Author: Taylor Cook

  • The Strategic Art of the NDA

    The Strategic Art of the NDA

    Spring 2026 is about clarity. Small shifts, better habits, and thinking sharper. This issue is built to give you real, useful insight you can actually use. Understand people better, move with awareness, and stay grounded. Keep what matters, drop what doesn’t, and show up stronger in your life, work, and relationships.

    Credits

    Creative Direction: ZEAL Social Management
    Media: Autumn (ZEAL Social) @am.media_
    Edited in house: ZEAL
    Assistant: Freya
    Model: Deep (ZEALUNITY)
    Clothing Brand: Julian Bontorin, Owner of JB Gear

    Disclaimer

    This content is intended for awareness and general insight only.

    Growth requires trust, consistency, and clear intention. Without those, what you are building can be influenced or misaligned. You are responsible for how you protect your energy, your work, and your environment.

    Not everyone will use or need formal agreements like an NDA. However, as you grow and move through new spaces, it is your responsibility to stay aware of how people, information, and opportunities move around you.

    This is not about fear. It is about clarity and personal accountability.

    If any part of this resonates with you, take it as an opportunity for self reflection. Your reaction is your own, and often points to something worth understanding within yourself.

    The Strategic Art of a NDA

    ZEALUNITY

    ZEALUNITY is one of the growing communities in our circle. It started from a simple feeling, wanting to give opportunities to creative people who were ready, but hadn’t been picked yet.

    Talented, positive, creative individuals who could see a version of themselves they wanted to become, but just needed space to actually start. People wanting to take photos, create content, and build something the way they imagined it, then use it to push themselves forward.

    As it grew, we started reaching out around the Kelowna area. Offering free shoots, studio time, and creative direction. Everything was self funded through our other work, just to keep things moving and give people a real chance to create.

    Early connections and distance

    At one point, we reached out to a new creative space that had just started forming. They were also building something in the same world, so we sent a message about collaborating. No payment, no expectations, just the idea of creating together.

    There was no response, only a follow and a like. So we kept building.

    We continued creating anyway, working with brands and growing our own community. Over time, we noticed that same space still engaging from a distance, watching and interacting without direct connection.

    First wave of momentum

    Then a fashion event launched in Kelowna for the first time, inspired by larger scenes elsewhere. Our group was fully in it, planning, submitting, and creating together.

    That excitement is exactly what ZEALUNITY was built for.

    The first year, one of our photographers attended alongside a few of our models. We secured a media pass so they could document the experience from inside.

    We posted the content we created from that event, focusing on confidence, growth, and what happens when creatives are actually supported. The response was strong. More people started reaching out, wanting to join, collaborate, and be part of the community.

    Growth and visibility

    By the second year, things had expanded. I had stepped into a main editor role at 23 magazine, and our community had grown to a larger group attending the yearly event together.

    This time, access was more limited and structured, which was understandable as things scaled.

    The photographer we had originally sent ended up being hired directly by the event, which was a proud moment for us. Watching someone from our circle step into that space felt like growth coming full circle.

    Around this same period, one of our original community members, also a close friend, was asked to be featured on the cover of a magazine being launched that year by the same event space. This was the first issue, and it came from the same team that we had originally reached out to years ago when ZEALUNITY first started and were still building everything from the ground up.

    That moment mattered. It reflected what we had always been building toward, people growing through the community and stepping into bigger opportunities.

    We supported it fully.

    The shift in dynamics

    As things continued, we brought in a new creative who, like everyone else, was learning through real experience inside the community.

    That creator was later invited into fittings and prep for that same external event space.

    When expectations were not fully met in that environment, we received a direct message from the same event team that had previously featured our community member on their magazine cover, and who we had originally reached out to years ago when ZEALUNITY first began.

    In that message, they expressed that the individual had been unprofessional and suggested that we should have trained them better, stating that we should understand how to prepare people as an agent/Agency

    We responded clearly that we are not an agency. We are a community. People learn through experience, not instruction.

    There was no response.

    The overlapping situation

    At the same time, another creator we had been working with closely for over a year was actively in paid collaboration within ZEALUNITY.

    They were consistently shooting with us, stepping into a more established creative role, and growing through ongoing investment, direction, and opportunity inside our system.

    Shortly after the message we received from the event team, that same team began directly engaging with this paid creator from our community.

    When we asked the creator directly, they shared that they had already been approached by that event space and were being considered for involvement in their upcoming event. They also said they were planning to work across both spaces at the same time.

    So while one message came to us questioning our ability to “train” people properly, the same space was simultaneously onboarding and pulling in the exact individuals we were actively developing, supporting, and creating within our own structure.

    The timing made it feel less like separate situations and more like a connected pattern unfolding in real time.

    Structure and boundary

    At this point, we asked for clarity moving forward if the creator intended to continue working at the same level of involvement within ZEALUNITY while also stepping into external roles.

    Not as control, but as structure. If someone is involved in everything we are building, then alignment and protection of ongoing work matters.

    That included an NDA, simply to protect the creative process, direction, and systems we were actively developing together.

    They chose not to sign it, and decided to step away.

    Patterns and perspective

    Over time, we started noticing similarities in language, tone, and creative direction across different spaces. Even ideas that had naturally grown inside our community began appearing elsewhere in ways that felt very familiar.

    Community over competition was something that came from a real place for us. Not a trend, but something built while trying to create space for people instead of competition.

    Seeing similar messaging reused in different contexts made us start paying closer attention to intention versus coincidence.

    We also began noticing past community members stepping into other spaces, getting opportunities, and then being showcased in those environments.

    Nothing about that is negative. People grow and move. But it did start to reveal how fluid creative ecosystems really are.

    Closing reflection

    Later, that same creator stepped further into a role within that external event space.

    And from there, things became clearer.

    It was never just about one person or one moment. It was about direction, timing, and where people see themselves going next.

    Inside the community, people were building, learning, and stepping into roles they once did not have access to. Outside, those same people were moving into larger platforms shaped by similar energy.

    And that revealed something important.

    When you build something from the ground up, you are also shaping the pathways people eventually walk into.

    Over time, another truth became clear.

    Protect your work. Protect your direction. Protect what you are building while it is still forming.

    Not everyone who enters your space will fully understand what they are stepping into, and not everyone will move with the same awareness or intention.

    That is why structure matters. Boundaries matter. Clarity matters.

    Stay aware of where your energy is going and how it moves through the people around you. Not everything is intentional, but that does not make it harmless.

    And if you are not grounded in who you are or what you are building, it becomes easy to be shaped by other people’s direction instead of your own.

    That is the lesson.

    Stay clear. Stay steady. Move with intention.

    15 ways to find out who the snitch is

    Not everything that looks like support is actually aligned. Sometimes the clearest way to understand energy in a space is to watch what moves without being said out loud.

    This is less about paranoia and more about pattern recognition. People reveal themselves in timing, reactions, and what they repeat when they think no one is watching.

    1. Say something slightly untrue and observe what spreads
      Not to create harm, but to understand movement. If something private or loosely shared suddenly becomes public knowledge, you learn quickly where information flows.
    1. Watch who mirrors you too closely
      There is a difference between inspiration and imitation. Pay attention to people who reflect your language, energy, or ideas too fast. Ask yourself if it feels like admiration or extraction.
    1. Notice who benefits most from your openness
      Some people feel warm in your presence but use that access elsewhere. If someone consistently gains clarity, ideas, or opportunity from you but does not build with you, that pattern speaks for itself.
    1. Pay attention to who gets defensive when you are honest
      When you express discomfort or truth, some people hold space. Others immediately shift into defence mode. One creates understanding, the other reveals pressure points.
    1. Watch who changes tone when certain names are mentioned
      Energy shifts are information. If someone’s behaviour changes when specific people or spaces come up, that reaction usually says more than their words.
    1. Notice who asks questions that feel like collection, not connection
      There is curiosity that builds relationship, and curiosity that gathers information. The difference is in intent and repetition.
    1. See who stays close during growth, but distant during tension
      Some people enjoy access when things feel light. But distance often shows up when clarity, accountability, or alignment is needed.
    1. Track who repeats your ideas elsewhere without context
      It is not about ownership of ideas, but about timing. If something that lived in your space appears elsewhere suddenly, it is worth noticing where it travelled from.
    1. Pay attention to who aligns publicly but acts differently privately
      Consistency is a signal. If behaviour changes depending on audience, that split often reveals intention.
    1. Notice who becomes overly interested in your structure
      When someone focuses more on how things are built than participating in building, it is worth understanding why.
    1. Watch who gathers information but rarely shares anything real back
      One-sided openness creates imbalance. Relationships should circulate energy, not extract it.
    1. Observe who distances themselves after being questioned
      Accountability tends to clarify intention. People who disappear after simple questions often were never aligned in the first place.
    1. Notice who becomes close right before opportunity shifts
      Timing matters. Sometimes proximity increases right before access changes or doors open elsewhere.
    1. Pay attention to who aligns with everyone, but belongs nowhere
      Some people adapt to every space without grounding in any. That flexibility can be connection, or it can be strategy.
    1. Trust what repeats, not what is said once
      Intentions show through patterns, not moments. If something keeps repeating in different forms, it is not coincidence anymore, it is information.

    JB Gear — In the Camouflage

    In this latest addition, we wanted to highlight an all around creative who fits right into the thicker layer of what this issue has been circling around. Camouflage, not in the sense of hiding, but in the sense of how energy blends, shifts, and reveals itself when you are paying attention.

    Julian is someone who has been a steady presence in the Kelowna and surrounding creative space for years. Not loud in a performative way, but noticeable in the way his work and energy moves through people without needing explanation.

    There is something about smaller creative environments that can get dense fast. Circles form, influence builds, and suddenly it can feel like visibility is tied to proximity instead of intention. Where people start adapting to whatever is already established instead of staying rooted in what they are actually building.

    That is where the idea of camouflage becomes interesting. Because in spaces like that, you start to see who blends in for access, and who blends in because they are simply grounded in themselves.

    Julian sits in the second.

    He does not push himself into rooms through noise or positioning. He shows up, stays consistent, and lets his work speak without forcing direction onto others. That kind of presence does not demand attention, but it holds it.

    When we reached out to Julian to create on a last minute shoot, he was open to the concept immediately. No overthinking, just alignment with the idea and willingness to build.

    We shot this content in winter with our media and model team. He walked into the studio without knowing either of them beforehand, and still moved through the space with ease. No tension, no need to control the environment, just natural collaboration.

    And in a theme that has been running through this issue, that matters more than it seems.

    Because in creative spaces, you start to notice that intention reveals itself in how people behave when they are not familiar with the room.

    Julian does not rely on familiarity to feel stable in a space. He builds stability through how he shows up.

    He runs his own brand, works alongside other creatives, and continues building in his own direction without needing to attach himself to every opportunity that passes through.

    He is grounded in his own lane, but still collaborative in a way that feels real, not transactional.

    A reminder that not everything in a creative environment needs to be loud to be solid. Some people are not trying to stand out in the camouflage. They are just consistent enough that they do not need to.

    Julian Bontorin
    Graduate of Fashion Design and Technology at The Wilson School of Design

    Highest Alignment Routine

    This spring, step into the version of you that is actually ready.

    Not the version you outgrew. Not the one you shrink into when life gets loud. The one that stands on what it believes in, moves toward what it wants without hesitation, and protects its inner world even when nobody is watching.

    Alignment is not becoming someone new. It is staying with yourself while everything else shifts.

    Here is the reset. Simple. Real. Daily.

    Sleep

    Are you actually sleeping, or just functioning on empty

    Sleep is not optional. It is your clarity, your mood, your decisions, and your emotional stability.

    Life will always take energy from you. School, work, stress, family, anxiety. But if nothing is refilling you, you stay in survival mode.

    You do not need more burnout. You need a clear mind that can actually lead you somewhere.

    Eating

    Are you actually fuelling yourself or just getting through the day

    Food is not just a task. It is what keeps you steady.

    Your focus, strength, patience, and energy all come from what you consistently give your body.

    When you are under-fuelled, everything feels harder than it is.

    Stay fed. Stay steady. Stay capable.

    Taking care of yourself

    This is your reset point.

    It does not need to be perfect. It just needs to exist.

    Shower. Skincare. Movement. Gym if you can. Journaling if your mind is loud. A few minutes of presence instead of reaction.

    These are not small things. They are structure. They are what keep you connected to yourself.

    Quick Routines for a Reset Season

    Scroll slowly. Pick what you need. Keep what works.

    A simple set of tools to bring you back into alignment this spring. Nothing complicated. Just real structure for real life.

    Easy Prep Meals

    Chicken Bowl
    Cook chicken breast with olive oil, salt, pepper, garlic, and paprika.
    Serve with rice or quinoa, cucumber, spinach, and a simple yogurt or garlic sauce.
    Easy to batch, easy to repeat, no thinking required.

    Veggie Bowl
    Roasted sweet potato, zucchini, and bell peppers with olive oil and herbs.
    Add chickpeas or lentils for protein. Top with avocado or tahini.
    Warm, grounding, and steady energy.

    1 At Home Workout Routine

    No gym needed. Just consistency.

    Warm up
    Light stretch or jumping jacks for 2 to 3 minutes

    Main circuit (repeat 3 to 4 rounds)
    Squats x 15
    Push ups x 10 (or knees if needed)
    Lunges x 10 each leg
    Plank x 30 to 45 seconds
    Glute bridges x 15

    Finish
    Stretch your legs, back, and shoulders for 5 minutes

    The goal is not perfection. The goal is showing up.

    Journal Prompts for Spring

    What version of me am I outgrowing right now

    Where am I forcing energy that does not feel aligned anymore

    What actually makes me feel calm and grounded lately

    What am I building that I am proud of even if no one sees it yet

    What habits are keeping me stuck in old energy

    If I fully trusted myself this season, what would I change first

    Nighttime Routine (Males + Females)

    Step 1
    Put your phone away or on do not disturb for at least 20 to 30 minutes before sleep

    Step 2
    Shower or wash your face, reset your body

    Step 3
    Skincare or basic hygiene routine, keep it simple and consistent

    Step 4
    Light stretch or just slow breathing for a few minutes to release tension

    Step 5
    Write down anything on your mind so it is not looping while you sleep

    Step 6
    Go to bed at a consistent time as often as possible

    Sleep is not just rest. It is how you reset your entire system for the next day.

    Huge thank you to you guys for reading and supporting our journey. It really means a lot more than we can put into words. We love you all and we are so excited to keep creating, sharing, and connecting with you as we grow.

  • The Rebrand of Fear: Calling It Self Love

    The Rebrand of Fear: Calling It Self Love

    A reflection on choosing yourself, pulling back, and asking where the line between healing and hiding really is.

    Credits
    Photographer: Autumn, Zeal Social Management — @am.media_
    Edited: In-house, Zeal Social Management
    Model: Sydney, ZealUnity @Sydneyy.maye

    The Valentine’s Question

    Valentine’s Day is usually loud with flowers, dates, and the idea that love has to be shared with someone else. But what happens when someone chooses themselves instead?

    Self-love is celebrated everywhere… boundaries, routines, protecting your peace…. but sometimes it raises an uncomfortable question:

    Can self love become self protection that keeps love out?

    This isn’t about right or wrong. It’s about reflection.

    Learning to Stay In

    When self love starts feeling like a safe place to hide

    When she was young, things felt simple.
    You go out, you smile, you act like everything is fine. You come home with no need to complain, no need to reflect, no need to just be. Life itself felt like it was made to keep you happy.

    But as she grew older something shifted.

    She started noticing more. Going out felt heavier. Louder. Bigger. The way people looked at each other, the tones in their voices, the small moments that suddenly meant something.

    It scared her.

    Was this what the world had always been like?

    Being quiet began to feel safer than participating. Watching felt easier than joining in.

    But quiet did not just protect her.
    It changed her.

    She began observing instead of living. Judging instead of connecting. Questions filled her mind.

    Does he talk like that at home too?
    Why do people feel so harsh?

    She would come home tired, not from doing, but from feeling everything too deeply.

    Day by day the world felt less colourful.
    So she stayed in more.

    Her bed.
    Her kitchen.
    Her phone.

    She told herself it was self care.
    Self love.
    That word was everywhere. On Pinterest boards, aesthetic posts, soft quotes that told her she did not need anyone.

    She could take care of herself.
    She did not need a partner.
    She did not need friends who thought differently.
    She did not need conversations that challenged her.

    Everything felt softer alone.

    Slowly, without realizing it, she stopped reaching outward. She forgot what it felt like to interact freely, to be seen, to feel messy and real.

    The more she stayed in, the more she believed she was protecting herself.
    The more she believed she was right.

    Until she noticed something changing.

    Her voice felt smaller.
    Her energy quieter.
    Even her body felt tired.

    How do you go out again when you have taught yourself to stay in?

    How do you reconnect when your world gets smaller by choice?

    Somewhere in the quiet, self love began to whisper.

    You do not need anyone.
    Stay here.
    You are safest alone.

    ✨ Reflection Questions

    When did peace start feeling like distance?
    Do you go out to connect or just to observe?
    Has comfort ever made your world smaller?
    When was the last time you felt truly seen?

    🖤 Mini Quiz

    Resting or Retreating?

    Check what feels honest right now.

    ☐ I cancel plans even when part of me wants to go
    ☐ Staying home feels easier than being perceived
    ☐ I call it self care when I avoid discomfort
    ☐ I feel safe alone but sometimes stuck

    Mostly yes?
    You may be protecting your peace, or slowly stepping away from life.

    … 

    🎯 Fun Reflection Check

    Finish the sentence honestly:

    “I tell myself I’m staying in because ______.”

    (No wrong answers — just honesty.)

    Brave or Selfish?

    One day, the sun came up, the music blasting, and breakfast was cooking.
    A simple text appeared, and a thought nudged her mind: What could I be doing?

    Instead of hiding, instead of worrying who would be there or what might go wrong,
    she felt a restlessness, a spark that pulled her along.

    Let’s go, let’s be merry, let’s be fun,
     she sang to herself as the morning begun.

    Inside, she felt the glow of her own growth.
    She knew herself now, had worked, had grown, had become,
    someone who didn’t need anyone to validate her,
    but this wasn’t about needing… this was about living.

    Let life surprise you. Let the wind hum, not the fan.
    Show your beauty to the world, to the women around, or to a man.
    Don’t look for something to fill you. Be part of the dance,
    show yourself off, step in the light, give life a chance.

    Walk through the city with dreams in the air.
    Let your hair down, don’t worry about the stare.
    Who cares if you are seen, exposed, imperfect, unplanned?
    Life is not a test, you do not need to stand so grand.

    You are unperfect, scared, but brave.
    Show your colours: bold, playful, unaware, and save
    yourself the judgement, the ill will, the scorn.
    Say thank you to the world for the courage reborn.

    Sing from the rooftops, love near and far.
    Everything is made to be yours where you are.
    You do not need to carry it all,
    just step outside, answer life’s call.

    And when the sky darkens, when the rain comes down,
    when people mock or stare in town,
    remember to give thanks for the strength to step out anyway,
    for the courage to laugh, for the courage to play.

    On the way back, through trains, under the evening sky,
    love yourself, be happy, let your spirit fly.
    Play your music, savour your food, dance with the cat,
    howl under the moon, curl up cozy, leave nothing flat.

    Love yourself with tea and chocolate, soft and sweet,
    you are safe forever, my dear, complete.
    You will always have your own heart, your own light,
    to carry you boldly through the darkest sleep. 

    ✨ Reflection Prompts

    • When was the last time I stepped outside my comfort zone and felt alive?
    • What small joys today can I embrace without worrying what others think?
    • How can I show my colours boldly, even if it scares me?
    • Where am I still hiding and how can I gently step out?

    🖤 Mini Quiz — Brave or Comfortable?

    Check what feels true today:

    ☐ I let myself go out, even a little, despite fear
    ☐ I sing or dance just for myself
    ☐ I notice beauty in small moments and let it fill me
    ☐ I share my joy with someone else, even briefly

    Mostly yes?
    You are stepping into bravery. You are learning that life is not about hiding or needing approval…. it is about being present, playful, and alive.

    💌 Happy Valentine’s Day!
    We hope you have an extra special day today and always. Love you lots, and remember…..it’s okay to let go, breathe, and just be.

  • The Women’s Guide to a Total 2026 Glow Up: Start Today!

    The Women’s Guide to a Total 2026 Glow Up: Start Today!

    Ready to glow up in 2026? This year is all about discovering your best self inside and out. Find out if clean girl makeup is still in, uncover your perfect beauty routine, and learn the best skin health tips, DIY products, and hair care hacks that actually work. We will show you how to plan your social media posts so your content shines as much as you do. Take fun quizzes to discover your vibe, check your horoscope to see what the stars have in store, and see if 2026 will actually feel like 2016 again. Plus you could win a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop. Grab your coffee and dive in….your ultimate 2026 glow up starts now.

    Styled by Caoxciao
    Media by ZealSocialManagement – Media Member Autumn
    Edited in house
    Models Zealunity Community: Snow, Kirat, Olivia, Jenayah, Sydney
    BTS by Jenayah
    Brand Features Caoxciao and ShopNoon.shop

    Inside This Guide You Will Find:

    • 🌟 Fun quizzes to discover your 2026 vibe
    • ✨ Clean girl makeup trends and how to perfect your routine
    • 💆‍♀️ Skin health tips, DIY products, and self-care hacks
    • 💇‍♀️ Hair care tricks everyone is talking about
    • 📱 Social media posting plans that actually work
    • 🔮 Horoscopes and star predictions for 2026
    • 🎁 Giveaways including a hoodie and bag from @Studionoon.shop
    • ❓ Poll: Will 2026 actually feel like 2016 again?

    🔥 2026 is Coming in Hot…..Are You Ready to Glow Up?

    This year is not just about trends or aesthetics. It is about finding your voice, standing strong and finally figuring out who you really are.

    Do not let anyone else’s opinions, outdated rules or harsh narratives tell you what to feel or who to be. Your 2026 glow up starts with being grounded, unapologetic and fully in your power.

    It is about claiming your space, defining your standards and shining in ways that are 100 percent you. No distractions, no judgements, no limits.

    Let us walk through this together and make 2026 the year of your ultimate glow up.

    🌟 Quiz: What’s Your 2026 Glow Up Vibe?

    Take these three fun quizzes to find out your 2026 glow up style

    🎉 Here is your ideal routine based on what you chose!

    A) Slow and dreamy ☀️

    • 7:00 AM – Wake up naturally with sunlight or soft alarm
    • 7:10 AM – Gentle stretching or yoga
    • 7:30 AM – Meditation or deep breathing
    • 7:50 AM – Brew and sip tea slowly
    • 8:10 AM – Journal thoughts, dreams, or intentions
    • 8:30 AM – Soft skincare and cozy outfit

    B) Bold and energizing ⚡

    • 6:30 AM – Wake up with upbeat music
    • 6:35 AM – Quick cardio or HIIT session
    • 7:00 AM – Refresh with shower and bold skincare
    • 7:15 AM – Eye-catching makeup and style
    • 7:30 AM – Power breakfast or smoothie
    • 7:45 AM – Jump into the day feeling electric

    C) Soft and simple 🌸

    • 7:30 AM – Wake up slowly, natural light
    • 7:35 AM – Wash face, apply moisturizer
    • 7:45 AM – Brew coffee or tea
    • 7:50 AM – Minimal makeup (tinted moisturizer, mascara)
    • 8:00 AM – Pick a cute, comfortable outfit
    • 8:15 AM – Light breakfast while scrolling or journaling

    D) Boss babe mode 💼

    • 6:00 AM – Wake up, hydrate immediately
    • 6:05 AM – Quick email or task check
    • 6:20 AM – Workout or energizing stretch
    • 6:50 AM – Shower and professional skincare
    • 7:10 AM – Efficient makeup and outfit prep
    • 7:30 AM – Review to-do list and plan priorities
    • 7:45 AM – Breakfast while reviewing goals for the day

    Question 2: Which do you prefer: Bold makeup or Natural looks?

    📅 Here is your social media posting plan made just for the energy you are bringing into 2026!

    🌿 Chill & Cozy Content (Low key and chill)

    Posting Frequency: 2–3 times/week
    Content Types: Stories, occasional feed posts, slow reels
    2026 Trends: Slow living, pastel/neutral aesthetics, soft ASMR audio

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Tuesday: Reel – morning tea + journal moment, soft transitions
    • Thursday: Story – morning skincare or cozy corner vibes
    • Saturday: Feed post – cozy outfit, sunset, or nature photo

    📅 Curated & Confident Feed (Consistent content queen)

    Posting Frequency: 4–5 times/week
    Content Types: Carousel posts, stories with polls/Q&A, trendy reels
    2026 Trends: Clean girl or soft glam, carousel tips, light motion graphics

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Monday: Reel – outfit transition trend
    • Tuesday: Story – poll or Q&A about beauty/fashion
    • Wednesday: Carousel – mini guide or tip
    • Friday: Reel – trending music + lifestyle moment
    • Sunday: Story – cozy Sunday vibes

    ⚡ All-Day Energy Posting (Daily vibes only)

    Posting Frequency: 7 posts/week (mix feed, reels, stories)
    Content Types: Bold reels, selfies, lifestyle highlights, spontaneous stories
    2026 Trends: Bright colors, creative editing, quick DIY/life hacks, trending audio

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Monday: Reel – bold outfit or dance trend
    • Tuesday: Feed post – colorful makeup or selfie
    • Wednesday: Reel – 5-second “day in my life”
    • Thursday: Story – poll on products/outfits
    • Friday: Reel – weekend prep, trending audio
    • Saturday: Feed post – fashion highlight or selfie
    • Sunday: Story – cozy at-home vibes

    💼 Strategic & Slay-Worthy Content (Boss babe influencer)

    Posting Frequency: 5–7 posts/week, fully scheduled
    Content Types: Reels with tutorials/tips, feed posts (branded/lifestyle), interactive stories
    2026 Trends: Career lifestyle content, interactive branded posts, high-value tutorial reels, consistent color/font branding

    Weekly Schedule:

    • Monday: Reel – motivational quote or professional tip
    • Tuesday: Feed post – branded/sponsored content
    • Wednesday: Story – interactive poll/Q&A
    • Thursday: Reel – tutorial or “how I do it” content
    • Friday: Feed post – lifestyle + boss aesthetic
    • Saturday: Reel – weekend prep + trending audio
    • Sunday: Story – weekly recap & soft CTA

    ✨ Is Clean Girl Makeup Out? Find Your Perfect Routine

    Clean girl makeup has been all the rage!! But is it fading in 2026? Here’s how to decide what works for your glow:

    • Keep the glow: Minimal makeup that enhances your features
    • Add your twist: Experiment with colours, liners, or glowy highlighters
    • Routine check: Morning skincare first, makeup second, always hydrate

    Pro tip: Build a routine that feels like YOU, not like an Instagram trend.

    🇨🇦 Full Canadian Skincare + Makeup Routine

    All products under $15 CAD

    All from Canadian or small indie brands

    🌿 Skincare (Under $15)

    StepProductBrandPriceWhere to BuySources
    CleanserFoaming Face WashGreen Beaver~$12GreenBeaver.com, Well.ca
    TonerRosewater MistKarine Joncas~$10–12Shoppers Drug Mart
    MoisturizerSensitive Skin Day CreamGreen Beaver~$14GreenBeaver.com, Well.ca
    SPFMineral Sunscreen SPF 30 (travel size)Green Beaver~$12–15Well.ca, health stores

    💄 Makeup (Under $15)

    (All Canadian brands: Annabelle, Marcelle, Cheekbone Beauty, Quo Beauty)

    StepProductBrandPriceWhere to BuySources
    PrimerBlur PrimerQuo Beauty~$12Shoppers Drug Mart
    Foundation / Skin TintPerfect Fit Skin TintAnnabelle~$10–12Shoppers Drug Mart
    ConcealerCamouflage ConcealerMarcelle~$12–14Shoppers Drug Mart
    BlushCream Blush StickCheekbone Beauty~$12–15CheekboneBeauty.com
    HighlighterGlow StickNudeStix (Canadian)~$14–15 (mini)Sephora Canada, Nudestix.com
    EyeshadowMono EyeshadowAnnabelle~$6Shoppers Drug Mart
    EyelinerMatte Kohl EyelinerAnnabelle~$7–9Shoppers Drug Mart
    MascaraBig Show MascaraAnnabelle~$10Shoppers Drug Mart
    BrowsBrow PencilCheekbone Beauty~$12–15CheekboneBeauty.com
    LipstickSustain Lipstick (mini)Cheekbone Beauty~$12–15CheekboneBeauty.com

    🛍️ Where to Shop (All Canadian Retailers)

    • Shoppers Drug Mart — Annabelle, Marcelle, Quo Beauty, Karine Joncas
    • Well.ca — Green Beaver, Annabelle
    • CheekboneBeauty.com — Indigenous‑owned, affordable minis
    • ShopCanadianBeauty.ca — Directory of indie Canadian brands

    💆‍♀️ Skin Health, DIY Products and Hacks That Work

    • DIY masks: Honey and oat scrubs for natural exfoliation
    • Hydration: Drink water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type
    • Weekly resets: Face steam or gentle exfoliation once a week
    • Consistency is key: Small daily habits beat sporadic spa days

    2. Avocado & Yogurt Hydrating Mask

    Best for: Dry or tired skin

    Ingredients:

    • ½ ripe avocado
    • 2 tablespoons plain yogurt
    • 1 teaspoon olive oil (optional for extra hydration)

    Instructions:

    1. Mash avocado until smooth.
    2. Mix in yogurt (and olive oil if using) until creamy.
    3. Apply to clean face, avoiding the eye area.
    4. Leave on for 10–15 minutes.
    5. Rinse with lukewarm water and pat dry.

    Why it works:

    • Avocado is rich in healthy fats and vitamins for nourishment.
    • Yogurt contains lactic acid to gently exfoliate and brighten skin.

    💇‍♀️ Hair Care Hacks for Every Style

    Here are two easy DIY hair masks and a few simple hacks you can do at home for healthy, shiny hair:

    1. Coconut Oil & Honey Hair Mask

    Best for: Dry or frizzy hair

    Ingredients:

    • 2 tablespoons coconut oil
    • 1 tablespoon honey

    Instructions:

    1. Warm the coconut oil slightly so it’s liquid (not hot!).
    2. Mix with honey until smooth.
    3. Apply to damp hair from roots to tips (focus on ends).
    4. Cover with a shower cap and leave for 20–30 minutes.
    5. Rinse with warm water and shampoo as usual.

    Why it works:

    • Coconut oil deeply moisturizes and reduces protein loss.
    • Honey locks in moisture and adds shine.

    Banana & Olive Oil Moisturizing Hair Mask

    Best for: Dry, frizzy, or brittle hair

    Ingredients:

    • 1 ripe banana
    • 1–2 tablespoons olive oil
    • 1 teaspoon honey (optional for extra shine)

    Instructions:

    1. Mash the banana until smooth (no lumps!).
    2. Mix in olive oil (and honey if using) until it forms a creamy paste.
    3. Apply evenly to damp hair, focusing on mid-lengths and ends.
    4. Leave on for 20–30 minutes.
    5. Rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water and shampoo as usual.

    Why it works:

    • Banana nourishes and softens hair while reducing breakage.
    • Olive oil moisturizes deeply and smooths frizz.
    • Honey adds shine and locks in moisture.

    📱 Social Media Posting Plans That Actually Work

    Social media is where followers turn into real income. Whether that is through paid partnerships, UGC, service customers, or people buying your products, your content has the power to create results.

    Here is a helpful plan for February that will keep you consistent, on track, and start turning your effort into actual income.

    🌸 FEBRUARY – 3 POSTS PER WEEK (PAIRED WITH SHOTS)

    WEEK 1 — Soft Introductions

    Post 1 (Mon)
     Theme: Self-connection
    Shot:

    • Standing near a window
    • Eyes closed, face tilted slightly toward light
    • Hands resting gently at sides

    Post 2 (Wed)
     Theme: Presence
    Shot:

    • Sitting on floor or chair
    • Knees bent, arms resting loosely
    • Looking slightly past the camera

    Post 3 (Fri)
     Theme: Quiet confidence
    Shot:

    • Standing, weight on one hip
    • Arms crossed softly (not tight)
    • Neutral expression → slight smile

    WEEK 2 — Valentine Energy (Subtle)

    Post 4 (Mon)
     Theme: Touch & closeness
    Shot:

    • Close-up
    • Fingers grazing collarbone or neck
    • Eyes looking down

    Post 5 (Wed)
     Theme: Comfort in self
    Shot:

    • Sitting, one knee up
    • Chin resting lightly on knee
    • Soft, relaxed gaze into camera

    Post 6 (Fri)
     Theme: Eye contact
    Shot:

    • Tight portrait crop
    • Direct eye contact
    • Head slightly tilted

    WEEK 3 — Connection & Movement

    Post 7 (Mon)
     Theme: Movement
    Shot:

    • Slow walk toward camera
    • Natural stride
    • Looking off to the side

    Post 8 (Wed)
     Theme: Warmth
    Shot:

    • Standing, shoulders relaxed
    • Gentle sway or breath moment
    • Hair moving naturally

    Post 9 (Fri)
     Theme: Soft strength
    Shot:

    • Seated upright
    • Hands resting on thighs
    • Calm, grounded expression

    WEEK 4 — Reflection & Forward Energy

    Post 10 (Mon)
     Theme: Reflection
    Shot:

    • Looking out window
    • Profile angle
    • One hand lightly touching face

    Post 11 (Wed)
     Theme: Stillness
    Shot:

    • Sitting on floor
    • Eyes closed
    • Deep inhale / exhale captured

    Post 12 (Fri)
     Theme: Carrying softness forward
    Shot:

    • Standing, slight turn away from camera
    • Looking back over shoulder
    • Relaxed, confident posture

    ✨ QUICK EXECUTION TIP

    Shoot everything in motion → pull:

    • Still frames for posts
    • Short clips for reels
    • Crops for stories

    🔮 Your 2026 Horoscope Glow Up Guide

    The stars can actually give you some fun insight for the year ahead. Check your sign for tips on energy, confidence, and self-care for 2026.

    ♈ ARIES

    2026 Glow Theme Direction and Discipline
    Your glow up comes from finishing what you start.
    Pick one main goal per quarter and commit fully.
    Strength based workouts support your confidence.
    Structured wardrobe pieces elevate your presence.
    Focused energy is your power.

    ♉ TAURUS

    2026 Glow Theme Nervous System Peace
     Slow and steady wins the glow.
    Build a non negotiable morning routine.
    Choose quality over quantity in all areas.
    Touch based self care restores balance.
    Your glow shows when you feel safe.

    ♊ GEMINI

    2026 Glow Theme Depth Over Noise
     This year is about being selective.
    Reduce overstimulation and choose intention.
    Commit to one creative outlet.
    Speak slower and with clarity.
    Your glow comes from focus.

    ♋ CANCER

    2026 Glow Theme Emotional Authority
     You stop over explaining this year.
    Create boundaries that protect your energy.
    Elevate your home environment.
    Water based self care feels grounding.
    Confidence comes from intuition.

    ♌ LEO

    2026 Glow Theme Effortless Confidence
     Less proving more being.
    Rest becomes part of your power.
    Signature looks outshine trends.
    Let your presence speak.
    Your glow deepens with rest.

    ♍ VIRGO

    2026 Glow Theme Soft Structure
     Balance replaces perfection.
    Consistency matters more than control.
    Gentle movement supports your body.
    Simplified routines bring ease.
    Your glow grows with softness.

    ♎ LIBRA

    2026 Glow Theme Self Defined Beauty
     Your glow up begins with choosing yourself.
    Make decisions with confidence.
    Create an aesthetic that reflects you.
    Intentional alone time restores balance.
    Beauty starts with self trust.

    ♏ SCORPIO

    2026 Glow Theme Emotional Transformation
     This year is about shedding old layers.
    Inner work unlocks your glow.
    Protect your privacy.
    Lean into rich intentional styling.
    Your power grows quietly.

    ♐ SAGITTARIUS

    2026 Glow Theme Grounded Expansion
     Freedom needs structure this year.
    Create routines that support your lifestyle.
    Commit to one long term vision.
    Outdoor movement keeps you aligned.
    Your glow comes from balance.

    ♑ CAPRICORN

    2026 Glow Theme Ease and Fulfilment
     You no longer need to earn rest.
    Redefine success to include joy.
    Prioritise sleep and stress management.
    Timeless pieces elevate your style.
    Your glow appears with ease.

    ♒ AQUARIUS

    2026 Glow Theme Embodied Individuality
     Be unique while staying grounded.
    Reconnect with your body through movement.
    Execute one meaningful idea.
    Express your style with intention.
    Presence becomes your power.

    ♓ PISCES

    2026 Glow Theme Energetic Boundaries
     Sensitivity becomes strength when protected.
    Create daily grounding rituals.
    Limit emotional access to draining people.
    Soft luminous self care supports you.
    Your glow comes from clarity.

    🎁 Giveaway Time! Win a Hoodie and Bag from @Studionoon.shop

    A glow up is even better with goodies, and we want to send some straight to you. Here is how to enter for a chance to snag your 2026 essentials in style from @studionoon.shop

    1. Comment below 👇 Tell us which 2026 glow up vibe fits you best: Radiant, Edgy, Soft Girl, or Confident Boss Babe
    2. Subscribe to our newsletter ✨ Stay in the loop for more tips, exclusive content, and future giveaways
    3. Bonus entry 📱 Share this post on social media and tag us @the23magazine to double your chances

    Winners will be announced in our newsletter, so make sure you’re subscribed. Good luck and get ready to glow up in style!

    Studio Noon: Where Art Meets Film

    Who’s behind Studio Noon? Just a duo whose names start with N, which also means noon in Arabic. But the story goes deeper.

    We fell in love, started painting for fun, and somewhere between a brushstroke and a laugh the idea hit: what if we shared our art with the world?

    Prints were just the start. Soon it was shirts, pins, frames. One-line art inspired by movies. Geometric takes on classic painters. Before we knew it Studio Noon Inc. was real, carrying all the joy, fear and excitement of starting something together.

    By day one of us works in film and teaches screenwriting. The other leads in tech and makes sure everything runs smoothly. Studio Noon lives in every spare moment, sketch and shared spark of inspiration.

    We create for people who love art, film or both. Proudly Canadian.

    What We Make

    Studio Noon brings art and film together in bold, minimalist designs.

    Reimagined geometric paintings inspired by iconic artists
    One-line art from unforgettable films and shows (coming soon)
    Our first three paintings will never be for sale. We keep them with all their imperfections to remind us of the journey.

    ❓ Poll: Will 2026 Actually Feel Like 2016 Again?

    Be honest… do you feel it too? The energy shift, the nostalgia, the music, the vibe. Some people say 2026 is about to feel like that era again. Others think we are stepping into something completely new.

    Cast your vote below and tell us why in the comments. Is 2026 giving throwback energy, fresh start energy, or main character energy only? Your opinion matters and we want to hear it.

    ← Back

    Thank you for your response. ✨

    What do you think?(required)

    Which era would you choose and why?

    💖 Final Glow Up Tips

    • Start small but stay consistent
    • Listen to your body and your instincts
    • Don’t chase trends—create your own
    • Celebrate every small win

    Your 2026 glow up isn’t just about looks….it’s about confidence, energy, and feeling unstoppable. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and dive in. This is your year to shine!

    Thank you so much for reading! We are beyond excited for 2026 and are sending all the best energy and love your way every single day. Keep shining, keep going, and most importantly, remember to love yourself a little extra. A huge thank you to our amazing community for making this all possible …..we couldn’t do it without you!

  • Fast Fashion Who? This Vancouver Designer is Making Clothes That Actually Matter

    Fast Fashion Who? This Vancouver Designer is Making Clothes That Actually Matter

    Inside the world of Jessica Redditt, a Vancouver designer blending sustainable fabrics, natural dyes, and timeless style for a wardrobe that feels good inside and out.

    Meet Jessica Redditt: The Designer Making Sustainable Fashion Actually Cool

    Jessica Redditt is an emerging force in Vancouver’s fashion scene. Her handmade, sustainably chic clothing line mixes effortless style with ethical design, using fabrics hand-dyed with natural plant pigments or reclaimed textiles. Each piece feels alive, comfy, and made to move with you, whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.

    We sat down with Jessica, the creative mind behind the brand, to chat about Vancouver’s creative community, her advice for young designers, and how her eco-friendly vision is making waves in sustainable fashion.

    When a Collaboration Turns Into Inspiration

    Collaborating with Jessica was an experience I will never forget. From the moment I connected with her, her warm energy was impossible to miss, and seeing her mission come alive through her socials made me even more inspired. A mom, a sea lover, and an all-around creative, Jessica carries a light that draws people in.

    As a creative moving from Kelowna, BC, a small town, to Vancouver, it was nerve-wracking stepping into such a vibrant and competitive scene. At 24 and navigating motherhood, I am learning day by day what my dreams really mean, what I am willing to risk, and the message I want to put out into the world. When I was invited to Vancouver Fashion Week, I reached out to Jessica to see if she would be interested in styling me for the event. My hope was to share my experience, contribute content for her brand, and feature the story in 23 Magazine.

    At first, I did not hear back, but a few days after the event I received a warm message from her saying she would love to collaborate. From there, we created a moodboard and came up with questions that would later highlight her brand. Talking with her felt like a true alignment moment. Her energy, her vision, and her grounded presence reminded me why I am chasing this creative path.

    Jessica frequently goes to local markets, where she stands at the forefront of her brand with a voice and aura that naturally attracts everyone around her. From young creatives to seasoned elders, she is a guiding light in Vancouver’s creative community. Working with her was inspiring, humbling, and reaffirming. I left the collaboration feeling energized and ready to chase my own creative goals.

    Why Jessica Redditt Swears by Natural Dye

    In a world full of fast fashion, the need for clothing that is sustainable, affordable, and thoughtfully made has never been greater. Jessica Redditt’s handmade pieces check all those boxes. Crafted from natural plant dyes and reclaimed textiles, her designs feel as good as they look, carrying positive energy whether you’re out in the city or cozy at home.

    Curious about her process and inspiration, I asked Jessica a few questions about how she got started and what natural dyeing means to her.

    Q: How did you get started with natural dye?
    Jessica: I was searching for ways to make clothing as sustainable as possible. Fashion school in Toronto didn’t cover this, so I started experimenting in my garden and backyard, growing plants and researching which ones were colourfast.

    Q: What inspired you to explore this craft?
    Jessica: I’ve always been inspired by crafts of the past, especially textiles and clothing. I figured if it was done before, it could be brought back.

    Q: What personal meaning does natural dye hold for you?
    Jessica: To me, it’s about connecting fully with nature. It’s magical what the earth provides. Studying what plant life is capable of will be a never-ending journey.

    I Tried Jessica Redditt’s Sweatsuits and I’m Obsessed

    Tuned in, grateful, and fully appreciative of the world around her, it’s clear that Jessica’s style and brand reflect these values. The textures of her pieces are soft, comfy, and feel incredibly high quality. I had the opportunity to try on a grey sweatsuit and a black one, and I also got to see her Selkie bandana. I’m still figuring out how to style the bandana, but Jessica herself has some creative ways to wear it that make it feel special.

    The grey sweatsuit came with a hoodie and long, flowy pants. It’s perfect for lounging at home, running errands, or just walking around in something that hugs all the right places while still giving everything room to breathe. I loved how the grey fabric felt warmer and more substantial, covering me perfectly. Being pregnant in the winter, this suit is going to the hospital with me and will be my go-to at home for ultimate comfort. I’ve never been a fan of clothes that aren’t versatile, so I loved that I could dress it up or down in a moment.

    The black sweatsuit, also with a hoodie and pants, had a lighter, softer feel. The fabric reminded me of summer evenings or camping trips, like a silky, cozy hug. My son even joined me during the photos, and it was adorable to watch him interact with it. He kept coming back to feel the fabric with his little fingers, and it was such a sweet reminder of how comfortable and inviting these pieces truly are.

    Jessica Redditt on Vancouver’s Creative Scene and What Inspires Her

    Overall, my experience with Jessica’s brand was incredible. I felt so good creating and collaborating with her. I cannot say it enough—she is amazing and represents trust, transparency, a strong moral compass, and a genuinely warm soul. I wanted to hear her perspective on Vancouver’s creative community, which meant a lot to me. Here is what she shared.

    Q: How have you found the creative community here?
    Jessica: Since moving to Vancouver about 15 years ago, I have found it to be very open, creative, and supportive. I have met so many lovely people in the industry and makers’ community. From vendors at farmers markets to fashion shows and collaborations, it is an inspiring and ever-changing space.

    Living by the sea inspires me every day. I love working outside, foraging plants, and creating colours. This environment motivates me to make pieces that are easy to wear, comfortable, and natural in both cloth and colour. I love monochrome, but I also enjoy vibrant pops of colour, like the flowers that bloom here almost year-round.

    Connect, Create, and Be Inspired by Jessica Redditt

    I can’t recommend this brand enough. If you haven’t already, reach out to Jessica—she genuinely loves answering questions, connecting with people, and building meaningful relationships. Her passion for sustainable fashion is contagious, and her energy is something you’ll want to be around.

    A huge thank you to Jessica for taking the time to answer these questions and for believing in this article. And thank you to our amazing community for making stories like this possible and supporting our growing creative space.

    Sending love and inspiration,
    Always yours,
    Taylor

  • The Friend Date Gossip You Didn’t Expect to Come From Brunch

    The Friend Date Gossip You Didn’t Expect to Come From Brunch

    Our ZealUnity Community had the chance to check out The Nook Cafe, now rebranded as The Cozy Cafe, located at 567 Bernard Avenue, Kelowna, BC, with another spot in West Kelowna. We spotted this adorable café on Instagram and had to see it for ourselves. Here’s our community’s honest take and tips for discovering similar hidden gems.

    Location: The Cozy Cafe, Kelowna
    Edited by: Zeal Social Management In-House Team
    Models: Olivia, Deep
    Zeal Media Member: Vinil

    The Cozy Cafe That Feels Like Your Favourite Blanket

    Looking for a spot in downtown Kelowna that’s all vibes and zero stress? The Cozy Cafe is calling your name. Formerly The Nook, this little gem serves up all-day breakfast, gluten-free crepes, hearty skillets and coffees that somehow hit just right. Basically, comfort food with a local twist.

    Our ZealUnity community was pumped to see if it lived up to the name, and let’s just say we were not disappointed. Rajpreet, the owner, greeted us with the warmest energy ever and immediately set the mood for a chill, happy, no-drama kind of visit. Instant cozy points.

    Our models tried some featured dishes while soaking in purple chairs, white tables, big windows and a vibe that is clean but full of personality. Meanwhile, Vinil and the assistant captured all the BTS magic in the kitchen, where everyone was clearly passionate about what they were making. Nothing felt staged or fake.. just good energy, good food, and charming aesthetics.

    Whether you are grabbing a bite before your day or winding down with a coffee in hand, The Cozy Cafe truly lives up to its name. It’s the kind of place you walk into and instantly want to linger.

    Kelowna Cafes Be Like…

    Kelowna is full of cute little spots to eat and relax. Some instantly feel like home and welcome you with open arms. Others? Well, others make you feel like you need to rock a quarter zip, order a matcha at least once, and casually know someone behind the counter just to get a nod of approval. You know the vibe.. It’s all subtle side-eyes, “who do you know” energy, or the dreaded “I’ve seen you before” look without actually being nice.

    We all have a vibe, and it shows in the coffee we sip. Take this quiz to see which coffee matches your personality. Are you relaxed and chill, bold and adventurous, or a little extra with a flair for fun? Let’s find out.

    Questions:

    1. How do you usually start your day?

    • A: Slow and chill, with a coffee and some me-time
    • B: Jumping straight into action, coffee in hand
    • C: Outfit curated, playlist ready, selfie taken
    • D: Quiet reflection, journaling or reading
    • E: Catching up with friends, laughing, chatting

    2. What’s your weekend energy like?

    • A: Cozy vibes, Netflix, low-key activities
    • B: Adventures, spontaneous trips, new experiences
    • C: Aesthetic-focused, trendy spots, photo ops
    • D: Alone time, self-care, introspection
    • E: Hosting friends, social energy, full of life

    3. How would your friends describe you?

    • A: Laid-back, easy-going, chill
    • B: Bold, fearless, adventurous
    • C: Stylish, creative, trendy
    • D: Thoughtful, calm, reflective
    • E: Warm, friendly, uplifting

    Results:

    Mostly A: Chill Latte Lover

    • You’re relaxed and grounded. Your presence makes people feel at ease. In ZealUnity, you’re the friend everyone wants to sit next to.

    Mostly B: Bold Espresso Adventurer

    • You thrive on energy, excitement, and new experiences. In ZealUnity, you’re the go-getter who inspires others to try new things.

    Mostly C: Trendy Matcha Maven

    • You love aesthetics, creativity, and staying on top of trends. In ZealUnity, you’re the influencer energy, sparking inspiration in the community.

    Mostly D: Cozy Hot Chocolate Soul

    • You value comfort, reflection, and mindful moments. In ZealUnity, you bring a calm, grounding presence to the community.

    Mostly E: Friendly Cappuccino Cheerleader

    • You’re social, warm, and love connecting people. In ZealUnity, you’re the ultimate hype person and community builder.

    The Food, the Kitchen, and Zero Weird Vibes

    Our media member Vinil went into the kitchen and captured some in-action shots, and honestly, everything was spotless. You could tell the team genuinely loved what they were making — every plate, every detail, every presentation was done with passion. Sometimes when we walk into restaurants, you can feel when people are putting on a show for the camera.. a half-smile here, tense energy there, hiding corners of the kitchen…and it makes you wonder what they’re trying to hide. But at The Cozy Cafe, it was completely different. The space felt open, well-lit, and curious. Comfort food with warm hospitality, no pretence, no weird vibes.

    And the food? Unreal. From their classic eggs and skillets to the decadent French toast, waffles, and avocado toast, everything hit the perfect balance of comforting and elevated. Signature Benedicts with ham, smoked salmon, or Angus beef were a total highlight, and the brunch combos and skillets packed with fresh, flavourful ingredients made it clear this wasn’t just “your usual breakfast.” Sweet options like seasonal fruit, French toast or Banana Almond French Toast? Chef’s kiss. Pancakes, crepes, even savory breakfast bagels!! All fresh, vibrant, and satisfying.

    Lunch and dinner aren’t left behind either. Steak frites, fish and chips, Greek souvlaki, Korean chicken bowls, fresh salads, and gourmet sandwiches make this spot feel like a one-stop comfort-and-creativity hub. Every dish felt intentional and made with love, which is exactly the energy you want when you sit down to a meal.

    Walking into The Cozy Cafe isn’t just about eating. It’s about stepping into a space where everyone is genuinely engaged, the food is thoughtfully prepared, and you can just relax and enjoy it all. Bright purple chairs, white tables, big windows, and cozy touches everywhere — it’s the perfect mix of comfort and personality.

    Finding Comfort in Your Own Company

    As November comes to its final day, we wanted to take a moment to acknowledge how tough this season can feel for some. With or without friends and family around, it can be a reminder of how hard it is to be alone. While some thrive on the idea of “if only I could do this myself,” it can still bring up the question of “am I strong enough?” when you see everyone else around you.

    We want to reassure you that you are not alone. You are loved, you are seen, and your presence matters. With each place within your community, make an effort to show up, even if you are by yourself. A solo date, a solo coffee, a little outing just for you.. you deserve it all. Self-love and dedicating time to yourself isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Treat yourself like you deserve the world.

    Brunch, for example, is the perfect start to your day, solo or with friends. Making the time for yourself and putting energy into your own happiness only adds to your sense of self, growth, and confidence.

    How The Cozy Cafe is Helping the Community Thrive

    The Cozy Cafe has been doing amazing things for the creative community! From collaborations with different creators to welcoming anyone with a warm heart and positive intentions to come in, create, eat, or chat about ways to get involved, it’s truly blissful to see and experience.

    Wondering how to get involved in creating with restaurants? No experience? No problem! It only takes one message or one phone call for someone to get a real sense of who you are. If you’re looking for something creative to do this season that will level up your portfolio and expand your connections, reach out to our community at Zeal Social Management and hop on board with our media team.

    Sending the best to you and a huge thank you to the Cozy Cafe for having us. We’re so grateful for the space, the food, and the inspiring energy.

  • Is Having a Boyfriend Actually Embarrassing? Jenayah Shares the Big Sister Advice You Need

    Is Having a Boyfriend Actually Embarrassing? Jenayah Shares the Big Sister Advice You Need

    Boyfriends, Judgement, and the Truth About Independent Women

    In recent conversations within online communities, a trend has emerged around the perception of boyfriends and men in the lives of independent women. There is a persistent idea that being connected to a man somehow diminishes a woman’s aura. Relationships and associations with men are often viewed as major reflections on the woman herself, as if the outside world judges her based on what they believe the man does or thinks. Questions like “Why him?” “What does he give you?” and “She must need him” reveal a broader societal pattern of judgment. These assumptions rarely reflect the man in the actual relationship who is receiving judgment, but instead highlight how society still evaluates a woman’s value through the lens of her relationships. Digital creator and female powerhouse Jenayah shared her thoughts on this topic, offering insight into relationships of all kinds…platonic, non-sexual, and otherwise..and what they reveal about perception, independence, and identity.

    What Is Jenayah’s Take on Men and Judgement?

    Jenayah is a force of nature, strong, independent, and full of grit. She has worked extensively within the ZEAL Community on brand shoots, manages her own bookings, and travels for other creative projects. She has walked in Kelowna Fashion Week and participated in the 2025 Dress for Success event, and is widely recognized as a leader in the community. She follows her own moral compass and does not let anyone else’s expectations or opinions define her. Growing up and building her life in a small town has sharpened her sense of self and given her the confidence to speak honestly about what she believes. With that perspective, we asked her about relationships with men.

    What is your take on relationships with men from an outside perspective? Do you think society makes them feel awkward or embarrassed?

    Jenayah did not hold back. “I think men do not shoot for the stars when dating and punish the moon because he settled for her. I do not think society makes men feel embarrassed enough.”

    Do You Really Know Who You Are and What You Want?

    Now blunt, yes. Harsh, yes. But Jenayah’s feelings are valid. They reflect the current societal dynamics, which may play a role in how men and relationships are perceived. In her own words, “I think men don’t shoot for the stars when dating.” This could come across as intentional or uneducated, even self-inflicted. Harm often comes from not truly knowing who they are, what they like, or what they deserve, while at the same time placing blame on those around them. To reflect on this, here are some questions you, your boyfriend, your friend, or anyone regardless of gender identity can ask yourself: Who are you and what do you want?

    Self-Reflection Quiz: Who Am I and What Do I Really Want?

    Instructions: Answer honestly. No right or wrong answers. This is for you.

    1. Who am I?
      • A) Confident and independent
      • B) Still figuring it out
      • C) I’m a mix, depends on the day
    2. Do I like myself?
      • A) Absolutely, flaws and all
      • B) Sometimes, still learning
      • C) Not really, I struggle with it
    3. Do I enjoy being thought of and cared for?
      • A) Yes, but I can also give myself love
      • B) Sometimes, but I often rely on others too much
      • C) Not sure, I tend to avoid attention
    4. What effort am I willing to put in to receive the love I want?
      • A) I actively work on myself and my relationships
      • B) I try, but it can be inconsistent
      • C) I expect others to do most of the work
    5. Am I okay taking care of myself, or do I want someone to meet me in the middle?
      • A) I take care of myself first, but value partnership
      • B) I try to take care of myself but appreciate help
      • C) I want someone to do it all for me
    6. If I want someone to do it all for me, is that sustainable?
      • A) No, healthy relationships require balance
      • B) Maybe, but it could cause tension
      • C) I haven’t thought about it
    7. Why can’t I find or create these things myself?
      • A) I can, I just choose to share the journey
      • B) I’m learning how to
      • C) I rely too much on others and need reflection

    Reflection:

    • Mostly A’s: You are self-aware, independent, and ready for healthy partnerships.
    • Mostly B’s: You are on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Keep learning about your needs and boundaries.
    • Mostly C’s: Focus on yourself first. Build your own happiness before expecting it from others.

    Can Love and Creativity Coexist Without Losing Yourself?

    Love and creativity often go hand in hand. In our community, we see it all the time — the way people show up for each other, support projects, and bring energy into collaborations can inspire not just art, but growth, confidence, and connection. That experience gives a lot of insight into how relationships, whether romantic or platonic, shape the way we express ourselves and see the world.

    Creativity isn’t just about making cool stuff. It’s about becoming yourself, stepping into a character, or letting your energy flow however it wants. But here is the real question. Can creativity survive when everyone around you is projecting who they think you should be? When expectations are placed on you, or when the world asks for certain materials from you, can you still stay true to yourself without losing your spark? And what about love? Can that same magic happen without compromising who you are? Learning to love yourself or others can help you uncover parts of yourself you have been waiting to find, even when the world is trying to shape you.

    We all know the people around us matter, but do they really shape who we are? Does someone else’s actions reflect your morals? Or can you be surrounded by all kinds of energy, good, bad, grey, messy, and still come out colourful?

    We asked Jenayah, a creative powerhouse in our community who plans shoots, rocks brand events, and consistently shows up for her craft, what she thinks.

    Do the people around you fuel your creativity or do you just go with the flow?
    Jenayah kept it real. “The people around me fuel my creativity, but it wasn’t always like that. I had to let everyone know I am here and I am creative. If my community didn’t know I wanted to create, they wouldn’t fuel me.”

    Have relationships ever impacted your creativity, positively or negatively?
    Her answer is straight up honesty. “Dating people who don’t appreciate your creativity can really hold you back. Negativity from others makes it harder to fully express yourself.”

    Jenayah on Staying Yourself While Letting Love In

    Again, this gives us a window into how Jenayah thinks and believes. On one hand, the things around her don’t impact the way she drives herself. She relies on self-motivation and determination. But on the other hand, she acknowledges that romantic feelings, perhaps love, can influence how certain outcomes play out. Using Jenayah’s thoughts, and maybe a bit of projection, it seems like love can be one of the biggest factors in someone’s downfall or rise. But is this tied to self-love? How well you know yourself and how willing you are to show yourself to those around you matters. If people don’t know who you are, who you want to be, and how you operate, how can they support you in the way you need?

    Relationships can challenge us, but they also show the importance of boundaries. By being upfront about who you are and what you need from the start, you can guide how people treat you moving forward. Taking risks and opening up is part of growth, but having a safe support system means you don’t feel the pressure to be who someone else wants out of survival instincts. Looking at situations from multiple perspectives, rather than comparing yourself to others, allows you to stay true to yourself while still letting love and connection in.

    We asked Jenayah how this translates into her advice for younger creators finding themselves.

    Question: “For younger creators, what is your top advice for connecting with other creatives, the good, the bad, and what to watch out for?”

    Response: “For the first meet-up, bring a trusted adult. Even if you are an adult yourself. I am 25 and I still bring my mom to photoshoots. She usually ends up holding props or aiding in lighting. Most importantly, we are not putting me in a vulnerable position.”

    Guiding the Next Generation with Confidence and Respect

    This is great advice, and as part of our media community, we love having Jenayah around to be a spokesperson for others who are just starting out. She is often on site with us and our clients, helping behind the scenes with models and community members, making sure everyone feels comfortable and happy. She is like the younger generation’s mom, while also inspiring the older members to speak up for themselves.

    Jenayah shows others what confidence looks like through clear communication, self-awareness, and respect. She guides people with her experience while allowing new emotions to be expressed and valued without judgment. She encourages everyone to adapt, be open, and stay honest while remaining respectful. This is such a key point in friendships and relationships across the board. Knowing who you are, what you want, and what you deserve, without bending to what others expect, keeps you feeling on top, confident, and respected, while also fostering respect around you.

    Love, Respect, and Creating Without Fear

    Our final question was about red flags for new creators.

    Question: “What are some red flags new creators should watch out for when collaborating with someone? How do you know when or when not to create with someone, and how inclusive they really are? This can apply to romantic, platonic, and all gender or sexual orientations.”

    Response: “A red flag to look for is how they talk to you or about you. Are they saying good, amazing, great, stunning, wow? Then I think that is a green flag. If they say something sexual, you have three choices. One, it doesn’t affect you and you continue with the shoot. Two, you say something, set the boundary, and move forward with the shoot. Three, you feel uncomfortable and stop the shoot. If they keep complimenting you over and over, listen to your gut to see if it encourages you or if something feels off. To gain trust with a creative, bring a close friend or trusted adult to help behind the scenes. They know you best and have your best interests in mind.”

    The bottom line is simple. Set boundaries and leave if they do not respect you. But what if you did not have a big sister like Jenayah to guide you? How would you feel in these situations if no one told you what to do? Respecting yourself and knowing who you are in any situation—what you like, what you don’t like, what you love, and what you don’t want—creates the foundation for healthy relationships. Trust your gut, follow through, and learn through your experiences. Do not project one experience onto everyone else. Take the time to get to know yourself, and when someone aligns with your values, it will feel right.

    Sending the best.

  • Packing For Labour Made Easy

    Packing For Labour Made Easy

    I’m 24 and about to give birth to my second baby, and packing for the hospital is still a wild ride. From what I learned the first time to the little hacks I am adding this time, I am sharing exactly what’s in my bag and my baby’s bag, so you can see what is really essential and what is totally extra. Think first time mom confessions, second time survival tips, and everything you need to make delivery day as cozy and stress free as possible.

    24 And Having Baby Number Two

    I am approaching my due date in February and I have completed my hospital bags, with just a few things still left to pack. This time around, I feel a lot less anxious, but I still worry I will get there and feel like I do not have everything I need. The first time I went, to be honest, I left the same day with my son. I did not stay the night and wanted to come home right away, so everything I brought, I did not really use. But the things I did use, I know are my personal essentials. This time, I am definitely planning to stay, as my first is now a toddler and I need some rest before going home. Everything we are bringing for me and baby is cute, cozy, and practical.

    Comfy Essentials For Mom

    The last time I was in labour, I made sure to bring all the little things, but not the major essentials. I was very cold in the hospital, and I gave birth in July! This time around, it will be winter, so here are the things I am making sure to bring to stay cozy, comfortable, and ready for baby.

    What to pack:

    • Sweaters – Layering is key in the hospital, especially in winter. They keep you warm during downtime and skin-to-skin moments.
    • Cozy pants and pajamas – Comfort first. These are perfect for resting, sleeping, and lounging without feeling restricted.
    • Maternity bras – Easy for feeding and provide support while nursing.
    • Cozy socks – Hospital floors are often cold, so keep your feet warm.
    • Big, comfortable underwear – Extra padding and room make postpartum life so much easier.
    • Comfy shorts – In case you get a bit warm or need to move around comfortably.
    • Oversized tee shirts – Great for layering and easy to change into; plus, I pack a couple of nicer daytime shirts to feel fresh and put together.
    • Robe – Perfect for after a shower or just as a loose, cozy option to wear around the hospital.

    Baby’s Bag Essentials

    With Sabo, we had him in swaddles most of the time. The hospital provides a few items and even helps wrap your baby for you. They also gave him a little hat and had a whole cart of essentials just for him, like diapers, wipes, and creams. It was enough for a two-day stay, but they do not provide clothing. They do give towels, a little blanket, and other necessary items, but anything else you want your baby to wear, you will need to bring yourself. Here is what we are packing for our daughter this time.

    What we packed for our daughter:

    • Three pairs of pajamas – Comfortable for sleeping and lounging in the hospital.
    • One swaddle – For cozy, secure sleep and skin-to-skin time.
    • Two blankets – One for warmth and one for extra comfort.
    • Three hats – To keep her little head warm.
    • Two sets of hand coverings – To protect tiny hands from scratches.
    • Four pairs of socks – To keep her feet cozy.
    • One daytime outfit – For photos or just to feel a little dressed.
    • One going-home outfit – Cute, practical, and ready for the car ride.
    • Onesies and sleepers – Soft and comfy for tiny toes.
    • Diapers and wipes – For easy changes during the hospital stay.
    • Soft cloths – Perfect for wiping up milk or for her first bath at the hospital.

    Going Home Outfit

    For the going home outfit, we’re keeping it cozy and practical. Fleece bottoms, a long sleeve top, and a sweater without a hood make for a comfy car ride. We will pair it with a cute hat, mitts, socks, and warm shoes and add a soft blanket over the car seat to keep the baby snug all the way home.

    Favourite Extra Item

    One of my all-time favourite items after giving birth was my belly wrap. I put that thing on right after delivery, and let me tell you, it helped so much. I felt supported, and it made the transition a lot easier for bending over, picking things up, or just moving in general. Not only does it help your body recover, but it adds a lot of support to your lower back and core when everything still feels tender.

    Other comforting extras:

    • Cozy blanket – Perfect for snuggling baby during your stay.
    • Sentimental keepsake – A small personal item to make the experience feel special.
    • Comfort snack or drink– For quick moments of calm in between.
    • Headphones for labour – Whether it’s music, meditation, or your favourite playlist, they help you stay focused and calm through contractions.

    Postpartum & Comfort Essentials

    These are a few things that made my hospital stay so much more comfortable and helped me feel more like myself after giving birth. Some of them might not be essentials, but they make a big difference when you are in a space that can feel a little unfamiliar.

    This time around I am packing a few things that made a huge difference last time, and a few new ones that I wish I had brought sooner.

    Postpartum bottle: Perfect for when wiping feels super painful, even with wipes. Just fill it with water and spray the area. It feels so much better than trying to wipe down there.

    Breast pads: A must-have for leaking. You can slip them into your maternity bra to catch those moments and stay comfortable.

    Disposable underwear: The hospital gives you some, but these ones are perfect for after or when you do not want to keep asking for more. They are stretchy, comfortable, and made to be thrown away without creating harmful waste.

    Personal hospital gown: This was super important to me. The normal gowns only open at the back and stay open, which felt uncomfortable. When I had my first, I got mine off Amazon. It had buttons that opened and closed where I needed, not always open or restrictive. It made a big difference, especially when the baby came.

    Breastfeeding pillow: Helps with your abs and gives great support so you do not feel like you have to hold the baby up while lying in bed.

    Breastfeeding cover: I’m bringing one this time so I do not have to wear only easy access clothing. Honestly, when I was looking online, nothing looked cute to me, so I bought pieces I would actually wear at home or out. The cover gives me privacy while letting me look down at my baby and still wear things that make me feel like myself.

    Toiletries: A huge must in feeling fresh and grounded while you are in a space that can feel a bit mentally draining.

    Towel and shower shoes: Last time I brought Crocs, and this time I’m packing both Crocs and slippers. Perfect for keeping clean and comfy in the hospital bathroom.

    Robe: Great for after a shower or just as a loose, cozy option to wear around the room.

    Cloths: Handy for wiping milk or when your baby has their first bath. Those little moments can get messy quickly.

    Vicks: Helps with congestion or just to feel clear and refreshed.

    Slippers: Keep your feet warm and cozy during your stay.

    Headphones: Perfect for labour to tune out noise, listen to music, or focus on your breathing.

    These little things might not seem huge, but they truly help you feel more like yourself during such a big moment.

    Hospital Bag Toiletries Essentials

    Here are my toiletries. To be honest, taking a shower after birth and just putting on fresh clothes, brushing your hair, and doing your routine made me feel so much more relaxed.

    The first time we stayed, we were there for around 14 hours before heading home. I had a shower, ate two meals, took a nap, and honestly felt amazing. This time around, I’m making sure I have everything I need to feel refreshed and comfortable again.

    Face wash: To gently cleanse and wake up your skin after labour.

    Leave-in conditioner: Keeps your hair soft and easy to manage when you might not have time for a full routine.

    Body lotion: Helps hydrate your skin and brings a bit of comfort after a long day.

    Pillow or room spray: Makes the hospital room feel more like home and helps you relax before resting.

    Extra conditioner: Because hospital air can be super dry and your hair might need a little more love.

    Mini shampoo and conditioner: Perfect travel size for a quick refresh without overpacking.

    Night serum: Helps your skin recover and feel nourished, especially after the long hours of labour.

    Body wash: Just something that feels good and smells fresh — a small way to feel normal again.

    Hair ties: You’ll thank yourself for packing a few extra.

    Tooth brush: Super Important!!

    These little comforts make a big difference when you’re recovering, bonding with your baby, and just trying to feel human again.

    Before You Leave

    Make sure you have everything ready so the trip to the hospital is smooth and stress-free.

    Birth plan: Have your preferences on hand so you can share them with your care team.

    Wallet and documentation: Keep your ID and insurance cards together in one place.

    Car seat: Install it in your car by 24 weeks to be ready ahead of time.

    Phone charger: Stay connected and capture all the special moments.

    Headphones: Perfect for relaxing during the ride or preparing for labour.

    Water and snacks: Keep hydrated and energized for the journey and early recovery.

    Final Thoughts

    Packing for the hospital can feel overwhelming, but having your essentials ready makes such a difference. From clothes and toiletries to little comfort items and your baby’s must-haves, each item helps you feel more prepared, relaxed, and supported during such a big moment.

    I hope sharing my hospital bag gives you some helpful ideas and inspiration for your own stay.

    If you want more tips, behind-the-scenes moments, or just want to reach out, follow me on Instagram @Taylor.cookk. I would love to hear from you and connect!

  • Growing Up Without a Village: How to Build One From Scratch

    Growing Up Without a Village: How to Build One From Scratch

    Credits
    Photography by ZEAL Member Okanagan Portraits
    Models Jenayah, Deep, Ladi and Sydney from ZEALUNITY
    Edited In House
    Brand Black Mountain Haunted House

    When “If Only” Haunts You: A Survival Kit for Letting Go

    When you lie awake at night, thinking of what could be, do you find yourself replaying the moments that might have happened, or the ones that never did? Memories of what could have been done differently swirl in your mind, maybe with more love, maybe with more support. If only. If only. I had. I chose. I left. I knew.

    This article is for you. For the ones haunted by choices, who move through life one day at a time, learning to choose freedom over fear. Your guilt does not have to define you. The feeling of being alone does not make you weak. If no one checks in, if no one seems to care, it does not mean you have done anything wrong.

    Here is your survival kit for navigating life without a village. For thriving even when support is scarce. For finding strength in yourself.

    Finding Community and Courage at Black Mountain Haunted House

    One of our escapes this month was a visit to the local haunted house at Black Mountain. We got to dress up, believe in ourselves, be creative, and simply have fun. It is run by such wonderful people, and because it is local, it made our community feel at home and part of something bigger. Even when support does not come from the people we might want, our community steps up and creates moments that feel larger than life.

    Experiencing this space made me think about how people survived in the early days of life, huddled in groups, surrounded by cold, hunger, and discomfort. Imagining a world that chose closeness over isolation for the sake of collective survival. Just like in that haunted house, the warmth of community, creativity, and shared experience becomes a lifeline. It reminds us that to live, we must depend on others, our family, our friends, the people who keep us safe, not just for our own sake, but for theirs too.

    Yet, even with that understanding, life is not always so forgiving. Support is not always there. Family may be distant, friends may be absent, and the people we hope to lean on may not be around. In those moments, everything feels heavier, the cold bites deeper, and fear lingers longer. It can be hard to believe in yourself, to take risks, or to create joy alone. And yet even in that absence, connection can be found. It may come through small acts, through strangers who step in unexpectedly, through laughter, creativity, and courage. That haunted house reminded me that even when our inner circle is small, community still exists. It is in the people who show up, in the experiences that spark joy, and in the courage we summon within ourselves.

    In a world where support is not guaranteed, these fleeting moments of shared humanity become essential. They remind us that belonging and warmth are possible, even when we have to create them ourselves.

    Survival List: What to Do Without a Village

    Treat Yourself to Your Own Date Day

    Don’t have anyone around you to text about your problems or talk to? This doesn’t mean spending money or buying random things. It means taking care of yourself. Sit down. Think. Reflect on all the loving things you do. Remember all the ways you have grown and gotten to where you are today in a positive way. You don’t need anything to be happy. You need delusional positivity and hope. You, my friend, are exactly where you need to be, and everything is aligned for you. Just chill.

    Go Do Something Fun

    Even if it costs a little money or none at all. Our creators went to Black Mountain Haunted House. For a lot of our members, joining our community was about wanting to do something different, be creative, and have fun for themselves. Experiences like this remind us that doing things just for you is powerful.

    Don’t Feel Bad About Missing the Things You Left

    It’s human. You are brave enough to try something new, and human enough to feel nostalgia for what you left. It’s evolution.

    Live Life as If No One is Watching

    Because, honestly, who is? Let the feeling of uncertainty guide you, knowing that each day is a new beginning.

    Write Down How You Feel

    One day, when your community is around you, you might forget what you’ve been through. Being able to read your own words and relive those moments will help you realize how far you’ve come.

    Don’t Let Memories or Messages Pull You Back

    If you receive messages that say, “I remember the good old times,” remember that a lot of the time, those moments weren’t as perfect as they seem. Don’t let someone else’s projection ruin your mindset.

    Allow and Receive Love Without Guilt

    You might not have much to give right now, and that’s okay. The people meant to be around you don’t expect anything from you. They just want to love you for who you are.

    Quiz: What Do You Really Need Next?

    Answer these quick questions to figure out your next step when your village isn’t around:

    1. How are you feeling right now?
    A. Overwhelmed and drained
    B. Bored and restless
    C. Curious and excited

    2. Do you have time to focus on yourself today?
    A. Not really
    B. A little bit
    C. Yes, I can make time

    3. What makes you feel alive?
    A. Alone reflection
    B. Being creative or doing something new
    C. Spending time with people, even virtually

    4. How do you deal with missing people or your old life?
    A. I get stuck thinking about it
    B. I acknowledge it but try to move forward
    C. I channel it into a new experience

    Results:

    • Mostly A’s → Self-Care Reset: Take a solo day to recharge, reflect, and do something purely for yourself. Journaling, meditation, or a long walk can help.
    • Mostly B’s → Creative Boost: Try something creative just for fun. Paint, write, dress up, or explore a new hobby. Focus on experiences that make you feel like “you.”
    • Mostly C’s → Community Quest: Find ways to connect safely with people who lift you up. Virtual hangouts, workshops, or local events can help you find your people.

    Embracing the Hard Days

    Now this is all hard. It is not going to feel cozy or soft. Some days you might feel sad, scared, or worried about where you are going next or why you are even here in the first place. Trusting yourself and letting go of the outcome, all while maintaining a positive outlook, positive habits, and positive self-talk, will keep you moving forward. Eventually, the heaviness will not feel as heavy. It will feel like a bag of tools for your next adventure, helping you figure out who you are, without the need to be dependent on abundance.

    Think about the kind of house that raised you and ask yourself what kind of house you want to live in now.

    🎃 Halloween Treats That Won’t Break the Bank

    Halloween doesn’t have to mean spending a ton of money to have fun and feel festive. Whether you’re solo, with friends, or doing a cozy night in, these easy and cheap treats are perfect for getting into the spooky spirit. Think cozy lattes, sweet cornbread, and little DIY touches that make your night feel magical.. all without emptying your wallet.

    Grab your ingredients, get a little creative, and let’s make Halloween deliciously fun and totally budget-friendly!

    Budget-Friendly Pumpkin Spice Latte (Non-Alcoholic)

    Ingredients:

    • 1 cup milk (any kind, even powdered milk works)
    • 1–2 tsp pumpkin puree (optional, can skip if needed)
    • 1 tsp sugar or honey
    • 1/4 tsp pumpkin pie spice or cinnamon
    • 1/2 tsp vanilla extract (optional)
    • 1/2 cup strong brewed coffee or instant coffee

    Instructions:

    1. Heat milk in a small pot or microwave.
    2. Stir in pumpkin, sugar, and pumpkin pie spice until well combined.
    3. Mix in coffee and vanilla if using.
    4. Pour into a mug, top with whipped cream or a sprinkle of cinnamon.
    5. Sip and enjoy your cozy Halloween treat!

    💡 Tip: Skip the pumpkin puree or whipped cream to save money and still have a tasty latte.

    🎃 Cheap & Easy “Monster” Cornbread

    Ingredients:

    • 1 cup cornmeal
    • 1 cup flour (all-purpose or whatever you have)
    • 2 tbsp sugar
    • 1 tbsp baking powder
    • Pinch of salt
    • 1 cup milk (or water + a little butter/oil)
    • 1/4 cup melted butter or oil
    • 2 eggs (or 1 egg + 1/4 cup applesauce to save)

    Instructions:

    1. Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C) and grease a pan.
    2. Mix dry ingredients: cornmeal, flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt.
    3. Mix wet ingredients: milk, melted butter, and eggs.
    4. Combine wet and dry ingredients, stir until just mixed.
    5. Pour batter into the pan and bake 20–25 minutes until golden.

    💡 Tip: Add a few chocolate chips or a sprinkle of cinnamon sugar on top for a festive touch without spending much.

    🕸️ Not in the Baking Mood? Try This Halloween Self-Discovery Quiz!

    Answer these questions to find a fun, spooky activity that fits your vibe and mood tonight:

    🕯️ A Little Note Before You Go

    Whatever your environment looks like this season, know that you are loved, needed, and wanted. Halloween can bring up a lot.. it’s a time of magical energy for many. Remember to drink your juice, eat your food, and take care of yourself without feeling guilty or wrong about what’s already happened.

    Be accountable, take risks, and stay positive even when things feel uncertain. Sending you the very best and wishing you a safe, grounded, and meaningful Halloween. 🎃

  • The Staycation That Made Us Rethink Home

    The Staycation That Made Us Rethink Home

    We spent a weekend at Quality Inn Vernon and realized a little escape goes a long way especially this time of year.

    Do you really need space from your surroundings, or are you just in need of a reset? Let’s be honest.

    In the middle of all the hustle and the season of feelings and coziness, it is easy to get caught up in your own head. The outside world is slowing down while you are hyper-focused on the little things inside. Season changes are tough for so many reasons, and a lot of the pressure we feel is the pressure we put on ourselves. As the air gets colder and our homes get warmer, it somehow makes the emptiness feel bigger.

    How far are you in life? Do you have the people you love around you? Who do you love? Why are you doing what you do? Why does moving the TV feel like a big decision? How is your team doing? Are your friends going out? Work feels heavier and harder to get up for, especially if you are isolated or not exactly where you imagined yourself. Cozy seasons can hit hard.

    But it does not have to be that way. Here is how we planned a local getaway at a nearby hotel and actually felt like ourselves again.

    Book It, Sip Wine, Reset: Why You Deserve This Staycation

    A staycation? Yup. Maybe a little wine, maybe a meal that is not just a frozen something from the fridge or the usual takeout from nearby spots or Uber Eats deals. The truth is, sometimes leaving where you are is the only way to get perspective. Groups that call themselves “community” can actually drain energy, and that is what happens in the wrong ones.

    Whether someone has lived in a place forever or just moved, escaping doesn’t have to mean going far. A quick getaway near Kelowna offers a new energy while still being close enough to make the next day shift without any awkwardness. Vernon. A staycation at a hotel like Quality Inn comes with continental breakfast, a pool, and clean service without running into people you know, all without breaking the bank.

    It is the perfect reset. Here is why everyone needs to book some time for themselves. This is facts.

    The Art of Pausing: Reclaim Your Energy and Inner Joy

    Feeling wiped out? Maybe it is because no one is hitting pause for themselves. Taking time for you is not selfish. It is everything. Here is why putting yourself first changes everything.

    1. You cannot be the full version of yourself if you do not make time for yourself.
    2. Pausing, breathing and enjoying the moment brings more happy vibes later.
    3. Do not let everyone else run your schedule. The more elusive and high luxury you feel, the more energy comes your way.
    4. Stepping away from responsibilities reconnects you to your inner child. Emotions and who you are are meant to be felt.
    5. Keeping your bucket full means others cannot drain your energy as easily.

    A Mini Vernon Getaway That Made Us Forget Tomorrow

    Quality Inn in Vernon was a vibe. The goal was simple: somewhere affordable, comfortable and with a feeling of luxury. The staff treated everyone like royalty. Everyone was kind, the rooms were spotless and the amenities were perfect. With so many local restaurants nearby and season-themed activities that cost nothing, it was the perfect place to breathe and stop thinking about what tomorrow might bring. Family run and owned since 2013, it felt like home while removing all the negative energy that often comes along.

    What should you pack for a staycation? First, no work. Leave it at home. Work is what reminds us how transactional the world can feel. Your energy is valuable. The more energy you put into a place or situation, the more it lingers. Leaving negativity out of the picture while you reset actually brings more perspective. Let the room breathe and just enjoy your own mind for a moment. You will get more done when you are fully present rather than being half in and half out of your own sanctuary.

    Second, leave toxic relationships behind. This is not the time to rekindle anything. Surround yourself with genuine love that will not wreck your vibe.

    Third, bring self-love essentials. Whether it is food, drinks, a journal or music, this is your time to relax and enjoy yourself. Welcome your inner child. Repeat to yourself: I am happiness. I am joy. I am grateful. Bring perspective and reset fully.

    Quality Inn

    Leave the World Behind and Focus on You This Season

    Now staycations do not always have to be somewhere fancy. They can be right in your room, right in your house, or somewhere close by. A friend’s house, a quick getaway from school, or even a sick day from work. Whatever it is, just remember to leave your current world at the door and actually focus on yourself. Do not bring a glass half empty type of vibe. Really work on yourself if you want to disconnect.

    It is all about being present with who you are going to be and who you want to be while letting go of struggle. Hard balance, right? Think about it. What makes you feel the best? What smells bring you comfort? What activities make you feel safe? What reminds you of home? Home as in comfort, not the trauma or suppressed emotions from the past. Be present, let yourself feel and understand yourself. This will not happen if you are always on the go.

    If you are in the place to go out somewhere and you live in Kelowna, also known as Cult Central, you need escape moments. When we found Quality Inn, it was truly one of the most relaxing moments we have felt in a while.

    This is a reminder to take time for yourself this season. Take good care of yourself and stay in places that make you feel at home. Thank you to Quality Inn for hosting us.

  • What’s more terrifying than the haunted? The indifferent.

    What’s more terrifying than the haunted? The indifferent.

    The spirits you dread are nothing compared to your own choices.

    Credits
    Photography by Zeal Media Member @vinilsoodphotography
    Model — ZealUnity Model Sydney (@sydneyy.maye)
    All edits completed in-house by Zeal Media

    The Hollow Roots

    You feel it the moment October arrives. The wind moves like ice, slipping through streets, forests, and empty houses. Even the ground beneath your feet feels colder, heavier, carrying the taste of ash, iron, and silence.

    Once the world thrived. Laughter spilled across open fields. Roses blazed red in the sun. Rivers danced over stone. Life pulsed in harmony. But harmony is fragile and watching it crumble leaves scars the living often refuse to see.

    Monsters came. But these were not creatures of fang and claw. These were us. We tore through homes, shattered families, and silenced every cry for help. Cities rose from the ruins. Concrete devoured the horizon. Glass towers clawed at the sky. Smoke poured into the air and power replaced life. Speeches replaced truth. Promises replaced action. Blood soaked the ground beneath those who looked away. Children were buried in rubble. Rivers turned to poison. Nations were erased. The cost was never ours to bear or so we pretended. And in the wake of everything we ignored, there is silence.

    Silence from those who look away. Silence from those who cover their ears. Silence from those who choose comfort over truth. It is this inaction that allows cruelty to spread, that grows until it becomes a wall between people and what they should remember. Every lie left unchallenged, every injustice ignored, strengthens it. Every time someone pretends it is not happening, the weight grows. It presses down, unseen but relentless, like frost creeping over the bones of the world.

    This does not go unnoticed. It echoes in October when the veil between memory and forgetting thins. Whispers move through the trees, through walls, and through the cracks in a world that never healed. Every injustice ignored, every moment of turning away, adds weight to the air. The names of the forgotten slip through the cold and reach your ears. They do not forgive. They demand to be remembered.

    Every year more of them vanish. People wander too close to the places they once tried to erase. They laugh at the chill in the air, ignore the subtle murmurs, and tell themselves it is nothing. But it is not the wind that calls their name. It is the world remembering. It is the voices of the forgotten, rising through the dark, refusing to be silenced. The past does not rest. Every secret concealed, every truth denied, every act of indifference gives it strength.

    You are not safe. The earth holds every injustice, every lie, every time courage was abandoned for comfort. The murmurs are growing, closer, sharper, impossible to dismiss. The walls around you feel thinner, the air heavy with ash and iron. You can feel it now. The reminder that what was buried still stirs. The reckoning waits, patient and inevitable.

    Listen closely. If a voice calls in October, do not mistake it for the wind. If the ground shifts beneath your feet, do not stay still. The dead remember what the living try to forget. Those who turn away, who pretend not to see, will summon them. Ignoring the call will not protect you; it will trap you deeper than any earth or stone. Every unanswered cry, every glance averted from the truth, every moment of inaction becomes a summons you cannot escape. When the cold settles into your bones, it penetrates your marrow, into the very fibres of your being, until every breath reminds you that your inaction called them forth.

    When the murmurs rise into voices, there will be nowhere to hide. Floors groan under weight unseen. Doors tremble on their hinges. Windows shake as if something unseen presses against them. The walls seem closer, the air heavier, thick with a metallic tang that clings to your lungs. Every footstep echoes back at you, every creak in the house a reminder that nothing is as empty as it seems. Every heartbeat pounds a warning. Every shiver traces the paths of those lost long before you, their presence pressing into the spaces you once thought safe.

    Then you will hear them. Closer, sharper, undeniable. They do not plead. They do not beg. They demand acknowledgement and reckoning. There is no hiding. No door, no wall, no lock can shield you. No light can guide you away. Every movement, every glance, every choice you have made is marked and measured, reflected back in the spaces around you. Every sound seems amplified, every shadow filled with memory and accusation.

    When their voices grow insistent and the weight of what was ignored settles into your chest, you will understand: you are not alone. You have never been alone. Every act of turning away, every moment of comfort chosen over action, has called them forth. The reckoning is patient, but it has already begun, and it will not be denied.

  • Okanagan Wine Tour Hacks: What the Locals Won’t Tell You 🍇🥂

    Okanagan Wine Tour Hacks: What the Locals Won’t Tell You 🍇🥂

    We went on our first Okanagan wine tour and found all the best secret spots, tasty sips, and photo moments that will have you booking your own trip instantly.

    Credits

    Wine Tour: Sip South East Kelowna
    Transportation: Discover Okanagan Tours
    Zeal Unity Models: Savjeet, Jenayah, Sydney, Shivana
    Zeal Media Team: Autumn – Videographer & 1st Shooter, Shivana – 2nd Shooter & In-Person Reviews
    Editing: All edits done in-house by Zeal

    Our First Okanagan Wine Tour and Why It Was Pure Magic 🍷✨

    Our community got the incredible chance to go on a wine and cider tour with Discover Okanagan Tours and Sip South East Kelowna, and honestly, it was everything we hoped for and more. We stopped at seven unique wineries, each with its own vibe and flavour, and had the ultimate excuse to just slow down, sip, and soak in the moment.

    Reaching out to Alex, the marketing director for the tour, was such a delight. She and her team went above and beyond to make sure our group felt welcome. For many of us, it was our first-ever winery experience..some had just moved to Kelowna, while others simply hadn’t had the chance to enjoy something this fancy. From the tour driver to every stop along the way, the welcome we received was warm, personal, and totally memorable.

    We met at our meetup spot around 8:45 AM, hopped onto the tour van, and off we went to our first stop: Hidden Vines. The drive was beautiful, the van was super comfortable, and the team made sure everyone got safely on and off the vehicle at every stop. Alex and the driver Cam were absolute legends, helping out wherever needed and keeping the energy fun and light.

    Our review of the hosts – Discover Okanagan / Sip South East Kelowna:
    Alex and Cam made the whole day effortless and enjoyable. Cam ensured we were comfortable getting in and out of the bus and always kept the vibe chill while heading to the next stop. Alex had a bubbly, fresh energy, supporting us behind the scenes and making sure everything ran smoothly. Honestly, we can’t imagine going on a wine tour without them!! They were the perfect hosts and made our first winery adventure unforgettable.

    Hidden Hills – Hidden Vines: Where Wine Meets Fun 🍇✨

    Hidden Vines is all about amazing wines and healthy vineyards. They farm sustainably, keeping their land thriving now and for the future. Their vibe is fun and approachable wines that actually reflect the beauty of their land with no stuffiness.

    Trevor leads the winemaking with a solid crew by his side, experimenting, learning, and making every bottle tell a story straight from the vineyard. Their East Kelowna Riesling obsession is real. They see huge potential in this little corner of the valley and can’t wait to unlock all its flavors. Follow along as they grow, experiment, and share their love for wine, land, and family. It is a journey worth sipping along with.

    Our community experience (written by Shivana, Community Model, Photographer, and Writer)
    Hidden Vines is seriously cute with a comfortable atmosphere, fun outdoor activities, and a lovely dog named Willow keeping us company while we sipped their wines. We tried their Riesling and Farmhouse Red, and Trevor, the owner and winemaker, made everyone feel right at home. Even as a newer winery, their selection was solid and the outdoor area right by the vines was gorgeous, perfect for photos, chats, and soaking up the vineyard vibes.

    Before we move on, here is a little insider info on what we told our members to pack and wear for the day, so you can nail the winery vibe and get those perfect shots.

    Winery Outfit Inspo Look Effortless and Picture Perfect

    Hair & Makeup
    Keep it fresh, natural, and effortless. Think glowing skin and polished vibes—nothing too heavy that steals the spotlight from your wine glass. Neutral nails only and skip strong perfumes—let the vineyard do the talking.

    Clothes
    Smart casual meets winery elegance. Comfort and style are your best combo. For ladies linen pants, khakis, dresses, skirts, and non-branded tops are perfect. Subtle patterns like soft florals or stripes work, but skip sequins and lace. For guys golf pants, khakis, dress shorts, polos, or plain tees are the way to go. Dark, clean jeans work for anyone. Ripped jeans, leggings, gym wear, or cut-offs are a no.

    Shoes
    Clean sneakers, chic sandals, or fashion boots. Leave the heels, running shoes, and workboots at home.

    Accessories
    Keep it simple with tiny rings, bracelets, watches, and sunglasses. Sunhats are yes. Big chunky jewelry or baseball caps are a no.

    Pro Tip
    Think vineyard vibes not runway ready. You want to look effortlessly pulled together while sipping your favorite Riesling.

    What We Told Our Models to Pack
    Bring a water bottle, sunscreen, and anything else you need throughout the day to stay comfortable and ready for fun.

    Soma Craft Cidery and The Farm Inn – Sweet Sips and Cozy Vibes

    Our community’s next stop was Soma Craft Cidery, and honestly it quickly became a favourite for everyone. We were greeted with big smiles and welcoming energy. They even opened the kitchen just for us, serving flights of their delicious ciders—including a non-alcoholic option—so everyone could join in.

    The charcuterie board was a dream, filled with local cheeses, meats, fresh fruits, olives, nuts, crackers, and homemade jams. One of our members doesn’t eat meat or cheese, but the fresh fruit and bread options made sure everyone left happy and full. The warm energy, kind interactions, and stunning ciders made it feel like the perfect spot to unwind.

    At Soma you can stay the night, rent the venue for events, enjoy a meal with friends, or just soak in the cider lounge vibes. Right above the cidery is The Farm Inn, a cozy countryside getaway in the heart of the Okanagan. With 10 boutique suites designed for comfort and charm, it’s the ideal spot to relax steps from the orchard, tasting room, and cider lounge. Alpacas graze nearby, the scent of apple trees fills the air, and rustic charm is everywhere.

    Our tasting experience
    We tried four amazing ciders: Apple, Blue Raspberry, Honey Lavender, and Tea, and each of us had a different favorite. Megan served us with such a cheerful spirit, making the experience even more memorable. The ciders paired perfectly with the charcuterie board, making every sip and bite a little moment of joy.

    Wine vs Cider – Quick Tips
    Wine is made from fermented grapes, letting the fruit shine in reds, whites, and rosés ranging from dry to sweet. Each sip reflects the vineyard it came from, giving you a taste of the land.
    Cider is made from fermented apples or other fruits. Crisp, refreshing, and fruit-forward, it can be dry, sweet, or flavoured—like Soma’s Honey Lavender or Blue Raspberry. Think of it as sparkling fruit juice for grown-ups.

    Nagging Doubt Winery Big Vibes and Even Bigger Flavours

    Our next stop was Nagging Doubt Winery, and let me tell you, the energy was high. After all those ciders and snacks at Soma, our crew was feeling pretty stoked. It was the perfect way to celebrate the last days of summer, and having Discover Okanagan Tours take care of our community made everything feel so smooth and stress free.

    We got a behind the scenes tour and even saw the big machines that help turn grapes into their famous wines. It is wild to see all the work that goes into every bottle. At Nagging Doubt, they believe anyone can be a wine lover, no fancy occasion needed. If you want to share a great glass of wine with friends just because, this is the place.

    Nagging Doubt was started with a simple, totally reasonable goal: create amazing Okanagan wines that everyone can enjoy without breaking the bank. They focus on quality, flavour, and accessibility, so there is no need to second guess your love for wine.

    Our Review
    Nagging Doubt Winery is a total charmer with a spacious, open concept setup that is perfect for wine tours. The owners and winemakers, Abbey and Rob, were warm, welcoming, and super fun. They made the experience both entertaining and educational, walking us through how different wines are made and even showing us the difference between an American and a French barrel.

    We all fell in love with the Sparkling Rosé, and honestly, wandering through the winery while sipping and learning felt like the perfect summer afternoon.

    Wine Tasting 101 Tips and Tricks

    Before we hit our next stop, let’s break down how wine tasting actually works and give you some first-timer tips. First things first, you do not have to finish the glass. Many wineries expect you to spit into small cups or pour some out so you can taste multiple wines or ciders without getting tipsy.

    Order your tastings strategically. Start with lighter flavours and work your way to the heavier ones. Think of it as a flavour rollercoaster.

    Alcohol effects, also known as don’t be that person. Even a few tastings can sneak up on you if you are not used to alcohol. Eat beforehand and keep sipping water between tastings. Pace yourself so you are enjoying the experience and not the karaoke session in the cider lounge.

    Tasting room etiquette. Taste one glass at a time and follow staff cues. Do not grab the whole tray at once. Ask for pairing recommendations—cheese, charcuterie, or even chocolate. Staff love giving tips, and it makes the experience even more fun.

    How to avoid looking awkward. Nod, smile, and ask questions. People overthink wine tasting, but curiosity is always cool. Do not stress if you do not know how to swirl or sniff—just try it and have fun.

    Now that you have the basics and an idea of how our community felt trying new wines and ciders, let us move on to our next stop, just a quick five-minute drive away, Priest Creek Family Estate Winery.

    Priest Creek Family Estate Winery

    This stop was absolutely beautiful. Everywhere you looked was surrounded by lush green vines, and walking through the big doors to enter felt like stepping into royalty.

    Our review of Priest Creek:
    Priest Creek is a stunning location with a gorgeous indoor setting and an even more impressive outdoor space. The patio is shaded with grapevines heavy with fruit, creating a picture-perfect atmosphere. Alongside the winery, more grapevines frame a space designed for live music, cornhole, and even a giant Connect Four.

    We had the joy of being served by Tyra and Courtney, who poured us two beautiful wines from the 2024 season: a crisp Pinot Gris and a bold Cabernet Franc. The views alone could take your breath away, but if that does not win you over, the wine certainly will.

    The View & Wards Cidery

    Our next stop was The View and Wards, and this one was easily another favourite for our community. Everyone sat outside, enjoying their “Wards Bites” and sharing a bottle of wine in the beautiful yard. It was stunning and magical, the kind of spot that makes you want to stay all afternoon. We would rate this location a solid 10/10. The staff were so kind, the food was amazing, and the collaboration between Wards Cidery and The View Winery is such a great mix for groups or solo travellers looking for a little variety.

    The View Winery sits on land that has been in the Turton/Ward family for five generations. Originally, fresh market apples were grown here. In the mid-1990s, the family began a transition, planting vineyards and cider apples. Spartans and McIntosh gave way to Gewürztraminer, Riesling, Ehrenfelser, and Pinotage vines, along with cider varieties like Belle de Boskoop, Chisel Jersey, and Bulmers Norman.

    In 2006, the family’s beloved packinghouse—built by Great Granddad Ward in 1922—was transformed into a winery and cidery under the direction of grandson Chris Turton and great-granddaughter Jennifer Turton-Molgat. Today, The View produces more than ten thousand cases each year. Their portfolio includes award-winning Riesling, Gewürztraminer, Pinot Gris, Ehrenfelser, Pinot Noir, and Pinotage, plus their signature rosé and Silver Lining Estate blends. In 2013, they even launched Canada’s first wine-in-a-can with their wildly popular BLING Sparkling Wine.

    Why the Red Shoe Label?
    Jennifer shares, “My husband and I went dancing. We danced until my red pumps started to pinch. After heading home and finishing a bottle of Merlot, he playfully removed my shoes and stuffed the heel of one shoe into the empty bottle. And there it was, with an overturned glass beside it, an image of our own making. It spoke to us of our love of wine, born by accident during a fun and carefree moment.”

    Our review of The View / Wards
    The View and Wards Cidery is a spacious venue with a charming atmosphere and an outdoor picnic area surrounded by apple trees. We were served by Calla, Krista, and Ellie, who were all kind, welcoming, and thorough with their tastings. Inside, we tried the Gewürztraminer, Rosé, and Black Rhino—all were delicious. Then we headed out for a picnic with Riesling and a charcuterie board. This is definitely a go-to spot; it really has it all.

    Hidden Perks
    Many wineries and cideries have lounges or patios that aren’t obvious from the entrance. Always ask to explore—you might stumble on something special. Some also offer members-only tastings or seasonal drinks that staff don’t advertise. If you’re curious, they might share the secret.

    Secret Photo Spots
    Vineyards and orchards are filled with beautiful photo backdrops, but not every path or gate is meant for wandering. Ask the staff—they often know the hidden gems. And resist the temptation to climb fences or get too close to farm equipment. Trust us, they’ll notice.

    SpearHead Winery

    By this point, our community was starting to feel a little tired, but the excitement was still there—just in a quieter, cozier way. Our next stop was SpearHead Winery, and it was the perfect way to wind down the day.

    The community was asked to pick out a bottle of wine to give away to other members who couldn’t join us on the tour. It was such a thoughtful gesture that made the stop extra special. We sat outside under the red umbrellas on a warm afternoon, enjoying the view and great conversation.

    Our review of SpearHead
    SpearHead Winery is a scenic spot with rolling vineyards and a stunning backdrop. We sat on the patio and were served by Saori, who was so sweet and thorough with the tasting. She poured us a refreshing Rosé and a Pinot Noir with a beautifully layered flavour profile. Inside the shop, we found amazing prices and unique pairings, including chocolate bars chosen to match the wines. It was the kind of place that makes you want to linger and savour every sip.

    Meadow Vista Honey Wines

    After we loaded into the van with our new wine in hand, the community was buzzing with excitement for our final stop. And wow—it was another favourite. Meadow Vista Honey Wines was the sweetest way to wrap up the day, literally.

    Nestled on a five-and-a-half-acre farm in East Kelowna, Meadow Vista is surrounded by orchards and home to over 150 hives of hardworking honeybees. These bees not only make the nectar for their meads but also play a vital role in pollinating local farms. It’s no wonder they say Meadow Vista tastes like “nature in a glass”—we couldn’t agree more.

    Award Highlights You Need to Know
    Meadow Vista isn’t just pretty—it’s decorated. Their meads have taken home:
    ✨ Multiple Golds at the World Mead Championships
    ✨ Best Mead Pairing at Osoyoos Oyster Festival
    ✨ BC Wine & Canadian Wine Awards medals (Gold, Silver, Bronze—you name it)
    ✨ Fan fave titles like People’s Choice Best Winery

    From sparkling apple to blueberry-haskap to their iconic Mabon and Ostara, Meadow Vista has stacked over 50+ awards worldwide.

    Our experience at Meadow Vista
    To say this place was a highlight is an understatement. The food was fresh from the farm—cheeses, meats, fruits, and even quail eggs—all paired beautifully with their meads and honey. And the honey itself? Absolutely unreal. Sweet, smooth, and unforgettable. Every sip and every bite felt like a celebration of the land and the hardworking bees behind it.

    It was the perfect way to end our community wine and cider tour—surrounded by lush orchards, sipping mead that’s been awarded time and time again, and sharing laughs and memories over food that felt like it came straight from nature’s table. Meadow Vista truly delivers on its promise of “nature in a glass.”

    What’s Your Sip Personality

    Okay besties, time to find out what drink was basically made for you. We put together a quick tasting table quiz so you can match your vibe to your glass. No gatekeeping here—this is your shortcut to choosing between wine or cider without overthinking it. Grab a pen, tally up your answers, and see what your taste buds are secretly craving.

    OUR TASTING TABLE

    QuestionOption AOption BOption COption D
    1. Your ideal weekend vibeLounging in the sunExploring an orchardCozying up in a loungeDancing to live music
    2. Pick a snackCheese & crackersFresh fruit & charcuterieChocolateOlives & nuts
    3. Your outfitFlowy dress or skirtLinen pants & topSmart casual jeansCasual sundress
    4. Your personalityAdventurous & curiousCalm & thoughtfulSweet & funTrendsetter & playful
    5. Flavour preferenceBold & intenseCrisp & lightSweet & approachableFruity & unexpected

    Results

    • Mostly A’s → Bold Red Wine 🍷
      You love classic, rich, and adventurous flavours. Perfect for sipping slowly while enjoying vineyard views.
    • Mostly B’s → Crisp Apple Cider 🍏
      Refreshing and easygoing, just like you. Ideal for wandering the orchard or lounging on a sunny patio.
    • Mostly C’s → Sweet Riesling or Sparkling Wine 🍾
      Sweet, playful, and totally approachable. You enjoy the lighter, brighter side of sipping.
    • Mostly D’s → Fruity or Flavoured Cider 🍓
      Fun, trendy, and unique—always up for trying something new and Instagram-worthy.

    The Final Pour

    So, what’s in your glass? Whether you’re a bold red, a crisp cider, a sweet sparkling, or a fruity wild card, there’s a sip out there that was basically made for you. Next time you’re out in the Okanagan, order with confidence—and maybe try the one you didn’t get. Because honestly, every pour has a story, and yours is just getting started.

    A Huge Thank You ❤️

    We want to send a heartfelt thank you to Discover Okanagan Tours and Sip South East Kelowna for hosting us—it was such a beautiful experience! And of course, the biggest thank you goes out to our amazing community. This summer was unforgettable, and we truly wouldn’t be here without your love and support.

    Wishing you all a cozy, joy-filled fall season. 🍂 Sending so much love from us to you!

  • Canadian Creator Levi Price Reveals the Shocking Secret Behind His Perfect Content, and It’s Nothing Like You Expect!

    Canadian Creator Levi Price Reveals the Shocking Secret Behind His Perfect Content, and It’s Nothing Like You Expect!

    During the Heat of Summer, Our Community Teamed Up With Levi Price, and We’re Finally Revealing His Journey and Inside Scoop! We Asked Him the Tough Questions, and Here’s What He Had to Say.

    The Secret Behind a Creator Who Inspires an Entire Community and Makes Every Moment Look Effortless

    Levi has been a driving force in the creative community for years and most recently he has been making waves right here in Kelowna. A true talent, Levi is a rock for brands and creators alike, inspiring anyone looking to find their place in the creative world or simply take that first step toward being creative. Our community absolutely loved working with him. He was kind, guided poses, and encouraged members who had never modeled in the water before. Levi created a safe and vulnerable space, allowing the moment to be captured beautifully.

    📸 Levi Price Unfiltered: 15 Questions for the Creative Mind Behind the Lens

    Let’s start with your big three — do you think your astrology shows up in how you shoot or tell stories?

    Answer: I don’t pay attention to astrology so I’m not sure haha. I’m an Aquarius if that helps.

    How much experience do you have with digital creation — and how has that evolved your style?

    Answer: I’ve been doing photography and videography for about 12 years now. It took me over half of that time before I found my photography “style”, which is largely due to getting a solid understanding of the tools in Lightroom and the editing process. 

    You always come back to water. What’s that element mean to you in your creative world?
    Answer:

    I grew up in the Okanagan so ever since I can remember I’ve spent tons of time in the lakes, playing in creeks, all that fun stuff. It might just be nostalgia but I love the water, and shooting portraits in it just feels right.

    What’s something this shoot says… without saying it? Like a secret message buried in the frames.
    Answer:

    Which shoot? I’ll skip this question haha

    Do you intentionally tap into emotion when you create — or does it just flow through naturally?

    Answer: I don’t really intentionally tap into emotion when I’m shooting or editing, but it definitely comes out in the images. Historically I create my best work when I’m sad, and I struggled with on-and-off depression until my late 20’s so looking back I think that was not just a big part of why I picked up a camera in the first place, but also it probably benefited my photography.

    What’s the hardest part about being a full-time creative that no one really prepares you for?

    Answer: The hardest part of being a full time creative that nobody prepares you for is that if you want to do it full time, being good at your craft is only about 10% of it. The rest is the business side of it, the marketing, sales, client acquisition and so on. All of which I do not excel at haha.

    If you taught a class for high school creatives — what would be lesson one, and why?

    Answer: If I taught a class on photography, lesson number one would be focus on your angles. I actually made a video about this for my YouTube channel and it blew up. Capturing your subject from angles that the human eye wouldn’t typically be viewing them from is the first step in making an image that stands out and catches attention.

    When did holding a camera stop being just a skill and start feeling like your thing?

    Answer: I don’t think I’ve ever really felt like photography is more of a skill to me than just feeling like “my thing”. I used to take tons of pictures as a kid with those little disposable 35mm cameras that my parents would buy me, and every time I pick up a camera I’m just doing it because I love it, and the skill just came through constant practice.

    What’s your best tip for young creatives in smaller towns just getting started in this industry?

    Answer: My biggest tip for creatives in smaller towns is to find your audience online. If it weren’t for the internet I don’t think anyone would see any of my work, and it opens our audience up to the world opposed to just our geographical location.

    Do you think the people you surround yourself with impact what you create — or how bold you’re willing to be?

    Answer: The people we surround ourselves definitely impact how we create, because they impact our lives in general. Speaking personally I don’t think it’s had a huge effect on my photography, as my family and friends don’t really care that I do what I do, and when we hang out it’s not something we really talk about. But having good friends and strong social support just helps with life in general.

    If someone muted your films and just felt them — what do you hope they feel first?

    Answer: If somebody watched what I create with no sound, I’d hope they at least enjoy how it looks. I’m very passionate about creating captivating imagery.

    How much of your process is planned — and how much is just straight instinct?

    Answer: For my client work a lot of it is very planned out and detailed. The client needs to know what they’re paying for before the work begins, but when it comes to my creative portraits I prefer to just pick a location and lighting, then just show up and let it rip. I’ve never been one for mood boards for the creative stuff, I like to just feel it out in the moment and let it happen organically. Perhaps I enjoy part of the surprise of not knowing exactly what we’re going to create before I show up.

    Have you ever captured something that stuck with you — like it followed you around for days?

    Answer: There are definitely times when I take a photo that it really sticks with me, but like any artist that feeling is fleeting. We tend to dissect our work over time and we’ll go from being satisfied with what we’ve created to “oh I should have lit this better”, or “I could have shot it like this instead”. We’re our own worst critics haha.

    Is there a part of your story you haven’t told through film or photography yet — but want to?

    Answer: Not that I can think of, let’s skip this one too haha.

    Who are the types of people or projects you’re craving to create with next — what should be landing in your inbox right now?

    Answer: As far as my creative portraiture goes, the types of people I look to work with are easy-going, fun people to be around. A portrait session usually runs anywhere from 1-3 hours depending on how much fun we’re having, and lots of conversation happens in that time. I just like to shoot with people who are kind, have a sense of humour, and are comfortable in front of the camera.

    📬 Inbox Levi Price

    This creator is the perfect mix of cool, talented, professional, and fun to be around. His bookings are pretty full, but he’s always interested in discussing a project and open to chatting!

    Contact:
    📱 Phone: 250-351-4886
    📸 Instagram: @Moonsugar.jpeg
    ✉️ Email: iamleviprice@gmail.com

    Portfolio Reference: Available upon request—expect captivating and thoughtful creative storytelling.

  • Inside The Vault Studio: Talent Beats Nepotism?

    Inside The Vault Studio: Talent Beats Nepotism?

    From the floor up with the lock and key to countless community secrets The Vault. Our community went inside the studio and here is what we discovered.

    Credits

    Videography: Autumn @am.media_ (ZEAL Media Member)
    Photography: Shivana @snaps.by.shiv (ZEAL Media Member)
    Editing: In-house by ZEAL
    ZEALUNITY Community Models: Deep, Sydney, Kirat, Jenayah, Savjeet, Shivana (extra)
    Featured Artists: @tokyogelic, @miggsthechemist
    Location: The Vault Studio Kelowna @thevaultrecstudio
    Mood Board / Creative Direction: Maia @fusssygirl

    You Think You Know The Vault Studio. You Don’t

    What is the point of supporting music when connections often speak louder than skill? In a world built on packaging originality to line the wallets of promoters, it is easy to wonder if talent truly matters at all. Why put energy into finding it when it seems like handouts and last names carry the most weight? Walking into The Vault felt like a crack in that system, a space where raw, unapologetic talent could prove itself without favouritism or pedigree. Preparing for our shoot, some of us were hesitant. Would we walk into dominating personalities? Would inflated egos overshadow the creativity in the room? Would the bigger names in the local scene make us feel small or out of place? To our surprise, it was the exact opposite. The space was fluid, calm, and liberating, a true do what you do environment. Shot lists flowed naturally, even when our media went off script, not from prideful requests but from genuine freedom. Every note we heard, every performance we witnessed, and every moment captured proved one thing clearly: real talent cannot be bought, inherited, or faked. Connections may open doors, but it is skill, authenticity, and passion that fills the room and leaves a mark. In The Vault, that raw energy didn’t just exist…it demanded attention.

    How Our Community Felt in the Studio

    From the moment we stepped into The Vault Studio, it was clear this was a space that truly holds room for everyone. Everyone felt safe, comfortable, and free to be themselves. We took photos, played with music curated by Miggs the Chemist, and listened to Tokyo, who has been rocking Kelowna and BCs music scene for years. The energy was infectious, fun, relaxed, and inspiring.

    For many of our community members, this was their very first time in a recording studio. Naturally, questions and anxieties came up. Am I allowed to drink? Can I choose not to drink and still be accepted? Am I okay not being photographed in a party scene? When we spoke with the owner, he reminded our group of the studio’s no drinking policy while emphasizing that everyone is welcome to bring whatever they need to vibe and create. This felt like a huge power move, creating space for everyone’s energy, style, and comfort.

    The result was a surge of confidence in the group. Questions shifted from “Can I drink water?” or “Will people be smoking around me?” to “Can I bring more than one outfit?” “Can I take behind the scenes shots?” “Can I actually perform something?” There were no expectations, no judgment, no labels, just the freedom to create and be respected.

    It is rare to feel this kind of energy. Sharing this with our community amplified their confidence even more. The Vault Studio is not just a place to make music, it is a space that nurtures growth, creativity, and self expression while ensuring everyone has a good time. We would recommend this place to anyone looking to explore music, develop their craft, or simply enjoy being part of a supportive, inspiring environment. Great people, great souls, and an energy that genuinely wants to help you grow.

    Nepotism in Small Towns and Finding Safe Spaces

    In small towns, power is often hidden in plain sight. Even the smaller names can hold influence that others do not. You show up hoping to belong, hoping to learn, and suddenly you are met with walls of ego, clicky behavior, and smooth talkers who surround themselves with only people who nod along or stay silent. It can be intimidating, especially when all you want is to create, grow, and be part of the scene.

    That is why it is so important to trust yourself more than the opportunity in front of you. Walk into a space and notice the energy. Who sets the tone? How do people treat each other? If the owner or leader is stuck up, ego driven, or clicky, chances are the environment will mirror that. Safe spaces start at the top. You want a community where confidence is nurtured, mistakes are allowed, and everyone feels they belong.

    Walking into The Vault Studio felt like stepping into something completely different. The owner spoke calmly, young in body and mind, yet wise and grounded. There was no flash, no showboating, no look at me energy. They were just part of the group, quietly holding space, giving confidence without needing to say it. The room felt safe to experiment, to perform, to take photos, and to just be yourself.

    It is rare to feel this energy. In most small towns, owners can feel stuck in old mindsets, projecting past struggles onto the youth and expecting them to fuel a grind that is not theirs. The Vault was different. The owner set the tone not with words but with presence. Confident, ballsy, but never suggesting they were better than anyone else. That balance of humility, wisdom, and support made the space feel safe, inspiring, and inclusive.

    For anyone looking to grow in music or creative communities, take note: look for spaces where leadership sets the tone for safety and respect. Trust your instincts. If a space feels rigid, ego driven, or intimidating, it is okay to walk away. True communities lift you up and make room for everyone. The Vault Studio is a perfect example of this. Credit where it is due — it is a studio that nurtures talent, lifts energy, and leaves everyone better for having been there.

    Tokyogelic: A Cultural Catalyst in Kelowna’s Music Scene

    Tokyogelic is a rising star in Kelowna’s music scene, known for his dynamic performances and unique blend of musical influences. His recent show at Ten13 was a testament to his growing presence, where he debuted his latest track, “Lord Save Me,” to an enthusiastic crowd. This performance showcased his ability to captivate audiences with his energy and authenticity.

    Beyond Kelowna, Tokyogelic’s reach extends to other communities, including a recent performance in Prince Rupert, BC. This shows his dedication to connecting with diverse audiences and sharing his music across the province.

    Through his music and community engagement, Tokyogelic plays a pivotal role in shaping Kelowna’s evolving music scene, offering both entertainment and a sense of belonging to its residents.

    How to Get Involved in the Creative Scene

    Getting started in a creative community can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. The first step is simple: reach out. Direct message the artists you see around town, look into studios and promoters, and introduce yourself. Message, connect, and showcase yourself as a creative willing to learn. Make scripts, videos, and share your work. Hold expectations for yourself and for the people around you, and remember not to let anyone bring you down — not for one second.

    Have you ever had someone tell you, “You’ve got lots to learn,” or tried to minimize your achievements by comparing you to the next big thing? That energy is toxic. Follow those who want to be around you in the present moment. That is the only way forward.

    So how do you start? Start by loving yourself. Find a voice, a style, or a creative path that is authentic to you. When it comes from a place of truth, it will be felt and respected. It is okay if you don’t know exactly what that is yet. That is why it is even more important to surround yourself with people who see your light and support it without trying to control or use it. You don’t owe anyone anything. Your growth, your voice, and your creativity are yours to cultivate.

    Stay Close, Watch This Space

    Big things are coming. We are excited to announce that we have some upcoming projects in the works with this community. We can’t wait to see them, learn from them, and support them in ways that allow for inspired movement. Looking to join? Stick close.

    Follow @thevaultrecstudio to connect for studio sessions and creative direction.

    BTS

    It wasn’t just about photography or videography — it was about capturing the energy, the confidence, and the freedom that comes when a community supports one another. Every laugh, every pose, every spontaneous idea made the shoot feel alive and real.

    To our amazing community, we are honestly blown away by the growth and energy we’ve seen over the past few months. You are the heartbeat of ZEALUNITY, and every like, comment, share, and message fuels what we do. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for showing up, believing, and growing with us. Follow us @ZEALUNITY and keep being part of this journey—we couldn’t do it without you.

  • In a Room Full of Sugar Babies, Be the Candy Shop

    In a Room Full of Sugar Babies, Be the Candy Shop

    You’re the main character—no need to let the extra noise mess with your flavour.

    If You Know, You Know — We Pulled Up to 24 Hour Snacks 🍬🔥
    Kelowna’s go-to for exotic snacks and global drinks did not disappoint. Our community hit up 24 Hour Snacks at 553 Bernard Avenue and trust — the flavours, the energy, the vibe? All hits, no skips.

    Already a hotspot, but still feels like a playground for the real ones who know what they’re looking for. Stay sweet, keep your flavour loud, and don’t forget to grab that mystery Fanta 👀🌍

    Credits
    Zeal Media Team Member – am.Media
    ZealUnity Models – Deep, Jenayah, Hammad, and Sydney
    Edited In-House by ZEAL in collaboration with 24 Hour Snacks
    Hair Styling by Nina’s Hair Space

    Ever Feel Like Your Sweetness Is the Real Deal but Everyone’s Trying to Catch the Buzz?

    Here’s how our community keeps it fresh and focused in Kelowna’s sweetest spot—while letting the copycats do their thing. You don’t need a crew to hit that dopamine rush; you can make the same stops and be just as sweet all on your own.

    Alright, let’s cut to the chase. What do we really mean when we say your sweetness can attract way more than just gold? Think flies.

    Flies don’t come for the honey. They come for the chance to get a taste of what’s already buzzing. In a small town like Kelowna, it feels like everyone’s riding the same wave, smiling in your face while talking behind your back. Yeah, those flies.

    You try to shoo ’em off, but sometimes it’s exhausting. And if you don’t? They multiply fast, turning that sweet spot you built into something sour.

    Trends come and go fast. People, places, vibes—all changing overnight. But you? You don’t change. If you keep chasing the hype and following the buzz, you’ll never be the one setting the tone. You’ll just be flapping your wings, stuck in the same loop while the real ones fly ahead.

    Aren’t you done with that cycle? Ready to be the real deal? Here’s what we learned about community: it’s about owning your space, stacking those wins, and flexing with confidence because you are THAT energy.

    No One Told Us to Go to 24 Hour Snacks — We Just Have Taste

    There’s something about a place that pulls you in before you even step inside. For me — Taylor, editor of this column — that place was 24 Hour Snacks. I’d been watching it quietly for a while, but the real moment came during a shoot I did with Greyhearts, one of Kelowna’s first streetwear brands that truly accepted me as a creative local.

    During that shoot, someone handed me a can of Liquid Death along with a candy brand I’d never seen before. The moment we tried them, everything shifted. The bold look of the can and the sweet punch of the candy inspired us to use them right in the shoot — we placed the can next to us, letting it shout alongside our fits. It wasn’t just a prop; it became part of the story. The colours, the energy, the attitude — everything screamed loud and proud. We were vibing hard, showing off our style and how much we genuinely loved the candy that came with the shoot. That combo sparked a creative wave none of us saw coming.

    After that, I searched everywhere locally, trying to find those exact flavors and that same feeling again. I looked high and low, and then one day, there it was — right there on the shelf at 24 Hour Snacks. That’s when I knew. This wasn’t just a snack store. This was a creative hub waiting to be discovered.

    So naturally, we brought our community there. Models, creatives, media from different backgrounds all gathered to soak up that unique energy. The owner was incredible, dropping by with fresh product releases and letting us run wild with our creative vision. That trust made the day feel special and authentic.

    The photos we captured. The confidence our creatives showed. The connections we made that day — it became a highlight for the entire community. It showed us that sometimes it’s the little things, like a unique snack or a rare drink, that can spark huge moments of creativity and connection.

    24 Hour Snacks isn’t just a shop… it’s a space that inspires. A place where diversity, creativity, and community come alive. And honestly, it’s one of the reasons I love doing what I do — helping shine a light on places and people that make Kelowna feel alive.

    So if you haven’t been yet, trust me — it’s worth the visit. You’ll leave with more than snacks. You’ll leave with a new kind of energy.

    Keep Your Sweetness Shining and Your Circle Pure

    With so many events happening in Kelowna, especially with the creative growth booming over the last few years, it’s easy to feel left out if you don’t feel “involved.” But here’s how you can keep the content rolling, the fun happening, and with or without experience, get the same traction without selling your soul to those who only use your light to benefit themselves.

    Find friends who share your values about what friendships truly look like. Sometimes people get into two-faced friendships because they know they’re just as inconsistent themselves. They don’t want a committed relationship if they’re still enjoying the benefits of doing things their own way. If they talk about others in front of you, believe me, they’re talking about you behind your back. Even worse, they probably don’t care about what you’re saying. They’re just looking for fuel to support their own perspective. That’s what self-obsessed people do. They love to be around hive-minded groups that echo their own energy.

    If you want a pure circle, people who show up with the same energy they give without talking smack, you need to be honest about the types of conversations you’ll tolerate and what your time looks like with them. If it’s all good vibes and fun energy, no gossip or drama, then you can trust those people will continue showing up genuinely.

    Don’t get caught up trying to fit in just because someone wants you to be their “yes person.” Don’t do it.

    Tip two: flex your options. If your success or happiness makes people uncomfortable and you sense the energy shifting, it’s probably best to hold your peace. That feeling is not support. It’s jealousy unlocking a new character in your “friend.” Be proud of your wins. Shout them from the rooftops. Don’t care if others clap louder than you do.

    You will find real friends who support even your weirdest hobbies or dreams. Why? Because they love you. And you deserve the world, baby. Don’t be quiet about your sweetness. Let people enjoy you while protecting your energy.

    Our Community’s Ultimate Snack Picks You Have to Try

    Our community absolutely loved everything we tried at 24 Hour Snacks. Jenayah couldn’t get enough of the popcorn and Fanta mixes, Hammad was all about the different varieties of Pringles, Sydney was obsessed with the strawberry KitKats, and Deep had a blast sampling both the snacks and drinks from everyone else — especially the unique beverages that added a fresh twist to the experience. We definitely rate this place a solid 10 out of 10. If you’re looking for something basic or are in a rush, this probably isn’t the spot for you. But if you want to take your time, explore all the options, and keep an open mind about what treats and drinks you can bring home or to your next party, 24 Hour Snacks is the perfect place to discover something new and exciting.

    Here are a few fun ways to create a product shoot with your friends:
    Use your favourite snacks as props—stack them, coordinate them with your outfit, or build a colour story around the packaging. Pro tip: tag 24 Hour Snacks when you post. If they like your content, there’s a chance they’ll repost, reach out, or even offer to collaborate. Put genuine effort into your shoot, and don’t forget to tag the official brand too. The more engagement your post gets, the trendier it becomes—and the easier it is for others to find your page and potentially send you free goodies or set up a collab.

    15 Creative Snack-Inspired Content Ideas You Can Shoot with Just an iPhone or Camera

    You don’t need fancy gear to make cool content—just a phone, a tripod, and a few creative ideas. Whether you’re shooting solo or with friends, here are some fun prompts to level up your feed and maybe even catch the eye of brands like 24 Hour Snacks. Pro tip: Match your outfit to your drink, pick locations that reflect the diversity of the snack (like a school field, a bus stop, or a picnic setup), and keep things authentic to your vibe. The more effort you put in, the more likely brands are to notice.

    Prompt IdeaWhat You’ll NeedCreative Direction
    1. Drink Colour MatchMatching outfit + drinkStyle your fit to match your drink (e.g., grape soda = purple ‘fit)
    2. Picnic AestheticPicnic blanket, snacks, a treeCreate a cozy outdoor snack setup—film “what’s in my snack bag”
    3. Bleacher Chill VibesSchool bleachers, snack stashShoot casual pre-game vibes snacking in sporty fits
    4. Bus Stop MunchiesBus bench, streetwearRealistic + raw—waiting for the bus, snacking, vibing
    5. Train Stop Snack BreakTrain station (safe spot)Dramatic outfit reveal or snack taste test while in transit
    6. Grocery Bag POVSnack-filled bag“Just got back from the store” POV-style haul
    7. Taste Test Close-UpFront cam + snacksRecord fun or dramatic reactions—zoom into the flavour
    8. Toss TransitionA friend or tripodToss snack into frame, transition to new look or spot
    9. Snack Flex Fit CheckHoodie, kicks, snack in handTreat the snack like part of your fit—confident and clean
    10. Car Chill HaulParked car, dashboard tripodPost-store mini snack mukbang or casual chat
    11. Vending Machine Night VibeLocal vending spotUse the glow of vending lights for a moody, cool tone
    12. Staircase Snack BreakUrban or park stairsSit-down, chill moments captured with your fave snack
    13. Snack-Inspired MakeupColourful makeup, good lightingBold beauty look based on the snack packaging
    14. GRWM with Snack MatchCloset + snack + mirrorGet ready, then end with the perfect snack match
    15. Slow-Mo TossOne friend or tripodDramatic slow motion of tossing/catching a snack

    Bonus Prompt: “Snack Swap Collab”

    Pair up with another creator. Each of you picks a snack for the other and films:

    • First reaction
    • Outfit match attempt
    • Honest review (can be funny, dramatic, etc.)

    This makes it collaborative and creates opportunity for resharing + community bonding.

    Ever Noticed You Shine More Around Certain People?” 👀✨

    Let’s talk about it…

    There are people who make you feel like you need to dim your light to fit in—and then there are people who hype you up for being exactly who you are. If your circle doesn’t celebrate your weirdness, your style, your goals, your snacks, your content… it might be time to step back and ask why you’re still showing up there.

    We’ve seen it firsthand: the most creative, confident people are often the ones who had to rebuild their circle from scratch.

    Being around people who get it changes everything. The way you show up. The way you create. The way you speak. The way you move through a room. Energy is real—and the right people don’t drain you. They expand you.

    🛑 So if your current group makes you feel tired, off, or unseen, maybe this is your sign.

    ✅ Find people who see your value.
    ✅ Create with people who make you feel safe and inspired.
    ✅ Stick with people who leave you better than they found you.

    From a Digital Creator’s Lens: Is 24 Hour Snacks Worth Collaborating With?

    When we first reached out to the owner of 24 Hour Snacks, they seemed a little hesitant about what exactly our goal was with the shoot. But after sending over a detailed shot list and mood board, they got on board! This kind of caution is pretty common with small business owners, especially in smaller towns where people are very aware of their self-image and how promotion can shape their identity.

    Leading up to the shoot, the energy was great, and on site we received a warm welcome. After everything wrapped, we got a thankful message from the owner—that was it. It was straightforward, not overly emotional, but perfect for anyone with a clear mission and direct goals.

    We’d recommend this spot more to intermediate or advanced creatives since the location can be a bit busy. But the team loves the idea of video content! If you pitch a taste test, a reel, or a walkthrough, you’re more likely to get in—even if you don’t have tons of experience with photos.

    Our media member absolutely killed it capturing the subject despite the busy background, which is tough when you’re working with multiple fonts, colours, and aesthetics all around. Overall, it was a great vibe and a solid experience.

    BTS — All Our Content

    Thank you to all our readers every month for your amazing support. You’re the reason we get to keep creating cool stories and sharing our experiences. We can’t wait to continue growing together. All the love,
    ZEAL

  • How I Got Out of My Abusive Family — No Sugarcoating, Just Survival

    How I Got Out of My Abusive Family — No Sugarcoating, Just Survival

    Read this if you’re scared to go home.
    Read this if your family says they love you but your stomach drops every time you hear the front door open.
    Read this if you’re being gaslit, controlled, or manipulated and everyone keeps telling you “it’s not that bad.

    This is for the kids who got good at hiding.
    For the ones who got punished for crying.
    For the ones who had to act like everything was fine in public just to survive another day.

    This isn’t a story about healing.
    It’s about escaping.

    Call It What It Is — Abuse. Not “Tough Love.” Not “Just How He Is.”

    Dear “Scam” You Didn’t Win. Here’s My Story.

    Scam came into our lives when I was around two.
    Funny enough? My mom was still with my biological dad when she started getting close to him. – They “worked” together.

    At first, it was just “friendly.” Scam would invite my parents to his family’s cabin — you know, “as friends.” He’d hang out with them like nothing was going on. Like he was just a nice guy who liked boats and beer and being around happy families that weren’t his.

    My dad? He didn’t think anything of it.
    He trusted my mom. He trusted the vibes.
    What he didn’t know was that in just a few short months, Scam would replace him — like a cheap swap — and steal the role of “dad” like it was some twisted prize to be won.

    And my mom… she played with it.
    She let the connection bloom even though she was still in a relationship.
    Wild, right?

    I remember our house always having weird energy.
    Like static. Like the air was watching you.

    Around my dad, I could be me. I could be picky. Say weird jokes. Bang drumsticks against the wall. He’d join in, laughing. He saw me. There was freedom in the chaos.

    But with Scam?

    The vibes were dark. Heavy. Controlled.
    You could feel when you were about to get in trouble — even if you hadn’t done anything wrong yet.

    One time, I was around seven. I told him I didn’t like the texture of my Kraft Dinner.

    Know what he did?

    He dumped milk all over my plate. And me.
    And then said, “Does that fix it?”
    Like I was some spoiled little brat who needed to be taught a lesson.

    It wasn’t just that. It was the threats.
    Every time I said I was going to tell someone, Scam would get in my face and twist his voice low —
    “No one’s going to believe you. You’re just a kid.”
    “You think someone cares?”

    And the worst part? My mom watched it happen.
    Maybe not always directly. Maybe not all the details. But she knew.
    And when it became clear she was stuck with the man she emotionally cheated on my dad with… she did what most people do:

    She froze.
    She told me she still loved my dad, but she stayed.
    She watched the man she “chose” manipulate her daughter — and still tried to convince me this was a “family.”

    It was a sick dynamic.

    I learned early:
    My life was fucked. And no one was coming to save me.

    So I did what survivors do:
    I faked it. I smiled. I got good at hiding things.
    I made people think I was okay until I could get out.

    And now?
    Now that I’m here, Scam — now that I’m safe and grown and no longer scared of your voice in the hallway —
    Let me say it clearly:

    You don’t own my silence anymore.

    Why don’t I tell the truth now, Scam?

    Because it’s mine.
    And because you never deserved to be protected in the first place.

    Build a Mental Exit Plan (Because No One Was Coming to Save Me)

    When I started realizing I couldn’t just leave, everything in me broke.

    Because if I left, I risked everything.
    I risked being separated from my siblings. I knew deep down the system wouldn’t keep us together, and I couldn’t live with that. Watching them go through the same kind of emotional warfare I did — except theirs was more twisted, tied directly to our mom — made me feel like I had no choice but to protect them.

    I became a parentified daughter. Not by choice. By survival.

    Every time Scam yelled at my sister or got too intense with my younger brother, who was his biological son, I’d bolt for the hallway, ready to shield them. I’d stand in Scam’s face and throw the truth back at him. The kind of truth that made cowards flinch.

    You look funny when you’re mad.
    You spit when you talk.
    Your eyes look crazy.

    I’d laugh right in his face. Not because I wasn’t scared, but because it made him stop. Problem was, when I did that, he turned on me.

    He’d throw me into furniture. Slam me against walls. Spit in my face and laugh while I wiped it off. I knew what was coming every time, and I did it anyway. Because that was the only way I knew to protect them.

    One time we went camping. I was maybe fifteen. Scam was pissed at me for something. I don’t even remember what. He grabbed a broom and swung it at me so hard I ducked and ran straight for my mom. I was crying, shaking. I told her everything. You know what he said?

    “I was just snapping her back into reality.”

    And my mom?
    She looked at me. She didn’t hug me. Didn’t pull me close.
    She told me to go right back outside with him.
    She followed behind like this was normal.

    When we got outside, she pushed my face into the dirt.
    She laughed. She made it feel like a game.
    But I was on the ground. Crying. Dissociating so hard I could barely remember who I was.

    Because in that moment, I knew. I could die here and no one would care.

    So I shut off. I shut down.
    And I started building my way out.

    Start a Secret Escape Plan (Even If You Can’t Use It Yet)

    That was the moment I knew I was done.
    Done begging for protection.
    Done being the punching bag.
    Done pretending this was a family.

    So I started collecting evidence. I secretly recorded fights, conversations, moments where Scam would leave me on the side of the road and I’d have to walk home. I’ve never released those recordings, maybe I never will, but I kept them because I knew I needed something to prove what I had lived through.

    I started packing a backpack and hiding it.
    Inside: a change of clothes, basic toiletries, makeup, some bus change. Enough to survive a few days.

    Some nights I couch surfed with guys who I knew had bad intentions.
    They’d get pissed off when I wouldn’t sleep with them.
    They told people I was a slut.
    But I didn’t care. Because even the worst of them had more morals than my own family.

    They made up stories about me. Called me names.
    But I knew the truth. They were using me, and I was using them right back.
    I ate food from strangers. I slept where I could. I prayed God would save me.

    By the time I hit grade eleven, I had momentum.
    My mom tried to trap me with a contract. A full-blown list of chores and rules that felt like a prison sentence.
    I told her I wasn’t signing it.
    That was it. I was out.

    She told me since I was still under eighteen, she’d give me the child support money she got for me. She handed me two hundred dollars. That’s it. That’s all my life was worth to her.

    But I took that money and ran.

    I found a job online. I found a place willing to rent to a seventeen-year-old. And just like that, my escape plan became real.

    I had a social worker meet me at Starbucks once a week. She’d ask if I was okay. I wasn’t allowed government housing. I was too close to eighteen. But every time she came, she made sure I had what I needed. She told me I was smart. She asked if I wanted to press charges.

    I didn’t.
    Because my siblings were still there.
    And my mom had already turned them against me.

    Don’t end up like Taylor.
    Do better than your sister.
    She ruined everything.

    It hurt.
    But I knew what she was doing.

    Even my junior university sport coach pulled me aside one day and asked why I kept showing up late. I told him a little bit. He offered to help me get into a university out of town. But I didn’t have the grades. Because while my life was falling apart at home, I was still showing up to school every day exhausted, broken, homework undone, and trying not to cry in class.

    I used to be a straight A student.
    Until survival became more important than school.

    Start Building Trust Outside the Home

    The system wants to keep you isolated. They want you to believe no one cares. But someone does. Even if it’s a friend, a teacher, a coach, or just someone online. I started by telling one person. I didn’t even say the full truth. I tested the waters. But that moment helped me breathe again. It reminded me I wasn’t lost.

    The more I shared my real situation with people I trusted, the more support I received. Free money. Free clothes. Paid days off work. Free rides. I think it made people uncomfortable, like they couldn’t believe I was asking for help without giving something in return. Some probably thought I was lying. But the ones who knew, really knew. Even if no one came in like some savior to pull me out, I knew I needed witnesses. In case something happened to me. In case one day I didn’t make it out.

    At first I reached out to my dad’s side. I tried some of my parents’ so-called friends. But most of them shut me down. “Family is family.” “You only get one mom.” That kind of stuff. I learned the hard way that some people don’t want to help. They like watching victims crash and burn. It makes them feel like their own mess of a life is somehow perfect in comparison.

    I felt that energy a lot. Especially with certain friends. But there was one who didn’t treat me like that. Her name was Laura. She saw me. Fully. Always.

    Her dad was kind too. He’d ask if I wanted to stay for dinner or if there was anything I liked to eat. Sometimes they’d even buy snacks just because they knew I liked them. Laura would give me bus fare without question. Whatever she had, she shared. They lived in a trailer park out in Westbank, and at night we’d walk the streets talking, taking pictures, just being kids.

    She was the closest thing I had to a sister. And she made me feel safe. I will always have love for her. Always.

    Understand You Don’t Need Permission to Leave

    I used to think I needed a reason—something big enough—to justify walking away. Like it wasn’t valid unless it looked like a movie scene. But bruises fade. The fear doesn’t. Abuse isn’t always loud…but mine was. And physical. And constant. There were bruises. There was rage. There were nights I locked the door and still didn’t feel safe.

    They’ll tell you it’s not “that bad.” That it’s love. That you’re dramatic. But when your body flinches before your brain can explain why—that’s reason enough.

    You don’t need a breakdown to break free.

    When COVID hit, the preschool I worked at shut down—and for once, the world pausing gave me space to breathe. I started getting payments from the government, and it was like tasting freedom for the first time. I slept for weeks, finally catching up on the movement and chaos I had been surviving for years.

    I used that money to buy my first camera. My first car. My first everything. I started creating daily—content, photos, anything. Slowly, people started to notice. I got asked to shoot menus, collab with brands, do photo sets. I didn’t even care if I got paid—I was being seen. I got to show up in the world without hiding.

    That was the year I started healing.

    I didn’t have the name brands or the perfect setup or the money—but I had emotion. I had stories. And people felt it.

    Then I met my now-husband. He was at a bar I was shooting at on a quiet night. I almost didn’t go. I had just prayed the night before, saying I needed rest. But something pulled me there…and there he was.

    After my shoot, I said hi. We instantly connected. He remembered me from middle school volleyball and high school basketball. It was like a piece of my old self, someone I had forgotten, walking back into the room.

    When we got serious, I told him everything—my past, my bruises, my fears. He didn’t flinch. He just said, “Okay, here’s how we grow.” He upgraded my camera, no hesitation. After that, it all took off—bookings, content, modeling. My story became my power.

    That chapter cracked everything open.

    It didn’t erase what I went through. But it proved I could survive it.

    Aftermath: Healing Isn’t Linear, But It’s Worth It

    Leaving wasn’t the end for me—it was just the beginning. Healing has been hard. My mom has never met my son. I gave birth alone with my husband by my side in a world that often feels like it hates women. My friends stopped coming around because they thought I had changed. My fiancé’s family knew how vulnerable I was and they played into it.

    I remember kissing my son after he was born. We told them not to come to the hospital. They showed up anyway. They demanded to come in. After I told them not to kiss him, because I didn’t want anyone that close that early, they did it anyway and looked right at me after. In all those moments I stayed silent because I was so tired. My heart just couldn’t fight anymore.

    I let God and divine karma work for me. To be honest, it’s been the best thing yet. The universe has shown up for me more than anyone ever has in my whole life. It’s given me confidence.

    From being sued because I refused to work multiple nine-hour film sessions for eight hundred dollars a month to being targeted by older people who hired me for their businesses and tried to get me to hand over credit for my work. It was a lot. A lot of those things bring up feelings I’m still trying to heal from. They make me think “Why me?” They make me feel like “If only that hadn’t happened.”

    But then I get this little kick from the universe. Maybe it’s getting sick, losing my voice, or getting fired. I’ve clawed my way back every time—with the help of God. Every creative move you see from me, every idea that floats into my head, is followed by a dramatic reminder of who I am.

    I remember who I want to be. I ask myself how I can help others who might be in similar situations. How I can grow from this. That has been the biggest help.

    I don’t think I’ll ever fully heal, but I plan on using every ounce of hurt to create something positive. Something that sparks change. And that’s exactly who I will continue to be.

    This is me — Taylor.

    And I hope you learn to love yourself as much as I have learned to give myself and my faults over in trust that someone has a bigger plan for me.

    I just have to keep standing up for myself and believing I can do it.

    If I can, so can you.

  • Let July Upgrade Your Life — Naturally

    Let July Upgrade Your Life — Naturally

    Tips from our community on using the July glow to level up naturally with soft mornings, fresh routines, mindset shifts and low effort habits that bring high vibe results.

    Credits
    Photography: G.fields_photos (ZEAL Media Team)
    Editing: In-house by ZEAL
    Models: Sydney, Savjeet, Hammad, Jenayah
    Location & Brand: Kelowna Flower Farms

    July in Kelowna

    What are you looking to accomplish?

    For some, July is about the closeness of friends and the laughter of summer adventures. For others, it’s solo missions, quiet wellness moments, and time to realign. And for many, it’s a mix of both.

    In our experience, letting yourself feel and move with the energy of the day brings the most peace. Some days are full of movement, purpose, and clarity. Others are slower — full of small tasks that don’t exactly feel like “summer joy.” But they’re part of it too.

    The truth is, in an ever-growing world, people, jobs, places, and things are constantly asking for your energy. And while committing to your goals is important, forgetting yourself in the process isn’t doing anyone a solid.

    When you fall out of routines you genuinely enjoy, even the little things become heavier. It adds up — to the point where you stop expecting happiness and freedom in your life.

    Don’t become a zombie. Don’t hand over your light.

    This month, we’re tapping into how our community is staying grounded, creative, connected, and still showing up for their responsibilities — without losing themselves in the noise.

    Because July is here to remind you: peace is productive too.

    Create Create Create

    We get it, UGC cringe is a thing. But is it really cringe, or is it just preparation, creation, and growth all wrapped up? If what you want is freedom — your voice, your story, making things that reflect you while capturing memories and opening doors to new experiences — then who is really there to stop you?

    Routines can look like anything. We will share some of our favourites further down, but one of the biggest values in our ZEAL community is letting our inner child come out to play.

    That excitement before you go out — maybe a little pre-drink, or a cup of tea, or a quick meditation. Maybe your hype playlist while you find the perfect outfit. Thinking through, What do I want to do today?

    That simple freedom to choose should feel like a light switch turning on inside you. Many do not have the chance to be this free, so why limit yourself by the standards of others?

    Here is what we do:

    First, we ask, What experience do I really want?
    Once we clock it, we commit.

    I am going to show up for it. I am going to put my energy into getting ready — or not — and get myself in the best mood possible. Maybe that is just being excited that I get to do something unique, something that is mine.

    Creating is not cringe. It is freedom in motion.

    Our Time Playing at Kelowna Flower Farms

    We had such a fun time creating with this incredible local brand that has been established in Kelowna for 20 years. At Kelowna Flower Farms, they specialize in top quality, unique plant material. As a California style garden centre, you are sure to find something spectacular.

    They grow rare varieties and carry trusted names like Monrovia to create custom patio plant designs and so much more. The farm is filled with tropical plants that promise to beautify your garden, patio, home, or business.

    Spending time there really took our community members out of their element. Being in a space that felt unfamiliar gave us that vacation feeling. A fresh environment that inspired and energized us. We stayed for around two hours accompanied by music playing softly on the speakers, which added to the vibe and made it a great place to just hang out.

    Before we left, we put together a mood board and collected inspiration photos from each member for their personal platforms, then we set off to create.

    Georgia even biked to the location on that beautiful day and was so happy pulling up to the site. The team opened just for us. It was such a warm and positive vibe from everyone there — definitely a place where you feel truly connected.

    How to Create the Perfect Outing Without Breaking the Bank

    You don’t have to spend a lot to make an outing feel special. Start by looking up local places around you. What we found is that reaching out to spots online — through Instagram or email — is an amazing way to get access to places that might feel a little exclusive.

    Send them a simple proposal. Something like: “Hey, me and my friends would love to come take some content and share our experience with you. Would you be interested in allowing us to visit and document our time?”

    Most of the time, if they respond, you’ll get a positive reply that can give you a serious energy boost all on its own.

    Here’s a little tip: offering to create content can sometimes get you a free experience or at least a discounted one. If you have a portfolio, this can open doors to serious paid opportunities down the line. It’s a mix of the thrill of enjoying it at no cost, building your portfolio, pitching to your next client, and—of course—having a really fun time.

    Take time to explore what you really love doing. Not everything has to involve money. Even if you can’t find a local spot or a way to get there, look for things you can create at home or nearby.

    Want to make your favourite drink and enjoy some fresh air? Look up a fun recipe and make it yourself, all while planning to savour some me-time outside.

    Content or no content, taking time out of your day to find what fuels you is how you naturally elevate with the seasons around you.

    Enjoy your experiences and find pleasure in every moment you create.

    Simple Routines to Make the Most of Your Summer Haze

    Whether you’re working full-time or have a free day ahead, there are little rituals that can turn your routine into something grounding, refreshing, and even exciting. Here’s how to find joy in both.

    On Working Days

    Start your day by being a little more intentional with your “get ready” time. That could mean putting on a playlist you love, doing your skincare in peace, making a beautiful breakfast, or stopping for your favourite iced coffee on the way. Even something as small as packing your favourite lunch can set the tone for the day.

    Try planning something to look forward to after work — and that doesn’t have to mean a big activity. You could have a long 12 to 16 hour shift ahead, and fun might just be curling up with your PJs and a snack you’ve been craving. Maybe it’s knowing you’re going to pour the last glass of that wine and binge your current Love Island obsession.

    No matter what your day looks like, giving yourself something to be excited about — even if it’s just peace and quiet — is just as important as fueling your body in the morning.

    On Free Days

    Here’s where you get to take back some control. Plan something — not to be productive, but to be intentional. That might mean getting outside with friends, taking yourself out for a little solo date, or even just catching up on life and chores while lighting a candle and putting on music you love.

    Flow with the energy of this is my day. You don’t need an extravagant plan. Just decide to make space for you — and let the rest unfold.

    Your Summer Routine Table

    Working Day TipsFree Day Tips
    Do a simple get-ready ritual to center yourselfSet one small intention for the day
    Make or grab your favourite morning drinkTreat yourself to a slow start (sleep in, no rush)
    Pack or plan a lunch that feels like a little giftGo out or stay in — but claim the space for you
    Plan a small treat or moment to look forward to after workRomanticize errands or chores with music and candles
    Make rest feel special: fav PJs, snack run, or a solo binge nightTry one fun thing (DIY spa day, walk, or hobby time)

    ✨ So whether you’re clocking in or lounging in, the secret to making your summer haze hit just right?
    Romanticize it. Intentionally. Softly. Loudly. However you need.

    And if your version of “fun” is wine + Love Island reruns in your comfiest pj’s? That’s iconic behavior.

    soft glow, iced coffee in hand, main character energy activated.

    Now go live your Pinterest board IRL. 🫶🌞

  • The OG Hater: Proof That You’re Doing Something Right

    The OG Hater: Proof That You’re Doing Something Right

    Same School, Same Circles…

    There’s always one. The first one to doubt you. The first one to whisper instead of support. The one who watched you glow and hated every second of it.

    This story is about that person.
    The OG Hater.

    Not a stranger. Someone real.
    Someone I actually grew up with.

    We went to the same schools. Our parents knew each other. We played on the same teams, shared group chats, talked about what we wanted to become. From the outside, it probably looked like we were close. And maybe we were, for a moment.

    At first, they weren’t a hater at all.
    In fact, they were in my corner or at least it seemed that way.
    We laughed together. Dreamed together. Made plans for the future. We talked about growing into something big.

    But the thing is, some people only support you as long as you stay beneath them.

    There were little signs I ignored — the backhanded compliments, the tone behind certain jokes.
    Like:
    “How do you pose like that when your butt’s not even that big?”
    Said like a joke. But it sat with me.

    As I started stepping into myself, owning my voice, my space, my vision, something shifted.
    The support faded.
    The sarcasm started.
    Suddenly, everything I did was “too much,” “weird,” or “just a phase.”

    That’s when I realized:
    She didn’t actually hate me.
    She hated that I was becoming everything she didn’t believe she could be.

    The Shift

    When you start evolving and stepping into who you’re meant to be, not everyone can keep up. Some people haven’t done the inner work, and instead of cheering you on, they project their own fears and insecurities onto you.

    That’s exactly what happened here.

    I wasn’t being “fake.” I was just becoming realer than I’d ever been.

    And they couldn’t handle it.

    Slowly, things changed. They stopped talking to me like they used to. They stopped congratulating me openly. They stopped inviting me to group hangouts I had been part of forever.

    The hardest part was that they didn’t even show up to my son’s first birthday and only told me the day of.

    I didn’t get it. It hurt.

    But the more I grew, the quieter they became.

    Still, they would ask me to go on walks and we did. It was always filled by noisy questions like, “How do you do that?” or “How do you…”

    That’s when I realized this wasn’t about friendship or support.

    They weren’t inviting me anywhere. They weren’t showing up for me even when I openly asked for support.

    Even when we talked about dreams, it was always followed by, “Don’t dream too big.”

    Honestly, that made me laugh. Like, girl, that’s literally what you’re supposed to do — dream big.

    When I Glowed Up, She Showed Out

    The hating became undeniable. My growth exposed something in her that was not easy to see at first.

    I tried to bring her along. I offered her chances to help me with projects and side gigs, things she had expressed interest in. It felt good to give back and watch friends support each other.

    But something switched.

    One night, over a bottle of wine, I shared my plans for a new project. I even gave her little notes on scheduled content. I was excited. I wanted us to work together on managing a page.

    Weeks passed, and I had to ask multiple times if she had made progress. What she presented was completely opposite to what we had discussed. Instead of working on the social media content like I asked, she wanted to pitch marketing drinks to the owner. I was literally the social media manager and was trying to bring her on as the marketer.

    It was a huge wake-up call. I was not sure if it was a complete miss or something more calculated.

    Later, with another project, I even paid her upfront trusting she would deliver. Weeks went by without any updates. When I messaged her, she said she was too busy and offered to return the money. I told her not to worry and said I would handle it myself. Then, I got a message with the completed project and an apology.

    Now I see her doing the same things I do, which is fine. Everyone has their own path. But damn, that was a shitty way to treat a friend.

    We are done.

    Real Talk — Haters Are Just Unhealed Mirrors

    I used to let this kind of energy hit me hard. It would affect me in ways I couldn’t always explain. There were days I wouldn’t even want to get out of bed. Moments I’d worked so hard for…big, joyful milestones— felt heavy because of it.

    But here’s what I’ve learned: everything I was doing, everything I was earning, was because I was telling my truth. I was walking fully in my truth. And that’s what makes people uncomfortable.

    Haters? They’re just unhealed mirrors. They look at you and see parts of themselves they don’t like. They doubt you, question you, and try to drain your energy so they can protect their own pain.

    No one can steal your light. They might try, or get inspired by you—which is honestly kind of cute. Because when you inspire someone to take that first step toward self-love, that’s powerful.

    But just because you trigger something deep inside them, something worse than the devil himself, and that starts them on a journey doesn’t automatically make them “woke” or enlightened. Sometimes it just means they’re carrying trauma. Beliefs and guilt that haunt them, trapping them in a false image of who they think they should be.

    They might stay stuck in those roles, hoping to avoid hate, but really they’re just silencing themselves. And that silence? It’s a slow death.

    To Anyone With an OG Hater Keep Going Anyway

    These are my words to you — the ones who don’t get congratulated enough.

    I remember hearing Rihanna say this in an acceptance speech: You don’t get congratulated enough. And honestly, I couldn’t agree more.

    Every hardship you face. Every day you get up. Every night you tuck yourself in. Every time you walk into a place you don’t want to be just because you have to.

    Being love and light in places that seem to crave darkness.

    You are amazing.

    You deserve the world.

    You are doing such an incredible job.

    Even when things aren’t perfect, you inspire the people around you to glow. You are the reason things are getting better for yourself and for those who quietly watch you.

    You are so amazing.

    Keep going. Keep shining. And leave behind anyone who wasn’t meant to sit at your table for the long haul.

    Marketing Tips for My OG Haters Who Secretly Love What I Do (You Know Who You Are)

    Okay, listen up. If you are one of those OG haters who low-key respects the grind and actually wants to glow up, I got some real insider tips for you straight from a self-taught baddie like meee.

    1. Slide Into Those DMs the Right Way
    Want to grow your clientele? Stop waiting for people to find you online or hoping ads will do all the work. Reach out directly but do not come across as desperate. If you do not have experience yet, begging online for work can make you look needy and that is a no-no. Be confident, be clear, and make your value obvious.

    2. Network Smarter Not Harder
    Promoting free work is cool but do not make it your whole brand. When you are constantly giving without boundaries, people can smell the weakness. That puts you in a vulnerable spot where others might use you because they know you will do whatever just to be seen. Set limits, value your time, and do not let anyone make you their doormat.

    3. Find Your People and Learn From the Best
    Want to mentor or be mentored? Do not try to go it alone. Put yourself under someone you truly vibe with, someone who inspires you and has the kind of growth you want. Build that genuine connection and grow together. Real relationships are better than fake followers any day.

    So if you are watching and want to stop being that OG hater and start being an OG creator, start here.

  • 💰 The $100,000 Bribe: When Money Isn’t a Blessing, It’s a Test.

    💰 The $100,000 Bribe: When Money Isn’t a Blessing, It’s a Test.

    The twisted reality behind gifts, guilt, and quiet control. A story told like a fairytale — for those who prefer fiction over facing the truth.

    $100,000.
    What would you do with it?

    For some, it’s a rebirth.
    For others, a receipt for silence.
    Freedom, debt, opportunity — or a slow unraveling of what you thought was real.

    What if it didn’t come as a prize… but as a whisper?
    A wink.
    A favor wrapped in fine print you were never allowed to read.
    A “gift” that came too fast, too easy, too loaded.

    However you meet your first 100K — job, loan, inheritance, betrayal — this isn’t about the number.
    It’s about the energy behind it.
    This post is your map to decoding the kind of wealth you’re manifesting… and whether you’re accidentally signing up for something you never asked for.

    I know what money can do.
    Growing up between Winnipeg and Westbank, 100K felt mythical.
    My parents fought over bills like the heat itself was optional.
    Fast food was a luxury — and Carl’s Jr. might as well have been Paris.
    Maybe they were broke. Maybe they just didn’t believe in indulging.
    Either way, I was raised to believe money meant you mattered.

    If you didn’t have it?
    You felt watched.
    Judged.
    Like everyone around you silently calculated how far you’d go just to feel worthy.

    When social media hit, I clung to community.
    It felt safer than wealth.
    Until one day someone from school showed up with everything I didn’t have, and I had to ask myself — how did they get that?

    That’s when the trust cracks began.
    When the “gifts” came in — from people who smile wide but talk little.
    The “you didn’t say thank you” energy wrapped in a bow of expectation.
    And I started wondering… What’s the price of love when it looks like money?

    So here’s the tea — in fairytale form.
    For the ones who love a good story.

    Let me tell you about Little Bear and the house he thought was his…

    🪞 Why Bear’s Porridge Was Never Going to Be Enough

    (a soft story about porridge, fish tanks, and figuring out what “mine” really means)

    Once upon a soft pink dawn in the Valley of Echo Pines, there lived a bear. But not your average, stompy, growly, wilderness kind of bear. No, no.
    This was Little Bear.
    He had fluffy curls, wore slippers shaped like stars, and liked his tea with lavender and just a touch of cream.

    Little Bear had a house. Well… sort of.

    The house was technically his. That’s what the Bears said, anyway.
    “All yours,” they cooed, handing him the keys.
    “As long as you put in your own coins and stay long enough to make porridge. Every day. The same kind, okay?”

    Easy enough. Little Bear loved porridge.
    He was raised on it. Warm. Familiar. Safe.
    Brother Bear liked it too — they’d giggle over gooey bowls while sitting on floor cushions embroidered with little moons.

    But over time, Little Bear started dreaming of more.
    He wanted a pet fish. A sparkly one that shimmered pink under the light.
    He wanted bigger kitchen shelves to store all his honey-lavender teas and dried hibiscus.
    He wanted a washer that didn’t sound like a dragon every time it cleaned his favourite soft robe.

    After all… it was his house, right?

    So off he went, spending his coins (all of them) on building the life he dreamed of.
    The biggest fish tank in all of Echo Pines. The kind that hummed with peace and whispered “you’re safe now.”
    He fed the fish by hand. Lit candles while it swam.
    His home glowed in a way that made him feel real. Like everything was finally soft and right and his.

    But then came a knock.

    The other Bears returned.
    They stood in the doorway, looked around, and frowned.
    The porridge wasn’t the same — it was sweeter now, made quicker, lighter.
    The house didn’t feel “right” to them anymore.

    But instead of asking how Little Bear was doing or why the fish mattered so much to him…
    They simply told him:

    “We’ve decided to let the house go.”

    Just like that.

    No mention of the love he had layered into every corner.
    No glance toward the sparkling fish tank, the shelves built with his own paws, the washer that finally worked.

    “Three moons,” they said. “You’ll need to be out by then.”

    Little Bear blinked.
    “But… I built this. I made this feel like home.”
    But their minds were already elsewhere.
    It wasn’t about him. It never really was.

    So what did Little Bear do?
    He gathered his fish. Packed his stars. Folded up every moment of love he’d poured into that house.
    And with soft sadness — and just a glint of clarity — he left.

    They gave him his coins back. That part felt neat.
    But the truth? Little Bear knew those coins didn’t come close to the energy he gave.
    He thought love would root him in that space.
    But now he understood:

    You can’t build forever in places that only wanted you for the version of you that made them comfortable.

    So he started again.
    Somewhere softer.
    Somewhere quieter.
    Somewhere his fish could glow without question.

    And Little Bear?
    He didn’t stop making porridge.
    He just made it a little sweeter.
    For himself.

    👀✨ The Real Gag? Little Bear Isn’t Just a Story — It’s a Whole Warning.

    Let’s be real for a second:
    A lot of people are like Little Bear.

    Soft. Loyal.
    The kind who see good in things just because their heart is built that way.
    The kind who hear “it’s yours” and believe it.
    The kind who pour their whole soul into something — a home, a person, a dream — and never question the fine print.

    But what if that gift wasn’t really a gift?
    What if the “freedom” you were handed came with a script written by someone else?

    Listen — this is your friendly reminder that not every act of kindness is clean.
    Sometimes that overly generous offer is actually just a leash with glitter on it.
    Sometimes people overpay not because they value you…
    But because they want to own you later.

    Ever get that weird pit in your stomach?
    Like… “why are they giving me this right now?”
    “Why did that brand randomly DM me offering $$$ with no relationship, no convo, no context?”
    “Why did that friend suddenly turn into a sugar angel when I never asked for anything?”

    Yeah.
    That’s not intuition for no reason. That’s your spirit clocking future bait.

    Here’s the tea no one wants to admit:
    Some people give to gain control.
    They keep receipts.
    They’ll hand you the house, the title, the platform… but the moment you stop making porridge the exact way they like it?
    They’ll act like it was never yours.

    So here’s your soft warning from a bear who learned the hard way:
    Don’t ignore the motive behind the money.
    Don’t let free things cost you your peace.

    If you wouldn’t treat someone like that, why would you let them treat you that way?

    You are allowed to ask why.
    You are allowed to trust your gut.
    You are allowed to hold space for your feelings without making yourself feel “crazy” for noticing the shift.

    Because the truth?
    Your feeling is the first version of your knowing.
    And no amount of money, gifts, exposure, or “opportunity” is worth the price of your safety, your clarity, or your heart.

    Let them keep the house if it came with expectations you didn’t agree to.
    You’ve got better porridge to make.

    💸✨ So… What Kind of Money Are You Really Calling In?

    (because not all income is aligned, and not every dollar is destiny)

    At the end of the day, it doesn’t have to be $100,000 a month from Twitch.
    It doesn’t even have to be $200 from a thoughtful freelance project you gave your energy to.

    The real question is:
    What energy is your money coming from?

    Because here’s the truth most people avoid:
    Money flows best through alignment.
    Not burnout.
    Not pressure.
    Not “I guess I should” energy disguised as ambition.

    When you’re rooted in truth and authenticity —
    Money arrives calmly.
    Clients feel connected.
    Opportunities feel mutual, not transactional.
    You move… without moving.

    But when you’re caught in guilt, confusion, resentment, or trying to prove something?
    That’s when things start to slip.
    Even good money can feel heavy.
    You’ll question yourself. You’ll second-guess your worth.
    You’ll over-give and wonder why you’re still running on empty.

    So here’s the real reset:
    Guilt is guilt.
    Money is money.
    And you? You’re still you.

    You are not the number in your account.
    You are not the receipt of someone else’s idea of success.

    Choose who you are — morally, spiritually, and energetically.
    Not what you think you could do with the money…
    But what kind of life you want to live when you don’t have to chase it.

    🐾 Soft Survival for When the Coins Come with Strings

    aka how to spot the trap, protect your spirit, and keep your bag magical

    🌙✨ Is This a Gift or a Grip?

    a cozy little table for those navigating the blurry lines between generosity and manipulation

    🍯 Situation🧃Suspicious Vibes🐻 Bear Energy Response
    A family member or friend gives you money without a convo“You’ll see… this will help both of us.”“Before I say thank you, can I ask what this is for?”
    You’re being “rewarded” for being good/quiet/accommodating“You’ve been really well-behaved lately.”“What’s the expectation moving forward? I’d love clarity.”
    They give you a material gift at an oddly emotional moment“I just thought you’d need this right now.”“I appreciate the gesture — but is there anything you want to say directly?”
    You feel nervous taking their moneyYou say thanks, but your gut says: “something’s off”Ask yourself: “Would I do this to someone I love? If not, why let it be done to me?”
    They remind you of your “debt” after helping“Don’t forget what I’ve done for you.”soft smile, firm voice: “That sounds more like a trade than a gift.”

    🧼✨ Clean Exits for When People Prey on Your Peace

    (real lines to hold your power, not just survive the game)

    🧊 1. The “Clarify the Contract” Move

    Say:

    “Just so we’re on the same page — is this a gift, or are there expectations?”

    Why:
    Cuts the confusion. Forces transparency. If someone can’t answer this, it’s already a red flag.

    🧊 2. The “Pause the Pressure” Move

    Say:

    “I need space to think this through — I won’t decide right now.”

    Why:
    This helps you reset when you feel blindsided. Pressure = manipulation’s best friend.

    🧊 3. The “Name the Power Dynamic” Move

    Say:

    “I notice I feel a little indebted after this. That doesn’t sit right with me.”

    Why:
    Brings emotional currency into the open. If they flinch, it’s because they were hoping you wouldn’t notice.

    🧊 4. The “I Know My Worth” Move

    Say:

    “I appreciate the offer, but I won’t trade my peace for a favor.”

    Why:
    This reclaims your internal value before someone tries to lower your price.

    🧊 5. The “Reverse the Mirror” Move

    Say:

    “Would you still do this if I said no to everything after?”

    Why:
    It challenges whether their giving is actually conditional. If the energy shifts? You have your answer.

    🧊 6. The “Exit Gracefully, Stay Free” Move

    Say:

    “I’d rather pass than accept something that feels unclear or heavy.”

    Why:
    You don’t owe anyone participation in their confusion, projection, or guilt cycle.

    🌱✨ Your Journey, Your Power — We’re Here For It

    These moves aren’t just lines to say — they’re tools to help you protect your peace, grow your confidence, and step fully into your worth.

    At ZEALUNITY, we believe in building a community where authenticity rules and boundaries are celebrated. If you’re ready to rise, create, and connect with others who get it, come join us.

    Follow us @zealunity — because your story deserves a space to shine.

  • For Who’s Coming Next –

    For Who’s Coming Next –

    New city. New chapter. New ideas I didn’t even know I was allowed to have.

    This Is What Becoming Her Looks Like

    It’s wild how life can feel like it’s just starting… while you’re also sleep-deprived, healing old wounds, and trying to drink your coffee before it goes cold (again).

    Lately, I’ve been in this weird space — quietly redesigning what present means to me.

    Not the filtered version. Not the hustle-burnout-repeat cycle.
    But the version with slow mornings, messy joy, my little family, and the fight in me that still believes in change.
    And creativity — the kind that doesn’t perform, but speaks.

    There have been setbacks.
    There have been costs.
    And there have been days I’ve felt completely invisible — like I was giving everything away with nothing left for me.

    But I’ve also never felt more me.

    So, yeah — this post is for the ones who are watching from the sidelines.
    The ones wondering what I’ve been up to.
    It’s for my babies — one earthside, one on the way.
    And honestly?
    It’s for me.
    To look back and remember how much it took to even feel again.

    This isn’t a typical pregnancy announcement.
    This is just a moment. A messy, beautiful, real one.
    And maybe the start of something even bigger — a song, a shift, a whole new story.

    To My Future Baby:

    You don’t know me yet, but you’ve already changed me.

    In the very sudden craving for stillness. In the tears I couldn’t explain. In the ‘no’s’ I thought broke me — just to make room for the best ‘yes’ I didn’t see coming.

    You are arriving in a version of me that is learning softness again — not because I was weak, but because I had to fight for it.

    You’re being born into love.
    Not the perfect kind, but the real kind.
    The kind that shows up tired, with cereal on the floor and music playing in the background.

    You’re being born into art. Into rhythm. Into story.
    And you’re already part of mine.

    To The Girl I Was:

    I’m proud of you. Even on the days you didn’t brush your hair or thought everything was falling apart.
    Especially then.

    You loved hard. You learned the hard way. You gave too much.
    But you never stopped creating something out of nothing.

    You walked through fire and called it a normal day.
    You didn’t get a trophy for surviving, but you should have.

    Everything you thought you lost — your voice, your spark, your magic — it’s still here. I found it.
    And I’m using it.

    To This Moment:

    Thank you for the silence that turned into music.
    Thank you for the doubt that turned into art.
    Thank you for the unexpected timing — the kind that makes no sense but still feels sacred.

    I’m not announcing a perfect life.
    I’m just showing up in this one — present, imperfect, full of heart.

    Something new is on the way.
    And I think it’s going to be loud.
    And soft.
    And everything in between.

  • Kelowna:Tired of Flaky Friends—Read This Before Summer Slips Away

    Kelowna:Tired of Flaky Friends—Read This Before Summer Slips Away

    Come with us to one of our new favourite hangouts —

    where the food is fresh, the laughs come easy, and the setting makes you want to stay a little longer. Whether you’re showing up solo or meeting someone new, there’s still time to make this summer one to remember.

    Let’s be real for a second.

    You know how it goes. The “let’s hang soon” texts that never turn into plans. The group chats that somehow make you feel more alone. The vibe that’s just off.

    Living in Kelowna, where sunsets hit different and everyone kinda knows everyone, it’s easy to be around people but still feel like you’re missing your people.

    This summer isn’t about adding more contacts. It’s about finding the ones who actually get you. The people who check in for no reason, hype you up for the little things, and turn a pizza night into a memory you’ll want to keep.

    If you’re done with the fake invites and want to start making real connections, this guide is for you.

    📸 Credits

    Featuring models: Jenayah, Hammad, and Savjeet – (welcome to the team 🤍)
    Captured by: Georgia – @g.fields_photos (ZEAL Social Media Team)
    Edited & curated in-house with love
    Creative direction & brand vision by our team
    Shot on location at Dunnenzies, Mission – Kelowna 🍕

    Not Everyone Gets a Slice: How to Spot Real Friends This Summer

    Summer has a way of showing you who’s really there and who just likes the idea of being close.

    This season is about choosing people who feel like peace. Who check in without a reason. Who meet you where you’re at without making you question if you’re too much.

    You don’t need to chase. You don’t need to prove. You just need to notice.

    Whether you’re starting fresh or just noticing shifts in your circle, these reminders are here to help you stay soft, clear, and grounded. Because not everyone gets a slice—and that’s completely okay.

    1. If they keep cancelling plans, it’s okay to stop waiting.
    You deserve consistency. If someone repeatedly lets you down, believe their patterns and stop putting your joy on hold.
    🫶 But maybe they’re overwhelmed and don’t know how to say it.
    Some people cancel not because they don’t care, but because they’re anxious, burnt out, or in a hard season. You can hold boundaries and hold space.

    2. If it only feels good online, it’s not as deep as you think.
    If someone hypes you in comments but never checks in when it counts, it might be more about image than intimacy.
    🫶 But maybe that’s the only way they know how to connect right now.
    Some people use social media to show love because it feels safer than real vulnerability. You get to decide if that’s enough for you.

    3. Just because you’ve known them forever doesn’t mean they still fit.
    Time doesn’t equal trust. Some friendships run their course, and that’s not failure—it’s growth.
    🫶 But maybe they’re growing too, just quietly.
    Not everyone grows out loud. They might be shifting too, unsure how to bridge the new version of themselves with the old version of your friendship.

    4. If they talk badly about everyone else, they probably talk about you too.
    It might feel like you’re the exception, but gossip is usually a pattern—not a one-time thing.
    🫶 But maybe they just need better ways to process what they’re feeling.
    Some people vent because they don’t have safe spaces to work through things. It doesn’t excuse it—but it helps to ask if their tone changes when you bring softness into the room.

    5. If the energy feels off, it is.
    You don’t need proof. You don’t need a reason. You’re allowed to pull back from anything that makes you feel small or unsure.
    🫶 But maybe they’re just trying to protect themselves too.
    Sometimes we mistake distance for disinterest when really, someone is guarding their own heart. Not everyone knows how to be open and present, even when they want to.

    Our Secret Hangout Spot: DunnenZies Is More Than Just Pizza

    Hammad, Jenayah, and new member Savjeet recently visited Dunnenzies and it quickly became our new favourite hangout.

    The vibe is totally relaxed. The patio is tucked under big Okanagan trees giving all the fresh air feels but without the annoying crowds or noise. It’s the kind of place where you can actually have real convos, play some games and just be without distractions.

    Posters for local shows and events decorate the walls adding a cool artsy touch. The prices won’t make your wallet cry and the staff are so kind and welcoming it felt like we had known them forever. Plus the dog friendly patio is a major win if you’ve got a furry sidekick.

    They hooked us up with some next level mocktails and a mix of fresh vegetarian dishes plus a few classic favourites. The food was crispy and fresh holding up perfectly for our food pics and every last bite after.

    If you want that real Okanagan vibe without the crowds or chaos, Dunnenzies is the secret spot you didn’t know you needed.

    Hammad’s Review — One of Our Members Shares His Take

    After our visit to Dunnenzies, we asked Hammad to share his honest thoughts on the experience. Here’s what he had to say:

    **“We had a really pleasant time at Dunnenzies.
    The food was delicious. We ordered vegetarian pizza, loaded fries, nachos, and tacos.
    The quality of every item was top notch. The pizza was great. I really liked the loaded fries, and the fish tacos were well done.

    The only suggestion I’d have is to consider adding halal options if the business model allows. Otherwise, excellent food.”**

    We love hearing honest takes from our members and including every voice at the table. This was a summer memory worth sharing — and the food made it even better.

    Sick of Stress and Bad Vibes? Try These Kelowna Date Ideas ASAP

    1. Chill on the Dunnenzies Patio in the Mission

    Head to Dunnenzies’ Mission location and grab some of their seriously good pizza. They’ve also got a great happy hour menu that makes hanging out even sweeter. Take your food outside to their beautiful grassy patio — it’s the perfect spot to relax, soak up some sun, and enjoy good vibes with your date or friends. Pizza + patio + good deals = summer goals.

    Read more for our full experience!

    2. Music & Movement at Waterfront Park

    Bring a portable speaker and curate a playlist you and your date (or friends) love. Dance, walk along the lake, or just sit and listen while watching boats glide by. Bonus: it’s free, beautiful, and easy to escape into nature without leaving the city.

    3. Nature Walk & Picnic at Knox Mountain

    Pack a simple picnic or bring some leftover pizza from your favourite spot. Hike or stroll around Knox Mountain trails, find a quiet lookout, and enjoy the fresh air with low-key conversations and killer views.

    4. Vinyl or Chill Session at Home

    If you’re into music but don’t want to go out, host a vinyl listening session or playlist swap at home. Light some candles and make it a chill night to connect without any pressure.

    5. Art Crawl & Coffee Break Downtown

    Explore the vibrant street art and galleries downtown Kelowna. Walk or bike from mural to mural, snapping pics and sharing laughs. Stop by a local coffee shop like Bean Scene for a quick caffeine boost and a chill chat.

    6. Sunset Chill & Acoustic Vibes at Boyce-Gyro Park

    Bring a blanket, some acoustic tunes, and snacks to Boyce-Gyro Beach for a laid-back evening by the water. Watch the sunset, share stories, and enjoy the fresh lake breeze with good company—no fire needed.

    Moments Like This

    There’s something special about summer nights that feel easy. Sitting under the trees, laughing over food, swapping stories, and meeting new people who just get it. These are the kinds of moments that stick with us — the ones that make us feel seen, connected, and inspired.

    In a world that might feel scary when it comes to new opinions, new friends, and new ideas, it is time to listen to ourselves and what feels right. Habits grow. And the longer you hold on to old feelings or friendships that no longer match where you are going, sometimes that becomes the only place you will go.

    If you want to grow, if you want to feel different tomorrow not just in your thoughts but in your chest, you need change. If you do not have people to call today, take yourself out on one of these beautiful Okanagan days. Think about how amazing you are. Think about how loved you deserve to feel. Look up at the sky. Feel the warmth and freedom on your skin as you choose how to feel. You get to decide what a positive day looks like for you.

    You do not need people or things or some perfect plan to enjoy summer. You need moments that feel real. Do things you will actually remember. Not the things you hope people see you at. Because truth is, no one is looking. And that is where the freedom begins.

    At ZEALUNITY, we are building a space that feels like more. A place to create, to connect, and to be around people who want to grow and live fully. Whether you are starting fresh or already on your path, we are always happy to meet you.

    Come hang with us. There is always room for you here.