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  • The Women’s Guide to a Total 2026 Glow Up: Start Today!

    The Women’s Guide to a Total 2026 Glow Up: Start Today!

    Ready to glow up in 2026? This year is all about discovering your best self inside and out. Find out if clean girl makeup is still in, uncover your perfect beauty routine, and learn the best skin health tips, DIY products, and hair care hacks that actually work. We will show you how to plan your social media posts so your content shines as much as you do. Take fun quizzes to discover your vibe, check your horoscope to see what the stars have in store, and see if 2026 will actually feel like 2016 again. Plus you could win a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop. Grab your coffee and dive in….your ultimate 2026 glow up starts now.

    Styled by Caoxciao
    Media by ZealSocialManagement – Media Member Autumn
    Edited in house
    Models Zealunity Community: Snow, Kirat, Olivia, Jenayah, Sydney
    BTS by Jenayah
    Brand Features Caoxciao and ShopNoon.shop

    Inside This Guide You Will Find:

    • 🌟 Fun quizzes to discover your 2026 vibe
    • ✨ Clean girl makeup trends and how to perfect your routine
    • 💆‍♀️ Skin health tips, DIY products, and self-care hacks
    • 💇‍♀️ Hair care tricks everyone is talking about
    • 📱 Social media posting plans that actually work
    • 🔮 Horoscopes and star predictions for 2026
    • 🎁 Giveaways including a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop
    • ❓ Poll: Will 2026 actually feel like 2016 again?

    🔥 2026 is Coming in Hot…..Are You Ready to Glow Up?

    This year is not just about trends or aesthetics. It is about finding your voice, standing strong and finally figuring out who you really are.

    Do not let anyone else’s opinions, outdated rules or harsh narratives tell you what to feel or who to be. Your 2026 glow up starts with being grounded, unapologetic and fully in your power.

    It is about claiming your space, defining your standards and shining in ways that are 100 percent you. No distractions, no judgements, no limits.

    Let us walk through this together and make 2026 the year of your ultimate glow up.

    🌟 Quiz: What’s Your 2026 Glow Up Vibe?

    Take these three fun quizzes to find out your 2026 glow up style

    🎉 Here is your ideal routine based on what you chose!

    A) Slow and dreamy ☀️

    • 7:00 AM – Wake up naturally with sunlight or soft alarm
    • 7:10 AM – Gentle stretching or yoga
    • 7:30 AM – Meditation or deep breathing
    • 7:50 AM – Brew and sip tea slowly
    • 8:10 AM – Journal thoughts, dreams, or intentions
    • 8:30 AM – Soft skincare and cozy outfit

    B) Bold and energizing ⚡

    • 6:30 AM – Wake up with upbeat music
    • 6:35 AM – Quick cardio or HIIT session
    • 7:00 AM – Refresh with shower and bold skincare
    • 7:15 AM – Eye-catching makeup and style
    • 7:30 AM – Power breakfast or smoothie
    • 7:45 AM – Jump into the day feeling electric

    C) Soft and simple 🌸

    • 7:30 AM – Wake up slowly, natural light
    • 7:35 AM – Wash face, apply moisturizer
    • 7:45 AM – Brew coffee or tea
    • 7:50 AM – Minimal makeup (tinted moisturizer, mascara)
    • 8:00 AM – Pick a cute, comfortable outfit
    • 8:15 AM – Light breakfast while scrolling or journaling

    D) Boss babe mode 💼

    • 6:00 AM – Wake up, hydrate immediately
    • 6:05 AM – Quick email or task check
    • 6:20 AM – Workout or energizing stretch
    • 6:50 AM – Shower and professional skincare
    • 7:10 AM – Efficient makeup and outfit prep
    • 7:30 AM – Review to-do list and plan priorities
    • 7:45 AM – Breakfast while reviewing goals for the day

    Question 2: Which do you prefer: Bold makeup or Natural looks?

    📅 Here is your social media posting plan made just for the energy you are bringing into 2026!

    🌿 Chill & Cozy Content (Low key and chill)

    Posting Frequency: 2–3 times/week
    Content Types: Stories, occasional feed posts, slow reels
    2026 Trends: Slow living, pastel/neutral aesthetics, soft ASMR audio

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Tuesday: Reel – morning tea + journal moment, soft transitions
    • Thursday: Story – morning skincare or cozy corner vibes
    • Saturday: Feed post – cozy outfit, sunset, or nature photo

    📅 Curated & Confident Feed (Consistent content queen)

    Posting Frequency: 4–5 times/week
    Content Types: Carousel posts, stories with polls/Q&A, trendy reels
    2026 Trends: Clean girl or soft glam, carousel tips, light motion graphics

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Monday: Reel – outfit transition trend
    • Tuesday: Story – poll or Q&A about beauty/fashion
    • Wednesday: Carousel – mini guide or tip
    • Friday: Reel – trending music + lifestyle moment
    • Sunday: Story – cozy Sunday vibes

    ⚡ All-Day Energy Posting (Daily vibes only)

    Posting Frequency: 7 posts/week (mix feed, reels, stories)
    Content Types: Bold reels, selfies, lifestyle highlights, spontaneous stories
    2026 Trends: Bright colors, creative editing, quick DIY/life hacks, trending audio

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Monday: Reel – bold outfit or dance trend
    • Tuesday: Feed post – colorful makeup or selfie
    • Wednesday: Reel – 5-second “day in my life”
    • Thursday: Story – poll on products/outfits
    • Friday: Reel – weekend prep, trending audio
    • Saturday: Feed post – fashion highlight or selfie
    • Sunday: Story – cozy at-home vibes

    💼 Strategic & Slay-Worthy Content (Boss babe influencer)

    Posting Frequency: 5–7 posts/week, fully scheduled
    Content Types: Reels with tutorials/tips, feed posts (branded/lifestyle), interactive stories
    2026 Trends: Career lifestyle content, interactive branded posts, high-value tutorial reels, consistent color/font branding

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Monday: Reel – motivational quote or professional tip
    • Tuesday: Feed post – branded/sponsored content
    • Wednesday: Story – interactive poll/Q&A
    • Thursday: Reel – tutorial or “how I do it” content
    • Friday: Feed post – lifestyle + boss aesthetic
    • Saturday: Reel – weekend prep + trending audio
    • Sunday: Story – weekly recap & soft CTA

    ✨ Is Clean Girl Makeup Out? Find Your Perfect Routine

    Clean girl makeup has been all the rage!! But is it fading in 2026? Here’s how to decide what works for your glow:

    • Keep the glow: Minimal makeup that enhances your features
    • Add your twist: Experiment with colours, liners, or glowy highlighters
    • Routine check: Morning skincare first, makeup second, always hydrate

    Pro tip: Build a routine that feels like YOU, not like an Instagram trend.

    🇨🇦 Full Canadian Skincare + Makeup Routine

    All products under $15 CAD

    All from Canadian or small indie brands

    🌿 Skincare (Under $15)

    StepProductBrandPriceWhere to BuySources
    CleanserFoaming Face WashGreen Beaver~$12GreenBeaver.com, Well.ca
    TonerRosewater MistKarine Joncas~$10–12Shoppers Drug Mart
    MoisturizerSensitive Skin Day CreamGreen Beaver~$14GreenBeaver.com, Well.ca
    SPFMineral Sunscreen SPF 30 (travel size)Green Beaver~$12–15Well.ca, health stores

    💄 Makeup (Under $15)

    (All Canadian brands: Annabelle, Marcelle, Cheekbone Beauty, Quo Beauty)

    StepProductBrandPriceWhere to BuySources
    PrimerBlur PrimerQuo Beauty~$12Shoppers Drug Mart
    Foundation / Skin TintPerfect Fit Skin TintAnnabelle~$10–12Shoppers Drug Mart
    ConcealerCamouflage ConcealerMarcelle~$12–14Shoppers Drug Mart
    BlushCream Blush StickCheekbone Beauty~$12–15CheekboneBeauty.com
    HighlighterGlow StickNudeStix (Canadian)~$14–15 (mini)Sephora Canada, Nudestix.com
    EyeshadowMono EyeshadowAnnabelle~$6Shoppers Drug Mart
    EyelinerMatte Kohl EyelinerAnnabelle~$7–9Shoppers Drug Mart
    MascaraBig Show MascaraAnnabelle~$10Shoppers Drug Mart
    BrowsBrow PencilCheekbone Beauty~$12–15CheekboneBeauty.com
    LipstickSustain Lipstick (mini)Cheekbone Beauty~$12–15CheekboneBeauty.com

    🛍️ Where to Shop (All Canadian Retailers)

    • Shoppers Drug Mart — Annabelle, Marcelle, Quo Beauty, Karine Joncas
    • Well.ca — Green Beaver, Annabelle
    • CheekboneBeauty.com — Indigenous‑owned, affordable minis
    • ShopCanadianBeauty.ca — Directory of indie Canadian brands

    💆‍♀️ Skin Health, DIY Products and Hacks That Work

    • DIY masks: Honey and oat scrubs for natural exfoliation
    • Hydration: Drink water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type
    • Weekly resets: Face steam or gentle exfoliation once a week
    • Consistency is key: Small daily habits beat sporadic spa days

    2. Avocado & Yogurt Hydrating Mask

    Best for: Dry or tired skin

    Ingredients:

    • ½ ripe avocado
    • 2 tablespoons plain yogurt
    • 1 teaspoon olive oil (optional for extra hydration)

    Instructions:

    1. Mash avocado until smooth.
    2. Mix in yogurt (and olive oil if using) until creamy.
    3. Apply to clean face, avoiding the eye area.
    4. Leave on for 10–15 minutes.
    5. Rinse with lukewarm water and pat dry.

    Why it works:

    • Avocado is rich in healthy fats and vitamins for nourishment.
    • Yogurt contains lactic acid to gently exfoliate and brighten skin.

    💇‍♀️ Hair Care Hacks for Every Style

    Here are two easy DIY hair masks and a few simple hacks you can do at home for healthy, shiny hair:

    1. Coconut Oil & Honey Hair Mask

    Best for: Dry or frizzy hair

    Ingredients:

    • 2 tablespoons coconut oil
    • 1 tablespoon honey

    Instructions:

    1. Warm the coconut oil slightly so it’s liquid (not hot!).
    2. Mix with honey until smooth.
    3. Apply to damp hair from roots to tips (focus on ends).
    4. Cover with a shower cap and leave for 20–30 minutes.
    5. Rinse with warm water and shampoo as usual.

    Why it works:

    • Coconut oil deeply moisturizes and reduces protein loss.
    • Honey locks in moisture and adds shine.

    Banana & Olive Oil Moisturizing Hair Mask

    Best for: Dry, frizzy, or brittle hair

    Ingredients:

    • 1 ripe banana
    • 1–2 tablespoons olive oil
    • 1 teaspoon honey (optional for extra shine)

    Instructions:

    1. Mash the banana until smooth (no lumps!).
    2. Mix in olive oil (and honey if using) until it forms a creamy paste.
    3. Apply evenly to damp hair, focusing on mid-lengths and ends.
    4. Leave on for 20–30 minutes.
    5. Rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water and shampoo as usual.

    Why it works:

    • Banana nourishes and softens hair while reducing breakage.
    • Olive oil moisturizes deeply and smooths frizz.
    • Honey adds shine and locks in moisture.

    📱 Social Media Posting Plans That Actually Work

    Social media is where followers turn into real income. Whether that is through paid partnerships, UGC, service customers, or people buying your products, your content has the power to create results.

    Here is a helpful plan for February that will keep you consistent, on track, and start turning your effort into actual income.

    🌸 FEBRUARY – 3 POSTS PER WEEK (PAIRED WITH SHOTS)

    WEEK 1 — Soft Introductions

    Post 1 (Mon)
     Theme: Self-connection
    Shot:

    • Standing near a window
    • Eyes closed, face tilted slightly toward light
    • Hands resting gently at sides

    Post 2 (Wed)
     Theme: Presence
    Shot:

    • Sitting on floor or chair
    • Knees bent, arms resting loosely
    • Looking slightly past the camera

    Post 3 (Fri)
     Theme: Quiet confidence
    Shot:

    • Standing, weight on one hip
    • Arms crossed softly (not tight)
    • Neutral expression → slight smile

    WEEK 2 — Valentine Energy (Subtle)

    Post 4 (Mon)
     Theme: Touch & closeness
    Shot:

    • Close-up
    • Fingers grazing collarbone or neck
    • Eyes looking down

    Post 5 (Wed)
     Theme: Comfort in self
    Shot:

    • Sitting, one knee up
    • Chin resting lightly on knee
    • Soft, relaxed gaze into camera

    Post 6 (Fri)
     Theme: Eye contact
    Shot:

    • Tight portrait crop
    • Direct eye contact
    • Head slightly tilted

    WEEK 3 — Connection & Movement

    Post 7 (Mon)
     Theme: Movement
    Shot:

    • Slow walk toward camera
    • Natural stride
    • Looking off to the side

    Post 8 (Wed)
     Theme: Warmth
    Shot:

    • Standing, shoulders relaxed
    • Gentle sway or breath moment
    • Hair moving naturally

    Post 9 (Fri)
     Theme: Soft strength
    Shot:

    • Seated upright
    • Hands resting on thighs
    • Calm, grounded expression

    WEEK 4 — Reflection & Forward Energy

    Post 10 (Mon)
     Theme: Reflection
    Shot:

    • Looking out window
    • Profile angle
    • One hand lightly touching face

    Post 11 (Wed)
     Theme: Stillness
    Shot:

    • Sitting on floor
    • Eyes closed
    • Deep inhale / exhale captured

    Post 12 (Fri)
     Theme: Carrying softness forward
    Shot:

    • Standing, slight turn away from camera
    • Looking back over shoulder
    • Relaxed, confident posture

    ✨ QUICK EXECUTION TIP

    Shoot everything in motion → pull:

    • Still frames for posts
    • Short clips for reels
    • Crops for stories

    🔮 Your 2026 Horoscope Glow Up Guide

    The stars can actually give you some fun insight for the year ahead. Check your sign for tips on energy, confidence, and self-care for 2026.

    ♈ ARIES

    2026 Glow Theme Direction and Discipline
    Your glow up comes from finishing what you start.
    Pick one main goal per quarter and commit fully.
    Strength based workouts support your confidence.
    Structured wardrobe pieces elevate your presence.
    Focused energy is your power.

    ♉ TAURUS

    2026 Glow Theme Nervous System Peace
     Slow and steady wins the glow.
    Build a non negotiable morning routine.
    Choose quality over quantity in all areas.
    Touch based self care restores balance.
    Your glow shows when you feel safe.

    ♊ GEMINI

    2026 Glow Theme Depth Over Noise
     This year is about being selective.
    Reduce overstimulation and choose intention.
    Commit to one creative outlet.
    Speak slower and with clarity.
    Your glow comes from focus.

    ♋ CANCER

    2026 Glow Theme Emotional Authority
     You stop over explaining this year.
    Create boundaries that protect your energy.
    Elevate your home environment.
    Water based self care feels grounding.
    Confidence comes from intuition.

    ♌ LEO

    2026 Glow Theme Effortless Confidence
     Less proving more being.
    Rest becomes part of your power.
    Signature looks outshine trends.
    Let your presence speak.
    Your glow deepens with rest.

    ♍ VIRGO

    2026 Glow Theme Soft Structure
     Balance replaces perfection.
    Consistency matters more than control.
    Gentle movement supports your body.
    Simplified routines bring ease.
    Your glow grows with softness.

    ♎ LIBRA

    2026 Glow Theme Self Defined Beauty
     Your glow up begins with choosing yourself.
    Make decisions with confidence.
    Create an aesthetic that reflects you.
    Intentional alone time restores balance.
    Beauty starts with self trust.

    ♏ SCORPIO

    2026 Glow Theme Emotional Transformation
     This year is about shedding old layers.
    Inner work unlocks your glow.
    Protect your privacy.
    Lean into rich intentional styling.
    Your power grows quietly.

    ♐ SAGITTARIUS

    2026 Glow Theme Grounded Expansion
     Freedom needs structure this year.
    Create routines that support your lifestyle.
    Commit to one long term vision.
    Outdoor movement keeps you aligned.
    Your glow comes from balance.

    ♑ CAPRICORN

    2026 Glow Theme Ease and Fulfilment
     You no longer need to earn rest.
    Redefine success to include joy.
    Prioritise sleep and stress management.
    Timeless pieces elevate your style.
    Your glow appears with ease.

    ♒ AQUARIUS

    2026 Glow Theme Embodied Individuality
     Be unique while staying grounded.
    Reconnect with your body through movement.
    Execute one meaningful idea.
    Express your style with intention.
    Presence becomes your power.

    ♓ PISCES

    2026 Glow Theme Energetic Boundaries
     Sensitivity becomes strength when protected.
    Create daily grounding rituals.
    Limit emotional access to draining people.
    Soft luminous self care supports you.
    Your glow comes from clarity.

    🎁 Giveaway Time! Win a Hoodie and Bag from @Studionoon.shop

    A glow up is even better with goodies, and we want to send some straight to you. Here is how to enter for a chance to snag your 2026 essentials in style from @studionoon.shop

    1. Comment below 👇 Tell us which 2026 glow up vibe fits you best: Radiant, Edgy, Soft Girl, or Confident Boss Babe
    2. Subscribe to our newsletter ✨ Stay in the loop for more tips, exclusive content, and future giveaways
    3. Bonus entry 📱 Share this post on social media and tag us @the23magazine to double your chances

    Winners will be announced in our newsletter, so make sure you’re subscribed. Good luck and get ready to glow up in style!

    Studio Noon: Where Art Meets Film

    Who’s behind Studio Noon? Just a duo whose names start with N, which also means noon in Arabic. But the story goes deeper.

    We fell in love, started painting for fun, and somewhere between a brushstroke and a laugh the idea hit: what if we shared our art with the world?

    Prints were just the start. Soon it was shirts, pins, frames. One-line art inspired by movies. Geometric takes on classic painters. Before we knew it Studio Noon Inc. was real, carrying all the joy, fear and excitement of starting something together.

    By day one of us works in film and teaches screenwriting. The other leads in tech and makes sure everything runs smoothly. Studio Noon lives in every spare moment, sketch and shared spark of inspiration.

    We create for people who love art, film or both. Proudly Canadian.

    What We Make

    Studio Noon brings art and film together in bold, minimalist designs.

    Reimagined geometric paintings inspired by iconic artists
    One-line art from unforgettable films and shows (coming soon)
    Our first three paintings will never be for sale. We keep them with all their imperfections to remind us of the journey.

    ❓ Poll: Will 2026 Actually Feel Like 2016 Again?

    Be honest… do you feel it too? The energy shift, the nostalgia, the music, the vibe. Some people say 2026 is about to feel like that era again. Others think we are stepping into something completely new.

    Cast your vote below and tell us why in the comments. Is 2026 giving throwback energy, fresh start energy, or main character energy only? Your opinion matters and we want to hear it.

    ← Back

    Thank you for your response. ✨

    What do you think?(required)

    Which era would you choose and why?

    💖 Final Glow Up Tips

    • Start small but stay consistent
    • Listen to your body and your instincts
    • Don’t chase trends—create your own
    • Celebrate every small win

    Your 2026 glow up isn’t just about looks….it’s about confidence, energy, and feeling unstoppable. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and dive in. This is your year to shine!

    Thank you so much for reading! We are beyond excited for 2026 and are sending all the best energy and love your way every single day. Keep shining, keep going, and most importantly, remember to love yourself a little extra. A huge thank you to our amazing community for making this all possible …..we couldn’t do it without you!

  • Fast Fashion Who? This Vancouver Designer is Making Clothes That Actually Matter

    Fast Fashion Who? This Vancouver Designer is Making Clothes That Actually Matter

    Inside the world of Jessica Redditt, a Vancouver designer blending sustainable fabrics, natural dyes, and timeless style for a wardrobe that feels good inside and out.

    Meet Jessica Redditt: The Designer Making Sustainable Fashion Actually Cool

    Jessica Redditt is an emerging force in Vancouver’s fashion scene. Her handmade, sustainably chic clothing line mixes effortless style with ethical design, using fabrics hand-dyed with natural plant pigments or reclaimed textiles. Each piece feels alive, comfy, and made to move with you, whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.

    We sat down with Jessica, the creative mind behind the brand, to chat about Vancouver’s creative community, her advice for young designers, and how her eco-friendly vision is making waves in sustainable fashion.

    When a Collaboration Turns Into Inspiration

    Collaborating with Jessica was an experience I will never forget. From the moment I connected with her, her warm energy was impossible to miss, and seeing her mission come alive through her socials made me even more inspired. A mom, a sea lover, and an all-around creative, Jessica carries a light that draws people in.

    As a creative moving from Kelowna, BC, a small town, to Vancouver, it was nerve-wracking stepping into such a vibrant and competitive scene. At 24 and navigating motherhood, I am learning day by day what my dreams really mean, what I am willing to risk, and the message I want to put out into the world. When I was invited to Vancouver Fashion Week, I reached out to Jessica to see if she would be interested in styling me for the event. My hope was to share my experience, contribute content for her brand, and feature the story in 23 Magazine.

    At first, I did not hear back, but a few days after the event I received a warm message from her saying she would love to collaborate. From there, we created a moodboard and came up with questions that would later highlight her brand. Talking with her felt like a true alignment moment. Her energy, her vision, and her grounded presence reminded me why I am chasing this creative path.

    Jessica frequently goes to local markets, where she stands at the forefront of her brand with a voice and aura that naturally attracts everyone around her. From young creatives to seasoned elders, she is a guiding light in Vancouver’s creative community. Working with her was inspiring, humbling, and reaffirming. I left the collaboration feeling energized and ready to chase my own creative goals.

    Why Jessica Redditt Swears by Natural Dye

    In a world full of fast fashion, the need for clothing that is sustainable, affordable, and thoughtfully made has never been greater. Jessica Redditt’s handmade pieces check all those boxes. Crafted from natural plant dyes and reclaimed textiles, her designs feel as good as they look, carrying positive energy whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.

    Curious about her process and inspiration, I asked Jessica a few questions about how she got started and what natural dyeing means to her.

    Q: How did you get started with natural dye?
    Jessica: I was searching for ways to make clothing as sustainable as possible. Fashion school in Toronto didn’t cover this, so I started experimenting in my garden and backyard, growing plants and researching which ones were colourfast.

    Q: What inspired you to explore this craft?
    Jessica: I’ve always been inspired by crafts of the past, especially textiles and clothing. I figured if it was done before, it could be brought back.

    Q: What personal meaning does natural dye hold for you?
    Jessica: To me, it’s about connecting fully with nature. It’s magical what the earth provides. Studying what plant life is capable of will be a never-ending journey.

    I Tried Jessica Redditt’s Sweatsuits and I’m Obsessed

    Tuned in, grateful, and fully appreciative of the world around her, it’s clear that Jessica’s style and brand reflect these values. The textures of her pieces are soft, comfy, and feel incredibly high quality. I had the opportunity to try on a grey sweatsuit and a black one, and I also got to see her Selkie bandana. I’m still figuring out how to style the bandana, but Jessica herself has some creative ways to wear it that make it feel special.

    The grey sweatsuit came with a hoodie and long, flowy pants. It’s perfect for lounging at home, running errands, or just walking around in something that hugs all the right places while still giving everything room to breathe. I loved how the grey fabric felt warmer and more substantial, covering me perfectly. Being pregnant in the winter, this suit is going to the hospital with me and will be my go-to at home for ultimate comfort. I’ve never been a fan of clothes that aren’t versatile, so I loved that I could dress it up or down in a moment.

    The black sweatsuit, also with a hoodie and pants, had a lighter, softer feel. The fabric reminded me of summer evenings or camping trips, like a silky, cozy hug. My son even joined me during the photos, and it was adorable to watch him interact with it. He kept coming back to feel the fabric with his little fingers, and it was such a sweet reminder of how comfortable and inviting these pieces truly are.

    Jessica Redditt on Vancouver’s Creative Scene and What Inspires Her

    Overall, my experience with Jessica’s brand was incredible. I felt so good creating and collaborating with her. I cannot say it enough—she is amazing and represents trust, transparency, a strong moral compass, and a genuinely warm soul. I wanted to hear her perspective on Vancouver’s creative community, which meant a lot to me. Here is what she shared.

    Q: How have you found the creative community here?
    Jessica: Since moving to Vancouver about 15 years ago, I have found it to be very open, creative, and supportive. I have met so many lovely people in the industry and makers’ community. From vendors at farmers markets to fashion shows and collaborations, it is an inspiring and ever-changing space.

    Living by the sea inspires me every day. I love working outside, foraging plants, and creating colours. This environment motivates me to make pieces that are easy to wear, comfortable, and natural in both cloth and colour. I love monochrome, but I also enjoy vibrant pops of colour, like the flowers that bloom here almost year-round.

    Connect, Create, and Be Inspired by Jessica Redditt

    I can’t recommend this brand enough. If you haven’t already, reach out to Jessica—she genuinely loves answering questions, connecting with people, and building meaningful relationships. Her passion for sustainable fashion is contagious, and her energy is something you’ll want to be around.

    A huge thank you to Jessica for taking the time to answer these questions and for believing in this article. And thank you to our amazing community for making stories like this possible and supporting our growing creative space.

    Sending love and inspiration,
    Always yours,
    Taylor

  • The Friend Date Gossip You Didn’t Expect to Come From Brunch

    The Friend Date Gossip You Didn’t Expect to Come From Brunch

    Our ZealUnity Community had the chance to check out The Nook Cafe, now rebranded as The Cozy Cafe, located at 567 Bernard Avenue, Kelowna, BC, with another spot in West Kelowna. We spotted this adorable café on Instagram and had to see it for ourselves. Here’s our community’s honest take and tips for discovering similar hidden gems.

    Location: The Cozy Cafe, Kelowna
    Edited by: Zeal Social Management In-House Team
    Models: Olivia, Deep
    Zeal Media Member: Vinil

    The Cozy Cafe That Feels Like Your Favourite Blanket

    Looking for a spot in downtown Kelowna that’s all vibes and zero stress? The Cozy Cafe is calling your name. Formerly The Nook, this little gem serves up all-day breakfast, gluten-free crepes, hearty skillets and coffees that somehow hit just right. Basically, comfort food with a local twist.

    Our ZealUnity community was pumped to see if it lived up to the name, and let’s just say we were not disappointed. Rajpreet, the owner, greeted us with the warmest energy ever and immediately set the mood for a chill, happy, no-drama kind of visit. Instant cozy points.

    Our models tried some featured dishes while soaking in purple chairs, white tables, big windows and a vibe that is clean but full of personality. Meanwhile, Vinil and the assistant captured all the BTS magic in the kitchen, where everyone was clearly passionate about what they were making. Nothing felt staged or fake.. just good energy, good food, and charming aesthetics.

    Whether you are grabbing a bite before your day or winding down with a coffee in hand, The Cozy Cafe truly lives up to its name. It’s the kind of place you walk into and instantly want to linger.

    Kelowna Cafes Be Like…

    Kelowna is full of cute little spots to eat and relax. Some instantly feel like home and welcome you with open arms. Others? Well, others make you feel like you need to rock a quarter zip, order a matcha at least once, and casually know someone behind the counter just to get a nod of approval. You know the vibe.. It’s all subtle side-eyes, “who do you know” energy, or the dreaded “I’ve seen you before” look without actually being nice.

    We all have a vibe, and it shows in the coffee we sip. Take this quiz to see which coffee matches your personality. Are you relaxed and chill, bold and adventurous, or a little extra with a flair for fun? Let’s find out.

    Questions:

    1. How do you usually start your day?

    • A: Slow and chill, with a coffee and some me-time
    • B: Jumping straight into action, coffee in hand
    • C: Outfit curated, playlist ready, selfie taken
    • D: Quiet reflection, journaling or reading
    • E: Catching up with friends, laughing, chatting

    2. What’s your weekend energy like?

    • A: Cozy vibes, Netflix, low-key activities
    • B: Adventures, spontaneous trips, new experiences
    • C: Aesthetic-focused, trendy spots, photo ops
    • D: Alone time, self-care, introspection
    • E: Hosting friends, social energy, full of life

    3. How would your friends describe you?

    • A: Laid-back, easy-going, chill
    • B: Bold, fearless, adventurous
    • C: Stylish, creative, trendy
    • D: Thoughtful, calm, reflective
    • E: Warm, friendly, uplifting

    Results:

    Mostly A: Chill Latte Lover

    • You’re relaxed and grounded. Your presence makes people feel at ease. In ZealUnity, you’re the friend everyone wants to sit next to.

    Mostly B: Bold Espresso Adventurer

    • You thrive on energy, excitement, and new experiences. In ZealUnity, you’re the go-getter who inspires others to try new things.

    Mostly C: Trendy Matcha Maven

    • You love aesthetics, creativity, and staying on top of trends. In ZealUnity, you’re the influencer energy, sparking inspiration in the community.

    Mostly D: Cozy Hot Chocolate Soul

    • You value comfort, reflection, and mindful moments. In ZealUnity, you bring a calm, grounding presence to the community.

    Mostly E: Friendly Cappuccino Cheerleader

    • You’re social, warm, and love connecting people. In ZealUnity, you’re the ultimate hype person and community builder.

    The Food, the Kitchen, and Zero Weird Vibes

    Our media member Vinil went into the kitchen and captured some in-action shots, and honestly, everything was spotless. You could tell the team genuinely loved what they were making — every plate, every detail, every presentation was done with passion. Sometimes when we walk into restaurants, you can feel when people are putting on a show for the camera.. a half-smile here, tense energy there, hiding corners of the kitchen…and it makes you wonder what they’re trying to hide. But at The Cozy Cafe, it was completely different. The space felt open, well-lit, and curious. Comfort food with warm hospitality, no pretence, no weird vibes.

    And the food? Unreal. From their classic eggs and skillets to the decadent French toast, waffles, and avocado toast, everything hit the perfect balance of comforting and elevated. Signature Benedicts with ham, smoked salmon, or Angus beef were a total highlight, and the brunch combos and skillets packed with fresh, flavourful ingredients made it clear this wasn’t just “your usual breakfast.” Sweet options like seasonal fruit, French toast or Banana Almond French Toast? Chef’s kiss. Pancakes, crepes, even savory breakfast bagels!! All fresh, vibrant, and satisfying.

    Lunch and dinner aren’t left behind either. Steak frites, fish and chips, Greek souvlaki, Korean chicken bowls, fresh salads, and gourmet sandwiches make this spot feel like a one-stop comfort-and-creativity hub. Every dish felt intentional and made with love, which is exactly the energy you want when you sit down to a meal.

    Walking into The Cozy Cafe isn’t just about eating. It’s about stepping into a space where everyone is genuinely engaged, the food is thoughtfully prepared, and you can just relax and enjoy it all. Bright purple chairs, white tables, big windows, and cozy touches everywhere — it’s the perfect mix of comfort and personality.

    Finding Comfort in Your Own Company

    As November comes to its final day, we wanted to take a moment to acknowledge how tough this season can feel for some. With or without friends and family around, it can be a reminder of how hard it is to be alone. While some thrive on the idea of “if only I could do this myself,” it can still bring up the question of “am I strong enough?” when you see everyone else around you.

    We want to reassure you that you are not alone. You are loved, you are seen, and your presence matters. With each place within your community, make an effort to show up, even if you are by yourself. A solo date, a solo coffee, a little outing just for you.. you deserve it all. Self-love and dedicating time to yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Treat yourself like you deserve the world.

    Brunch, for example, is the perfect start to your day, solo or with friends. Making the time for yourself and putting energy into your own happiness only adds to your sense of self, growth, and confidence.

    How The Cozy Cafe is Helping the Community Thrive

    The Cozy Cafe has been doing amazing things for the creative community! From collaborations with different creators to welcoming anyone with a warm heart and positive intentions to come in, create, eat, or chat about ways to get involved, it’s truly blissful to see and experience.

    Wondering how to get involved in creating with restaurants? No experience? No problem! It only takes one message or one phone call for someone to get a real sense of who you are. If you’re looking for something creative to do this season that will level up your portfolio and expand your connections, reach out to our community at Zeal Social Management and hop on board with our media team.

    Sending the best to you and a huge thank you to the Cozy Cafe for having us. We’re so grateful for the space, the food, and the inspiring energy.

  • Packing For Labour Made Easy

    Packing For Labour Made Easy

    I’m 24 and about to give birth to my second baby, and packing for the hospital is still a wild ride. From what I learned the first time to the little hacks I am adding this time, I am sharing exactly what’s in my bag and my baby’s bag, so you can see what is really essential and what is totally extra. Think first time mom confessions, second time survival tips, and everything you need to make delivery day as cozy and stress free as possible.

    24 And Having Baby Number Two

    I am approaching my due date in February and I have completed my hospital bags, with just a few things still left to pack. This time around, I feel a lot less anxious, but I still worry I will get there and feel like I do not have everything I need. The first time I went, to be honest, I left the same day with my son. I did not stay the night and wanted to come home right away, so everything I brought, I did not really use. But the things I did use, I know are my personal essentials. This time, I am definitely planning to stay, as my first is now a toddler and I need some rest before going home. Everything we are bringing for me and baby is cute, cozy, and practical.

    Comfy Essentials For Mom

    The last time I was in labour, I made sure to bring all the little things, but not the major essentials. I was very cold in the hospital, and I gave birth in July! This time around, it will be winter, so here are the things I am making sure to bring to stay cozy, comfortable, and ready for baby.

    What to pack:

    • Sweaters – Layering is key in the hospital, especially in winter. They keep you warm during downtime and skin-to-skin moments.
    • Cozy pants and pajamas – Comfort first. These are perfect for resting, sleeping, and lounging without feeling restricted.
    • Maternity bras – Easy for feeding and provide support while nursing.
    • Cozy socks – Hospital floors are often cold, so keep your feet warm.
    • Big, comfortable underwear – Extra padding and room make postpartum life so much easier.
    • Comfy shorts – In case you get a bit warm or need to move around comfortably.
    • Oversized tee shirts – Great for layering and easy to change into; plus, I pack a couple of nicer daytime shirts to feel fresh and put together.
    • Robe – Perfect for after a shower or just as a loose, cozy option to wear around the hospital.

    Baby’s Bag Essentials

    With Sabo, we had him in swaddles most of the time. The hospital provides a few items and even helps wrap your baby for you. They also gave him a little hat and had a whole cart of essentials just for him, like diapers, wipes, and creams. It was enough for a two-day stay, but they do not provide clothing. They do give towels, a little blanket, and other necessary items, but anything else you want your baby to wear, you will need to bring yourself. Here is what we are packing for our daughter this time.

    What we packed for our daughter:

    • Three pairs of pajamas – Comfortable for sleeping and lounging in the hospital.
    • One swaddle – For cozy, secure sleep and skin-to-skin time.
    • Two blankets – One for warmth and one for extra comfort.
    • Three hats – To keep her little head warm.
    • Two sets of hand coverings – To protect tiny hands from scratches.
    • Four pairs of socks – To keep her feet cozy.
    • One daytime outfit – For photos or just to feel a little dressed.
    • One going-home outfit – Cute, practical, and ready for the car ride.
    • Onesies and sleepers – Soft and comfy for tiny toes.
    • Diapers and wipes – For easy changes during the hospital stay.
    • Soft cloths – Perfect for wiping up milk or for her first bath at the hospital.

    Going Home Outfit

    For the going home outfit, we’re keeping it cozy and practical. Fleece bottoms, a long sleeve top, and a sweater without a hood make for a comfy car ride. We will pair it with a cute hat, mitts, socks, and warm shoes and add a soft blanket over the car seat to keep the baby snug all the way home.

    Favourite Extra Item

    One of my all-time favourite items after giving birth was my belly wrap. I put that thing on right after delivery, and let me tell you, it helped so much. I felt supported, and it made the transition a lot easier for bending over, picking things up, or just moving in general. Not only does it help your body recover, but it adds a lot of support to your lower back and core when everything still feels tender.

    Other comforting extras:

    • Cozy blanket – Perfect for snuggling baby during your stay.
    • Sentimental keepsake – A small personal item to make the experience feel special.
    • Comfort snack or drink– For quick moments of calm in between.
    • Headphones for labour – Whether it’s music, meditation, or your favourite playlist, they help you stay focused and calm through contractions.

    Postpartum & Comfort Essentials

    These are a few things that made my hospital stay so much more comfortable and helped me feel more like myself after giving birth. Some of them might not be essentials, but they make a big difference when you are in a space that can feel a little unfamiliar.

    This time around I am packing a few things that made a huge difference last time, and a few new ones that I wish I had brought sooner.

    Postpartum bottle: Perfect for when wiping feels super painful, even with wipes. Just fill it with water and spray the area. It feels so much better than trying to wipe down there.

    Breast pads: A must-have for leaking. You can slip them into your maternity bra to catch those moments and stay comfortable.

    Disposable underwear: The hospital gives you some, but these ones are perfect for after or when you do not want to keep asking for more. They are stretchy, comfortable, and made to be thrown away without creating harmful waste.

    Personal hospital gown: This was super important to me. The normal gowns only open at the back and stay open, which felt uncomfortable. When I had my first, I got mine off Amazon. It had buttons that opened and closed where I needed, not always open or restrictive. It made a big difference, especially when the baby came.

    Breastfeeding pillow: Helps with your abs and gives great support so you do not feel like you have to hold the baby up while lying in bed.

    Breastfeeding cover: I’m bringing one this time so I do not have to wear only easy access clothing. Honestly, when I was looking online, nothing looked cute to me, so I bought pieces I would actually wear at home or out. The cover gives me privacy while letting me look down at my baby and still wear things that make me feel like myself.

    Toiletries: A huge must in feeling fresh and grounded while you are in a space that can feel a bit mentally draining.

    Towel and shower shoes: Last time I brought Crocs, and this time I’m packing both Crocs and slippers. Perfect for keeping clean and comfy in the hospital bathroom.

    Robe: Great for after a shower or just as a loose, cozy option to wear around the room.

    Cloths: Handy for wiping milk or when your baby has their first bath. Those little moments can get messy quickly.

    Vicks: Helps with congestion or just to feel clear and refreshed.

    Slippers: Keep your feet warm and cozy during your stay.

    Headphones: Perfect for labour to tune out noise, listen to music, or focus on your breathing.

    These little things might not seem huge, but they truly help you feel more like yourself during such a big moment.

    Hospital Bag Toiletries Essentials

    Here are my toiletries. To be honest, taking a shower after birth and just putting on fresh clothes, brushing your hair, and doing your routine made me feel so much more relaxed.

    The first time we stayed, we were there for around 14 hours before heading home. I had a shower, ate two meals, took a nap, and honestly felt amazing. This time around, I’m making sure I have everything I need to feel refreshed and comfortable again.

    Face wash: To gently cleanse and wake up your skin after labour.

    Leave-in conditioner: Keeps your hair soft and easy to manage when you might not have time for a full routine.

    Body lotion: Helps hydrate your skin and brings a bit of comfort after a long day.

    Pillow or room spray: Makes the hospital room feel more like home and helps you relax before resting.

    Extra conditioner: Because hospital air can be super dry and your hair might need a little more love.

    Mini shampoo and conditioner: Perfect travel size for a quick refresh without overpacking.

    Night serum: Helps your skin recover and feel nourished, especially after the long hours of labour.

    Body wash: Just something that feels good and smells fresh — a small way to feel normal again.

    Hair ties: You’ll thank yourself for packing a few extra.

    Tooth brush: Super Important!!

    These little comforts make a big difference when you’re recovering, bonding with your baby, and just trying to feel human again.

    Before You Leave

    Make sure you have everything ready so the trip to the hospital is smooth and stress-free.

    Birth plan: Have your preferences on hand so you can share them with your care team.

    Wallet and documentation: Keep your ID and insurance cards together in one place.

    Car seat: Install it in your car by 24 weeks to be ready ahead of time.

    Phone charger: Stay connected and capture all the special moments.

    Headphones: Perfect for relaxing during the ride or preparing for labour.

    Water and snacks: Keep hydrated and energized for the journey and early recovery.

    Final Thoughts

    Packing for the hospital can feel overwhelming, but having your essentials ready makes such a difference. From clothes and toiletries to little comfort items and your baby’s must-haves, each item helps you feel more prepared, relaxed, and supported during such a big moment.

    I hope sharing my hospital bag gives you some helpful ideas and inspiration for your own stay.

    If you want more tips, behind-the-scenes moments, or just want to reach out, follow me on Instagram @Taylor.cookk. I would love to hear from you and connect!

  • Growing Up Without a Village: How to Build One From Scratch

    Growing Up Without a Village: How to Build One From Scratch

    Credits
    Photography by ZEAL Member Okanagan Portraits
    Models Jenayah, Deep, Ladi and Sydney from ZEALUNITY
    Edited In House
    Brand Black Mountain Haunted House

    When “If Only” Haunts You: A Survival Kit for Letting Go

    When you lie awake at night, thinking of what could be, do you find yourself replaying the moments that might have happened, or the ones that never did? Memories of what could have been done differently swirl in your mind, maybe with more love, maybe with more support. If only. If only. I had. I chose. I left. I knew.

    This article is for you. For the ones haunted by choices, who move through life one day at a time, learning to choose freedom over fear. Your guilt does not have to define you. The feeling of being alone does not make you weak. If no one checks in, if no one seems to care, it does not mean you have done anything wrong.

    Here is your survival kit for navigating life without a village. For thriving even when support is scarce. For finding strength in yourself.

    Finding Community and Courage at Black Mountain Haunted House

    One of our escapes this month was a visit to the local haunted house at Black Mountain. We got to dress up, believe in ourselves, be creative, and simply have fun. It is run by such wonderful people, and because it is local, it made our community feel at home and part of something bigger. Even when support does not come from the people we might want, our community steps up and creates moments that feel larger than life.

    Experiencing this space made me think about how people survived in the early days of life, huddled in groups, surrounded by cold, hunger, and discomfort. Imagining a world that chose closeness over isolation for the sake of collective survival. Just like in that haunted house, the warmth of community, creativity, and shared experience becomes a lifeline. It reminds us that to live, we must depend on others, our family, our friends, the people who keep us safe, not just for our own sake, but for theirs too.

    Yet, even with that understanding, life is not always so forgiving. Support is not always there. Family may be distant, friends may be absent, and the people we hope to lean on may not be around. In those moments, everything feels heavier, the cold bites deeper, and fear lingers longer. It can be hard to believe in yourself, to take risks, or to create joy alone. And yet even in that absence, connection can be found. It may come through small acts, through strangers who step in unexpectedly, through laughter, creativity, and courage. That haunted house reminded me that even when our inner circle is small, community still exists. It is in the people who show up, in the experiences that spark joy, and in the courage we summon within ourselves.

    In a world where support is not guaranteed, these fleeting moments of shared humanity become essential. They remind us that belonging and warmth are possible, even when we have to create them ourselves.

    Survival List: What to Do Without a Village

    Treat Yourself to Your Own Date Day

    Don’t have anyone around you to text about your problems or talk to? This doesn’t mean spending money or buying random things. It means taking care of yourself. Sit down. Think. Reflect on all the loving things you do. Remember all the ways you have grown and gotten to where you are today in a positive way. You don’t need anything to be happy. You need delusional positivity and hope. You, my friend, are exactly where you need to be, and everything is aligned for you. Just chill.

    Go Do Something Fun

    Even if it costs a little money or none at all. Our creators went to Black Mountain Haunted House. For a lot of our members, joining our community was about wanting to do something different, be creative, and have fun for themselves. Experiences like this remind us that doing things just for you is powerful.

    Don’t Feel Bad About Missing the Things You Left

    It’s human. You are brave enough to try something new, and human enough to feel nostalgia for what you left. It’s evolution.

    Live Life as If No One is Watching

    Because, honestly, who is? Let the feeling of uncertainty guide you, knowing that each day is a new beginning.

    Write Down How You Feel

    One day, when your community is around you, you might forget what you’ve been through. Being able to read your own words and relive those moments will help you realize how far you’ve come.

    Don’t Let Memories or Messages Pull You Back

    If you receive messages that say, “I remember the good old times,” remember that a lot of the time, those moments weren’t as perfect as they seem. Don’t let someone else’s projection ruin your mindset.

    Allow and Receive Love Without Guilt

    You might not have much to give right now, and that’s okay. The people meant to be around you don’t expect anything from you. They just want to love you for who you are.

    Quiz: What Do You Really Need Next?

    Answer these quick questions to figure out your next step when your village isn’t around:

    1. How are you feeling right now?
    A. Overwhelmed and drained
    B. Bored and restless
    C. Curious and excited

    2. Do you have time to focus on yourself today?
    A. Not really
    B. A little bit
    C. Yes, I can make time

    3. What makes you feel alive?
    A. Alone reflection
    B. Being creative or doing something new
    C. Spending time with people, even virtually

    4. How do you deal with missing people or your old life?
    A. I get stuck thinking about it
    B. I acknowledge it but try to move forward
    C. I channel it into a new experience

    Results:

    • Mostly A’s → Self-Care Reset: Take a solo day to recharge, reflect, and do something purely for yourself. Journaling, meditation, or a long walk can help.
    • Mostly B’s → Creative Boost: Try something creative just for fun. Paint, write, dress up, or explore a new hobby. Focus on experiences that make you feel like “you.”
    • Mostly C’s → Community Quest: Find ways to connect safely with people who lift you up. Virtual hangouts, workshops, or local events can help you find your people.

    Embracing the Hard Days

    Now this is all hard. It is not going to feel cozy or soft. Some days you might feel sad, scared, or worried about where you are going next or why you are even here in the first place. Trusting yourself and letting go of the outcome, all while maintaining a positive outlook, positive habits, and positive self-talk, will keep you moving forward. Eventually, the heaviness will not feel as heavy. It will feel like a bag of tools for your next adventure, helping you figure out who you are, without the need to be dependent on abundance.

    Think about the kind of house that raised you and ask yourself what kind of house you want to live in now.

    🎃 Halloween Treats That Won’t Break the Bank

    Halloween doesn’t have to mean spending a ton of money to have fun and feel festive. Whether you’re solo, with friends, or doing a cozy night in, these easy and cheap treats are perfect for getting into the spooky spirit. Think cozy lattes, sweet cornbread, and little DIY touches that make your night feel magical.. all without emptying your wallet.

    Grab your ingredients, get a little creative, and let’s make Halloween deliciously fun and totally budget-friendly!

    Budget-Friendly Pumpkin Spice Latte (Non-Alcoholic)

    Ingredients:

    • 1 cup milk (any kind, even powdered milk works)
    • 1–2 tsp pumpkin puree (optional, can skip if needed)
    • 1 tsp sugar or honey
    • 1/4 tsp pumpkin pie spice or cinnamon
    • 1/2 tsp vanilla extract (optional)
    • 1/2 cup strong brewed coffee or instant coffee

    Instructions:

    1. Heat milk in a small pot or microwave.
    2. Stir in pumpkin, sugar, and pumpkin pie spice until well combined.
    3. Mix in coffee and vanilla if using.
    4. Pour into a mug, top with whipped cream or a sprinkle of cinnamon.
    5. Sip and enjoy your cozy Halloween treat!

    💡 Tip: Skip the pumpkin puree or whipped cream to save money and still have a tasty latte.

    🎃 Cheap & Easy “Monster” Cornbread

    Ingredients:

    • 1 cup cornmeal
    • 1 cup flour (all-purpose or whatever you have)
    • 2 tbsp sugar
    • 1 tbsp baking powder
    • Pinch of salt
    • 1 cup milk (or water + a little butter/oil)
    • 1/4 cup melted butter or oil
    • 2 eggs (or 1 egg + 1/4 cup applesauce to save)

    Instructions:

    1. Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C) and grease a pan.
    2. Mix dry ingredients: cornmeal, flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt.
    3. Mix wet ingredients: milk, melted butter, and eggs.
    4. Combine wet and dry ingredients, stir until just mixed.
    5. Pour batter into the pan and bake 20–25 minutes until golden.

    💡 Tip: Add a few chocolate chips or a sprinkle of cinnamon sugar on top for a festive touch without spending much.

    🕸️ Not in the Baking Mood? Try This Halloween Self-Discovery Quiz!

    Answer these questions to find a fun, spooky activity that fits your vibe and mood tonight:

    🕯️ A Little Note Before You Go

    Whatever your environment looks like this season, know that you are loved, needed, and wanted. Halloween can bring up a lot.. it’s a time of magical energy for many. Remember to drink your juice, eat your food, and take care of yourself without feeling guilty or wrong about what’s already happened.

    Be accountable, take risks, and stay positive even when things feel uncertain. Sending you the very best and wishing you a safe, grounded, and meaningful Halloween. 🎃

  • The Staycation That Made Us Rethink Home

    The Staycation That Made Us Rethink Home

    We spent a weekend at Quality Inn Vernon and realized a little escape goes a long way especially this time of year.

    Do you really need space from your surroundings, or are you just in need of a reset? Let’s be honest.

    In the middle of all the hustle and the season of feelings and coziness, it is easy to get caught up in your own head. The outside world is slowing down while you are hyper-focused on the little things inside. Season changes are tough for so many reasons, and a lot of the pressure we feel is the pressure we put on ourselves. As the air gets colder and our homes get warmer, it somehow makes the emptiness feel bigger.

    How far are you in life? Do you have the people you love around you? Who do you love? Why are you doing what you do? Why does moving the TV feel like a big decision? How is your team doing? Are your friends going out? Work feels heavier and harder to get up for, especially if you are isolated or not exactly where you imagined yourself. Cozy seasons can hit hard.

    But it does not have to be that way. Here is how we planned a local getaway at a nearby hotel and actually felt like ourselves again.

    Book It, Sip Wine, Reset: Why You Deserve This Staycation

    A staycation? Yup. Maybe a little wine, maybe a meal that is not just a frozen something from the fridge or the usual takeout from nearby spots or Uber Eats deals. The truth is, sometimes leaving where you are is the only way to get perspective. Groups that call themselves “community” can actually drain energy, and that is what happens in the wrong ones.

    Whether someone has lived in a place forever or just moved, escaping doesn’t have to mean going far. A quick getaway near Kelowna offers a new energy while still being close enough to make the next day shift without any awkwardness. Vernon. A staycation at a hotel like Quality Inn comes with continental breakfast, a pool, and clean service without running into people you know, all without breaking the bank.

    It is the perfect reset. Here is why everyone needs to book some time for themselves. This is facts.

    The Art of Pausing: Reclaim Your Energy and Inner Joy

    Feeling wiped out? Maybe it is because no one is hitting pause for themselves. Taking time for you is not selfish. It is everything. Here is why putting yourself first changes everything.

    1. You cannot be the full version of yourself if you do not make time for yourself.
    2. Pausing, breathing and enjoying the moment brings more happy vibes later.
    3. Do not let everyone else run your schedule. The more elusive and high luxury you feel, the more energy comes your way.
    4. Stepping away from responsibilities reconnects you to your inner child. Emotions and who you are are meant to be felt.
    5. Keeping your bucket full means others cannot drain your energy as easily.

    A Mini Vernon Getaway That Made Us Forget Tomorrow

    Quality Inn in Vernon was a vibe. The goal was simple: somewhere affordable, comfortable and with a feeling of luxury. The staff treated everyone like royalty. Everyone was kind, the rooms were spotless and the amenities were perfect. With so many local restaurants nearby and season-themed activities that cost nothing, it was the perfect place to breathe and stop thinking about what tomorrow might bring. Family run and owned since 2013, it felt like home while removing all the negative energy that often comes along.

    What should you pack for a staycation? First, no work. Leave it at home. Work is what reminds us how transactional the world can feel. Your energy is valuable. The more energy you put into a place or situation, the more it lingers. Leaving negativity out of the picture while you reset actually brings more perspective. Let the room breathe and just enjoy your own mind for a moment. You will get more done when you are fully present rather than being half in and half out of your own sanctuary.

    Second, leave toxic relationships behind. This is not the time to rekindle anything. Surround yourself with genuine love that will not wreck your vibe.

    Third, bring self-love essentials. Whether it is food, drinks, a journal or music, this is your time to relax and enjoy yourself. Welcome your inner child. Repeat to yourself: I am happiness. I am joy. I am grateful. Bring perspective and reset fully.

    Quality Inn

    Leave the World Behind and Focus on You This Season

    Now staycations do not always have to be somewhere fancy. They can be right in your room, right in your house, or somewhere close by. A friend’s house, a quick getaway from school, or even a sick day from work. Whatever it is, just remember to leave your current world at the door and actually focus on yourself. Do not bring a glass half empty type of vibe. Really work on yourself if you want to disconnect.

    It is all about being present with who you are going to be and who you want to be while letting go of struggle. Hard balance, right? Think about it. What makes you feel the best? What smells bring you comfort? What activities make you feel safe? What reminds you of home? Home as in comfort, not the trauma or suppressed emotions from the past. Be present, let yourself feel and understand yourself. This will not happen if you are always on the go.

    If you are in the place to go out somewhere and you live in Kelowna, also known as Cult Central, you need escape moments. When we found Quality Inn, it was truly one of the most relaxing moments we have felt in a while.

    This is a reminder to take time for yourself this season. Take good care of yourself and stay in places that make you feel at home. Thank you to Quality Inn for hosting us.

  • For Who’s Coming Next –

    For Who’s Coming Next –

    New city. New chapter. New ideas I didn’t even know I was allowed to have.

    This Is What Becoming Her Looks Like

    It’s wild how life can feel like it’s just starting… while you’re also sleep-deprived, healing old wounds, and trying to drink your coffee before it goes cold (again).

    Lately, I’ve been in this weird space — quietly redesigning what present means to me.

    Not the filtered version. Not the hustle-burnout-repeat cycle.
    But the version with slow mornings, messy joy, my little family, and the fight in me that still believes in change.
    And creativity — the kind that doesn’t perform, but speaks.

    There have been setbacks.
    There have been costs.
    And there have been days I’ve felt completely invisible — like I was giving everything away with nothing left for me.

    But I’ve also never felt more me.

    So, yeah — this post is for the ones who are watching from the sidelines.
    The ones wondering what I’ve been up to.
    It’s for my babies — one earthside, one on the way.
    And honestly?
    It’s for me.
    To look back and remember how much it took to even feel again.

    This isn’t a typical pregnancy announcement.
    This is just a moment. A messy, beautiful, real one.
    And maybe the start of something even bigger — a song, a shift, a whole new story.

    To My Future Baby:

    You don’t know me yet, but you’ve already changed me.

    In the very sudden craving for stillness. In the tears I couldn’t explain. In the ‘no’s’ I thought broke me — just to make room for the best ‘yes’ I didn’t see coming.

    You are arriving in a version of me that is learning softness again — not because I was weak, but because I had to fight for it.

    You’re being born into love.
    Not the perfect kind, but the real kind.
    The kind that shows up tired, with cereal on the floor and music playing in the background.

    You’re being born into art. Into rhythm. Into story.
    And you’re already part of mine.

    To The Girl I Was:

    I’m proud of you. Even on the days you didn’t brush your hair or thought everything was falling apart.
    Especially then.

    You loved hard. You learned the hard way. You gave too much.
    But you never stopped creating something out of nothing.

    You walked through fire and called it a normal day.
    You didn’t get a trophy for surviving, but you should have.

    Everything you thought you lost — your voice, your spark, your magic — it’s still here. I found it.
    And I’m using it.

    To This Moment:

    Thank you for the silence that turned into music.
    Thank you for the doubt that turned into art.
    Thank you for the unexpected timing — the kind that makes no sense but still feels sacred.

    I’m not announcing a perfect life.
    I’m just showing up in this one — present, imperfect, full of heart.

    Something new is on the way.
    And I think it’s going to be loud.
    And soft.
    And everything in between.

  • I Met My Fiancé in a Bar at 20

    I Met My Fiancé in a Bar at 20

    In this story, you’ll find real signs that might help you on your own journey—

    The timing didn’t make sense, I wasn’t looking, and honestly, I almost didn’t say anything. But something told me to go for it.

    If you’ve been wondering how to know when it’s right—or how to trust yourself when something feels different—this one’s for you.

    Simple, real, and maybe exactly what you need to hear right now.

    Wait… I’m Only 20

    How I accidentally found something real, what it taught me, and the signs that showed me I was ready—before I even knew it.

    So here’s the vibe: I had just graduated, and, honestly, I thought I had it all figured out—or at least I wanted to think I did. You know that whole Malibu Pink Dream where you marry the guy you first kissed and everything just falls into place? Yeah, that was the fantasy. But, spoiler alert, life had other plans.

    Before I met Mason, I had come out of a relationship that just… wasn’t good. I felt confused, honestly. Like I didn’t know who I was anymore. That age—18 to 20—it’s wild. You feel like you’re supposed to know what you’re doing, but really you’re just starting the climb and it’s super uncomfy. I was living alone, barely holding it together, trying to get my photography hustle going. My family was going through it too, so everything just felt heavy.

    But I kept working on myself, even if I was hurting. I couldn’t see what was next, but I felt something coming. Then one random night, I was at this little town bar—taking pics for content, doing my thing—and I look up and see this guy. The night before, I had been so done. I literally drank water, said a little prayer, and asked to be guided to my person + purpose. I think I saw the method on TikTok? Either way, I believed it.

    And boom. The next night, there I was, off the clock at this bar I’d been going to forever, and suddenly I’m sitting across from someone I’d never seen before—even though we literally knew everyone in common. It was surreal. I almost walked away, but something told me to stay. Trust your gut. That night was the start of something I never could’ve imagined.

    What Made This a Green Flag (And Not Just Another “He’s Different I Swear” Moment 💍)

    In the beginning, it’s hard to really tell if something’s going to be real. You just can’t know right away—but what you can do is look for the subtle signs. Are they giving you full energy and effort? Do they keep the conversation going by asking deeper questions when things start to lull? Are they tuned into your energy and actually respecting it—or just complimenting how you look?

    For me, I knew I wasn’t walking into another gaslight-lovebomb-repeat cycle. I had my flags all the way up. One of the biggest was: if he talks about himself, does he loop me into it? Does he offer the same level of listening I’m giving? Because if not, I’m not sitting through that again.

    With Mason, something was different. Even now, one of his biggest green flags is the way he listens. Like, really listens. He lets the space sit in a convo and doesn’t rush it—but somehow he always responds like he’s been taking mental notes with a pen and paper. That patience and presence? That’s rare. That’s what told me I wasn’t just being heard—I was being understood.

    That night at the bar? We talked for 7 hours straight—barely touched our drinks. No distractions, just us locked in, like the world paused so we could actually see each other.

    Biggest Green Flag? The Energy Had Depth.

    One of my biggest turn-ons? Spirituality. Not in the “let me read your birth chart and disappear” way—but more in the vibe of someone who can have open, honest conversations without needing to wrap it all up. Just someone who can flow with the conversation and take the time to walk through the thoughts together. I love people who inspire me, and it doesn’t even have to be some deep, life-changing thing. It could be the way you make your morning coffee, the energy in your space, or how you move through your day.

    And you know what I just thought of… People who are great at what they do usually fall into one of two categories: either super structured, but a bit off in other ways, or laid-back, dependable, with a solid work ethic. The second one? That’s the kind of energy I was looking for.

    When I first saw his place, he had a rose quartz in the living room. Not gonna lie, it wasn’t placed in the most organized way—it was a little random. But it wasn’t about the placement. It was the fact that he had it there at all. That small detail said way more about him than any perfect setup could.

    Structure? Check.

    Why IT Got So Serious🤍

    I grew up seeing a lot of divorce in my family, so I guess I always had a different view of relationships. But even through all that, I still believed in love. I didn’t know exactly what it would look like, but I knew I wanted something real. A family, a solid foundation, but not in the traditional sense.

    So yeah, being serious this young? Definitely shocks some people. But honestly, I was over the hookup culture and all the energy-draining stuff. Meeting people, going out, trying to align with people who aren’t even on the same vibe…Exhausting. I get it if you’re still all about that, I was too. But things hit differently when you start wanting more.

    Girls’ night? Used to be all about talking about the guys but now.. I just want to curl up with my person, watch TV, and not deal with any negativity. It’s not that I don’t love my friends—I do!—but I just don’t have the energy for drama anymore. I didn’t realize how much I needed that peace until I found it.

    Just lucky I found my person.

    What I Wasn’t Going to Settle For: Early Talks

    There’s a lot of conversation these days about what roles we choose to take on in relationships, and while everyone’s path is different, I think how we’ve been raised plays a huge part in shaping what we desire. For some, starting a family is the ultimate goal. For others, it’s a different kind of fulfillment. And personally, I’m just grateful to have the freedom to choose what feels right for me.

    That being said, I wasn’t going to let go of my voice or compromise on the things that matter most to me. I had some non-negotiables, and here’s what they were.

    1. Honesty above all else. It might not always be easy, but keeping things to yourself to spare feelings never works out. In my view, it’s always better to speak up respectfully. In the end, it’s us against the world.
    2. We keep our individuality. We each make time for the things we love to do, and we support each other in that. It’s important not to lose ourselves in the process.

    Trust is essential, but it’s not about just saying “yes” to everything. If someone changes their behavior intentionally, that’s a red flag. It’s not a “miscommunication,” it’s something deeper. And I wasn’t about to ignore that.

    Mason? He’s good. He’s solid. He’s real. And I want to share this because I believe we all deserve to find someone who respects what we bring to the table.

    Growing Together: Like… Actually

    You know that feeling when everything just starts syncing up? Like suddenly your goals hit different, your confidence goes up, and your daily routine doesn’t feel like a mess anymore? That’s when you know you’re growing with someone, not just dating them.

    It’s giving power couple energy—but make it real. You feel more like you, not less. They know your moods, your fav songs, your weird little habits, and somehow it all makes you feel safe but still excited.

    And listen, if you’re constantly feeling off outside the relationship, like drained or second-guessing everything… it’s a sign. Being with someone shouldn’t mute your magic. Together or apart, the vibe should still feel full. If not? That’s not growth—it’s a pause.

    🎯 20 Sneaky Questions to Ask Your Partner (+ What Their Answers Could Say About Them)

    If you could live anywhere for a year, where would it be?🌍 Big dreamer = adventurous.🏠 Same hometown = loves comfort.
    Would you rather plan the trip or just show up?📋 Planner = responsible.🛫 Spontaneous = fun but maybe chaotic.
    What’s your dream Saturday?🧘‍♀️ Chill = calm energy.🎉 Wild = thrill seeker.
    What’s something you secretly wish you were amazing at?🎨 Creative stuff = deep soul.💼 Business stuff = ambition coded.
    What’s your go-to when you’re stressed?🏃‍♂️ Gym/active = healthy outlet.🍸 Party = 🚩 maybe distraction issues.
    What’s a dealbreaker for you in friendships?🚪 Instant exit = strong boundaries.🥴 “Idk” = red flag… lack of standards.
    If money wasn’t a thing, what would you do all day?💸 Hustler mindset = long-term player.🍃 Vibe-only = might struggle with pressure.
    What was your favourite age so far?🎈Childhood = still healing?🌟 Recent = growing & evolving.
    Do you believe everything happens for a reason?✨ Yes = emotionally deep.🥱 No = might need more convincing.
    Would you rather be respected or loved?🧠 Respected = stable and serious.💕 Loved = sensitive king/queen.
    What’s your toxic trait?😇 Honest = self-aware.🙈 Avoids = no thanks.
    What’s a weird food combo you secretly like?🥑 Quirky = fun to live with.🚫 “Nothing” = boring sorry not sorry.
    What’s something you’d want to get better at in relationships?💬 Communication = green flag.🙃 “I’m good” = delulu alert.
    How do you usually apologize?📖 Talks it out = healthy.😬 Avoids it = prepare for headaches.
    Would you rather win an award or hear it privately from someone you love?🏆 Public = external validation vibes.🥹 Private = heart-centered.
    What’s something random that makes you feel rich?🧺 Clean sheets? 🚿 Long showers? They appreciate the little things.
    What’s your favourite part of your day usually?☀️ Morning = motivated.🌙 Night = deep thinker.
    What’s your favourite way to recharge?🔥 Alone time = independent.🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Around people = extrovert coded.
    How do you like spending holidays?Family = loyal and sentimental.✈️ Getaway trips = loves freedom.
    If you could master one random skill, what would it be?🎸 Guitar = romantic tendencies.

    (without making it weird or overthinking it)

    • Stay loud in your little ways.
      Your jokes, your random interests, your way of doing things? That’s literally what makes you you. Don’t “soften” yourself to fit some imaginary vibe. If you’re goofy, be goofy. If you’re quiet but witty, let it snipe out in moments.
    • Confidence ≠ being the loudest.
      Confidence is just being sure you don’t need to perform. You’re not auditioning. You’re just existing. Let the energy come to you, not the other way around.
    • You’re not “too much.”
      Real ones want the full you — the layered, crazy, chill, passionate, whatever-you-are-today you. If you feel yourself shrinking around someone… that’s info, babe, not a sign you need to get smaller.
    • Open heart, wise mind.
      Stay soft and open to love, new conversations, and cute little surprises — but keep your standards, your goals, and your non-negotiables on lock.
      (being open doesn’t mean you gotta abandon your instincts.)
    • Silence doesn’t mean something’s wrong.
      You don’t have to fill every second with talking or energy. Being able to just exist together is hot. Comfort is loud in its own way.
    • Remind yourself: you’re the prize too.
      Not in an ego way. In a mutual respect, mutual effort, mutual energy kind of way.
      You’re not “lucky” they like you. They’re lucky they get to experience you in your light.

    23, a Baby, and Building a Life Together

    If you would’ve told me a few years ago that by 23 I’d have a baby with the boy I met at the bar and we’d be running our own businesses…
    I would’ve laughed and gone right back to overthinking my entire life in my notes app. 😂

    But somehow — here we are.
    And honestly? It’s better than anything I could’ve planned.
    Not perfect. Not some Pinterest board 24/7.
    Just real. And really good.

    When I look around now… the baby, the work, the everyday memories we’re stacking — I feel nothing but grateful that I listened to myself.
    Even when it was easier to just isolate.
    Even when shutting down felt safer than risking being seen.
    Even when growing felt like too much.

    Choosing to stay soft, choosing love, choosing to show up for my own life — it didn’t steal anything from me.
    It gave me everything I didn’t even know I wanted yet.

    And the wild part?
    It’s still just getting started.
    More babies. More businesses. More memories I haven’t even dreamed up yet.

    All because I decided to bet on myself and stay open when the good stuff came in.

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  • BOBBY JACK

    BOBBY JACK

    Glitter, a Bobby Jack sweater, and a childhood that didn’t fit the sparkles.

    There’s a certain kind of girl the world forgets to protect.
    She isn’t loud. She isn’t broken in a way that draws attention.
    She’s just… there. In the middle of things. Holding it all together.

    This one was seven. Her sister was five. They were pass-the-phone-between-houses kids. Living on a custody clock — not the split-week kind, but the kind where weekends, summers, and holidays belonged to him.

    Their bodies never settled; their backpacks always packed.

    One house was burnout on a schedule. Predictable, but tired. Routine so strict it left no room for softness. Everyone was doing their best, just too worn down to remember to smile.

    The other house — chaotic. Unpredictable.
    A man who mistook intensity for love and emotion for control.

    He cried a lot. Smoked just enough. Left the TV on at night, loud like a heartbeat trying to drown out his own thoughts. Sometimes she crept downstairs to turn it off. Other nights… he asked her to stay. To cuddle. Just for a second. Just to make him feel less alone.

    She didn’t want to.
    But she stayed.
    Because it was easier than saying no.

    Because if she was good — if she was calm, quiet, agreeable — maybe the rage wouldn’t come. Maybe her sister could sleep. Maybe he wouldn’t hate the drive back to their mom’s.

    Spoiler: He did.
    Every time.

    He came back angrier, tighter. His body language sharper than his voice. Sometimes he cried. Sometimes he slammed doors. But always, always — she was the one he looked at like she owed him something. Like her little shoulders were built to carry grown-up emotions.

    She did her best.

    Then came the summer of the trailer.

    — The new girlfriend — brought fresh air into the house. A dog, too. A new kind of silence: peaceful, not tense. Her sister finally slept over. She smiled more. They played outside. It started to feel like maybe this would be the moment life got better.

    They planned a camping trip. The first one in years.

    She packed with intention:
    Her sparkles. Her Bobby Jack hoodie. DC shoes she wore like a declaration.
    This time would be different.
    She wrote in her journal: This will be the best trip ever.

    But the man — her father — was unraveling in the background.
    Asking questions with panic under the surface: Did this fit? Did that close right? Would this wheel hold?

    She wanted to ask something simple.
    What if a tire fell off?
    A kid question. A valid one.

    But his face stiffened into a smile that wasn’t a smile.
    “That won’t happen.”
    The kind of answer that makes you wish you hadn’t asked.

    Three hours in, it did.

    The trailer tire blew. No tools. No plan. No backup.
    Just a man pacing in the sun, muttering about towns and repairs and how none of this was his fault.

    They drove in circles.
    Things got lost.
    So did she, a little.

    Not physically. Spiritually.
    Because when you’re a kid and your grown-up can’t hold it together,
    you learn to swallow your own fear and call it strength.
    You learn that sometimes men love loud — but not safe.

    She watched him more carefully after that.
    His tells. His shifts. The way he couldn’t handle uncertainty.
    How his anxiety looked like anger.
    And how his “I need you” meant You’re the adult now.

    That day, she stopped writing in the journal.
    The sparkles went dull.

    But she never forgot.

    The wheel will always fall — not because you’re cursed,
    but because someone didn’t check if it could.

    Hey, I’m Taylor. I love sharing real stories about community, growth, and everything in between.

     

  • Small Town Telephone: The Subtle Art of Using Others

    Small Town Telephone: The Subtle Art of Using Others

    Secrets, Lies, and the Unseen Web of Opportunity

    In a small town, nothing stays secret for long—especially when every conversation is a thread in a web of rumours, alliances, and hidden motives. One casual chat at lunch can set off a chain reaction that spirals out of control. You might not even know it’s happening, but trust me—someone is watching, listening, and waiting for their moment to use it to their advantage.

    Talk to Kim after work. Kim’s sister? She’s the one who “stalks” you on Instagram but acts like you’re invisible in public. And in the blink of an eye, what started as a simple exchange can become ammunition in a battle you didn’t even know you were fighting.

    In a small town like this, it’s not just about who you know—it’s about who’s using you, and who’s about to turn the tables.

    PROOF

    Click, Flash – Screenshot. Did you forget the trail you left behind? It’s curious how quickly admiration can shift when it’s easier to rewrite the story. Did you forget how much you loved it?

    One moment, It’s admiration and validation; the next, denial and shifting.

    Here’s the thing: People’s perceptions of you are fluid—and often, they aren’t about you at all. They’re about the context, the relationships, and the insecurities others project onto you. That’s why one day you’re the hero, and the next, you’re a ghost.

    So, how do you deal with it? First, don’t internalize the shift. Admiration and validation may feel good, but they are external factors, and they don’t define your worth. Secondly, don’t chase the approval of others. Instead, find validation within yourself. When the pendulum swings from admiration to denial, the only person who can truly validate you is you.

    Why Some People Want You to Chase Them –

    1.) It Feeds Their Ego: When someone knows you’re chasing them, it makes them feel good about themselves. They feel important and wanted, which boosts their confidence and self-esteem.

    2.) They Enjoy the Game: For some, the chase itself is exciting. Keeping you interested and unsure makes them feel powerful. It adds drama and keeps things interesting for them.

    3.) They’re Afraid of Being Vulnerable: Some people keep you chasing because they’re afraid to get too close or open up. By keeping their distance, they protect themselves from getting hurt or rejected.

    4.) They Want Control: By having you chase them, they stay in control of the relationship. They decide when to be close and when to pull away, which can make them feel secure.

    Using Others for Growth (From a Healthy Perspective)

    1.) Use others as a mirror to build self-worth
    When someone makes you chase them, it’s an opportunity to reflect on your own sense of self-worth. Instead of seeking validation from them, you can use this experience to remind yourself that your value comes from within, not from someone else’s approval.

    2.) Use emotional detachment to gain perspective
    Chasing someone can make you emotionally entangled. Use this situation to practice detachment, learning to care for people without letting their actions control your emotional state. By detaching, you gain more clarity and control over your feelings.

    3.) Use the opportunity to master emotional control
    When you’re in a chase, emotions can run high—frustration, insecurity, or doubt. Use these moments to practice emotional control! Learning to stay calm and centered, no matter the circumstances. This strengthens your emotional resilience and helps you respond rather than react.

    Fun Ways to Celebrate Your Growth After Overcoming the Chase

    Throw a “Victory” Party (Just for You)

    Sometimes the best celebrations are solo.

    • Movie marathon: Watch your favourite feel-good movies or binge-watch a series you’ve been putting off.
    • Dance party: Put on your favourite playlist and dance around your living room like no one’s watching. Let loose and celebrate your freedom.
    • Guilt-free treat: Order your favourite meal or dessert (ice cream, pizza, sushi—whatever feels like a treat) and savour it.

    Follow along for more insider tips on how to become the most upgraded version of yourself—whether it’s mastering emotional control, setting healthy boundaries, or learning to love yourself more fully.