence how certain outcomes play out. Using Jenayah’s thoughts, and maybe a bit of projection, it seems like love can be one of the biggest factors in someone’s downfall or rise. But is this tied to self-love? How well you know yourself and how willing you are to show yourself to those around you matters. If people don’t know who you are, who you want to be, and how you operate, how can they support you in the way you need?
Relationships can challenge us, but they also show the importance of boundaries. By being upfront about who you are and what you need from the start, you can guide how people treat you moving forward. Taking risks and opening up is part of growth, but having a safe support system means you don’t feel the pressure to be who someone else wants out of survival instincts. Looking at situations from multiple perspectives, rather than comparing yourself to others, allows you to stay true to yourself while still letting love and connection in.
We asked Jenayah how this translates into her advice for younger creators finding themselves.
Question: “For younger creators, what is your top advice for connecting with other creatives, the good, the bad, and what to watch out for?”
Response: “For the first meet-up, bring a trusted adult. Even if you are an adult yourself. I am 25 and I still bring my mom to photoshoots. She usually ends up holding props or aiding in lighting. Most importantly, we are not putting me in a vulnerable position.”
Guiding the Next Generation with Confidence and Respect
This is great advice, and as part of our media community, we love having Jenayah around to be a spokesperson for others who are just starting out. She is often on site with us and our clients, helping behind the scenes with models and community members, making sure everyone feels comfortable and happy. She is like the younger generation’s mom, while also inspiring the older members to speak up for themselves.
Jenayah shows others what confidence looks like through clear communication, self-awareness, and respect. She guides people with her experience while allowing new emotions to be expressed and valued without judgment. She encourages everyone to adapt, be open, and stay honest while remaining respectful. This is such a key point in friendships and relationships across the board. Knowing who you are, what you want, and what you deserve, without bending to what others expect, keeps you feeling on top, confident, and respected, while also fostering respect around you.
Love, Respect, and Creating Without Fear
Our final question was about red flags for new creators.
Question: “What are some red flags new creators should watch out for when collaborating with someone? How do you know when or when not to create with someone, and how inclusive they really are? This can apply to romantic, platonic, and all gender or sexual orientations.”
Response: “A red flag to look for is how they talk to you or about you. Are they saying good, amazing, great, stunning, wow? Then I think that is a green flag. If they say something sexual, you have three choices. One, it doesn’t affect you and you continue with the shoot. Two, you say something, set the boundary, and move forward with the shoot. Three, you feel uncomfortable and stop the shoot. If they keep complimenting you over and over, listen to your gut to see if it encourages you or if something feels off. To gain trust with a creative, bring a close friend or trusted adult to help behind the scenes. They know you best and have your best interests in mind.”
The bottom line is simple. Set boundaries and leave if they do not respect you. But what if you did not have a big sister like Jenayah to guide you? How would you feel in these situations if no one told you what to do? Respecting yourself and knowing who you are in any situation—what you like, what you don’t like, what you love, and what you don’t want—creates the foundation for healthy relationships. Trust your gut, follow through, and learn through your experiences. Do not project one experience onto everyone else. Take the time to get to know yourself, and when someone aligns with your values, it will feel right.
I’m 24 and about to give birth to my second baby, and packing for the hospital is still a wild ride. From what I learned the first time to the little hacks I am adding this time, I am sharing exactly what’s in my bag and my baby’s bag, so you can see what is really essential and what is totally extra. Think first time mom confessions, second time survival tips, and everything you need to make delivery day as cozy and stress free as possible.
24 And Having Baby Number Two
I am approaching my due date in February and I have completed my hospital bags, with just a few things still left to pack. This time around, I feel a lot less anxious, but I still worry I will get there and feel like I do not have everything I need. The first time I went, to be honest, I left the same day with my son. I did not stay the night and wanted to come home right away, so everything I brought, I did not really use. But the things I did use, I know are my personal essentials. This time, I am definitely planning to stay, as my first is now a toddler and I need some rest before going home. Everything we are bringing for me and baby is cute, cozy, and practical.
Comfy Essentials For Mom
The last time I was in labour, I made sure to bring all the little things, but not the major essentials. I was very cold in the hospital, and I gave birth in July! This time around, it will be winter, so here are the things I am making sure to bring to stay cozy, comfortable, and ready for baby.
What to pack:
Sweaters – Layering is key in the hospital, especially in winter. They keep you warm during downtime and skin-to-skin moments.
Cozy pants and pajamas – Comfort first. These are perfect for resting, sleeping, and lounging without feeling restricted.
Maternity bras – Easy for feeding and provide support while nursing.
Cozy socks – Hospital floors are often cold, so keep your feet warm.
Big, comfortable underwear – Extra padding and room make postpartum life so much easier.
Comfy shorts – In case you get a bit warm or need to move around comfortably.
Oversized tee shirts – Great for layering and easy to change into; plus, I pack a couple of nicer daytime shirts to feel fresh and put together.
Robe – Perfect for after a shower or just as a loose, cozy option to wear around the hospital.
Baby’s Bag Essentials
With Sabo, we had him in swaddles most of the time. The hospital provides a few items and even helps wrap your baby for you. They also gave him a little hat and had a whole cart of essentials just for him, like diapers, wipes, and creams. It was enough for a two-day stay, but they do not provide clothing. They do give towels, a little blanket, and other necessary items, but anything else you want your baby to wear, you will need to bring yourself. Here is what we are packing for our daughter this time.
What we packed for our daughter:
Three pairs of pajamas – Comfortable for sleeping and lounging in the hospital.
One swaddle – For cozy, secure sleep and skin-to-skin time.
Two blankets – One for warmth and one for extra comfort.
Three hats – To keep her little head warm.
Two sets of hand coverings – To protect tiny hands from scratches.
Four pairs of socks – To keep her feet cozy.
One daytime outfit – For photos or just to feel a little dressed.
One going-home outfit – Cute, practical, and ready for the car ride.
Onesies and sleepers – Soft and comfy for tiny toes.
Diapers and wipes – For easy changes during the hospital stay.
Soft cloths – Perfect for wiping up milk or for her first bath at the hospital.
Going Home Outfit
For the going home outfit, we’re keeping it cozy and practical. Fleece bottoms, a long sleeve top, and a sweater without a hood make for a comfy car ride. We will pair it with a cute hat, mitts, socks, and warm shoes and add a soft blanket over the car seat to keep the baby snug all the way home.
Favourite Extra Item
One of my all-time favourite items after giving birth was my belly wrap. I put that thing on right after delivery, and let me tell you, it helped so much. I felt supported, and it made the transition a lot easier for bending over, picking things up, or just moving in general. Not only does it help your body recover, but it adds a lot of support to your lower back and core when everything still feels tender.
Other comforting extras:
Cozy blanket – Perfect for snuggling baby during your stay.
Sentimental keepsake – A small personal item to make the experience feel special.
Comfort snack or drink– For quick moments of calm in between.
Headphones for labour – Whether it’s music, meditation, or your favourite playlist, they help you stay focused and calm through contractions.
Postpartum & Comfort Essentials
These are a few things that made my hospital stay so much more comfortable and helped me feel more like myself after giving birth. Some of them might not be essentials, but they make a big difference when you are in a space that can feel a little unfamiliar.
This time around I am packing a few things that made a huge difference last time, and a few new ones that I wish I had brought sooner.
Postpartum bottle: Perfect for when wiping feels super painful, even with wipes. Just fill it with water and spray the area. It feels so much better than trying to wipe down there.
Breast pads: A must-have for leaking. You can slip them into your maternity bra to catch those moments and stay comfortable.
Disposable underwear: The hospital gives you some, but these ones are perfect for after or when you do not want to keep asking for more. They are stretchy, comfortable, and made to be thrown away without creating harmful waste.
Personal hospital gown: This was super important to me. The normal gowns only open at the back and stay open, which felt uncomfortable. When I had my first, I got mine off Amazon. It had buttons that opened and closed where I needed, not always open or restrictive. It made a big difference, especially when the baby came.
Breastfeeding pillow: Helps with your abs and gives great support so you do not feel like you have to hold the baby up while lying in bed.
Breastfeeding cover: I’m bringing one this time so I do not have to wear only easy access clothing. Honestly, when I was looking online, nothing looked cute to me, so I bought pieces I would actually wear at home or out. The cover gives me privacy while letting me look down at my baby and still wear things that make me feel like myself.
Toiletries: A huge must in feeling fresh and grounded while you are in a space that can feel a bit mentally draining.
Towel and shower shoes: Last time I brought Crocs, and this time I’m packing both Crocs and slippers. Perfect for keeping clean and comfy in the hospital bathroom.
Robe: Great for after a shower or just as a loose, cozy option to wear around the room.
Cloths: Handy for wiping milk or when your baby has their first bath. Those little moments can get messy quickly.
Vicks: Helps with congestion or just to feel clear and refreshed.
Slippers: Keep your feet warm and cozy during your stay.
Headphones: Perfect for labour to tune out noise, listen to music, or focus on your breathing.
These little things might not seem huge, but they truly help you feel more like yourself during such a big moment.
Hospital Bag Toiletries Essentials
Here are my toiletries. To be honest, taking a shower after birth and just putting on fresh clothes, brushing your hair, and doing your routine made me feel so much more relaxed.
The first time we stayed, we were there for around 14 hours before heading home. I had a shower, ate two meals, took a nap, and honestly felt amazing. This time around, I’m making sure I have everything I need to feel refreshed and comfortable again.
Face wash: To gently cleanse and wake up your skin after labour.
Leave-in conditioner: Keeps your hair soft and easy to manage when you might not have time for a full routine.
Body lotion: Helps hydrate your skin and brings a bit of comfort after a long day.
Pillow or room spray: Makes the hospital room feel more like home and helps you relax before resting.
Extra conditioner: Because hospital air can be super dry and your hair might need a little more love.
Mini shampoo and conditioner: Perfect travel size for a quick refresh without overpacking.
Night serum: Helps your skin recover and feel nourished, especially after the long hours of labour.
Body wash: Just something that feels good and smells fresh — a small way to feel normal again.
Hair ties: You’ll thank yourself for packing a few extra.
Tooth brush: Super Important!!
These little comforts make a big difference when you’re recovering, bonding with your baby, and just trying to feel human again.
Before You Leave
Make sure you have everything ready so the trip to the hospital is smooth and stress-free.
Birth plan: Have your preferences on hand so you can share them with your care team.
Wallet and documentation: Keep your ID and insurance cards together in one place.
Car seat: Install it in your car by 24 weeks to be ready ahead of time.
Phone charger: Stay connected and capture all the special moments.
Headphones: Perfect for relaxing during the ride or preparing for labour.
Water and snacks: Keep hydrated and energized for the journey and early recovery.
Final Thoughts
Packing for the hospital can feel overwhelming, but having your essentials ready makes such a difference. From clothes and toiletries to little comfort items and your baby’s must-haves, each item helps you feel more prepared, relaxed, and supported during such a big moment.
I hope sharing my hospital bag gives you some helpful ideas and inspiration for your own stay.
If you want more tips, behind-the-scenes moments, or just want to reach out, follow me on Instagram @Taylor.cookk. I would love to hear from you and connect!
Credits Photography by ZEAL Member Okanagan Portraits Models Jenayah, Deep, Ladi and Sydney from ZEALUNITY Edited In House Brand Black Mountain Haunted House
When “If Only” Haunts You: A Survival Kit for Letting Go
When you lie awake at night, thinking of what could be, do you find yourself replaying the moments that might have happened, or the ones that never did? Memories of what could have been done differently swirl in your mind, maybe with more love, maybe with more support. If only. If only. I had. I chose. I left. I knew.
This article is for you. For the ones haunted by choices, who move through life one day at a time, learning to choose freedom over fear. Your guilt does not have to define you. The feeling of being alone does not make you weak. If no one checks in, if no one seems to care, it does not mean you have done anything wrong.
Here is your survival kit for navigating life without a village. For thriving even when support is scarce. For finding strength in yourself.
Finding Community and Courage at Black Mountain Haunted House
One of our escapes this month was a visit to the local haunted house at Black Mountain. We got to dress up, believe in ourselves, be creative, and simply have fun. It is run by such wonderful people, and because it is local, it made our community feel at home and part of something bigger. Even when support does not come from the people we might want, our community steps up and creates moments that feel larger than life.
Experiencing this space made me think about how people survived in the early days of life, huddled in groups, surrounded by cold, hunger, and discomfort. Imagining a world that chose closeness over isolation for the sake of collective survival. Just like in that haunted house, the warmth of community, creativity, and shared experience becomes a lifeline. It reminds us that to live, we must depend on others, our family, our friends, the people who keep us safe, not just for our own sake, but for theirs too.
Yet, even with that understanding, life is not always so forgiving. Support is not always there. Family may be distant, friends may be absent, and the people we hope to lean on may not be around. In those moments, everything feels heavier, the cold bites deeper, and fear lingers longer. It can be hard to believe in yourself, to take risks, or to create joy alone. And yet even in that absence, connection can be found. It may come through small acts, through strangers who step in unexpectedly, through laughter, creativity, and courage. That haunted house reminded me that even when our inner circle is small, community still exists. It is in the people who show up, in the experiences that spark joy, and in the courage we summon within ourselves.
In a world where support is not guaranteed, these fleeting moments of shared humanity become essential. They remind us that belonging and warmth are possible, even when we have to create them ourselves.
Survival List: What to Do Without a Village
Treat Yourself to Your Own Date Day
Don’t have anyone around you to text about your problems or talk to? This doesn’t mean spending money or buying random things. It means taking care of yourself. Sit down. Think. Reflect on all the loving things you do. Remember all the ways you have grown and gotten to where you are today in a positive way. You don’t need anything to be happy. You need delusional positivity and hope. You, my friend, are exactly where you need to be, and everything is aligned for you. Just chill.
Go Do Something Fun
Even if it costs a little money or none at all. Our creators went to Black Mountain Haunted House. For a lot of our members, joining our community was about wanting to do something different, be creative, and have fun for themselves. Experiences like this remind us that doing things just for you is powerful.
Don’t Feel Bad About Missing the Things You Left
It’s human. You are brave enough to try something new, and human enough to feel nostalgia for what you left. It’s evolution.
Live Life as If No One is Watching
Because, honestly, who is? Let the feeling of uncertainty guide you, knowing that each day is a new beginning.
Write Down How You Feel
One day, when your community is around you, you might forget what you’ve been through. Being able to read your own words and relive those moments will help you realize how far you’ve come.
Don’t Let Memories or Messages Pull You Back
If you receive messages that say, “I remember the good old times,” remember that a lot of the time, those moments weren’t as perfect as they seem. Don’t let someone else’s projection ruin your mindset.
Allow and Receive Love Without Guilt
You might not have much to give right now, and that’s okay. The people meant to be around you don’t expect anything from you. They just want to love you for who you are.
Quiz: What Do You Really Need Next?
Answer these quick questions to figure out your next step when your village isn’t around:
1. How are you feeling right now? A. Overwhelmed and drained B. Bored and restless C. Curious and excited
2. Do you have time to focus on yourself today? A. Not really B. A little bit C. Yes, I can make time
3. What makes you feel alive? A. Alone reflection B. Being creative or doing something new C. Spending time with people, even virtually
4. How do you deal with missing people or your old life? A. I get stuck thinking about it B. I acknowledge it but try to move forward C. I channel it into a new experience
Results:
Mostly A’s → Self-Care Reset: Take a solo day to recharge, reflect, and do something purely for yourself. Journaling, meditation, or a long walk can help.
Mostly B’s → Creative Boost: Try something creative just for fun. Paint, write, dress up, or explore a new hobby. Focus on experiences that make you feel like “you.”
Mostly C’s → Community Quest: Find ways to connect safely with people who lift you up. Virtual hangouts, workshops, or local events can help you find your people.
Embracing the Hard Days
Now this is all hard. It is not going to feel cozy or soft. Some days you might feel sad, scared, or worried about where you are going next or why you are even here in the first place. Trusting yourself and letting go of the outcome, all while maintaining a positive outlook, positive habits, and positive self-talk, will keep you moving forward. Eventually, the heaviness will not feel as heavy. It will feel like a bag of tools for your next adventure, helping you figure out who you are, without the need to be dependent on abundance.
Think about the kind of house that raised you and ask yourself what kind of house you want to live in now.
🎃 Halloween Treats That Won’t Break the Bank
Halloween doesn’t have to mean spending a ton of money to have fun and feel festive. Whether you’re solo, with friends, or doing a cozy night in, these easy and cheap treats are perfect for getting into the spooky spirit. Think cozy lattes, sweet cornbread, and little DIY touches that make your night feel magical.. all without emptying your wallet.
Grab your ingredients, get a little creative, and let’s make Halloween deliciously fun and totally budget-friendly!
1–2 tsp pumpkin puree (optional, can skip if needed)
1 tsp sugar or honey
1/4 tsp pumpkin pie spice or cinnamon
1/2 tsp vanilla extract (optional)
1/2 cup strong brewed coffee or instant coffee
Instructions:
Heat milk in a small pot or microwave.
Stir in pumpkin, sugar, and pumpkin pie spice until well combined.
Mix in coffee and vanilla if using.
Pour into a mug, top with whipped cream or a sprinkle of cinnamon.
Sip and enjoy your cozy Halloween treat!
💡 Tip: Skip the pumpkin puree or whipped cream to save money and still have a tasty latte.
🎃 Cheap & Easy “Monster” Cornbread
Ingredients:
1 cup cornmeal
1 cup flour (all-purpose or whatever you have)
2 tbsp sugar
1 tbsp baking powder
Pinch of salt
1 cup milk (or water + a little butter/oil)
1/4 cup melted butter or oil
2 eggs (or 1 egg + 1/4 cup applesauce to save)
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C) and grease a pan.
Mix dry ingredients: cornmeal, flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt.
Mix wet ingredients: milk, melted butter, and eggs.
Combine wet and dry ingredients, stir until just mixed.
Pour batter into the pan and bake 20–25 minutes until golden.
💡 Tip: Add a few chocolate chips or a sprinkle of cinnamon sugar on top for a festive touch without spending much.
🕸️ Not in the Baking Mood? Try This Halloween Self-Discovery Quiz!
Answer these questions to find a fun, spooky activity that fits your vibe and mood tonight:
🕯️ A Little Note Before You Go
Whatever your environment looks like this season, know that you are loved, needed, and wanted. Halloween can bring up a lot.. it’s a time of magical energy for many. Remember to drink your juice, eat your food, and take care of yourself without feeling guilty or wrong about what’s already happened.
Be accountable, take risks, and stay positive even when things feel uncertain. Sending you the very best and wishing you a safe, grounded, and meaningful Halloween. 🎃
The spirits you dread are nothing compared to your own choices.
Credits Photography by Zeal Media Member @vinilsoodphotography Model — ZealUnity Model Sydney (@sydneyy.maye) All edits completed in-house by Zeal Media
The Hollow Roots
You feel it the moment October arrives. The wind moves like ice, slipping through streets, forests, and empty houses. Even the ground beneath your feet feels colder, heavier, carrying the taste of ash, iron, and silence.
Once the world thrived. Laughter spilled across open fields. Roses blazed red in the sun. Rivers danced over stone. Life pulsed in harmony. But harmony is fragile and watching it crumble leaves scars the living often refuse to see.
Monsters came. But these were not creatures of fang and claw. These were us. We tore through homes, shattered families, and silenced every cry for help. Cities rose from the ruins. Concrete devoured the horizon. Glass towers clawed at the sky. Smoke poured into the air and power replaced life. Speeches replaced truth. Promises replaced action. Blood soaked the ground beneath those who looked away. Children were buried in rubble. Rivers turned to poison. Nations were erased. The cost was never ours to bear or so we pretended. And in the wake of everything we ignored, there is silence.
Silence from those who look away. Silence from those who cover their ears. Silence from those who choose comfort over truth. It is this inaction that allows cruelty to spread, that grows until it becomes a wall between people and what they should remember. Every lie left unchallenged, every injustice ignored, strengthens it. Every time someone pretends it is not happening, the weight grows. It presses down, unseen but relentless, like frost creeping over the bones of the world.
This does not go unnoticed. It echoes in October when the veil between memory and forgetting thins. Whispers move through the trees, through walls, and through the cracks in a world that never healed. Every injustice ignored, every moment of turning away, adds weight to the air. The names of the forgotten slip through the cold and reach your ears. They do not forgive. They demand to be remembered.
Every year more of them vanish. People wander too close to the places they once tried to erase. They laugh at the chill in the air, ignore the subtle murmurs, and tell themselves it is nothing. But it is not the wind that calls their name. It is the world remembering. It is the voices of the forgotten, rising through the dark, refusing to be silenced. The past does not rest. Every secret concealed, every truth denied, every act of indifference gives it strength.
You are not safe. The earth holds every injustice, every lie, every time courage was abandoned for comfort. The murmurs are growing, closer, sharper, impossible to dismiss. The walls around you feel thinner, the air heavy with ash and iron. You can feel it now. The reminder that what was buried still stirs. The reckoning waits, patient and inevitable.
Listen closely. If a voice calls in October, do not mistake it for the wind. If the ground shifts beneath your feet, do not stay still. The dead remember what the living try to forget. Those who turn away, who pretend not to see, will summon them. Ignoring the call will not protect you; it will trap you deeper than any earth or stone. Every unanswered cry, every glance averted from the truth, every moment of inaction becomes a summons you cannot escape. When the cold settles into your bones, it penetrates your marrow, into the very fibres of your being, until every breath reminds you that your inaction called them forth.
When the murmurs rise into voices, there will be nowhere to hide. Floors groan under weight unseen. Doors tremble on their hinges. Windows shake as if something unseen presses against them. The walls seem closer, the air heavier, thick with a metallic tang that clings to your lungs. Every footstep echoes back at you, every creak in the house a reminder that nothing is as empty as it seems. Every heartbeat pounds a warning. Every shiver traces the paths of those lost long before you, their presence pressing into the spaces you once thought safe.
Then you will hear them. Closer, sharper, undeniable. They do not plead. They do not beg. They demand acknowledgement and reckoning. There is no hiding. No door, no wall, no lock can shield you. No light can guide you away. Every movement, every glance, every choice you have made is marked and measured, reflected back in the spaces around you. Every sound seems amplified, every shadow filled with memory and accusation.
When their voices grow insistent and the weight of what was ignored settles into your chest, you will understand: you are not alone. You have never been alone. Every act of turning away, every moment of comfort chosen over action, has called them forth. The reckoning is patient, but it has already begun, and it will not be denied.
We went on our first Okanagan wine tour and found all the best secret spots, tasty sips, and photo moments that will have you booking your own trip instantly.
Credits
Wine Tour: Sip South East Kelowna Transportation: Discover Okanagan Tours Zeal Unity Models: Savjeet, Jenayah, Sydney, Shivana Zeal Media Team: Autumn – Videographer & 1st Shooter, Shivana – 2nd Shooter & In-Person Reviews Editing: All edits done in-house by Zeal
Our First Okanagan Wine Tour and Why It Was Pure Magic 🍷✨
Our community got the incredible chance to go on a wine and cider tour with Discover Okanagan Tours and Sip South East Kelowna, and honestly, it was everything we hoped for and more. We stopped at seven unique wineries, each with its own vibe and flavour, and had the ultimate excuse to just slow down, sip, and soak in the moment.
Reaching out to Alex, the marketing director for the tour, was such a delight. She and her team went above and beyond to make sure our group felt welcome. For many of us, it was our first-ever winery experience..some had just moved to Kelowna, while others simply hadn’t had the chance to enjoy something this fancy. From the tour driver to every stop along the way, the welcome we received was warm, personal, and totally memorable.
We met at our meetup spot around 8:45 AM, hopped onto the tour van, and off we went to our first stop: Hidden Vines. The drive was beautiful, the van was super comfortable, and the team made sure everyone got safely on and off the vehicle at every stop. Alex and the driver Cam were absolute legends, helping out wherever needed and keeping the energy fun and light.
Our review of the hosts – Discover Okanagan / Sip South East Kelowna: Alex and Cam made the whole day effortless and enjoyable. Cam ensured we were comfortable getting in and out of the bus and always kept the vibe chill while heading to the next stop. Alex had a bubbly, fresh energy, supporting us behind the scenes and making sure everything ran smoothly. Honestly, we can’t imagine going on a wine tour without them!! They were the perfect hosts and made our first winery adventure unforgettable.
Hidden Hills – Hidden Vines: Where Wine Meets Fun 🍇✨
Hidden Vines is all about amazing wines and healthy vineyards. They farm sustainably, keeping their land thriving now and for the future. Their vibe is fun and approachable wines that actually reflect the beauty of their land with no stuffiness.
Trevor leads the winemaking with a solid crew by his side, experimenting, learning, and making every bottle tell a story straight from the vineyard. Their East Kelowna Riesling obsession is real. They see huge potential in this little corner of the valley and can’t wait to unlock all its flavors. Follow along as they grow, experiment, and share their love for wine, land, and family. It is a journey worth sipping along with.
Our community experience(written by Shivana, Community Model, Photographer, and Writer) Hidden Vines is seriously cute with a comfortable atmosphere, fun outdoor activities, and a lovely dog named Willow keeping us company while we sipped their wines. We tried their Riesling and Farmhouse Red, and Trevor, the owner and winemaker, made everyone feel right at home. Even as a newer winery, their selection was solid and the outdoor area right by the vines was gorgeous, perfect for photos, chats, and soaking up the vineyard vibes.
Before we move on, here is a little insider info on what we told our members to pack and wear for the day, so you can nail the winery vibe and get those perfect shots.
Winery Outfit Inspo Look Effortless and Picture Perfect
Hair & Makeup Keep it fresh, natural, and effortless. Think glowing skin and polished vibes—nothing too heavy that steals the spotlight from your wine glass. Neutral nails only and skip strong perfumes—let the vineyard do the talking.
Clothes Smart casual meets winery elegance. Comfort and style are your best combo. For ladies linen pants, khakis, dresses, skirts, and non-branded tops are perfect. Subtle patterns like soft florals or stripes work, but skip sequins and lace. For guys golf pants, khakis, dress shorts, polos, or plain tees are the way to go. Dark, clean jeans work for anyone. Ripped jeans, leggings, gym wear, or cut-offs are a no.
Shoes Clean sneakers, chic sandals, or fashion boots. Leave the heels, running shoes, and workboots at home.
Accessories Keep it simple with tiny rings, bracelets, watches, and sunglasses. Sunhats are yes. Big chunky jewelry or baseball caps are a no.
Pro Tip Think vineyard vibes not runway ready. You want to look effortlessly pulled together while sipping your favorite Riesling.
What We Told Our Models to Pack Bring a water bottle, sunscreen, and anything else you need throughout the day to stay comfortable and ready for fun.
Soma Craft Cidery and The Farm Inn – Sweet Sips and Cozy Vibes
Our community’s next stop was Soma Craft Cidery, and honestly it quickly became a favourite for everyone. We were greeted with big smiles and welcoming energy. They even opened the kitchen just for us, serving flights of their delicious ciders—including a non-alcoholic option—so everyone could join in.
The charcuterie board was a dream, filled with local cheeses, meats, fresh fruits, olives, nuts, crackers, and homemade jams. One of our members doesn’t eat meat or cheese, but the fresh fruit and bread options made sure everyone left happy and full. The warm energy, kind interactions, and stunning ciders made it feel like the perfect spot to unwind.
At Soma you can stay the night, rent the venue for events, enjoy a meal with friends, or just soak in the cider lounge vibes. Right above the cidery is The Farm Inn, a cozy countryside getaway in the heart of the Okanagan. With 10 boutique suites designed for comfort and charm, it’s the ideal spot to relax steps from the orchard, tasting room, and cider lounge. Alpacas graze nearby, the scent of apple trees fills the air, and rustic charm is everywhere.
Our tasting experience We tried four amazing ciders: Apple, Blue Raspberry, Honey Lavender, and Tea, and each of us had a different favorite. Megan served us with such a cheerful spirit, making the experience even more memorable. The ciders paired perfectly with the charcuterie board, making every sip and bite a little moment of joy.
Wine vs Cider – Quick Tips Wine is made from fermented grapes, letting the fruit shine in reds, whites, and rosés ranging from dry to sweet. Each sip reflects the vineyard it came from, giving you a taste of the land. Cider is made from fermented apples or other fruits. Crisp, refreshing, and fruit-forward, it can be dry, sweet, or flavoured—like Soma’s Honey Lavender or Blue Raspberry. Think of it as sparkling fruit juice for grown-ups.
Nagging Doubt Winery Big Vibes and Even Bigger Flavours
Our next stop was Nagging Doubt Winery, and let me tell you, the energy was high. After all those ciders and snacks at Soma, our crew was feeling pretty stoked. It was the perfect way to celebrate the last days of summer, and having Discover Okanagan Tours take care of our community made everything feel so smooth and stress free.
We got a behind the scenes tour and even saw the big machines that help turn grapes into their famous wines. It is wild to see all the work that goes into every bottle. At Nagging Doubt, they believe anyone can be a wine lover, no fancy occasion needed. If you want to share a great glass of wine with friends just because, this is the place.
Nagging Doubt was started with a simple, totally reasonable goal: create amazing Okanagan wines that everyone can enjoy without breaking the bank. They focus on quality, flavour, and accessibility, so there is no need to second guess your love for wine.
Our Review Nagging Doubt Winery is a total charmer with a spacious, open concept setup that is perfect for wine tours. The owners and winemakers, Abbey and Rob, were warm, welcoming, and super fun. They made the experience both entertaining and educational, walking us through how different wines are made and even showing us the difference between an American and a French barrel.
We all fell in love with the Sparkling Rosé, and honestly, wandering through the winery while sipping and learning felt like the perfect summer afternoon.
Wine Tasting 101 Tips and Tricks
Before we hit our next stop, let’s break down how wine tasting actually works and give you some first-timer tips. First things first, you do not have to finish the glass. Many wineries expect you to spit into small cups or pour some out so you can taste multiple wines or ciders without getting tipsy.
Order your tastings strategically. Start with lighter flavours and work your way to the heavier ones. Think of it as a flavour rollercoaster.
Alcohol effects, also known as don’t be that person. Even a few tastings can sneak up on you if you are not used to alcohol. Eat beforehand and keep sipping water between tastings. Pace yourself so you are enjoying the experience and not the karaoke session in the cider lounge.
Tasting room etiquette. Taste one glass at a time and follow staff cues. Do not grab the whole tray at once. Ask for pairing recommendations—cheese, charcuterie, or even chocolate. Staff love giving tips, and it makes the experience even more fun.
How to avoid looking awkward. Nod, smile, and ask questions. People overthink wine tasting, but curiosity is always cool. Do not stress if you do not know how to swirl or sniff—just try it and have fun.
Now that you have the basics and an idea of how our community felt trying new wines and ciders, let us move on to our next stop, just a quick five-minute drive away, Priest Creek Family Estate Winery.
Priest Creek Family Estate Winery
This stop was absolutely beautiful. Everywhere you looked was surrounded by lush green vines, and walking through the big doors to enter felt like stepping into royalty.
Our review of Priest Creek: Priest Creek is a stunning location with a gorgeous indoor setting and an even more impressive outdoor space. The patio is shaded with grapevines heavy with fruit, creating a picture-perfect atmosphere. Alongside the winery, more grapevines frame a space designed for live music, cornhole, and even a giant Connect Four.
We had the joy of being served by Tyra and Courtney, who poured us two beautiful wines from the 2024 season: a crisp Pinot Gris and a bold Cabernet Franc. The views alone could take your breath away, but if that does not win you over, the wine certainly will.
The View & Wards Cidery
Our next stop was The View and Wards, and this one was easily another favourite for our community. Everyone sat outside, enjoying their “Wards Bites” and sharing a bottle of wine in the beautiful yard. It was stunning and magical, the kind of spot that makes you want to stay all afternoon. We would rate this location a solid 10/10. The staff were so kind, the food was amazing, and the collaboration between Wards Cidery and The View Winery is such a great mix for groups or solo travellers looking for a little variety.
The View Winery sits on land that has been in the Turton/Ward family for five generations. Originally, fresh market apples were grown here. In the mid-1990s, the family began a transition, planting vineyards and cider apples. Spartans and McIntosh gave way to Gewürztraminer, Riesling, Ehrenfelser, and Pinotage vines, along with cider varieties like Belle de Boskoop, Chisel Jersey, and Bulmers Norman.
In 2006, the family’s beloved packinghouse—built by Great Granddad Ward in 1922—was transformed into a winery and cidery under the direction of grandson Chris Turton and great-granddaughter Jennifer Turton-Molgat. Today, The View produces more than ten thousand cases each year. Their portfolio includes award-winning Riesling, Gewürztraminer, Pinot Gris, Ehrenfelser, Pinot Noir, and Pinotage, plus their signature rosé and Silver Lining Estate blends. In 2013, they even launched Canada’s first wine-in-a-can with their wildly popular BLING Sparkling Wine.
Why the Red Shoe Label? Jennifer shares, “My husband and I went dancing. We danced until my red pumps started to pinch. After heading home and finishing a bottle of Merlot, he playfully removed my shoes and stuffed the heel of one shoe into the empty bottle. And there it was, with an overturned glass beside it, an image of our own making. It spoke to us of our love of wine, born by accident during a fun and carefree moment.”
Our review of The View / Wards The View and Wards Cidery is a spacious venue with a charming atmosphere and an outdoor picnic area surrounded by apple trees. We were served by Calla, Krista, and Ellie, who were all kind, welcoming, and thorough with their tastings. Inside, we tried the Gewürztraminer, Rosé, and Black Rhino—all were delicious. Then we headed out for a picnic with Riesling and a charcuterie board. This is definitely a go-to spot; it really has it all.
Hidden Perks Many wineries and cideries have lounges or patios that aren’t obvious from the entrance. Always ask to explore—you might stumble on something special. Some also offer members-only tastings or seasonal drinks that staff don’t advertise. If you’re curious, they might share the secret.
Secret Photo Spots Vineyards and orchards are filled with beautiful photo backdrops, but not every path or gate is meant for wandering. Ask the staff—they often know the hidden gems. And resist the temptation to climb fences or get too close to farm equipment. Trust us, they’ll notice.
SpearHead Winery
By this point, our community was starting to feel a little tired, but the excitement was still there—just in a quieter, cozier way. Our next stop was SpearHead Winery, and it was the perfect way to wind down the day.
The community was asked to pick out a bottle of wine to give away to other members who couldn’t join us on the tour. It was such a thoughtful gesture that made the stop extra special. We sat outside under the red umbrellas on a warm afternoon, enjoying the view and great conversation.
Our review of SpearHead SpearHead Winery is a scenic spot with rolling vineyards and a stunning backdrop. We sat on the patio and were served by Saori, who was so sweet and thorough with the tasting. She poured us a refreshing Rosé and a Pinot Noir with a beautifully layered flavour profile. Inside the shop, we found amazing prices and unique pairings, including chocolate bars chosen to match the wines. It was the kind of place that makes you want to linger and savour every sip.
Meadow Vista Honey Wines
After we loaded into the van with our new wine in hand, the community was buzzing with excitement for our final stop. And wow—it was another favourite. Meadow Vista Honey Wines was the sweetest way to wrap up the day, literally.
Nestled on a five-and-a-half-acre farm in East Kelowna, Meadow Vista is surrounded by orchards and home to over 150 hives of hardworking honeybees. These bees not only make the nectar for their meads but also play a vital role in pollinating local farms. It’s no wonder they say Meadow Vista tastes like “nature in a glass”—we couldn’t agree more.
Award Highlights You Need to Know Meadow Vista isn’t just pretty—it’s decorated. Their meads have taken home: ✨ Multiple Golds at the World Mead Championships ✨ Best Mead Pairing at Osoyoos Oyster Festival ✨ BC Wine & Canadian Wine Awards medals (Gold, Silver, Bronze—you name it) ✨ Fan fave titles like People’s Choice Best Winery
From sparkling apple to blueberry-haskap to their iconic Mabon and Ostara, Meadow Vista has stacked over 50+ awards worldwide.
Our experience at Meadow Vista To say this place was a highlight is an understatement. The food was fresh from the farm—cheeses, meats, fruits, and even quail eggs—all paired beautifully with their meads and honey. And the honey itself? Absolutely unreal. Sweet, smooth, and unforgettable. Every sip and every bite felt like a celebration of the land and the hardworking bees behind it.
It was the perfect way to end our community wine and cider tour—surrounded by lush orchards, sipping mead that’s been awarded time and time again, and sharing laughs and memories over food that felt like it came straight from nature’s table. Meadow Vista truly delivers on its promise of “nature in a glass.”
What’s Your Sip Personality
Okay besties, time to find out what drink was basically made for you. We put together a quick tasting table quiz so you can match your vibe to your glass. No gatekeeping here—this is your shortcut to choosing between wine or cider without overthinking it. Grab a pen, tally up your answers, and see what your taste buds are secretly craving.
OUR TASTING TABLE
Question
Option A
Option B
Option C
Option D
1. Your ideal weekend vibe
Lounging in the sun
Exploring an orchard
Cozying up in a lounge
Dancing to live music
2. Pick a snack
Cheese & crackers
Fresh fruit & charcuterie
Chocolate
Olives & nuts
3. Your outfit
Flowy dress or skirt
Linen pants & top
Smart casual jeans
Casual sundress
4. Your personality
Adventurous & curious
Calm & thoughtful
Sweet & fun
Trendsetter & playful
5. Flavour preference
Bold & intense
Crisp & light
Sweet & approachable
Fruity & unexpected
Results
Mostly A’s → Bold Red Wine 🍷 You love classic, rich, and adventurous flavours. Perfect for sipping slowly while enjoying vineyard views.
Mostly B’s → Crisp Apple Cider 🍏 Refreshing and easygoing, just like you. Ideal for wandering the orchard or lounging on a sunny patio.
Mostly C’s → Sweet Riesling or Sparkling Wine 🍾 Sweet, playful, and totally approachable. You enjoy the lighter, brighter side of sipping.
Mostly D’s → Fruity or Flavoured Cider 🍓 Fun, trendy, and unique—always up for trying something new and Instagram-worthy.
The Final Pour
So, what’s in your glass? Whether you’re a bold red, a crisp cider, a sweet sparkling, or a fruity wild card, there’s a sip out there that was basically made for you. Next time you’re out in the Okanagan, order with confidence—and maybe try the one you didn’t get. Because honestly, every pour has a story, and yours is just getting started.
A Huge Thank You ❤️
We want to send a heartfelt thank you to Discover Okanagan Tours and Sip South East Kelowna for hosting us—it was such a beautiful experience! And of course, the biggest thank you goes out to our amazing community. This summer was unforgettable, and we truly wouldn’t be here without your love and support.
Wishing you all a cozy, joy-filled fall season. 🍂 Sending so much love from us to you!
During the Heat of Summer, Our Community Teamed Up With Levi Price, and We’re Finally Revealing His Journey and Inside Scoop! We Asked Him the Tough Questions, and Here’s What He Had to Say.
The Secret Behind a Creator Who Inspires an Entire Community and Makes Every Moment Look Effortless
Levi has been a driving force in the creative community for years and most recently he has been making waves right here in Kelowna. A true talent, Levi is a rock for brands and creators alike, inspiring anyone looking to find their place in the creative world or simply take that first step toward being creative. Our community absolutely loved working with him. He was kind, guided poses, and encouraged members who had never modeled in the water before. Levi created a safe and vulnerable space, allowing the moment to be captured beautifully.
📸 Levi Price Unfiltered: 15 Questions for the Creative Mind Behind the Lens
Let’s start with your big three — do you think your astrology shows up in how you shoot or tell stories?
Answer: I don’t pay attention to astrology so I’m not sure haha. I’m an Aquarius if that helps.
How much experience do you have with digital creation — and how has that evolved your style?
Answer: I’ve been doing photography and videography for about 12 years now. It took me over half of that time before I found my photography “style”, which is largely due to getting a solid understanding of the tools in Lightroom and the editing process.
You always come back to water. What’s that element mean to you in your creative world? Answer:
I grew up in the Okanagan so ever since I can remember I’ve spent tons of time in the lakes, playing in creeks, all that fun stuff. It might just be nostalgia but I love the water, and shooting portraits in it just feels right.
What’s something this shoot says… without saying it? Like a secret message buried in the frames. Answer:
Which shoot? I’ll skip this question haha
Do you intentionally tap into emotion when you create — or does it just flow through naturally?
Answer: I don’t really intentionally tap into emotion when I’m shooting or editing, but it definitely comes out in the images. Historically I create my best work when I’m sad, and I struggled with on-and-off depression until my late 20’s so looking back I think that was not just a big part of why I picked up a camera in the first place, but also it probably benefited my photography.
What’s the hardest part about being a full-time creative that no one really prepares you for?
Answer: The hardest part of being a full time creative that nobody prepares you for is that if you want to do it full time, being good at your craft is only about 10% of it. The rest is the business side of it, the marketing, sales, client acquisition and so on. All of which I do not excel at haha.
If you taught a class for high school creatives — what would be lesson one, and why?
Answer: If I taught a class on photography, lesson number one would be focus on your angles. I actually made a video about this for my YouTube channel and it blew up. Capturing your subject from angles that the human eye wouldn’t typically be viewing them from is the first step in making an image that stands out and catches attention.
When did holding a camera stop being just a skill and start feeling like your thing?
Answer: I don’t think I’ve ever really felt like photography is more of a skill to me than just feeling like “my thing”. I used to take tons of pictures as a kid with those little disposable 35mm cameras that my parents would buy me, and every time I pick up a camera I’m just doing it because I love it, and the skill just came through constant practice.
What’s your best tip for young creatives in smaller towns just getting started in this industry?
Answer: My biggest tip for creatives in smaller towns is to find your audience online. If it weren’t for the internet I don’t think anyone would see any of my work, and it opens our audience up to the world opposed to just our geographical location.
Do you think the people you surround yourself with impact what you create — or how bold you’re willing to be?
Answer: The people we surround ourselves definitely impact how we create, because they impact our lives in general. Speaking personally I don’t think it’s had a huge effect on my photography, as my family and friends don’t really care that I do what I do, and when we hang out it’s not something we really talk about. But having good friends and strong social support just helps with life in general.
If someone muted your films and just felt them — what do you hope they feel first?
Answer: If somebody watched what I create with no sound, I’d hope they at least enjoy how it looks. I’m very passionate about creating captivating imagery.
How much of your process is planned — and how much is just straight instinct?
Answer: For my client work a lot of it is very planned out and detailed. The client needs to know what they’re paying for before the work begins, but when it comes to my creative portraits I prefer to just pick a location and lighting, then just show up and let it rip. I’ve never been one for mood boards for the creative stuff, I like to just feel it out in the moment and let it happen organically. Perhaps I enjoy part of the surprise of not knowing exactly what we’re going to create before I show up.
Have you ever captured something that stuck with you — like it followed you around for days?
Answer: There are definitely times when I take a photo that it really sticks with me, but like any artist that feeling is fleeting. We tend to dissect our work over time and we’ll go from being satisfied with what we’ve created to “oh I should have lit this better”, or “I could have shot it like this instead”. We’re our own worst critics haha.
Is there a part of your story you haven’t told through film or photography yet — but want to?
Answer: Not that I can think of, let’s skip this one too haha.
Who are the types of people or projects you’re craving to create with next — what should be landing in your inbox right now?
Answer: As far as my creative portraiture goes, the types of people I look to work with are easy-going, fun people to be around. A portrait session usually runs anywhere from 1-3 hours depending on how much fun we’re having, and lots of conversation happens in that time. I just like to shoot with people who are kind, have a sense of humour, and are comfortable in front of the camera.
📬 Inbox Levi Price
This creator is the perfect mix of cool, talented, professional, and fun to be around. His bookings are pretty full, but he’s always interested in discussing a project and open to chatting!
From the floor up with the lock and key to countless community secrets The Vault. Our community went inside the studio and here is what we discovered.
Credits
Videography: Autumn @am.media_ (ZEAL Media Member) Photography: Shivana @snaps.by.shiv (ZEAL Media Member) Editing: In-house by ZEAL ZEALUNITY Community Models: Deep, Sydney, Kirat, Jenayah, Savjeet, Shivana (extra) Featured Artists: @tokyogelic, @miggsthechemist Location: The Vault Studio Kelowna @thevaultrecstudio Mood Board / Creative Direction: Maia @fusssygirl
You Think You Know The Vault Studio. You Don’t
What is the point of supporting music when connections often speak louder than skill? In a world built on packaging originality to line the wallets of promoters, it is easy to wonder if talent truly matters at all. Why put energy into finding it when it seems like handouts and last names carry the most weight? Walking into The Vault felt like a crack in that system, a space where raw, unapologetic talent could prove itself without favouritism or pedigree. Preparing for our shoot, some of us were hesitant. Would we walk into dominating personalities? Would inflated egos overshadow the creativity in the room? Would the bigger names in the local scene make us feel small or out of place? To our surprise, it was the exact opposite. The space was fluid, calm, and liberating, a true do what you do environment. Shot lists flowed naturally, even when our media went off script, not from prideful requests but from genuine freedom. Every note we heard, every performance we witnessed, and every moment captured proved one thing clearly: real talent cannot be bought, inherited, or faked. Connections may open doors, but it is skill, authenticity, and passion that fills the room and leaves a mark. In The Vault, that raw energy didn’t just exist…it demanded attention.
How Our Community Felt in the Studio
From the moment we stepped into The Vault Studio, it was clear this was a space that truly holds room for everyone. Everyone felt safe, comfortable, and free to be themselves. We took photos, played with music curated by Miggs the Chemist, and listened to Tokyo, who has been rocking Kelowna and BCs music scene for years. The energy was infectious, fun, relaxed, and inspiring.
For many of our community members, this was their very first time in a recording studio. Naturally, questions and anxieties came up. Am I allowed to drink? Can I choose not to drink and still be accepted? Am I okay not being photographed in a party scene? When we spoke with the owner, he reminded our group of the studio’s no drinking policy while emphasizing that everyone is welcome to bring whatever they need to vibe and create. This felt like a huge power move, creating space for everyone’s energy, style, and comfort.
The result was a surge of confidence in the group. Questions shifted from “Can I drink water?” or “Will people be smoking around me?” to “Can I bring more than one outfit?” “Can I take behind the scenes shots?” “Can I actually perform something?” There were no expectations, no judgment, no labels, just the freedom to create and be respected.
It is rare to feel this kind of energy. Sharing this with our community amplified their confidence even more. The Vault Studio is not just a place to make music, it is a space that nurtures growth, creativity, and self expression while ensuring everyone has a good time. We would recommend this place to anyone looking to explore music, develop their craft, or simply enjoy being part of a supportive, inspiring environment. Great people, great souls, and an energy that genuinely wants to help you grow.
Nepotism in Small Towns and Finding Safe Spaces
In small towns, power is often hidden in plain sight. Even the smaller names can hold influence that others do not. You show up hoping to belong, hoping to learn, and suddenly you are met with walls of ego, clicky behavior, and smooth talkers who surround themselves with only people who nod along or stay silent. It can be intimidating, especially when all you want is to create, grow, and be part of the scene.
That is why it is so important to trust yourself more than the opportunity in front of you. Walk into a space and notice the energy. Who sets the tone? How do people treat each other? If the owner or leader is stuck up, ego driven, or clicky, chances are the environment will mirror that. Safe spaces start at the top. You want a community where confidence is nurtured, mistakes are allowed, and everyone feels they belong.
Walking into The Vault Studio felt like stepping into something completely different. The owner spoke calmly, young in body and mind, yet wise and grounded. There was no flash, no showboating, no look at me energy. They were just part of the group, quietly holding space, giving confidence without needing to say it. The room felt safe to experiment, to perform, to take photos, and to just be yourself.
It is rare to feel this energy. In most small towns, owners can feel stuck in old mindsets, projecting past struggles onto the youth and expecting them to fuel a grind that is not theirs. The Vault was different. The owner set the tone not with words but with presence. Confident, ballsy, but never suggesting they were better than anyone else. That balance of humility, wisdom, and support made the space feel safe, inspiring, and inclusive.
For anyone looking to grow in music or creative communities, take note: look for spaces where leadership sets the tone for safety and respect. Trust your instincts. If a space feels rigid, ego driven, or intimidating, it is okay to walk away. True communities lift you up and make room for everyone. The Vault Studio is a perfect example of this. Credit where it is due — it is a studio that nurtures talent, lifts energy, and leaves everyone better for having been there.
Tokyogelic: A Cultural Catalyst in Kelowna’s Music Scene
Tokyogelic is a rising star in Kelowna’s music scene, known for his dynamic performances and unique blend of musical influences. His recent show at Ten13 was a testament to his growing presence, where he debuted his latest track, “Lord Save Me,” to an enthusiastic crowd. This performance showcased his ability to captivate audiences with his energy and authenticity.
Beyond Kelowna, Tokyogelic’s reach extends to other communities, including a recent performance in Prince Rupert, BC. This shows his dedication to connecting with diverse audiences and sharing his music across the province.
Through his music and community engagement, Tokyogelic plays a pivotal role in shaping Kelowna’s evolving music scene, offering both entertainment and a sense of belonging to its residents.
How to Get Involved in the Creative Scene
Getting started in a creative community can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. The first step is simple: reach out. Direct message the artists you see around town, look into studios and promoters, and introduce yourself. Message, connect, and showcase yourself as a creative willing to learn. Make scripts, videos, and share your work. Hold expectations for yourself and for the people around you, and remember not to let anyone bring you down — not for one second.
Have you ever had someone tell you, “You’ve got lots to learn,” or tried to minimize your achievements by comparing you to the next big thing? That energy is toxic. Follow those who want to be around you in the present moment. That is the only way forward.
So how do you start? Start by loving yourself. Find a voice, a style, or a creative path that is authentic to you. When it comes from a place of truth, it will be felt and respected. It is okay if you don’t know exactly what that is yet. That is why it is even more important to surround yourself with people who see your light and support it without trying to control or use it. You don’t owe anyone anything. Your growth, your voice, and your creativity are yours to cultivate.
Stay Close, Watch This Space
Big things are coming. We are excited to announce that we have some upcoming projects in the works with this community. We can’t wait to see them, learn from them, and support them in ways that allow for inspired movement. Looking to join? Stick close.
Follow @thevaultrecstudio to connect for studio sessions and creative direction.
BTS
It wasn’t just about photography or videography — it was about capturing the energy, the confidence, and the freedom that comes when a community supports one another. Every laugh, every pose, every spontaneous idea made the shoot feel alive and real.
To our amazing community, we are honestly blown away by the growth and energy we’ve seen over the past few months. You are the heartbeat of ZEALUNITY, and every like, comment, share, and message fuels what we do. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for showing up, believing, and growing with us. Follow us @ZEALUNITY and keep being part of this journey—we couldn’t do it without you.
How Five Artists Use Creativity to Fight Civil Unrest
From Gaza to Los Angeles, and from back-alley rallies to major museums, artists are leading the charge in spotlighting injustice. In 2025, amid a backdrop of the Palestinian genocide, war in Ukraine, and ICE raids in the U.S., five creatives—Nadya Tolokonnikova, Doechii, Patrick Martínez, Malak Mattar, and Hazem Harb—are using language, paint, performance, and collage to push back. Through their work, they channel echoes of historical resistance: the legacy of Pussy Riot, the mural movements of the First and Second Intifadas, and Ukraine’s post-2014 cultural revival. Ultimately, this is art as activism—urgent, unapologetic, and global.
In early June 2025, Nadya Tolokonnikova—co-founder of the Russian protest-art collective Pussy Riot—entered a mock prison cell at LA’s Museum of Contemporary Art (MOCA) for a 10-day durational performance titled Police State. Designed to provoke, the piece recreated her 2012–13 incarceration in a Russian labor camp—16-hour workdays making uniforms, sleepless nights, and punitive conditions that stripped away basic human dignity. With precision, she brought the physicality of repression to downtown Los Angeles, meticulously reconstructing her cell complete with bunk, toilet, sewing machine, surveillance cameras, and a mixer that blended Russian prison sounds with lullabies and her own raw screams.
However, midway through the performance, real-world events began bleeding into the exhibit. Federal ICE raids in the nearby garment district sparked spontaneous protests and forced MOCA’s temporary closure. National Guard troops arrived. Helicopters circled overhead. Nevertheless, Nadya remained inside—live-streaming scanner audio and protest chants directly into the cell’s speakers. Museum guards reportedly announced, “Police State exhibit closed due to police state,” and still, she carried on—in solidarity and defiance.
To understand the deeper meaning, it helps to revisit Pussy Riot’s origins. Back in 2011, the group formed in Moscow, crashing the Cathedral of Christ the Saviour in protest of Vladimir Putin’s growing church-state alliance. After her 2012 arrest, Tolokonnikova spent two years in a Russian prison and emerged as an international symbol of feminist resistance and political art.
Today, Police State continues that legacy. By connecting Russian authoritarianism to U.S. crackdowns, it exposes the slow erosion of civil liberties in real time. In doing so, Tolokonnikova’s work blurs the line between past and present, performance and protest—making her not just a witness to injustice, but a weapon against it. @nadya
2. Doechii (Rapper/Activist): Spitting Truth at Awards Shows
In 2025, Tierra Doechii—known mononymously as Doechii—has been tearing up the hip-hop scene both musically and politically. One of the year’s most headline-making moments came during the BET Awards, where she seized the stage after winning Best Female Hip-Hop Artist. Rather than simply celebrating, she fired off a blistering critique of the Trump-era ICE raids sweeping through Los Angeles. “This is a ruthless attack on our neighborhoods,” she declared, boldly calling the deployment of National Guard troops an “act of aggression against immigrants.” Within minutes, social media lit up, and protest organizers rapidly shared her speech across digital platforms.
Importantly, her message wasn’t just performative—it drew from a long tradition of Black and Brown resistance in performance art and hip-hop. From the revolutionary voices of Public Enemy to the political bars of Killer Mike, Doechii’s statement echoed a lineage where mainstream recognition becomes a platform for defiance.
Furthermore, Doechii’s intersectional activism strategically links race, migration, gender identity, and state violence. By doing so, she shows how music can serve as a vehicle for systemic critique, and how a new generation of artists is using performance as protest. In the broader context of 2025 protest art, her voice is not just resonant—it’s revolutionary. @doechii
3. Patrick Martínez (Visual Artist): Street Art as Calling Card
Los Angeles painter and muralist Patrick Martínez took his resistance straight to the streets. With anti-ICE rallies blooming in May and June, Martinez supplied vibrant, handmade protest signage—posters, stencils, spray-painted placards—during marches in the Fashion District and near the Geffen Contemporary. His designs often echoed Barbara Kruger’s iconic confrontational graphics, striking at themes like freedom, surveillance, and state violence .
Historical roots: Martínez’s work builds on L.A.’s vibrant mural tradition—from Chicano muralists of the ‘70s to the street art waves of the 2000s. His banners become living artworks, mobilizing communities and reinforcing that resistance is collective, not solo. @patrick_martinez_studio
4. Malak Mattar (Palestinian Painter): Chronicles of Genocide
Twenty-five-year-old Malak Mattar, a Palestinian painter from Gaza, remains a beacon of color in a time of devastation. Born during the 2014 Gaza War, Mattar turned to art for survival. Now, in 2025, she’s earning international acclaim—staging Falasteen, a solo show at Central Saint Martins in London, the first Palestinian artist ever given such a platform there. The centerpiece piece, No Words, stands over two meters tall—a monochrome, brutalist vision of bodies and death that critics have likened to Picasso’s Guernica .
In her own words: “In the time of genocide, art is a powerful way of resisting the systematic dehumanisation of our people” ). Her presence evokes the New Visions group that sprang from the First Intifada—artists who used local materials to document resistance, inspiring generations. @malakmattarart
While less famous on social media, Palestinian-Diaspora artist Hazem Harb is making waves in museums. Born in Gaza, raised across Rome and Dubai, Harb merges archival documents, photo fragments, maps, and found objects into collages that meditate on displacement, fragmentation, memory, and erasure. His 2025 exhibition Not There, Yet Felt in Dubai traced lost hometowns, linguistic loss, and cultural violence, embodying modern Palestinian history in tactile form.
Historical roots: Harb follows in the tradition of intellectual documentarians like Sliman Mansour and Nabil Anani, bridging First Intifada aesthetics with new digital-political realities—embodying “committed art” that fights censorship through preservation . @hazemharb
Why This Moment?
Struggle
Artist(s)
Modality
Historical Echo
ICE raids in L.A.
Tolokonnikova, Doechii, Martínez
Performance, music, public graphics
U.S. civil rights rallies, Chicano mural movement
Palestinian genocide
Mattar, Harb
Painting, collage, archival art
New Visions (1989), documentary traditions
Global authoritarianism
Tolokonnikova
Institution-based performance
Pussy Riot’s cathedral stunt, Gulag parentage
Call-out culture
Doechii
Awards-stage intervention
Rap as resistance, NWA, Public Enemy
Diaspora memory
Harb
Archival collage, exhibits
Palestinian historiography, Nakba commemoration
A Deeper Dive: Symbols of Resistance
Punk Prayer to Prison Cell
Pussy Riot’s 2012 Punk Prayer was brief but iconic: masked women shouting women’s rights and opposing Putin’s fusion of politics and religion inside a cathedral. That arrest ignited Petitions, concerts, protests, and elevated Tolokonnikova and Alyokhina to global prominence.
Police State continues that story, dismantling the line between personal biography and political art. By sewing protest slogans into military uniforms, generating noise-based soundscapes, and enduring institutional surveillance, Tolokonnikova embeds resistance in time itself .
Rhyme and Revolution
Doechii’s protest rap joins a proud rap tradition—from Rage Against the Machine to modern trailblazers like Killer Mike—that embraces protest as performance. Her refusal to remain silent upon winning mainstream recognition keeps hip-hop’s activist flame alive in L.A.’s current crisis.
Murals on the march
From Mexico to East L.A., murals have always drawn communities together. Martínez’s signage skateboards that collective aesthetic into protests. His work echoes the 1970s Chicano political mural “We Are Not Cockroaches” and the ’90s AIDS and immigrant rights poster waves.
Painting a genocide
Mattar’s work—especially No Words—uses stark contrasts of black and white and massive scale to mirror musical traditions of Picasso’s Guernica (Spain) and Anselm Kiefer (Germany). She also taps watercolors and color symbolism—linking olives, oranges, doves—as coded signs of Palestinian identity.
Fragments as memory
Harb’s collages collapse space-time: an old schoolbook, a village map, a broken coffee mug—these pieces reassemble lost homes. His work follows Palestinian archival practices, but updated for the digital age: each collage an act of resistance against erasure.
Context: Why Art Matters Now
Visibility in media deserts – Gaza’s bombings and migrant raids often receive incomplete or biased coverage. Art bypasses that scarcity, making visceral arguments for empathy and justice.
Emotional truth versus data – Hard stats feel abstract; art forces empathy. Silence becomes noise, distance becomes skin.
Global connectivity – Tolokonnikova connects L.A.’s raids to her Russian experience. Mattar and Harb link diaspora trauma to new generations. Protest art becomes cross-border.
Historical continuity – From Pussy Riot (2011), through Ukraine’s 2014 cultural boom, to this moment—the baton of resistance-art is being handed again.
Institutional infiltration – Whether inside MOCA, on global stages, or street corners, these works blur the line between art and protest, legitimacy and defiance.
The Road Ahead: When Resistance Becomes Routine
Doechii’s trajectory: will she use her debut album for an activist platform or pivot toward mainstream pop personas? The next year could define whether protest remains her central act.
Tolokonnikova’s next act: Police State might return, but could she adapt to other authoritarian contexts—Hong Kong, Iran—amplifying solidarity networks?
Mattar’s global canvases: with increasing exhibitions anticipated in the U.S. and Middle East, her visuals could shape discourse for Palestinian rights in the art market and academia.
Harb’s archive labs: as history digitizes, his collages might become part of university collections, fueling future research and memorial initiatives.
Martínez’s mural politics: can local signage evolve into permanent murals—creating long-term visual infrastructure for immigrant rights?
Conclusion: Creativity Surges Where Repression Rises
In 2025, art is not optional—it’s essential. When governments silence journalists, harass immigrants, and bomb civilians, these creative voices—through their paintings, performances, song, and design—reclaim narrative, memory, and justice. They argue: if protest must escalate, let it do so through paint and poetry. If repression sweeps like wildfire, let art be the hose that restores humanity.
The artists we’ve spotlighted are doing more than reacting—they’re shaping movements. Their legacy echoes street resistance from Ferguson, mural workshops in Palestinian camps, graffiti in Kyiv, suffragette banners, and punk interventions in the Kremlin. Each stands in solidarity with the voiceless—and each, in their own medium, is transforming civil unrest into acts of collective defiance.
Because in the end, as Nadya Tolokonnikova said in her cell: “No society is perfect… we all have to be brave.” And art is where that bravery meets visibility, time after time.
The Truth About Why I Stayed Silent — What I’m Finally Ready to Share
I don’t even know how to write what I want to write. It’s scary to think that one person can feel one way and someone else can feel completely different. Sometimes it holds me back from sharing because the fear of being misunderstood hurts more than my ability to hide my pain. It’s hard.
All I’ve ever wanted was to feel seen. But as I’ve grown older, I realize that my need to be heard was so loud because I was asking for love—the kind I didn’t have for myself and didn’t grow up with. It’s tough being an adult, a mom, a wife, and still feeling like I’m nothing but human, learning how to love.
I carry so many responsibilities, and I’m still carrying bags I didn’t pack. I’m trying to heal myself, to break generational trauma, and to figure out what the right thing is. One of the biggest things I’ve realized is that I used to take people’s love and value as security. If I just loved you the way you wanted, maybe I could stay comfortable forever. Maybe I could just be loved, safe, and content. No more asking. No more doubting.
But this is the only thing I know how to do. To keep quiet. To please. To mask. No one wanted to listen in my personal life except my fiancé, but he’s not the one I’m trying to heal from. I’ve shared my truth with people who asked for it, and suddenly it was too much. I was too much.
Why couldn’t I just do what I was told? Would I get your love then? No. Would you try to understand me? Would you make sure I had a soft place to land when I cried? No.
If this is what I’ve been subjected to, even from people who were supposed to care, then will I ever really be heard?
This is the form I’ve decided to write on because I can’t always speak. For those who know me, and those who don’t, I have a stuttering problem. It started when I was young and got worse over time. I always blamed myself because it’s happening to me. But things also happened to me. Things I’ve never talked about. And I guess I just stopped talking because of the insecurity.
But it’s hard to keep it all in when I feel myself being surrounded by lies. It feels like I’m being suppressed to forget instead of being asked what happened to me. Not by just anyone’s opinion but by the very people I’ve been longing would help me.
Whenever I ask spirit what to do, the answer is always the same. Create. And that’s what I’ve been doing these past five years. I’ve been pouring my energy into things that matter, but it’s also made this feeling inside me get quieter. My happiness has slowly dulled because I can feel the people from my past—the friends and family—talking differently about me. Just because I don’t confront it doesn’t mean I don’t care.
I care too much. It’s hurting me. But I don’t want to keep telling you how it feels because no one changes, and that’s okay. I don’t expect you to.
I’m learning. This is part of it. I need to tell my story. Maybe I’ll share it in small pieces because it’s too much to unpack all at once. But this is me trying.
The Cost of Being Real
You might see me some days shining brighter than you’ve ever seen before, and other days not quite so bright—but that doesn’t mean I’m not okay. I feel people’s judgments and stares, even in places I’ve never been before. I show up as myself. When things are going well, you might see the best version of me. When they’re not, I might look or feel like the worst version—at least to myself. I’m simply working through my own process, putting my energy into healing so I can be even brighter the next day.
I know people often ask out of genuine concern. Are you tired? How are things going today? What’s the problem? I get it. But if I answer you, will you twist my truth into a version that fits your own story about me?
When people ask why I started Zealunity, I can feel their confusion, and it bothers me. What’s so hard to understand? I went through something negative, and I wanted to create what a positive space could look like—something I needed in that timeline of my life. It feels like people want me to say I had some weird dream and plotted it out.
Even when I share my small talk, my surface-level story, no one asks any deeper questions. Maybe it’s because they don’t want to pry, but the expressions on their faces don’t show empathy. It’s subtle, but it’s there. Still confusion.
What are you looking for? Can I answer anything more? Or will that make you face who you think I am—or maybe who you actually are based on the questions you ask? I don’t mind answering your questions. It’s okay to be honest with me. But when my answer doesn’t match what you already believe, are you willing to let that go?
It’s been hard having people around who don’t fully trust me, but honestly, I can’t blame them. You don’t really know me. That’s why, for those who are looking or wanting to connect, I want to be a space you can come to.
To be real and straightforward, I feel the simplest place to start is at the very beginning. I’m not sure how long this will take or what will come from it, but I’m going to try to start there. This is for myself, my kids, my friends, and maybe for anyone who has questions they don’t feel comfortable asking me directly. I hope this can be a place where you can understand how I think and see my perspective on my story. Little bits…
The Beginning of Me: Trauma, Trucks, and Tough Love
I was born in Winnipeg, Manitoba, on August 10th, 2001, around 7:30 in the morning. My mom has told me the birth was pretty traumatic. From what I understand, I wasn’t coming out easily. She wanted a natural birth but was open to help. I guess I got stuck—TMI, I know. Then this guy came into the room without warning and told my mom he was going to use some kind of tool to pull me out. I don’t know all the details, but my grandma on my mom’s side and my dad said everyone was pretty upset about how it went down. I never got much more info than that.
I’ve tried to keep this simple because I don’t really know if all the facts I have are true or if some of it is just feelings and memories mixing together. I’ve got a lot of side stories and questions swirling around, but I’m trying not to internalize everything too much.
Mothers are incredibly strong. I don’t mean to minimize that rough experience, but it just shows how life happens sometimes, you know? Anyways.
I grew up surrounded by motorbikes, snowmobiles, 4x4s, tractors—you name it. My grandparents on my dad’s side still own a place with like 50 acres, plus another property with a house, barn, and all kinds of “toys.” The other land is for tree planting. It was a special place to grow up—safe but loud, full of real, messy, beautiful farm life. There’s something about that kind of childhood that sticks with you.
After my parents’ divorce and separation, I’d spend lots of time at my grandparents’ place. It became the place I would stay and a constant refuge throughout my childhood, especially during the hard times. It was also the meeting place for my mom and dad to talk before the “exchange”, and every time they met there, it felt like a ritual or some kind of cult space—like they were stuck in a loop I didn’t belong in.
I don’t remember much about my mom and dad’s house because we moved when I was three. We had to leave after my mom found out my dad was struggling with an addiction. She didn’t know before, she always told me it was new information for her too.
Later on, my dad would bring up strange things without me asking—making these offhand, half jokes about “pain relief” he’d made for my mom. Even as a kid, that felt wrong. I never wanted to ask for more because it didn’t feel safe. As I got older, I realised he struggled to control his emotions, and somehow I became the person who either had to validate his manic moods or bounce back better energy. So that’s what I did. No questions asked, just smiles.
Why Growing Up Felt Like Gaslighting Myself for Years
As I grew up, I think I started to get used to this strange mix of energy around me. It became easy to see others’ actions that I didn’t like as something unrelated to what was really happening inside me. Let’s just say that. I wanted to see love, respect, care, and safety. Honestly, I gaslit myself pretty hard from about age eight to sixteen. But that’s also where my healing began and where I’m learning to be kinder to myself. I was a kid—I didn’t know any better.
I feel like as I go further on this journey, because this feels good, I’ll have more details to share and be able to talk about it more clearly. Sometimes the things I’m working through are what I use to create something beautiful. It’s funny how focusing on the opposite of the negative helps me stop dwelling on it. So yeah, I’ll try to think about it more, but right now it’s hard.
Naturally, what comes to mind is when things really shifted. It all changed when my mom married my stepdad. My dad’s behaviour became harder and harder to understand. My mom started putting me in the middle, making me choose between them. I remember on Father’s Day, if I bought a “bigger” gift for my dad, my mom would pull me aside and tell me how much my stepdad would really appreciate it. That confused me.
At the same time, I knew my stepdad was using my mom to fulfill his own needs for gratitude, and that hurt. He would often look at other women and smile bigger at strangers he’d never met than he ever did at me or our family. It always felt like the life he wanted was just a couple steps away—but he was stuck with us. The life he had was a bit better than where he came from, but still far from what he dreamed of.
It wasn’t just the looks—it was physical and emotional too.
The Wild Nights That Changed Everything — Why I Had to Run to Find Myself
Why would I care? Because I had to do everything my heart was telling me — even when it felt like chaos. Imagine being 15, sneaking out in the middle of a farming field, no friends, no money, just figuring it out alone.. crying. Those wild nights led to some deep self-reflection. I kept asking myself, Taylor, you’re hurting. You say you don’t care, but why? Why does this feel so good? Don’t you want freedom? Don’t you want to be safe?
That’s what pushed me to move out halfway through grade 12. No money. No plan. And honestly? No feelings at all. Just pure, stubborn trust in myself and a fierce need to stand up for who I was becoming. I could feel my mom waiting for me to fall apart—like she was just waiting for me to crumble under all this pressure. And that hurt, because… what the hell, Mom? Your life choices put me in this position in the first place. Every time I ran to you about something—emotional or physical—you’d tell me he was working on himself or that I probably did something to deserve it. Even when you didn’t say it outright, the way you’d look at me or ask, “What did you do?” made it clear you thought I was the problem. Like, Mom, this man, regardless of who he is to us, just did something that made me feel so uncomfortable, and I told him to stop, but nothing changed. Instead of seeing the problem, you turned it on me. I guess I learned that if anyone had a problem, it was because I was telling the truth—but they weren’t ready to hear it. I don’t get saved. So nah, get outta my face. I was doing me, and you do you.
Once again, I was the one creating distance—“She’s going through something,” they said. The only thing I was going through were the booby traps set up by our family. Honestly, can you tell there’s a lot to unpack here? Haha, yeah, that’s an understatement.
But this was also when I found my first real connection with God. It’s not about telling anyone else what to believe—this is just my experience with what I believe. After crashing on my manager’s couch for a while (going sour), I scoured the internet and found a basement suite I could actually afford without being 18. I didn’t know at the time that the owner was the mom of a girl I barely knew from high school someone who, to this day, I’m pretty sure still doesn’t like me. Fair enough, though—we never really hung out, never followed each other, barely even spoke.
Back in high school, we were in the same dance class, and she and her friends used to make fun of me—laughing at me while I checked myself out in the mirror and played with my hair. The only reason I even knew about it was because a girl who was part of that group got paired with me for a dance project when I didn’t have a partner and later told me about it. Maybe she felt bad, but after that, we stayed dance partners every single class.
Anyway, there I was—stuck living in the only place I could afford—the basement, sharing a suite with one of the girls who openly made fun of me to her friends. It was brutal. I eventually moved out when I scraped together enough to get somewhere else, but those months were tough. I think my mom came to see me once, but only to help bring my stuff after I got the keys.
When Everything Fell Apart And What I Found Instead
That period was one of the hardest times in my life, but it’s also when I discovered how much I loved photography and being creative—it was my escape from everything falling apart. That passion grew and shaped me into who I am today, and honestly, it’s why I’m sharing this story now.
These small, messy, painful details make up everything I am. And I want people to know—no matter what I’ll always be open, real, and willing to talk about anything. Because that’s the only way to keep moving forward.
Time alone became more than just a way to escape, it became my foundation. In those quiet, lonely moments, I started peeling back the layers and discovering who I really was, beyond the chaos and pain. Photography and creativity didn’t just fill the silence — they became my voice, my way to make sense of a world that often felt confusing and cruel. It was the first time I felt like I had something real that belonged to me, something that no one could take away.
But don’t get it twisted…this journey isn’t wrapped up in a neat little bow. It’s messy, raw, and far from over. There are scars I haven’t shown, stories I haven’t told, and battles I’m still fighting in the shadows. If you think this is where it ends, think again. This is just the opening chapter.
So, if you’re ready for the real, unfiltered truth — the kind that challenges everything you think you know — stick around. Because the rest of the story? It’s darker, deeper, and way more complicated than you can imagine. And I’m only just getting started.
Brand: The Salon on St. Paul Models: ZEALUNITY Creatives – Kirat + Shivanna Videography: Mason Koopman, ZEAL Social Editing: In-house by ZEAL Social Photography: Georgia, Media Member at ZEAL Social
Growth, Small-Town Spirit, and the Creative Journey
From the moment we connected with Salon Coordinator Jordan, the energy was anything but boring—think a mix of warmth, creativity, and authenticity that set the tone for the entire experience. It was a space where happiness, calm energy, and a balance of feminine and masculine vibes just felt right. It’s rare to find a brand that genuinely welcomes everyone—not just when the camera’s rolling, but behind the scenes too. That’s exactly the energy we found at this salon, and we can’t wait to share it with you.
The Salon Experience You’ll Rave About.. Real Canadian Vibes
Let’s be real. The last thing you need is a hair salon that feels like a small-town soap opera. That’s where THEsalon on St. Paul comes in. From the second you walk in, you’re greeted with chill energy, a warm smile, and maybe even a coffee. No awkward convos, no pressure to overshare — just you, your hair goals, and a team that truly gets it.
Women’s cuts, men’s trims, kids’ styles — whatever you’re after, they’ve got you. Our models had the best time here. They got fresh trims and effortless styles that totally captured their vibe for our branding shoot — all without feeling like they had to play dress-up.
If you’re all about clean girl or guy energy, natural hair moments, and a place where you can just be, this is your spot. THEsalon on St. Paul is the real deal. Book now and step into your best hair day ever.
Our Step-by-Step Vision for Impactful Content
Process and Creative Vision
When we first looked at this brand, we noticed a consistent aesthetic throughout their feed—darker backgrounds that naturally create depth and contrast, giving each post a moody yet sophisticated feel. We saw that the brand leans into a distinctly feminine look but pairs it with masculine colour tones like dark greys, charcoals, and muted hues. This combination stands out beautifully, adding both strength and softness to the overall vibe.
We also observed how they make their subjects pop—the main focus is always bright, well-lit, and crisp, yet never overly edited or artificial. It feels polished but not overdone, maintaining a natural elegance that’s key to their brand identity.
Another detail that stood out was their focus on hair—how they showcase hairstyles in an aesthetic, almost editorial way. We wanted to honour that by weaving in similar aesthetic shots and b-roll footage that complement the brand’s existing content. Our goal was to match the vibe while adding a touch of our own creative vision, ensuring the content feels like a seamless extension of what they already do best.
Before: Their Instagram Feed—Moody, Feminine, and Strong
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After: Bringing It to Life—Our Models, Strategy, and Social Media Storytelling
Explaining the Mood and Vibe of the Content
This content captures the authentic, lived-in feel of a modern salon experience, blending a warm, community-driven atmosphere with polished, editorial visuals. Each shot balances natural lighting with slightly moody, muted backgrounds, allowing the subjects—clients, stylists, and products—to stand out in a real, unfiltered way.
The overall aesthetic leans into dark greys and earthy tones, giving the feed a masculine yet inviting backdrop that feels both modern and timeless. The styling is intentional but never forced; it celebrates real moments, like laughter, connection, and the artistry of hairdressing, without feeling too posed or overly curated.
Bright smiles and candid interactions add a friendly, approachable tone, while the close-up shots of products, tools, and signage remind us that this is a professional, detail-oriented space. The hair textures, especially the waves and highlights, are showcased beautifully, striking that sweet spot between editorial polish and natural beauty.
Overall, this feed feels like stepping into a salon where good hair days meet good vibes. It’s a place where real people are celebrated and every detail is captured with care and intention.
Unleash Your Best Hair Yet
At THEsalon on St. Paul, they specialize in personalized hair experiences that bring out your unique style. Whether you’re looking for a fresh women’s cut, a tailored men’s trim, or a children’s cut that’s both fun and stylish, their highly trained stylists work with you to find the perfect look that suits your lifestyle.
They also offer luxurious blowouts, special occasion updos, and treatments customized to your hair’s unique needs—clarifying, smoothing, hydrating, or all of the above. Add a treatment to any service for that extra glow.
If it’s colour you’re after, they use Schwarzkopf colour to deliver consistent, stunning results. From simple touch-ups to full-length transformations and highlights, their team brings your vision to life.
Book today and let them create your perfect hair story.
Why Women Dominate Socials—and How Our Strategy Empowers Them to Market Your Business
Explanation: It’s no secret that women drive social media. Statistics consistently show that women are the majority of users and trendsetters across platforms like Instagram and TikTok. They shape trends, influence brand conversations, and build communities that keep people engaged.
Our strategy taps into this dynamic by showcasing confident, empowered women who authentically represent your business. Especially in industries that celebrate femininity—like beauty, wellness, fashion, and lifestyle—there’s a natural space for women to shine.
We create room for women to be sexy, confident, and magnetic, crafting content that aligns with the audios, visuals, and trends they love. This approach doesn’t just build engagement; it positions your business in front of audiences that trust and admire the women who represent it.
Interested in Working Together?
We believe in showcasing confident, authentic individuals who bring every brand to life. If you’re curious about how our creative strategy can align with your vision, let’s chat. We’d love to explore how our approach can elevate your content and create something unforgettable—together.
For this drop, we tapped into the world of Salt Mob—a Kelowna-based brand led by founder Llala Joseph. Rooted in minimalism, female energy, and effortless edge, Salt Mob brings a new narrative to the local scene.
Images by Zeal SOCIAL Media Team Member: Okanagan Portraits Edited by the Zeal Team Models from the ZEALUNITY Community Content owned by ZEAL Special thanks to our crew for making this drop possible.
Behind the Drop: Salt Mob x ZEALUNITY
For our weekend shoot with Salt Mob, models Sydney, Deep, and Jenayah stepped into a vision that felt both bold and grounded. It was our first time collaborating with the brand, and it brought something more than just style.
When we connected with founder Llala Joseph, her passion for the brand was clear. As a familiar name in the Okanagan creative scene, she understands the complexity of finding your identity in a small community. Where routine can blur originality, Salt Mob brings something fresh, confident, and deeply intentional.
The energy on set was something we could see and feel. For our models—who are naturally softer and more reserved—there was a shift the moment the pieces came on. A new sense of pride and individuality surfaced, expressed freely through movement, posture, and presence. The brand created space for them to be exactly who they are, and supported that freedom every step of the way.
What we witnessed felt effortless. Honest. Real. It was one of those moments where everything aligned—style, energy, and intention. Salt Mob didn’t just show up with a look. Llala brought a feeling that stayed long after the shoot wrapped.
Built Different in the Valley
There’s something surreal about watching someone you’ve known since way back step fully into their power.
Llala Joseph has always had that energy—even as a teenager, you could feel the creativity bubbling under the surface. But to see where she is now? Leading with intention, creating pieces that reflect everything her soul’s been saying for years… it’s wild in the best way.
What started as presence has become power. Watching her build something so unapologetically her—and getting the chance to help create content that reflects that? Full-circle and then some.
Salt Mob isn’t just a brand—it’s an extension of everything she’s always been about: edge, freedom, truth, and self-expression without limits.
Keep scrolling for the full BTS of our shoot with Llala, and of course… our tips on how you might just land a spot in Salt Mob’s exclusive circle 😉
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So, You Wanna Rep Salt Mob? 👀Okay… let’s spill. #SaltMob
Let’s clear it up—this isn’t about getting “in” with a brand. It’s about aligning with something that’s already moving with meaning.
From what we’ve seen, Salt Mob isn’t here for trends or surface-level energy. It’s about owning who you are—loud, quiet, chill, bold—whatever that looks like when it’s real.
If you’re trying to catch the wave, here’s what we picked up:
✔ You don’t have to fit in—just stand firm in your own energy. ✔ Authenticity matters more than aesthetics. ✔ Drama? Not the Salt Mob way. ✔ Joy, individuality, and a little edge go a long way. ✔ It’s not performative—it’s personal.
From our time shooting with the brand, we saw how much intention goes into everything—from the designs to the way people are treated on set. If you’re someone who leads with realness, takes up space with love, and isn’t afraid to evolve publicly?
Then Salt Mob might just see you.
Support what you want to see more of. 📍Locally rooted. 🔥 Female-founded. 🎤 A brand with something to say. Tap in. Shop Salt Mob now.
Special thanks to our incredible crew, creators, and community who helped bring this shoot to life. Every detail, moment, and frame was made possible by the energy you showed up with.
Follow us on Instagram @zealunity for more behind-the-scenes moments, upcoming drops, and features like this. And don’t forget to show love to @saltmob.ca — let them know if you’re ready to rep something real.
This is for anyone chasing something they love — while quietly feeling like it’s tearing them down.
Because sometimes the thing that’s supposed to be your safe space starts feeling heavy. And it usually starts small — learning how to just be. Alone. Uncomfortable. Taking up space when shrinking would be easier.
That was us… first time parents, newly engaged, running on no sleep, trying to keep up with content and still feel like ourselves. We had just brought our baby home to a space that held so many memories. That house meant something. But slowly, we started to notice shifts.
It was full of love — but it also held things we weren’t aligned with anymore.
Like the fact that family still had keys.
At the time, it made sense. It came from a place of trust and connection. But as our life changed — especially with a newborn — the setup just didn’t feel right for us anymore. I’d be mid-feed in the living room, barely dressed, and the door would open without warning. It wasn’t anyone’s fault. It just no longer worked.
That experience wasn’t about blame – it was about awareness.
It showed us how much we had changed. How our needs had changed. And how honouring that doesn’t mean we’re ungrateful or disconnected… it just means we’re growing.
Because sometimes growth asks you to reimagine what home looks like. And even the best chapters eventually give way to new ones.
If I don’t speak up for me — who will?
If I Do What’s Right for Me — Will You Still Like Me?
You’ve probably felt it too — that quiet question in the back of your mind: If you do what’s right for you… will they still like you? You’re not trying to hurt anyone’s feelings or make yours louder. You just need the space to be honest. It’s not about being dramatic or even “nice.” It’s about being real — truthful, clear, and loving. Real connection can hold both truths at once: yours and theirs. And if you don’t speak up for what’s real in you…um?
Let me keep it real for a sec.
I just moved out of a small town. And honestly? The questions started hitting quick: If I leave, will the people I’ve built with still want to work with me? If I can’t show up 24/7, are they still down? It’s that weird moment when excitement and self-doubt hit at the same time.
The truth is… I didn’t have everything figured out. I didn’t have a 10-step plan to calm the what “ifs”. But the more I sat in that house, the more I realized… I had outgrown it. The open door vibe we once loved? It started feeling cold. Like the energy didn’t match anymore.
And that’s when it clicked: If I didn’t pivot, I’d stay stuck doing things the old way, for people who might not even expect that of me anymore. Or want to only see me in that way –
This isn’t just fiction — it’s a reflection. Inspired by the real, raw feeling of walking away from something that once felt like everything.
The Launder
No one really knew who built The Launder. It sat just beyond the edge of the old grove, tucked between wild hills and the hush of ancient trees. It was said to bless the land, protect the bond of bloodlines, and keep the stories of the elders clean.
But the rules… they were never spoken. Only passed down in looks, in sighs, in the soft folding of hands that had given too much for too long.
When you arrive — not as a stranger, but as the next in line — you are given three tasks. Gilded in honor, but heavy in cost.
The first: Bring water from the low river to the highest cliff, every morning before sunbreak. Not for survival, but for devotion — a daily offering to prove you are willing to carry the weight of another’s comfort.
The second: When your first child is born, they are named not by you, but by the elder. They belong not to your heart alone, but to the legacy of the land — bound to serve the story, not their own.
And the third: Every woman must stand beneath The Mirror Tree — where bark turns to silver and reflects your shape, your stance, your soul. You are judged not by truth, but by tradition. By how small you can become in the name of keeping things “beautiful.”
They say it’s the way it’s always been. But lately, you’ve started to wonder: what if that doesn’t make it right?
The trees know. The wind pulls at your sleeves like a whisper.
And one morning, when the river’s too low to fill your jar — you pause. You don’t climb.
You don’t explain.
You just walk the long path home, empty-handed — but finally full of yourself.
What I’ve Learned Since Choosing Peace (Pssst… I’ve been out of my childhood house since 17)
Alright, real talk. Finding peace isn’t about running away — it’s about creating your own vibe. Here’s what’s been working for me:
Step 1: Carve out a little you zone. Grab your fave drink (coffee, tea, or heck, a fancy sparkling water), chill for 5 minutes, and just feel. No scrolling. No thinking about your to-do list. Just vibes. Do this enough, and your brain starts making calm your new default. Trust me. It’s magic.
Step 2: Start journaling about things YOU wanna try. Not what everyone else wants from you. Your dreams, your goals, your wild ideas. I swear, it’s like a happiness hack that keeps me locked in the present and actually excited about life.
Step 3: Pick up a hobby — the quirkier, the better. Paint, dance, build something, hit the gym, start a mini garden — whatever floats your boat. Seeing yourself level up in something? Confidence BOOSTED. Especially when life’s throwing curveballs (been there, worked two jobs with zero chill).
Step 4: Expect people to meet your energy. Love big? Get loved back big. Don’t care? Don’t be shocked if they don’t either. It’s a two-way street, friends.
Step 5: Keep loving hard — but only for those who deserve it. When people turn away, don’t chase or plead. Love them silently from a distance and focus on watering your own garden instead. Your energy is precious. Invest it where it grows, not where it drains.
✧ Why This Part Matters
— the world moves fast. You’re constantly giving, adjusting, performing, healing, and sometimes just trying to keep up. But when do you get to land?
That’s what this moment is for.
This little routine isn’t just cute self-care — it’s you reclaiming your nervous system, one breath at a time. It’s not about “fixing” yourself. It’s about reminding yourself: You’re safe. You’re enough. You’re allowed to take up space without proving anything.
When you do this — even for 5 minutes — you start building a version of “home” that can’t be taken away. No matter where you are or who’s around, you’ll carry a calm, confident you… with you.
This part is the reset. This part is the power. And honestly? You deserve this.
✧ Your Favourite Part Starts Here ✧
If you don’t have a routine yet, borrow this one — it’s simple, soft, and all yours.
☁️ Step 1: Find a space that feels calm. Could be your room floor, a sunny spot in the kitchen, even your parked car.
🌿 Step 2: Sit on the ground. Deep breaths in, long breaths out. Let your body know it’s safe to just be.
🍵 Step 3: Set the vibe. Play your favourite song, sip something warm, light a scent you love, or grab a little snack.
🫀 Step 4: Tap your chest for 30 seconds. While you breathe, imagine releasing anything you’ve rejected or pushed away today:
Someone said something that stung? Let it move through you. Felt out of place or misunderstood? Breathe through it. You’re not broken — you’re becoming.
🌎 Step 5: Say this (or think it): “I am my own home. I carry peace with me. I’m allowed to take up space here.”
It might feel a little “woo” or weird at first. But imagine if it does work? You’d walk into any space with quiet confidence — knowing you don’t need a perfect place to feel at home. Because you’ve built one inside.
Creative Credits
This moment was built with heart — and we couldn’t have done it without our incredible team.
✨ Model: Sydney May — a ZealUnity muse who brought the calm, the power, and the story to life. 📸 Photography: Captured by the talented Okanagan Portraits , from the Zeal Social Management media team.
We love our people. Every frame, every word, every moment — it’s made better because of you.
The New Vanguard: How Late Millennial and Gen Z Artists Are Rewriting the Visual Code
In an era where social media posts blur into digital wallpaper and AI tools flood the visual landscape with artificial precision, a new generation of artists are pushing back—not by returning to the past, but by carving radically personal futures. Born between the late ’80s and early 2000s, this cohort of photographers, illustrators, muralists, and sculptors are using every medium—from paintbrush to pixel—to reclaim creative space and assert authorship in a time of algorithmic curation.
They aren’t waiting for permission. They’re rewriting the rules.
Haris Nukem: Hyperreal Humanity
Haris Nukem, born in Bosnia and raised in London, has become synonymous with hyper-saturated portraits of tattooed, defiant youth. His work merges fashion editorial sensibility with documentary intimacy. Exhibited at London’s Maddox Gallery and featured in fashion campaigns, Nukem’s portraits vibrate with texture—layered fabrics, oil-slick skin, gold, and grime—all lit like contemporary altarpieces.
In a 2021 Red Bull interview, Nukem shared, “I’ve always been excited by visuals, pop imagery and the idea behind what defines a brand. I was obsessed with drawing as a kid and I wanted to be a comic-book artist.” It’s no surprise—his portraits feel storyboarded, theatrical, yet real. He’s built his own visual brand, and it speaks fluently to the street and the studio alike. @harisnukem
Nadia Lee Cohen
Nadia Lee Cohen is a British photographer, filmmaker, and artist renowned for her vivid, cinematic imagery that draws heavily from mid-20th-century Americana and British pop culture. Born in Essex in 1990, she was raised on a rural farm, where her early creative endeavors were nurtured by her parents, who assisted her in constructing sets for her initial film and photography projects. She pursued her passion at the London College of Fashion, earning both BA and MA degrees in fashion photography. After relocating to Los Angeles, Cohen found inspiration in the city’s contrasting realities—the allure of Hollywood’s glamour juxtaposed with its underlying grit—which became a central theme in her work. Her debut monograph, Women (2020), is a collection of 100 stylized portraits that explore the complexities of femininity, often likened to film stills from nonexistent movies. This project garnered critical acclaim and solidified her reputation in the art world. @nadialeecohen
Qiana Mestrich: Archiving Resistance
In New York, interdisciplinary artist Qiana Mestrich is re-centering Blackness, motherhood, and memory within visual culture. A writer, photographer, and founder of the acclaimed blog Dodge & Burn: Decolonizing Photography History, Mestrich’s layered collage works investigate the silences of history. In 2025, she was awarded the Saltzman Prize by the Center for Photography at Woodstock, recognizing her for “interrogating established canons and exploring the roles of memory, motherhood, and cultural production.”
Her exhibitions at ICP and MoMA PS1 foreground Black familial life, domestic labor, and inherited trauma—not through spectacle, but through subtle, layered storytelling. “I see photography as a tool for writing history differently,” Mestrich told Vogue in April 2025. Her work makes you look again—at what’s visible and what’s been deliberately obscured. @qianamestrich
John Yuyi: The Medium Is the Body
Taiwanese artist John Yuyi is at the forefront of a new kind of body art—one that reflects our filtered, hyper-documented reality. She has tattooed Instagram icons on her skin, posted photos of herself layered in emojis and QR codes, and built visual commentaries on disconnection in the age of digital addiction. In a world where every selfie is part performance, Yuyi’s work makes visible the paradoxes of self-curation.
Her collaborations with Gucci, multiple solo shows in Tokyo and New York, and projects for Dazed and Colette Paris position her as a bridge between internet aesthetics and gallery walls. “I think a lot of people from our generation are experiencing this digital identity crisis,” she said in a 2018 interview with Office Magazine. “I just express it in a more extreme way.” @johnyuyi
Maya Fuhr: Analog Vulnerability
Hailing from Toronto, Maya Fuhr uses analog photography to explore intimacy, imperfection, and our complex relationship to beauty and waste. Her 2017 project Eco Femme, featured on Refinery29, tackled environmentalism through surreal still lifes built from decomposed fruits and discarded objects. “I want to create images that evoke emotion and provoke thought,” she stated in her 2022 Domestika course on creative analog photography.
Fuhr’s editorial work has appeared in i-D, Vogue Italia, and King Kong Magazine, but she continues to emphasize handmade sets, tactile processes, and non-commercial storytelling. Her photos feel soft and personal, like a diary page torn out and blown up to gallery scale. @mayafuhr
Ten Hundred: Pop Surrealism
Peter Robinson, known professionally as Ten Hundred, is a Michigan-based painter, muralist, and designer whose pop-surrealist style blends tribal patterns, bold color palettes, and cartoon-inspired characters. Originally a musician, Robinson turned to visual art full-time and built his career largely through YouTube, where he documents his process for an audience of over 700,000 subscribers.
“I want my art to feel like it was pulled from a dream,” Ten Hundred explained in an interview with Beautiful Bizarre. His work, which adorns walls from Tokyo to Miami, invites viewers into a universe of mythical creatures and neon textures—a visual language that’s instantly recognizable and joyously weird. Unlike many of his peers, he’s self-taught and self-marketed, and that independence shapes his whole practice. @tenhun
Kiptoe: Narrative in Motion
Matt Dean, better known as Kiptoe, is a Los Angeles-based muralist and illustrator whose large-scale street art fuses narrative storytelling with dynamic motion. A former athlete, Kiptoe’s work reflects that kinetic energy—figures twist, leap, and cascade across brick walls, often incorporating themes of mythology, fantasy, and nature.
Through YouTube and global mural tours, Kiptoe has built a dedicated following by making the mural-making process transparent. “My mission is to spread color and creativity to every corner of the globe,” he said during a TEDx talk in California. Whether painting in Brooklyn, Bangkok, or Bogotá, he infuses every city wall with a sense of wonder. @kiptoe
Choots: Doodling Dimensions into Urban Landscapes
London-born artist Choots (James Chuter) transforms urban spaces into vibrant realms of imagination. Drawing inspiration from clubbing culture, ancient civilizations, marine life, skate graphics, and dream states, his work combines spontaneous doodles with structured compositions. This fusion creates artworks that invite viewers into otherworldly experiences, populated by his signature ‘Dribble’ characters—benevolent beings that emerge from intricate patterns and vivid colors.
Choots’ journey began with detailed black-and-white ink drawings, gradually evolving into large-scale murals. In 2017, he painted a section of Sydney’s Bondi Beach sea wall, leading to further commissions in New York and London. His murals, such as those on London’s Shoreditch Art Wall, showcase his ability to scale his intricate designs to monumental proportions, captivating passersby with their complexity and charm.
Beyond murals, Choots produces a range of artworks, including limited edition prints, hand-painted resin figures, and custom commissions. His piece “Jhana,” a collaboration with Rugtomize, exemplifies his versatility, blending traditional motifs with contemporary design. Through his art, Choots offers a brief escape into fantastical worlds, encouraging viewers to explore the hidden details and narratives within . @Choots
A Movement Without a Name
What binds these artists isn’t geography, medium, or even ideology. It’s their shared insistence on narrative control—on telling stories that have been distorted or ignored. Whether through bold paint on concrete, analog film in pastel rooms, or digital code layered over skin, they’re building not just careers but ecosystems. They speak in color, silence, and scale—redefining what “visual culture” even means.
They’re not the next wave. They’re already reshaping the tide.
In this story, you’ll find real signs that might help you on your own journey—
The timing didn’t make sense, I wasn’t looking, and honestly, I almost didn’t say anything. But something told me to go for it.
If you’ve been wondering how to know when it’s right—or how to trust yourself when something feels different—this one’s for you.
Simple, real, and maybe exactly what you need to hear right now.
Wait… I’m Only 20
How I accidentally found something real, what it taught me, and the signs that showed me I was ready—before I even knew it.
So here’s the vibe: I had just graduated, and, honestly, I thought I had it all figured out—or at least I wanted to think I did. You know that whole Malibu Pink Dream where you marry the guy you first kissed and everything just falls into place? Yeah, that was the fantasy. But, spoiler alert, life had other plans.
Before I met Mason, I had come out of a relationship that just… wasn’t good. I felt confused, honestly. Like I didn’t know who I was anymore. That age—18 to 20—it’s wild. You feel like you’re supposed to know what you’re doing, but really you’re just starting the climb and it’s super uncomfy. I was living alone, barely holding it together, trying to get my photography hustle going. My family was going through it too, so everything just felt heavy.
But I kept working on myself, even if I was hurting. I couldn’t see what was next, but I felt something coming. Then one random night, I was at this little town bar—taking pics for content, doing my thing—and I look up and see this guy. The night before, I had been so done. I literally drank water, said a little prayer, and asked to be guided to my person + purpose. I think I saw the method on TikTok? Either way, I believed it.
And boom. The next night, there I was, off the clock at this bar I’d been going to forever, and suddenly I’m sitting across from someone I’d never seen before—even though we literally knew everyone in common. It was surreal. I almost walked away, but something told me to stay. Trust your gut. That night was the start of something I never could’ve imagined.
What Made This a Green Flag (And Not Just Another “He’s Different I Swear” Moment 💍)
In the beginning, it’s hard to really tell if something’s going to be real. You just can’t know right away—but what you can do is look for the subtle signs. Are they giving you full energy and effort? Do they keep the conversation going by asking deeper questions when things start to lull? Are they tuned into your energy and actually respecting it—or just complimenting how you look?
For me, I knew I wasn’t walking into another gaslight-lovebomb-repeat cycle. I had my flags all the way up. One of the biggest was: if he talks about himself, does he loop me into it? Does he offer the same level of listening I’m giving? Because if not, I’m not sitting through that again.
With Mason, something was different. Even now, one of his biggest green flags is the way he listens. Like, really listens. He lets the space sit in a convo and doesn’t rush it—but somehow he always responds like he’s been taking mental notes with a pen and paper. That patience and presence? That’s rare. That’s what told me I wasn’t just being heard—I was being understood.
That night at the bar? We talked for 7 hours straight—barely touched our drinks. No distractions, just us locked in, like the world paused so we could actually see each other.
Biggest Green Flag? The Energy Had Depth.
One of my biggest turn-ons? Spirituality. Not in the “let me read your birth chart and disappear” way—but more in the vibe of someone who can have open, honest conversations without needing to wrap it all up. Just someone who can flow with the conversation and take the time to walk through the thoughts together. I love people who inspire me, and it doesn’t even have to be some deep, life-changing thing. It could be the way you make your morning coffee, the energy in your space, or how you move through your day.
And you know what I just thought of… People who are great at what they do usually fall into one of two categories: either super structured, but a bit off in other ways, or laid-back, dependable, with a solid work ethic. The second one? That’s the kind of energy I was looking for.
When I first saw his place, he had a rose quartz in the living room. Not gonna lie, it wasn’t placed in the most organized way—it was a little random. But it wasn’t about the placement. It was the fact that he had it there at all. That small detail said way more about him than any perfect setup could.
Structure? Check.
Why IT Got So Serious🤍
I grew up seeing a lot of divorce in my family, so I guess I always had a different view of relationships. But even through all that, I still believed in love. I didn’t know exactly what it would look like, but I knew I wanted something real. A family, a solid foundation, but not in the traditional sense.
So yeah, being serious this young? Definitely shocks some people. But honestly, I was over the hookup culture and all the energy-draining stuff. Meeting people, going out, trying to align with people who aren’t even on the same vibe…Exhausting. I get it if you’re still all about that, I was too. But things hit differently when you start wanting more.
Girls’ night? Used to be all about talking about the guys but now.. I just want to curl up with my person, watch TV, and not deal with any negativity. It’s not that I don’t love my friends—I do!—but I just don’t have the energy for drama anymore. I didn’t realize how much I needed that peace until I found it.
Just lucky I found my person.
What I Wasn’t Going to Settle For: Early Talks
There’s a lot of conversation these days about what roles we choose to take on in relationships, and while everyone’s path is different, I think how we’ve been raised plays a huge part in shaping what we desire. For some, starting a family is the ultimate goal. For others, it’s a different kind of fulfillment. And personally, I’m just grateful to have the freedom to choose what feels right for me.
That being said, I wasn’t going to let go of my voice or compromise on the things that matter most to me. I had some non-negotiables, and here’s what they were.
Honesty above all else. It might not always be easy, but keeping things to yourself to spare feelings never works out. In my view, it’s always better to speak up respectfully. In the end, it’s us against the world.
We keep our individuality. We each make time for the things we love to do, and we support each other in that. It’s important not to lose ourselves in the process.
Trust is essential, but it’s not about just saying “yes” to everything. If someone changes their behavior intentionally, that’s a red flag. It’s not a “miscommunication,” it’s something deeper. And I wasn’t about to ignore that.
Mason? He’s good. He’s solid. He’s real. And I want to share this because I believe we all deserve to find someone who respects what we bring to the table.
Growing Together: Like… Actually
You know that feeling when everything just starts syncing up? Like suddenly your goals hit different, your confidence goes up, and your daily routine doesn’t feel like a mess anymore? That’s when you know you’re growing with someone, not just dating them.
It’s giving power couple energy—but make it real. You feel more like you, not less. They know your moods, your fav songs, your weird little habits, and somehow it all makes you feel safe but still excited.
And listen, if you’re constantly feeling off outside the relationship, like drained or second-guessing everything… it’s a sign. Being with someone shouldn’t mute your magic. Together or apart, the vibe should still feel full. If not? That’s not growth—it’s a pause.
🎯 20 Sneaky Questions to Ask Your Partner (+ What Their Answers Could Say About Them)
If you could live anywhere for a year, where would it be?
🌍 Big dreamer = adventurous.
🏠 Same hometown = loves comfort.
Would you rather plan the trip or just show up?
📋 Planner = responsible.
🛫 Spontaneous = fun but maybe chaotic.
What’s your dream Saturday?
🧘♀️ Chill = calm energy.
🎉 Wild = thrill seeker.
What’s something you secretly wish you were amazing at?
🎨 Creative stuff = deep soul.
💼 Business stuff = ambition coded.
What’s your go-to when you’re stressed?
🏃♂️ Gym/active = healthy outlet.
🍸 Party = 🚩 maybe distraction issues.
What’s a dealbreaker for you in friendships?
🚪 Instant exit = strong boundaries.
🥴 “Idk” = red flag… lack of standards.
If money wasn’t a thing, what would you do all day?
💸 Hustler mindset = long-term player.
🍃 Vibe-only = might struggle with pressure.
What was your favourite age so far?
🎈Childhood = still healing?
🌟 Recent = growing & evolving.
Do you believe everything happens for a reason?
✨ Yes = emotionally deep.
🥱 No = might need more convincing.
Would you rather be respected or loved?
🧠 Respected = stable and serious.
💕 Loved = sensitive king/queen.
What’s your toxic trait?
😇 Honest = self-aware.
🙈 Avoids = no thanks.
What’s a weird food combo you secretly like?
🥑 Quirky = fun to live with.
🚫 “Nothing” = boring sorry not sorry.
What’s something you’d want to get better at in relationships?
💬 Communication = green flag.
🙃 “I’m good” = delulu alert.
How do you usually apologize?
📖 Talks it out = healthy.
😬 Avoids it = prepare for headaches.
Would you rather win an award or hear it privately from someone you love?
🏆 Public = external validation vibes.
🥹 Private = heart-centered.
What’s something random that makes you feel rich?
🧺 Clean sheets? 🚿 Long showers? They appreciate the little things.
What’s your favourite part of your day usually?
☀️ Morning = motivated.
🌙 Night = deep thinker.
What’s your favourite way to recharge?
🔥 Alone time = independent.
🧑🤝🧑 Around people = extrovert coded.
How do you like spending holidays?
Family = loyal and sentimental.
✈️ Getaway trips = loves freedom.
If you could master one random skill, what would it be?
🎸 Guitar = romantic tendencies.
(without making it weird or overthinking it)
Stay loud in your little ways. Your jokes, your random interests, your way of doing things? That’s literally what makes you you. Don’t “soften” yourself to fit some imaginary vibe. If you’re goofy, be goofy. If you’re quiet but witty, let it snipe out in moments.
Confidence ≠ being the loudest. Confidence is just being sure you don’t need to perform. You’re not auditioning. You’re just existing. Let the energy come to you, not the other way around.
You’re not “too much.” Real ones want the full you — the layered, crazy, chill, passionate, whatever-you-are-today you. If you feel yourself shrinking around someone… that’s info, babe, not a sign you need to get smaller.
Open heart, wise mind. Stay soft and open to love, new conversations, and cute little surprises — but keep your standards, your goals, and your non-negotiables on lock. (being open doesn’t mean you gotta abandon your instincts.)
Silence doesn’t mean something’s wrong. You don’t have to fill every second with talking or energy. Being able to just exist together is hot. Comfort is loud in its own way.
Remind yourself: you’re the prize too. Not in an ego way. In a mutual respect, mutual effort, mutual energy kind of way. You’re not “lucky” they like you. They’re lucky they get to experience you in your light.
23, a Baby, and Building a Life Together
If you would’ve told me a few years ago that by 23 I’d have a baby with the boy I met at the bar and we’d be running our own businesses… I would’ve laughed and gone right back to overthinking my entire life in my notes app. 😂
But somehow — here we are. And honestly? It’s better than anything I could’ve planned. Not perfect. Not some Pinterest board 24/7. Just real. And really good.
When I look around now… the baby, the work, the everyday memories we’re stacking — I feel nothing but grateful that I listened to myself. Even when it was easier to just isolate. Even when shutting down felt safer than risking being seen. Even when growing felt like too much.
Choosing to stay soft, choosing love, choosing to show up for my own life — it didn’t steal anything from me. It gave me everything I didn’t even know I wanted yet.
And the wild part? It’s still just getting started. More babies. More businesses. More memories I haven’t even dreamed up yet.
All because I decided to bet on myself and stay open when the good stuff came in.
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